Rossiminku:


I don't argue with, or debate narcissists, for the simple reason that narcissists NEVER accept they are narcissists, and will find every way to subvert their diagnosis.

I only diagnose narcissists. I don't debate them.

My posts are for those NON-narcissists who are tryIng to make sense of YOU LOT.

Rossiminku:


Narcissism is not an ''explosive or a bomb''.

That is typical narcissist deflection and avoidance.

Narcissism is toxic behaviour that poisons the social environment and destroys relationships.

Narcissism is very different from ''self-love''.

Here is how experts differentiate the 2 concepts:

Need for Recognition

Self Love: Those who have high self-esteem and practice self love don’t need recognition or congratulations for their accomplishments. They are well aware of their efforts and their success, and that knowledge is more than enough to feel adequate.

Narcissism: If a tree falls in a forest and no one is around to hear it, does it make a sound? If a narcissist accomplishes success and no one is around to witness it, is it truly a success? The answer in this case is no. Without recognition and praise, they may as well not have accomplished anything at all. It makes the win feel empty, because they only receive satisfaction from the admiration of others.


Identifying flaws within one's self

Self Love: Everyone has flaws and idiosyncrasies that makes them an individual. Those who love themselves accept their flaws, and work to improve them if need be. They understand that those quirky little bits of themselves are what make them unique.

Narcissism: They act as if they do not posses any flaws. Everything they do, they do it better than anyone. Everything they have is better than what you have. If someone notices that they exhibit a flaw, it must be a misconception, because there is no way that any aspect of themselves could be anything less than perfect.


Knowing who you are-and being comfortable with it

Self Love: In lieu of self acceptance, these individuals are totally comfortable being themselves, and appreciate who they are and what they offer. They do not feel that they need to make any vast changes to themselves or their lives in order to achieve happiness, because they already are.


Narcissism: They are never happy with who they are and what they have. They often find themselves fantasizing about a more ideal lifestyle, job, or appearance. They never truly feel satisfied with any aspect of their life. They think that they deserve better, but put no effort forth to achieve their desires.


Humility is a virtue

Self Love: They have a strong sense of empathy and humility. They support and encourage others to do better, and are proud of their successes.

Narcissism: They can’t handle seeing others doing well. They cannot help but feel jealous, and will find a way to undermine their success in order to feel that they still have the upper hand. The common phrase, “misery loves company,” is all too appropriate in this circumstance.


Perception of other's emotions

Self Love: These individuals are receptive to others emotions, and can level with their struggles and pain. They will offer advice and assistance if they can, and genuinely care about the outcome of their struggling friends situation.

Narcissism: Although they may fake concern, they genuinely do not care about others struggles. In fact, they feed off of it. That’s one less person who is doing well in this world, and that makes them feel better about themselves.


Perception of others as individuals

Self Love: Appreciation of others is a strong attribute of those who have high self esteem. They see other individuals as valuable, and celebrate their existence. These people tend to be good friends, because they are incredibly supportive and understand that it takes all sorts of people to make a fully functioning world.

Narcissism: They do not view others as valuable. The only value they see in others is an opportunity to use them for their own benefit. Narcissists tend to surround themselves with other narcissists. The “special” people. The “elite.” No one else is worthy of their time. Gag.


Competition with peers

Self Love: With high self esteem, it is easy to view others as your equals. Each person is just that, another person trying to make it in this world and try to achieve happiness.

Narcissism: Narcissists always need to be doing better than their peers, or at least give off the illusion that they are. They thrive off of dominance and manipulation. They are not truly happy unless they feel that they are in complete control. They need for all of their efforts to be celebrated, and for themselves and people to be worshiped. Typically, narcissists will gravitate towards careers and hobbies that exhibit themselves as the center of attention.

Narcissists spend most of their time alone, because most people can identify their toxic behavior.
Signs of narcissistic behaviour tend to rear their ugly heads in the early years of adulthood; typically in men. 50-70% of those who suffer from Narcissistic Personality Disorder are male. The cause of this is unknown. Perhaps it is a combination of chemical composition, upbringing, and experiences during childhood.

