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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: I Have Lost Hope In This Country In Respect To Government Jobs by Guysses(m): 10:41am On Apr 02, 2023
Uncle, just apply for the job first and pray, alot of people will still get the job without knowing any body

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Politics / Re: Peter Obi's Supporter Displays Gun, Threatens Whoever Votes Tinubu, Atiku by Guysses(m): 7:11am On Jul 11, 2022
Buhari supporters did more than this in 2015 even some Lagos urchins.
Romance / Re: Please, I Need Help About My Breasts. by Guysses(m): 4:48pm On Jun 10, 2022
I know people that have used it, moreover the product is not cheap ooo.
Most celebrity are using it.
fadilaMaikiriki:
Are you serious about this? I hope they work. Have you used them before?
Romance / Re: Please, I Need Help About My Breasts. by Guysses(m): 12:54pm On Jun 09, 2022
I have a product that will help, mail me
Politics / Re: 'We Won't Accept You' - ZLP Tells Peter Obi, Others by Guysses(m): 11:41am On May 27, 2022
Anybody that wants to trend now will just mention Peter Obi and boom
Obi na movement
SATANICALLY666:
‘ZLP won’t accept defectors from major parties’



https://thenationonlineng.net/zlp-wont-accept-defectors-from-major-parties/
Politics / Re: How Buhari Delayed APC Presidential Aspirants’ Screening To Accommodate Jonathan by Guysses(m): 11:38am On May 27, 2022
The only people I blame is citizens who who are not ready for the betterment of this country, citizens who still vote through party and ethnic line instead of voting personality.
We are all in this country, no body is going anywhere so let's all suffer the suffer together since we are happen that dollar is now #610, it will still get to #1000 so we die here together. E dey affect me, e dey affect you too.
Romance / Re: Married But Dated A Single Lady For 2 Years Now I Am Loosing My Mind! by Guysses(m): 10:42am On May 27, 2022
Delete her number and messages, delete her pictures and videos, block her every where and you will forget her automatically.... It works like magic
NLElder:
First of all don't be quick to judge me. I am just here for matured help/advice cos I am fast loosing it. I am sure if it's abroad I will to told to go meet a therapist.

I am a young man in my early 40s and married for 9 years now with 2 kids. My nature of work is such that I am living on another town 5hours away from my family. This has been the case 6years out of the 9 years I am married. I have never really enjoyed my marriage as a young man cos I am always driving up and down every weekend to meet my family and when I got a promotion with more responsibility I reduced it to every 2 weeks, and as the stress of work and driving became more stressful, I now go every month. I have tried all my best even till date to see if I can get another work in the same state my wife and kids reside to no avail and my wife can't leave her work in the state join me as she is in a federal government establishment that has no branch in the state I live and work. The scenario so far shows you that I am not enjoying a healthy sex life with my wife, but being someone brought up to respect the marriage institution, I have resigned to my fate and taken life as I have seen it. To make matters worse, with due respect to my wife, she suffered female genital mutilation and you know it affects women's sex life and their man is always worse off for it. In summary we lead a routine boring sex life in the few occasions we even get to have it. However, the 6 years I have lived and worked in another state, I have never cheated or thought of cheating on her despite all the cold lonely nights I have to spend alone. I am a kind of introvert and never hide it from people that I am married. Some will be like "u no get side chick"? I will say no. The problem started 4 years earlier out of the 6years in the city I live and work. Since I am always lonely and bored in my crib, I mostly do video calls with my wife and kids daily or chat online with friends to keep my mind busy and avoid unnecessary tensions that will remind me of the lonely boring life I was living. This also keeps me away from sexual urges if I feel any as a fool-blooded young man I was. It was in one of these online chats that I got close to one young lady of about 30. We really got close through chatting and graduated to exchanging numbers. I always make it known that I was married to everyone I meet and she was no exception. We became best friends online and kept our limits as married man and a single lady would. We became curious and excited to meet each other live when we found out we were in same city.

We arranged a harmless date in a restaurant in town were we really got to know more about each other. I found out that she was a struggling young girl teaching in a private school with NCE and was unable to proceed to degree level due to lack of funds. Her salary wasn't even up to 18k and she was squatting with one lady in very uncomfortable circumstances. After that 1st live meeting, a very good friendship ensued but entirely platonic .

