prepresh: There is this guy that is very close to me, he calls me often, but has never asked me out.
I don't know his house, he doesn't know mine, he has never taken me out on a date but does more than enough for me.
What should I do? Because other suitors are coming and I like him.
Sis, it doesnt always work out oo, those kind off ppl are better left off as friends only, u might nt be this compatible with him whn u guys date and moreover if he is interested he should make d move first, i hv had dis kind of scenario it didnt end well whn we moved things further.
SassyGem101: Well...I'm not married but I'll say...the hardest part is having to wake up everyday of your life to the same face which tends to become boring. Now no matter the initial butterflies in your belly thing, you'll get bored at some point and the only thing that can keep you going is your commitment to be with them and the fear of God. If you lack this two virtues, there's going to be a big problem especially if you are the type that likes meeting new people.
Another part it gets hard is where the niti gritty of marriage hits you. Like taking care of the responsibiity of the home especially the financial aspect. In fact before you know it, you'll wear out to the point you won't even remember how you guys started. This is not to scare you but its a fact I've seen in many homes that has made me begin to plan my marriage life in a way I won't have to be totally caught up in that hard part. Hmm....let me just stop here.
Please on a more serious note, if you must marry, prepare your mind to face these things otherwise you'll freak out before it even begins. Or stay away from it. I have seen a lot of marriages and I wonder what happened to the initial " I love yous" and all that. Though still learning.
Dem say, nor be eye wen person take do girlfriend and boyfriend na him dem dey take do marriage ooo.
Yeah and shes very caring too she can go through hell and stress herself to make sure am fine
But bro she knows alot of ladies are into me and its keeping her on her toes.. Plus shes riding on the luck that my parents like her thereby using it to misbehave.. The anger started may last year and since then it has been getting worst... What broke the carmels back was her stoning me out of anger,,
Maybe she needs a psychiatrist or a therapist
Ahh, stoning u ke, its too much oo.. well d decusion is in your hands our own is just to advice you, u are d one to make ur decision yourself, that anger is nt something you can live with oo.. but if u can cope with that forever, you are free to marry her, if nt end that relationship with maturity.
You need to start being a man..... reading signs and making decisions. The writing is on the wall..... stop being an illiterate. From all that you wrote.... I am also sure.... you are not responsible for the pregnancy.
Exactly, infact maybe because he is weak, d gal. might just tie down d pregnancy on him too
Seeking for advice from people that probably last less longer than your boyfriend. Anyways, sometimes I wonder why people attach so much importance to penetrative sex when you can experience orgasm with just pre-intimacy. Most guys fail in this department and always want to go right into it. And before you say 'Jack Robinson', they are already snoring like a he-goat.
If you want to taste the forbidden fruit, then why be in a hurry? I understand that prostitutes charge by the minute, but if you're with a so called 'fiance', then take your time to explore his body. And he should do the same with you.
Your 'fiance' may be a 2 minutes man, but can still be able to satisfy you. You guys should start with kisses, caresses and other pre-intimacy acts.
Even if both of you are sexually charged, continue with the sexual acts, and wrap it up with penetrative sex. Even if he doesn't last long, you will be too excited to notice.
Oh! I forgot to add that our youths these days no longer indulge in love making, but are more concerned about sex. The men just want to thrust, and the women are ever ready to open the well. Majority even practice anal sex nowadays. How gross!
ogbuefi677: Ndi oshi. Den of thieves. Brood of vipers. Useless rubber stamp senate. I don't blame them sha,saint Buhari and his ministers are doing even worse.
Michellekabod2: The hate spewed on this romance section towards opposite gender is becoming alarming. Misogynists and misandrists are using this platform to spew bitterness. What's all the shaming for?how hurt can one be to start shaming people based on their gender? The forum was filled with women haters now it seems the men haters are increasing in numbers too.... Everyday I wakeup to women are gold diggers or men are scum posts. No one can seek get reasonable advice on this forum because all advice given will be based on ones own gender
If you are too bitter towards a male/female kindly avoid dating instead of spoiling the minds of others concerning a gender.
LadySarah: When you say swear by Amadioha,they will say they are xtains.Oya love your neighboyr as yourself,you say ur fellow human being is an outcast. Is it not the bible that said''thou shall not call anything unclean.'' I wish the guy don give your sis belle so you guys will do ur worst! O ginidi?
maiahsaiah: Nowadays, you’ll see men advising each other to stop chasing ladies and make money.
Ladies, my advice to you is to stop dating men and focus on building yourself. Learn a skill and start making money.
Remain good friends with a guy, because boyfriend is equal to sex friend. Once you accept to be their girl friend, it’s like it’s their right to have sex with you. How many will you have before getting married?
Then another ish with girlfriend and boyfriend thing is that you don’t even have to right to court other prospects. That’s how you’ll become girlfriend to a guy for ten years when your mates are married with two, three kids.
If you decide to go ahead and consider other prospect so you don’t grow old as a girlfriend, they’ll call you all manner of unprintable names. Save yourself the stress and be JUST FRIENDS.
Learn a skill, make money for yourself. Money is one of the reasons girls accept intimate relationships. So make it for yourself and retain your pride. It will help even in marriage. So that you don’t create a thread on how your husband doesn’t give you money.
Don’t go into an intimate relationship, only keep friends. Don’t let time and destiny wasters tie you down under the guise of boyfriend.
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