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Chai,my dream school that year ..

Righteousness89:
Men and Brethren be Focused!
This has nothing to aid you Physically, Spirtually, Mentally, and So on..

We are on a very High Watch!
A Historic Peace Accord is set to be signed..

Endtimes Prophecies are Being Fulfilled ..
Set yourself in order..
The Sky would Split open at anytime..

We are focused pastor..Praise God!!!

I dey find car for my own wedding oo . Congratulations to her,that's the gift for making her mama proud.



I sell bedsheets and duvets for this cold weather..DM to get one.

Advantages of being a pretty lady.

I sell bedsheets and duvets friends . Come and buy one ,the weather is too cold.

I wan throw up, which kind hair be this na.

Hedgedog:
I get 6x6 you ddy do home delivery with yesting

weyrey,I no dey do delivery for ppl like you..lol.

Hmmn..This world is wicked..

I sell bedsheets and duvet,DM to get one

PearlStreet:
Oya, I don edit my post.

No wahala, thanks

PearlStreet:
Sought

honourable pls off that mic,abeg may we no go dat side ....lol

Chinny024:
Dating a doctor is worse than that.... Many have been left broken, shattered and dealt with...
I rest my case!!!

Very true sis,though they are the most sought after by ladies...

Anaerobi:
Rest on as in, he is dead?
so touching..... can't hold my tears....
I really Love military work would like to date one. but whenever I think of leaving my future kids for just my wife, talk more of leaving my future wife and go and stay in one yeye bush in name of fighting BH.... I just can't.... God bless our military personnel.

Amen oo,May God bless them very well..I have being reading comments,and I don't even know what to say,it's so emotional!

Time heals sha,she go dey alright, relationship wahala ehn.

Hello

Hmmn,OP why did you stress the poor girl if you were not ready for some thing serious,why did you waste her time.now she has fallen in love with you and you said all you want was sex..like seriously bro.

Computer science a very lucrative course, I have no regrets studying it .

armadeo:
Here is your original post





Carr to explain to @bolded.


They run shifts so the work 3 to 4 hrs daily. That means 6 to 8 shifts every day.


You are a complete bufoon. It's because of imbeciles like you who are quick to type from thier hatred addled brains that social media bill was even discussed.


O.d if you have read my comments you should be able to tell I dont suffer fools. I dislike stupidity particularly when the stupid person fails to realise he's an idiot.

lol, I won't reply you, I noticed you insult too much.. so I won't trade words with you.. Every one is entitled to talk on this platform and you picking up their post and insulting them doesn't make sense, if you have to make a point, make it independently than quoting ppl and saying hurtful words.. Have a nice sunday Sir, God bless you.

Nice one OP, Oya come and take a bottle of Stout .

DrWhizy:
I really wasn’t going to do this but just maybe I should.
Firstly, complications can arise from surgery in any part of the world; that doesn’t really say anything frankly. An example that should be quite known is the unfortunate death of Stella obasanjo.
Secondly, sorry about the experience You and your mum had. While I can’t speak authoritatively about what happened, I simply want to infer from my own experience. Most government institutions in the country like the police, military and even schools are understaffed and the hospitals are not left out. This is worsened by a dearth of facilities that could have saved manpower and time coupled with a pay not commiserate with work done. These are usually the crux of protests of healthcare workers. Unfortunately, Nigerians wouldn’t support such protests but rather turn against the health care workers and still come to the hospital and demand that a health care worker for example work extra shift to attend to ‘just one more’ patient when there could have been enough personnel on ground as benefits of a successful protest. In addition, you should realize the danger of a fagged out health care worker attending to you or anyone else as so much can go wrong at that point and this a lot of ‘smart’ health care workers avoid by simply excusing themselves when their calls/shifts are over. No patient would understand your reasons should anything go wrong and in most cases court proceedings could follow all because you attended ‘just one more patient’ while being mentally and physically exhausted; not even the medical council would understand because as taught in medical school the first rule is ‘’to do no harm’’.
Finally, I’m hopeful that some day we can realize that the government is the problem not the healthcare worker who can only do as much within his/her capacity and start to demand more. Be reminded for example that the basic health care provision fund meant for the 774 local governments of the country has a budget of 25 billion while the renovation of the National Assembly has a budget of 27 billion.
Cheers ma.

No problem Sir,It's alright,we are fine now.

Picardor2:
Get ur facts right before talking. Get a job if ur jobless

Okay oo, Mr Jobfull, I thought are supposed to be busy looking for facts as you sound in your post, but you are busy replying to my mention , to tell you that you are more jobless.. and by the way what's not true in what i said that you guys work in shifts or what. All the best for you sir.

armadeo:
Some of you deserve to be arrested and fined for spewing thrash online.

So what's the trash in my post, that d don't work in shifts or what?.. you are so senseless I can see, I noticed your previous comments on ppls post and I don't have time to trade words with you..

Judolisco:
I said Nigeria is bad....medical Doctors earn more than everyone else I knw what m saying... They will still strike again even if their demands are met... Nobody is treated fairly in dis country.. But doctors own are jst 2 much... Last 2 years I lost a blood sister because of one of dis useless strikes.. So m not ignorant I knw what what m talking about

you are not ignorant my brother, I know many ppl that have been lost due to surgical complications, I even remembered a day my mum went to the hospital, and she desperately needed to be attended to, but you know what some of the federal workers called doctors were saying that their shift was over, just to attend to one patient more.damn!!. But God took control at the end .