All these past 4 years before I met her, I cook for myself and go to market by myself. One Friday she called and I did not immediately pick cos I was in the kitchen. I called her back later and told her I was cooking and she jokingly asked if she could help. As at then she was yet to come to my place, so I told her if she really wanted to help then I would come and pick her up and that was how for the first time in 4 years, a lady visited me in that town. It felt awkward. It did not take long for me to find out how homely she was...washed plates, tidied everywhere, and finished up the cooking. I really felt at peace and started getting worried at the same time. We spent time chatting but kept our distance and nothing happened between us and I dropped her off later where she was squatting.

After that, our friendship went to another level and the visits became more frequent but still nothing happened between us. I got to know she was a well brought up lady that still had values and I also confirmed she had no man as at the time she met me. She said she had always wished to be married before now and never believed she would reach 30 and still be single.

I know my story is getting rather long, so let me try to wrap up. In summary, she started having issues with the family she was squatting with and didn't have enough money to rent a place of her own. I didn't have enough to rent for her either as I was already carrying a lot of financial responsibilities for her by then...monthly stipend of ₦10k to add to her salary, tolletries, making hairs and even helping out with her sick mum hospital bills. So without a 2nd thought, both of us decided she move into my place. Inside me I knew it was somehow but I think by then we were already in love with each but maybe living in denial.

So she moved in and that was it. Yes, we started having sex, uncomfortably at 1st but later became 2 sex maniacs. It was as if she was sent to compensate me for my horrible marriage sex experience I have endured all these years. We couldn't have enough of each other. In fact when I want to travel and see my family, she breaks down crying. I knew it was more than a side chick matter. In fact this lady gave me a fulfilled sex life that I swear if it's in the olden days I wouldn't mind taking her as a 2nd wife. Months grew into years and our passion for each other grew to the point that we got jealous of the opposite sex calling us. She even starts frowning when my wife calls or tears will start running down her eyes. People, I became so confused. We both knew we have gone too far and yet were not ready to end it. I even because part of her own family cos I go with her to see her sick mum and played a prominent role when she died. I don't know her older siblings knew if I was married or not , but I think she confided in her older sister who seemed to like me so much and only warned her to be "careful."

After 2 years, she started agitating about marriage so much that she said she needed to move out of my place. That as long as she is with me, she might not get married since it's obvious I wasn't going to marry her no matter how much both of us pretended about it. Deep inside me I knew she was right and I couldn't be selfish to keep her from meeting single suitors but I felt an inexplicable pain in my heart as if a part of me was about to be cut off. However, I forced myself to assist her to get a place and yet she on her own kept coming to my place every weekend until she moved in again leaving her place wasting for over 2 months., only going there once in a while to pick things..

All the 2 years we were together she was open and truthful to me about relationships she was now trying to build with single guys she hoped would marry her. I was already feeling bad inside me that she was about to leave my life, but she kept assuring me that she was with me and truly told me everything happeneing in the new relationship she was building.

She later moved out completely from my place after 2years on a new year day. She said needed to start the year on a good and clean note and had gotten serious with the guy that said he wants to marry her. I began to feel extreme jealous I couldn't explain. I knew it was not right but I couldn't stop myself. I tried my best and stopped calling or chatting with her but I still didn't find peace. One evening a month after when it was now clear that she has decided to get serious with the guy she said was coming for marriage, she visited me and and you can't believe it, we made hot passionate love. And when we were lying side by side, her new man called and she quickly ran into the toilet to answer him. I felt it was time I ended this whole thing, it wasn't looking right again. So I confronted her why she was still leading me on when she is now in a marriage -bound relationship and she said because she still loves me and doesn't know how to let go of me. We cried together that it wiould be tough as we would soon separate from each other for life and she left. I cried like a baby as we made love again and she consoling me to try and teach my wife the things she does to me despite her FGM predicament.

The period she was with me, she was uncomfortable answering calls from her man and I got fed up and decided to investigate. So I went to the street where she showed me the guy lives(she was truly open to me and I give her that) and waited to see if she has started visiting him as she mostly denies and lo and behold, I saw her entering the guy's house. I felt a sharp pang of jealousy which I couldn't control. I picked up my phone after some minutes and started calling her, but her phone rang severally and she didn't pick. I was almost half-dead with jealousy. I cried iny heart and drove away. I sent her a text that because she was "enjoying" herself with her man she was now avoiding my calls. That maybe tbe guy was so good at it. She called about 2 hours later and really took offence that because she visited him and did not pick my call was simply because she doesn't want him to start asking questions and not necessarily that they were doing anything. We quarrelled like never before and said hurtful things to each other and I asked her to return my key at my office the next day cos by then she no longer visited my house as she has really gotten serious with the guy. She returned the key and for over 2 months we stopped communicating and became strangers.

