₦airaland Forum

DOUBLE STANDARDS = A man can sleep around, catch diseases, cheat, have numerous gfs and when he is ready to settle down, looks for a nice virgin. But when a virgin girl decides to look for a God fearing and faithful man who has not put his stick in every hole in the world like an ashawo, people think she is crazy.

Y'all need to rethink your lives.

First of all, it depends on which type of restaurant you are going to. A free and flirty kneelength dress, like a skater dress, will fit most places. Don't wear jeans though if you don't know where he is taking you. Where pumps or flat sandals too. Also, dont wear too much makeup. If you can do a nude_/freshfaced look, it will be great.
Don't order any foods or drinks that may stick to your teeth or stain your teeth. Pick a meal you can eat comfortably while talking in between bites.

thegoodjoehunt: I am really feeling your Moniker. I am a big fan Super Guidetti. I hope it isn't a coincidence.

Please every Gunners bad belle, vacate this place or be disappointed at your own risk. Guidette you can stay.

Haha!!!! But haters gonna hate because once we win this match we are going to be at least 7 points from all our archenemies.

Alfa Seltzer: See this one. Proud of a country created by the white man.

Stop hating.

Presbulg: *covers face with both hands*
*peeps through the finger holes*

*recites astagafurullahi 100 times*

lol, don't worry. I am still decent. I dont wont to spoil you guys today

obayaya: see this one o... are you a fellow arsenal fan?

abi you just wanna tear that shirt to tempt niggas them?

Lol, I am an Arsenal fan 11 years and counting. Dude.... I am wearing undershirt o. Dont try me today.

Diasporan: This your post reminds me of an encounter I had with a Guyanese American few months ago.She told me she thought Mandela was the President of Africa and Nigeria is a state in Africa.Couldn't stop laughing at her ignorance.Don't blame 'most' Americans that see Africa as a single country but blame Africans in the US.Majority of them especially Nigerians when you ask them where they are from they will tell you they are from Africa.It's common amongst the girls.It is also prevalent when you ask them who they are speaking to on the phone the reply you get is that they are speaking to someone in Africa.It annoys me whenever I hear my fellow Nigerians say so.Ghanians and Camerounians I have met are even more specific about their country but for Nigerians the reverse is the case.Am not trying to make excuse for the so called dumb Americans but an 'average' American is not interested in what's happening outside his or her state talkless of other states in America or some other continent.

What those Nigerian people are doing is even good. At least they say they are African. Most of the naijaz I know over here always claim something else entirely. Like if there are permanent residents of anywhere, they will claim that country first before anything. It is just shame o my brother that they dont want to say they are Nigerian. After all we have a bad rap everywhere around the world. But me... I claim Naija any day. Even though I have an accent that makes people automatically believe I am American. I set the record straight everytime

UUPPPPP AAARRRRSSSSSEEEEENNNNNNAAAAAAALLLLLLLLL!!!!!!! WWWWWWOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!! *tears shirt*

Seanord: continue using someones picture and be forming classy

Ok..... Where is your own picture? Shey you are guilty of the above right? lol

^^^^ I have decided to remove my pic due to unnecessarily stupid comments.

190: sad but true

Most Nairaland girls have never stepped into MR BIGGS before

Ewww.... I eat at better restaurants. Cant remember the last I went there. Maybe when I was 12.

DARREG: i joined nairaland since 2009 thinking i would be able to enjoy myself but one thing i have noticed about the girls here is that they are not ready to mingle. Most of them have this holier than thou atitude like they are above all guys. i am tired of socializing with this kind of girls.
i dont know if i'm the only guy experiencing this or i am the one meeting the wrong girls but i am pissed and gat to say this.
i look forward to a nairaland with classy chicks!
i have a dream that one day i would not have to show my PICTURE and my place of work before my PMs are replied...

LMAO!!! I noticed it too. NL girls are very local, but not me. I am the classiest chick you can ever get. Just ask my boyfriends

Wow!!! Whatever evil that is preventing them from getting shall not prevail. AMEN!!!!!

190:
really . . .

So you're cultured

have you seen popowaa or mondisweets cursing before

Who are those? Are they your girlfriends I am talking about?

'Africa.... The Dark Continent' is how they always start their stupid shows when featuring the African continent. It is so sad that Americans are so dumb when it comes to Africa and it is because these stations misrepresent us all the time. They think we are one country and that irks me everytime I hear the word Africa from their mouth. Imagine.... I asked an American chick who visited 'Africa' which country she visited, and she didnt know. When I told her I knew all the 50 states of America, she was shocked and had to agree she was ignorant herself.

Besides, who even watches BBC and CNN anyways. Those propaganda filled stations... I honestly would rather watch a whole hour of NTA than to sit through an hour of CNN.

190: So Nigerian girls even know of places like Barbados
Hmm.. Im impressed, I thought the only places Nigerian girls knew about were lekki phase 1
and elegushi

Hmm..Times must have really changed!

All the same Ladies what do you expect from your man this xmas

Please o. I am cultured. Dont dump with the likes of bush girls you date all the time. I am on another level.

magikalz: Guidette, you seem misGUIDED....especially if your basis for rejecting a man is because of him having slept with more than one woman in the past. Even if you are a virgin, please have a rethink on this decision of yours. So far as you meet a GOOD man who really cares about you, give him a chance and let his past affairs stay in the past. You have a history too, you know.......and I'm sure it is not that rosy. Nobody is un-tainted with sin.