Hmm don't they pay them well ni, or which money are they looking for again?, most of the federal hospitals even run shifts, so they just work for 3 to 4hours.and they still need increase in their pay.. omo this life no balance!

Chai! Marriage dey hungry me oo.

Na them no wan beat sense into that child, what kind of misbehavior is that.

goldenboyofpsy:
How about your maternal family?

You will need a good lawyer possibly those legal aid or human rights lawyers who offer pro bono work to help you see the paperwork..

Secondly, how much of the woman do you know? Many things have gone wrong in our value system and opportunist is what we have mostly around us.. Try not to fall victim the second time.

Pray to deliver yourself from the curse your mum brought on you through her lifestyle so your daughter can have an edge in life so the circles don't continue...

Your baby father is playing with fire... He impregnated you as a minor which is punishable under the law of the land...

swears.. and baba even block her too.. chai, trouble plenty for this world oo

WandaMaximoff:
See ehn, if you want that marriage to see the light of day, don't bring your marital issues to Nairaland. Your marriage will be over before your thread gets to page 2.

You are living with a full grown adult for the first time, you both have weird habits that will irritate each other. Trust me, I'm sure there are habits she is also tolerating from you.

Marriage is give and take. I'd suggest you talk to her when the mood is lighter, pillow talk in the bedroom is a perfect time. Tell her how her hygiene makes you feel and tell her it would make you really happy if she changes.

Speaking up just at the time you noticed another of the unhygienic habit won't help you as you will be addressing it with anger.

If you can't settle a small matter like this amongst yourselves, there are worse storms in marriage o.

You just spoke my mind.Come and take a bottle of stout

dayoige:
Real quick!
I have a uncle in the UK who is a citizen and he assured me that if I can change my surname to his, he will fly me over to the UK.

I'm a 300L student studying economics here in Nigeria, and my name is .... ( This is the name I have in all my documents) and the surname my uncle want me to change to is 'Richard' so after changing my name it will look like this "Dayo Richard".

I want to apply for a change of name (to address the surname)

After doing the change of name I want to also apply for my National Identification Registration with (NIMC) which definitely I will have to do a new Birth Certificate with my new name.

Now my problem is this :
Will the change of surname affect my travelling documents if I want to apply for a visa, since the surname I have on my academic documents is different from my new surname?

What do you think I can do to balance everything?

Thanks

Why are you desperate to go? You are in 300lvl guy, just remaining a year to be through,you can go there for your Masters.. and don't change your surname for any reason, when it's even illegal, you would regret it.

Anigreat:
I'm sorry to bother you all this early morning with this my story.

Apologies for any blunders spotted, and sorry for the lengthy post.

I have a niece who unfortunately the mother died when she was barely a month old, and her mother was my only sibling as my mother gave birth to two of us, remaining only me now. Her death was really painful to us, but i thank God for consoling us especially my mother.

During her pregnancy, she never made mentioned of the person responsible for her pregnancy inspite of my mother's threat. When the inevitable happened we had no other option than to adopt the child. We were praying earnestly that the child survive, glory to God she did survive though it wasn't easy, as at now she's 14years old and currently in SSS1.

Last week my mum called me that my niece says she's coming to Uyo were i am staying to stay with me since there's no school for now, which i obliged to it immediately. Prior before this call, my girlfriend whom i intended to marry was staying with me. I informed her immediately that my niece is coming to stay with us for a short period of time, immediately i told her this, her countenance change through out that day. I keep on asking her what the matter was but she keep on saying nothing.

Monday last weekmy niece arrived my place.

My dears ever since my niece set her foot in my house, this girlfriend of mine whom i intended to marry turned to something else. She stop cooking, washing and sweeping, all she does is to ordered my niece around as her house help. I was so hurt seeing this that i confronted her thinking that she will change, but she went from bad to worst.

Yesterday morning i overheard her telling my niece to wash the toilet and mop the floor before thinking of eating. My niece replied that she's too tired that she won't be able to do it(I was actually happy inside when i hear this)

What follows next was a sounding knocked she gave to my niece and the poor girl screamed and started crying.

Truth be said, i was so furious that came out of the room. I didn't asked her anything i just told her your cup is full today. I dealt with her seriously. The beating i gave to her was out of this world, that she was bleeding, though later in the day i took her to a nearby clinic for treatment.

I have learnt alot this few days. Men should be careful of the type of women they intend to settle down with.

As some of them will manipulate you that you start hating your family members or stop them from coming to your house for no reasons if you're not strong.

I want her to get well after that i will put an end to the relationship, all marriage plan cancel, and no going back and no regret.

Imagine if I've gone ahead to marry her. Is this how she will be maltreating my niece? obviously i will forever leave in regrets.

If you ask me if i feel sorry for beating her, truth is, there's no atom of regret in me, and i will never feel sorry for her. If she has the mind to maltreat a poor girl whose mother is late, she's capable of anything.

Insults are welcome.

They have not locked your ass up bfor.. keep on beating ladies oo, till you jam the wrong person wey go sue you for assault and you pay heavily for it, and loose in both ways.. she fvcked up, but you would have just ordered her out of your house than that rubbish you just did, after you beat am na still your money you use treat am, where d sense dey?

YourCoffin:
Why did you beat her instead of sending her away? What did you achieve by beating her?

Azin, little things, some beta males will result to beating.. though the lady was wrong, there are still matured ways of handling issues, after beating her na still your money you use treat am, where is the wisdom?.. the funniest thing is that mumu gal will still stay in that house and call it love.

Hmmn ,thank God there was camera everywhere, she wants to start playing the victim card, next time she go get sense.