Instead of pushing her out my mind, I felt a daily torture looking through her Facebook pics, WhatsApp status, and other social media. I will go to her guy's street and painfully watch her enter his house from afar. I was fast losing my mind. I knew it was over for good and don't want her back but the obsession is yet to leave me till date. Everyday, I check her pictures and feels pangs of pain and jealousy as I see her lovely smiles. My people it's punishment and torture for me. I keep obsessing every second of my life about her. Who can help me? Something is definitely wrong. In one of her recent status, I saw her flaunt her hands with an engagement ring and I felt a sharp pang of sadness instead of happiness. People help me I am loosing it. Even though she has apologized to me and I too have apologized for the hurtful things we said in the course of our quarrel, my mind is still not at peace. Even now presently she is engaged she still calls me and tries to engage me in friendly conversations but I will just be answering without interest. She even sent me a pic recently at a wedding she went to and I told her she should stop sending me her pics but should be sending to her man. She apologized and said she has taken note. Yet, I will feel bad inside me if I don't see her friendly chats which my attitude has made her reduce. Yet in all these, first thing in the morning I will quickly rush to check her pics, if she has made new posts, etc etc. I need help, I really do. Sorry my people for the long post but I really needed to empty myself to see the help I can get if any cos I want my normal sane life back. I have also prayed to God and asked for forgiveness for cheating on my wife ....I have no excuses for doing so but from the long story you can see it was never my intention.

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Nairaland / General / Re: If 100 Is Something To You.please Come Here by Guysses(m): 8:40pm On May 09, 2022
If I could get the money, na to just send the money to my wife to use it to settle some debt and take care of the kids as salary never enter.
Business / Re: If You Were Given 100k, How Will You Use It? by Guysses(m): 2:19pm On May 05, 2022
I will send it straight to my wife to settle some debt... Salary never show since and that woman don suffer .

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Investment / Re: The Little Known Secrets To Wealth Creation In The Sports Industry by Guysses(m): 3:48pm On Dec 27, 2021
Am interested
CrystalBliss:
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Please mention me on this post before sending an email.

Thank you.

Investment / Re: Crypto Currency Investors Thread by Guysses(m): 9:23pm On Dec 07, 2021
Guys just your ETH wallet address

Copy it click on the link
Click on airdrop then paste it

Distribution starts 24th dec https://dxdy.finance/HNHPIXF

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: NDLEA RECRUITMENT! Any News? by Guysses(m): 2:52pm On Jul 05, 2021
Please which one is national dress?
GhostOfAPA:
PRESS RELEASE

Recruitment: NDLEA releases final list, asks successful candidates to report for training

The National Drug Law Enforcement Agency, NDLEA, has released the final list of successful candidates for the 2019 recruitment exercise for Narcotic Officer cadre and the first of three batches for the Narcotic Assistant cadre.
All successful candidates are to report for training at the NDLEA Academy, Kotton Rikus, Jos in Plateau State on Saturday 17th July, 2021. The final list of successful candidates for the Narcotic Officer cadre and the first batch of Narcotic Assistant cadre have been published on the Agencys website: www.ndlea.gov.ng

INSTRUCTIONS
1. All successful candidates (Narcotic Officers and Assistants) are to report at NDLEA Academy, Kotton Rikus, Jos with the following:

a. Original and photocopy of credentials and NDLEA online application reference slip.
b. Four copies of 5 x 7 colour photograph without cap/hat.
c. Writing materials to include biro, pencils, ruler, notebooks and file jacket.
d. Three pairs of white (unmarked) round neck vests and navy blue shorts (without stripes).
e. Two pairs of white and black socks.
f. Two pairs of pure black canvas trainers (rubber type NOT acceptable).
g. Two white bed sheets and pillow cases.
h. Two black trousers and white long sleeve shirts.
i. One blanket (grey or army green colour).
j. Two pairs of national dress or suit and casual wears with shoes.
k. Bucket, cutlasses and brooms to be purchased on arrival.
l. Some pocket money and toiletries.
m. Two black cloth facemasks.

