₦airaland Forum

lasunray: We ve gone Far (Me&her). I'm 2+yrs Older than her. She really loves me & I am very sure about that. She told her mum and Sister about me, but they kept it from the Men in the house (her dad & brother). Her dad is my mum's boss at work, I am usually scared of him but he likes me.
I and the girl could be in the sitting room in his presence & be chatting via fb or whatsapp.
When our other friend talks about my sister, I usually "kick" with a frown or I will just "blast" him; I hope I'm not selfish I doubt if I can allow a friend of mine date my sister but this relationship came suddenly and unexpected (Or is love planned?), I can't explain it. She once told me that her brother wouldn't like it if he knows.

What's your take? Is this awkward? Have you experienced this before?

The reason we struggle with insecurity is because we compare our behind-the-scenes with everyone else's highlight reel.

190: Thank God for africa then

if it gets to that stage in Nigeria, Na to pack bag stroll enter Ghana

190: Nigerian women get PHD for inside

Trinidad women get Bsc

Nigerian women fit date 5 different guys inside the same room - they wont know

“Trini men no good girl, go get yuhself a German or some Nigerian doctor. They go treat you real, real nice!” This used to be the rhetoric in Trinidad a few years ago. But now.. It seems the tables have been turned around because as it stands now, Trinidadian women cheat as much as the men.

I took a day trip to Trinidad yesterday and found out first hand how bad the situation was. A friend who took me around told me him and his wife have a mutual understanding: "I have a girl on the side that I see everyday, and so does she. Everything is rosy in our marriage. What she does, I don't need to know and the same goes for her". I was so dumbfounded to hear something like that come from a married man's mouth. I'm sure he saw the shock on my face and followed with, "This is Trinidad! You horn me and I horn you back. Simple and short. It's a normal thing around here" (Horn means cheat on)

I decided to do a little more digging around and realised that sex in Trinidad is no longer a taboo topic among family members and everyone seems very open about it. Even the ladies. Sextoy stores are booming with majority of the sales coming from the ladies... being open about your sexuality is no longer taboo for women.
Whorehouses are scattered all around the island with most of their customers being locals and expatriates bringing women from all over the world to sell their 'goods'. Women from Guyana, Columbia, Jamaica, etc... prostituting their selves for as little as $50 in what is known as the 'package deal' whereby a customer gets a room, condom and the woman all inclusive.

It kind of made sense after I had heard all the wild stories about the Trini carnival and how people let loose and do all sorts of scandalous things on the streets. The women wear the skimpiest costumes and grind on any and every man. It doesnt matter is she is single or not, everything goes during carnival.
I also heard of married women going out to clubs and whining on men while their husband is out with his girlfriend on the side. Or even women giving out their numbers to men discretely while she's at the club with her man!
Maybe this explains the AIDS epidemic in the Caribbean or not, but immorality reigns supreme in Trinidad.

obyrich: Are you Nigerian?

ROSSIKE: Stop making baseless insinuations about 'paranoia' and 'reduced need to improve blah blah'. Those are culture-based judgement calls not grounded on any scientific or medical foundation, or any credible, empirical research.



Since when did a plant become a ''substance''? Why are people addicted to egusi and bitter leaf?

ROSSIKE: ''Reduced motivation'' is a byword for ''less materialistic''. Less inclined to join the ''rat race''. More inclined to think independently of the crowd. To think holistically as opposed to selfishly. Not sure those are necessarily bad things. From a materialist perspective yes, but there's more to life than a materialist, money-first perspective.

ROSSIKE: Operative words are 'schizophrenic' & 'predisposed'. I'm talking of normal healthy adults ie 99% of the pop.

ROSSIKE: Operative word is 'predisposed'. I'm talking of normal healthy adults ie 99% of the pop.

ROSSIKE: Abeg go siddon with that bullshiit. There is ZERO EVIDENCE that cannabis causes mental problems. Stop propagating ignorance.

obyrich: MAVERICK

castielo: Being homophobic, i find it difficult to relate with these people.. A nigga smiles at you and in your mind you are like "wat d bleep is goin on in dat rotten brain of his?". You can't feel 100% safe around diz guys

Its no ones fault that they are being ostracized. Its like eating meat in a canteen full of vegetarians and wearing tight leggings into a hall full of Jehovah witnesses and u expect to be accepted the way you are.. completely insane

Just like every other form of addiction, gettin diz guys to change or abandon their lifestyle 'gon take more than just prison sentences.. but one thing i'm sure, ain't nobody 'gon embrace dat crap as legal in diz country

Ego2: Recently met a guy, we'av been dating for a while now but i dont seem too understand where this whole thing is heading.
He's only interested in d sex, we dont get too see each other regularly buh whenever we do it just s*x n am tired of it.

I really need your advice on dis...

obyrich: This chick. Isi egbuwara.

eGuerrilla: FG not aware
The Federal Government yesterday said it was unaware of the killing of Nigerians in CAR. Foreign Affairs Ministry spokesman, Mr Ode Ogbole, when contacted, said he was hearing about the incident from our reporter.

“I am hearing this from you but I will contact our Central African Republic mission to find out about the report,” he said.

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chupcake: First of, you cute, don't let anyone tell you otherwise

Okay ma, lemme see if I get you.. In the future, You want a man who is faithful and not think about sex all the time... Yea well, we want what we want but from my own perspective, If you think he's a good man, then that covers the issue of compatibility, but if you want him to be faithful, he has to think about sex, with you, on the regular.

Girls that refuse to see the fact that if you don't want your man to be unfaithful, you gotta be someone that's not worth cheating on and that includes satisfying the 'Sexual Need'.. If you date someone with an high sexual drive (99% of the average man) you gonna have to sleep with him on the regular and trust he doesn't cheat on you.. At least, we already established the fact that he's a good man.

obayaya: well, it happens sha...

some ppl dey see sex like Food

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obayaya: you still have experience like that?

well.. No be you again?

magikalz: Honestly, Guidette......you said your mind like a decent person in your post. Your replies, however, seems very unladylike. You have made your point.....stop exchanging words crudely like a market woman. If you plan to have a decent man, with the way you have been responding to comments, you might be in for a 'long thing'. Don't trade insults for insults. Thank you.

onila: true babe

like its sad some guys think every girl is a freak

Imagine! a whole me! virgin, classy, well mannered, civilized, elegant, decent. .and some guys have the audacity to talk abt sex the first time we meet

not because I managed to give u my free time, does not mean U shld disrespect me

I felt so disgusted
the second guy really irritated the f0ck out of me
broke as..s Nigga!