Last Shot--»Why did you stick your tongue out that way in your profile picture. It has a sexual note to it.......kinda whorish.

OH MY GOD!!!! What is it with the picture? ASHAWOOO MEN oooooooooo. Chai!!!! Abeg stop seeing things.

Sunbellar: But your profile pics doesn't tell us you are decent. The likes begat its kind. It looks like a LovePeddler!

Thank you o. Where is your own picture? Keep abusing me because you are so corrupt. A meaningless photo is only what ashawo men like you can interpret into something bad. Better be carrying condom around o. Mtschewwww.

aventura: Op let's meet. I know I'm not a saint but I can try be a better person.

Haha!! Im not that desperate for a man that I would do a hookup via NL. Not my kind of ish. Besides i dont want to get catfished.

gothrones: It was actually a compliment.

I guess I am being very defensive. I apologise to him then.

P.S.
Im not a witch

caseless: *yawns in heyana's style* are u God-fearing? variety chases away boredom and it brings life, so allow men that want to sleep around do that in their own best interest and u can stick around, wait for ur virgin to come and pick u.

Keep whoring yourself out. You know your safety is all i care about, but make sure you use a condom and see a gynaecologist regularly too. Do your own thing, yur type is just not what I am looking for. I am sure there is a woman out there for you. Just hope she hasnt sampled everybody in your area like you.

gothrones: ^
Appreciable intelligence is not an insult!

sounded like that to me.

obyrich: What's your definition of God-fearing? There is something whorish about your display pix though you exude appreciable intelligence in your posts. Sometimes good girls, in a bid to look trendy, inadvertently project unpalatable images of themselves thereby attracting unfaithful guys who mess them up and they end up concluding that ALL men are WICKED. There are millions of faithful guys all over the place. You can only attract your kind. My take!

I didnt even get that part of your post.Appreciable intelligence Dude... I am fckn smart. For a woman who is going through 5 yrs of medical training at the age of 21, I am more than a catch. And I see that. Is it so wrong to be looking out for my mental, physical and spiritual health by looking for a man that doesnt sleep around?

lightoftruth: @Op are you a virgin ?if you are then search no more cause here am. I a God fearing Virgin man.....But if you are not a virgin and probably you must have slept with more than one man , believe me....you need a psycho therapist cause ashawo no dey call ashawo ashawo while she is an ashawo .....lol..shey you get? Hala me .

Nah! Im good *moving on*
You sound like an ass_

obyrich: It's not a crime to want a good guy. However, attracting wrong kinds of people and expecting to weed out the bad ones among them makes your search a herculean task. My dear it's not just a pix! Always put you best foot forward.

I remain that it is just a picture. Besides, I dont see anything wrong with it. Your mind is totally corrupt. Chai. Ashawo men just filled this thread for me

obayaya: lmao!!! jisie ike

What does that mean

Okikiade: Guidetti ultimate search- season 1

Lol, no p. I will find what I am looking for. Just sit down there and keep hating. Shey this thread is paining you wella. Are you an ashawo?

obayaya: the guy has a valid point.. maybe your looks aren't so God fearing.

Maybe the guys are judging the book by the cover..

Haha! Its way past that. Even if I look like a whore_ and attract whores_, that doesnt mean I would date one. NEVER! I will soon find someone even if he is oyinbo. I dont care!!!!!!

obayaya: well maybe you are right.. real life is a lot more different.. maybe I'd freak out...

but the truth remains that nobody is perfect... and a lil compromise won't be so bad

Yeah thats how I feel too. I am not perfect and I do not expect the man I get with to be perfect either. But I think what I am asking for is not too much. I just feel like all the men on this thread are overreacting over nothing.
If a guy sleeps around, they can carry on doing what they are doing. I am sure there will be a woman out there that will take them as they are. But certainly not me!

obyrich: What's your definition of God-fearing? There is something whorish about your display pix though you exude appreciable intelligence in your posts. Sometimes good girls, in a bid to look trendy, inadvertently project unpalatable images of themselves thereby attracting unfaithful guys who mess them up and they end up concluding that ALL men are WICKED. There are millions of faithful guys all over the place. You can only attract your kind. My take!

Dude... relax! Its just a picture. I attract who I attract but I think it is all up to me to weed out the bad eggs from the good ones. I just voiced my opinions on guys sleeping around and I have gotten personal attacks. Haba! Is it a crime to want a good guy?

Okikiade: All of una ladies, na razor blade whey dey your lips go make you find your so-called Mr. Perfect or perve*t! Elenu bi pon pon... Well I'm going to church to ask for the forgiveness of my sins!

Please visit a gynaecologist too on your way back from church. I am concerned about your sexual health too.

obayaya: well.. it depends.. I believe the ppl you regard as gentlemen are ppl whose past has not been explored..

we all have a past.. some which are ugly..

if this girl can let her past become past and is ready to thread a new path.. why not?

LMAO! See answer. Anyway kudos to you for doubling down and not being a hypocrite. But deep down you know that type of ish wont go down well with you. If you want to be a hero, go ahead. Me...... nahh!!!