2. All successful candidates must at all times observe COVID-19 protocols.

3. Successful candidates who fail to report by 6pm on Tuesday 20 July 2021 will be disqualified.

4. Successful candidates of the Narcotic Assistant cadre would be released in batches. The first 1000 successful candidates of Narcotic Assistant cadre is the first of the Three (3) batches to be released. The remaining Two (2) batches would be released subsequently.

FEMI BABAFEMI
Director, Media & Advocacy
Thursday 1st July, 2021
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: NDLEA Releases List Of Candidates For Final Screening by Guysses(m): 2:49pm On Jul 05, 2021
Please which one is national wear?
Umaralix142:
PRESS RELEASE

Recruitment: NDLEA releases final list, asks successful candidates to report for training

The National Drug Law Enforcement Agency, NDLEA, has released the final list of successful candidates for the 2019 recruitment exercise for Narcotic Officer cadre and the first of three batches for the Narcotic Assistant cadre.
All successful candidates are to report for training at the NDLEA Academy, Kotton Rikus, Jos in Plateau State on Saturday 17th July, 2021. The final list of successful candidates for the Narcotic Officer cadre and the first batch of Narcotic Assistant cadre have been published on the Agencys website: www.ndlea.gov.ng

INSTRUCTIONS
1. All successful candidates (Narcotic Officers and Assistants) are to report at NDLEA Academy, Kotton Rikus, Jos with the following:

a. Original and photocopy of credentials and NDLEA online application reference slip.
b. Four copies of 5 x 7 colour photograph without cap/hat.
c. Writing materials to include biro, pencils, ruler, notebooks and file jacket.
d. Three pairs of white (unmarked) round neck vests and navy blue shorts (without stripes).
e. Two pairs of white and black socks.
f. Two pairs of pure black canvas trainers (rubber type NOT acceptable).
g. Two white bed sheets and pillow cases.
h. Two black trousers and white long sleeve shirts.
i. One blanket (grey or army green colour).
j. Two pairs of national dress or suit and casual wears with shoes.
k. Bucket, cutlasses and brooms to be purchased on arrival.
l. Some pocket money and toiletries.
m. Two black cloth facemasks.

2. All successful candidates must at all times observe COVID-19 protocols.

3. Successful candidates who fail to report by 6pm on Tuesday 20 July 2021 will be disqualified.

4. Successful candidates of the Narcotic Assistant cadre would be released in batches. The first 1000 successful candidates of Narcotic Assistant cadre is the first of the Three (3) batches to be released. The remaining Two (2) batches would be released subsequently.

FEMI BABAFEMI
Director, Media & Advocacy
Thursday 1st July, 2021
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: NDLEA Releases List Of Candidates For Final Screening by Guysses(m): 4:01pm On Jun 13, 2021
Someone just called me that I should pay #30,000 make my name enter for supplementary list... Though I know it's a scam and I know he got my number from the screening list
Politics / Re: Gbolahan Macjob: DJ Switch Should Be Prosecuted by Guysses(m): 4:40pm On Oct 25, 2020
Alwaysachick:




They are about to turn tables.

Come 2023 these hopeless people will still vote Buhari.....we are our problem.
No mind them, I pity those people fighting for the betterment of youths of this country... Better fight for your self and forget the youths cos some of them don't have sense

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Politics / Re: Gbolahan Macjob: DJ Switch Should Be Prosecuted by Guysses(m): 4:37pm On Oct 25, 2020
helinues:


Why are you feeling threatening about op's suggestions?

Why did she lie about 78 people killed which led to the destruction of properties..

Engage intelligently instead of shifting from the topic
Oga go and update your self, read news and be current.
Go to her official page and see what she said

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Politics / Re: DJ Switch Used OBS software To Manipulate Instagram To Fool Nigerians by Guysses(m): 1:47pm On Oct 25, 2020
Biodun556:



She needs to be prosecuted
I pray that what happened at lekki toll gate will happen to you and your family so that you will have sense

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Romance / Re: Fuckmate Needed Urgently In Asaba by Guysses(m): 1:27pm On Oct 23, 2020
Sirfemisky:
Dm if you can do that thing well
this your idea good ooo, no stress
Education / Re: Let's See How Good You Are (prove Your Intelligence) by Guysses(m): 1:43pm On Sep 24, 2020
shamsin6300:


Bravo

Oga where is my gift for winning the quiz?
Education / Re: Let's See How Good You Are (prove Your Intelligence) by Guysses(m): 12:15pm On Sep 23, 2020
Ok, the question said 5 yam in a basket but didn't say how many is on the ground and also didn't say you must give them only the ones at the basket..
You will simply bring out 4 yam from the basket and give to 4 girl leaving one yam inside the basket, then you will pick one yam from the ground and give to the remaining girl.

