Dreyton36:
There was this girl I met on Facebook, I was in Dubai then
Base on some cars that I shipped home , I decided to spend some time with her
I invited her over to an hotel make man bleep small cuz Arab countries ehn , woman na gold
You must owe better money before you go bleeep confirm one
So, she came to the hotel , trust me John Thomas don already stand
As she bend for doggy, my favourite position, I slide into her DM
Mehn that horrible smell like Pomo water wey them soak for 2yrs
I no free pull out so that she no go feel embarrassed
I continue Las Las na so tears just they drop for my face like oppressed houseboy
She even get mind they shout Bleep me harder, na so the tears they rush for my eyes
After that day i block her

lmao, next time no be anyhow girl , you go bleep...

Righteousness89:


As long as you are an adult who can cater for himself, you can take your own decisions.

But the Truth also is that you should be Prepared to bear the Consequences if any Arises..

If your Mind is Made up and you are sure that is what u want, Respectfully tell dad that this is your desire and what you have decided to do

exactly!!! I am with you on this one.

Wow, nice initiative... I kinda like medical profession sha

gentle70:
That's your friend's (wife) part of the story... She'll definitely tell you the story in a way that favours her (that won't make her guilty). There's more to it that she may have refused to tell you. By the way, if the wife is a banker... how much is FOAM that she can't buy in order to improvise and manage pending the time her in-laws will leave? Assuming it was her relatives that came visiting, I'm sure that this kind of topic will not originate from your friend. Ladies matter is a course of study on it's own.

Even a Court will hear from both parties before advising/making necessary judgement. Unless I hear from both parties... I rather remain on the fence.

And if the husband buys it will anything happen, why is always the women that are the victims, you guys didn't condemn the man for beating her, it is only the woman that had fault.. jeez, like what is this world turning into.

Ningen:
Shit. Is like there's a vendetta on Nairaland to discourage single folks from getting married.

Swears, the man even went far to beat her up, and the are still begging him to let her back , this is bullshit... Mehn see what marriage is doing to some ladies...

Chelshit:
travelled from London to duabi and back to London only to come back to Nigeria....all for fake love abi na audio

lol.. pele

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Yoighaman:
@OP: Let go of that girl. The best is always yet to come, the beautiful ones are yet unborn. You will be blessed with a better person.

It's obvious the family's acceptance is conditional and even if you go for a PGD and Masters, the feeling and hurt will never go away.

Develop yourself and move on, life is too short to be trying to please or prove a point to anyone.

The best form of revenge is success, go and be successful, so much that they'd regret they let you go and didn't allow their daughter stay with you.

Wish you all the best bro.

Exactly!! nice advice.

rtdCivilservant:
Too much sex is stupid, in fact doesn't even make sense, only an abnormal person would do that. Ur husband doesn't even need to be told at least he should know that u are not a machine, why would he always engage u in sex, he lacks respect for u. Please talk to him about it before he kills u with sex because if u die he will look for someone else to continue the rubbish with, u said he is faithful but I seriously doubt it perhaps all the rubbish he's been doing with other stupid girls out there before lockdown he is now giving u the overload due to this lockdown. I am sorry to say this that he is not a responsible man, what sort of rubbish is that?

confamm!!! I pity her though, I just imagine that kind of life, mehn, at a time I will be scared of the man and even our bedroom generally..

Op I feel you should write down the qualities you want in your Ideal girl and the type of in-laws you will love to have, and keep praying on it everyday, mehn you will see changes, trust me.

Wow, nice initiative, I kinda love medical profession tho.

afrika4real:
this is not love but stupidity. A house wife sending her nude pix to a single guy in the name of love. Just believe that she is promiscuous. Use your head. If you eventually marry her, she will cheat on you. You dont know what make her husband stop sleeping with her and she will never tell you.

Exactly, she will tell him what he wants to hear na, has he heard the husband version of the story, But why will someone fall in love with a married woman, when there are plenty single ladies out there visiting Shiloh every weekend, my guy, that's not love but lust and infatuation, Don't go and put yourself in unnecessary wahala.

Well focus more on yourself, when she sees you are doing very well, without involving her in your life, she will come back and pls don't fall for it,just take it easy, time heals emotional injury, in few weeks time you will be alright.

Hmmn, all these killer diseases sha,...

luckgood:





Not too good o. And you?

bored

luckgood:





Alright..if you feel so!..by the way nothing do you though.

abi oo, hw are you.

luckgood:





You joking right?!..lol

No

Wow, this lady is pretty, just like me

Wow nice gesture, food is a basic necessity of life, try to feed those that are hungry around you friends..that's what matters nw. Because this lockdown is not really friendly to some families.

It is a pity, she would hv still being alive if she was single, some times it's better to be single, than being in a relationship/marriage that will drain you emotionally and psychologically that might finally lead to suicide.

I pray her kids will be able to forgive her and her Lying husband later in future.

May God save this land and wipe out this virus oo

The guy is just like me, oya send and see

TVTKOKO:
My mum sold food to train us. There was a particular time she took ill and couldn't go about her business as usual, so my sister and I had to suspend going school just to help prepare and sell the food. We were very young then.
One certain day, a man came to buy food and told me to go keep the food in his car, giving me the car keys. Maybe i should've told him i don't know how to open his car but i just thought it's something easy. I tried to open the car but the doors won't open. I told him and he asked me to retry. I tried and tried but the door did not open, that was when all hell set loose. The man started insulting me, calling me many derogatory names, telling me that my generation has never owned a car so he's not surprised i could not open his.
That day was the first time I'll ever cry for an insult. The insult got me to my bone marrows. If i had been in school or my parents were really well to do, non of those would've happened.
I promised myself right there that day that I would strive by all means good and necessary to break the chain of poverty.

I'm still not there yet, but I've seen the light

it is well bro, it is almost over, God will perfect what He has started.

Goldenheart:


Back in 2008

She said she didn't have my number anymore because her contact was full and she needed to delete someone...

Ahh!! My chest oo, this is d highest level of savagery.

primesoccer:
I will definitely meet her with the evidence. But I still want to continue chatting with her to get more info from her before I make the move.

love have block this one eye,wch evidence u dey find after this one u hv told us, the earlier u leave this lady, the better for you, soon she will turn d tables around and put d blame on you, for nt trusting her, and using an anonymous number to chat her up, oga wise up.

DropsMic:


Back then, whenever they pressured me i don't complain, what i did was follow them to church sit directly in front or behind them then press my phone all through the service

swears, you are talking abt service, what of spontaneous vigils and fasting..like you will be wondering what exactly are we praying for, because all those things hv been prayed abt during morning devotion.

emperorlaqrin:


Thanks man. No worry you go build your own. Should I give you a tip in achieving that

yes,give me

DropsMic:


How did you fight back?

Sometimes, I just keep quiet, and imagine nice things, like how my life will be when I am on my own, because arguing with them is just a waste of time.

DropsMic:
Forcing their beliefs on me which ultimately pushed me further away from it..

I'm a Godly person but I've never for one day believed in going to church

Same here, mine is kind of worse, that if u complain u will be tagged possessed,mehn sometimes I just crave for freedom.

lol, what kind of silly reason is dat, d summary is dat she is nt interested in you..

barnny:
Seen have replied

aiit,will check it.

edoairways:

It has been on my mind but commenting on this forum had reduced it a bit. That is the more reason am here more often than before

I had a friend dat always hv that kind of thought, but he started listening to christian messages and songs and that helped him. maybe u shld try this method out too.