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NYSC / Reduction In Price For NYSC Members That Are Going Back To Lagos And Abuja From by Guysses(m): 10:13pm On May 30, 2020
Good day all, I feel like helping some NYSC members that will be going back to their states from Anambra.
I will arrange a Sienna car for you people on a low price for people going back to Lagos and Abuja only.
Contact me 09069121158
Romance / Re: Where Do I Find Ashawo Brothels In Awka? by Guysses(m): 2:00pm On Apr 13, 2020
segunaguero:
you later get your card?

No
Celebrities / Re: Naira Marley's Letter Of Apology To Lagos State Government (Photos) by Guysses(m): 5:19pm On Apr 10, 2020
Lol, the fear of been tagged ex convict
Family / Re: Please Help Me, Before I Lose My Mind. by Guysses(m): 3:16pm On Apr 10, 2020
Guy just stand up and leave, go and hustle...
I know you will be afraid on who will be doing all the things you help your mum do but let me tell you, if you leave today your mum will not die and all those things you think can't be done without you, she will find a way and all of them will be done.

My story is a little bit like yours, I left for a job in a city I don't even have who to accommodate me, I have to sleep in Warehouse almost 2months before I could raise money to pay 3months rent...

But God is great cos where I am now, I never believed I will even get to half of it by this time in my life.
Family / Re: Clearance Sales Buyer!!! by Guysses(m): 3:22pm On Dec 19, 2019
Aust0x:
I need the following items: from anyone (in Lagos) offering clearance sales for immediate purchase.
1. Single leather sofa (2)
2. Centre rug
3. Chandelier
4. Standing gas cooker
5. Deep freezer (small size)
6. 50" smart tv
7. Glass centre table.


Contact only via watsapp - 080six811twothree88

How much is the deep freezer
Romance / Re: Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume by Guysses(m): 5:59pm On Jul 01, 2019
bluskyee:
At the inception of 2018 I thought my pre wedding photos will be on the front page of NL (with a new moniker wink)but it seems I am a bit mistaken. Looking forward to meeting a partner is turning to a full time job ( or maybe is not, perhaps I am over thinking or ... ) I am thinking perhaps my transfer is the main cause but I am 2years here already. I know say I done cast well but is just funny, really funny. I am not looking for advice pls, I am only thinking out loud with the aid of Budweiser, hoping to read this when I start thinking again. At least I won't have to think again.

If you happen to be in this category you can share your thought ( guys only)
Bro the thing no easy oooo, same here
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Job Interest In Abuja by Guysses(m): 3:28pm On Jun 14, 2019
I am interested, Okonkwocharleschigozie@gmail.com
08065838895
Crime / Re: "Pastor Leads Family To Where Kidnapped Boy Was Abandoned Inside A Bush". Photos by Guysses(m): 12:28pm On Mar 14, 2019
that is rev. fr. Dozie Chlaka, this is not the first miracle he is performing, he even raise dead people..... if you want to witness it, you can visit his adoration ground at amaenyi Awka Anambra state on Saturday.
Romance / Re: Where Do I Find Ashawo Brothels In Awka? by Guysses(m): 12:55am On Mar 08, 2019
salah101:

pls bro...pls can u be more precise with their addresses
I never see the card sir
Romance / Re: Where Do I Find Ashawo Brothels In Awka? by Guysses(m): 12:54am On Mar 08, 2019
salah101:


pls bro...pls can u be more precise with their addresses

I gave you the address sir, any body in Awka suppose to know all the address I just gave you
Romance / Re: Where Do I Find Ashawo Brothels In Awka? by Guysses(m): 2:53pm On Mar 07, 2019
salah101:
pls anyone that can help with at least 7 ashawo locations in Awka city will get 2k airtime from me.
pls help a bro.

my number biko ....... am waiting for my card

lastly check Romeo guest house at the back of ukwu orji

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