Narcissism is incredibly toxic behaviour, and will repel anyone from your life who can identify these disturbing features. That’s why people with this disorder tend to have few friends, and spend the majority of their time alone. They distort this rejection from others as their own personal rejection. Because they are better than everyone else, and no one is worthy of their precious time.

Find a happy medium. It’s okay to love yourself, but don’t let it turn into obsession.
With the introduction of social media, it is easier to spot narcissists because they showcase themselves daily. You know that girl or guy who posts multiple selfies a day, and is constantly changing their profile pictures? They are doing this for the recognition. They want people to see them, and to celebrate their beauty. The likes and comments they receive feed their innate need for worship. Outlets such as Instagram and Facebook has made it alarmingly normal to constantly demand attention from peers and strangers alike.

Unless those who suffer from NPD seek therapy, it is unlikely that they can amend their behaviour, because they are oblivious to the fact that they suffer from this disorder. That kind of reflection would prove that they are imperfect; something that does not compute in the mind of a narcissist.

https://www.lifehack.org/596475/how-we-are-confusing-self-love-with-narcissism-in-this-generation

Rossiminku:


People who are ''intolerant'' of the view that Igbos are a special, chosen, highly blessed, superior, and extra- intelligent ethnic group are ''bigots'' in your view.

There is something wrong with US for not accepting that YOU are ''special''.

TYPICAL NARCISSISTIC REPSONSE.

With every post you make, you NARCISSISTS confirm my assertions.

Keep talking, while I keep diagnosing you.

Rossiminku:


People who are ''intolerant'' of the view that Igbos are a special, chosen, highly blessed, superior, and extra- intelligent ethnic group are ''bigots'' in your view.

There is something wrong with US for not accepting that YOU are ''special''.

TYPICAL NARCISSISTIC REPSONSE.

With every post, you NARCISSISTS confirm my assertions.

Rossiminku:


Typical narcissistic response.

4 Narcissistic features exhibited in this post:

- An overwhelming sense of victimization (''short end of the stick in Nigeria'')

- Deliberate misrepresentation of the identifier of narcissism (''hate-induced rant'').

- Brazen lack of empathy - (''Kill yaself'')

- Grandioisty - (''our glorious reply'')

Rossiminku:


Narcissism: Symptoms and Signs

Need for Admiration

One of the most common signs of a narcissist is a constant need for praise or admiration. People with this behavior need to feel validation from others and often brag or exaggerate their accomplishments for recognition. They also like to feel appreciated to boost their ego.

Lack of Empathy

Lack of empathy is another sign of narcissism. This means that the narcissist is unwilling or unable to empathize with the needs, wants, or feelings of other people. This also makes it difficult for them to take responsibility for their own behavior.

Arrogance

People with narcissistic behavior already see themselves as superior to others, so they may become rude or abusive when they don’t receive the treatment they think they deserve. While they hold themselves superior, they may speak or act rudely toward those that they deem are inferior.

https://www.webmd.com/mental-health/narcissism-symptoms-signs


Other recognised traits of narcissists:

- Sense of self is highly superficial, extremely rigid, and often fragile
- Self-stability depends on maintaining the view that one is exceptional
- Grandiose sense of self is easily threatened
- Patients retreat from or deny realities that challenge grandiosity

https://www.emedicinehealth.com/what_are_the_nine_traits_of_a_narcissist/article_em.htm

Rossiminku:


Another trait of narcissism is minimisation.

When confronted about their narcissism, narcissists typically deflect, or minimise the actions which cause their narcissism to be spotted.

In this case, his narcissism is explained as innocuous 'self-love'.

But normal 'self-love' does not open a thread just to glorify one's self simply for being one's self.

Such an act is a classic example of narcissism.

Rossiminku:


Says a narcissist whose people have settled across Nigeria more than any other ethnicity.

A narcissist will eat from you and then go round telling others that you come to beg him for food daily.

He does this due to his fragile ego that needs constant boosting, failing which he turns extremely depressed.

cjrane:



Well, if you must know, there is a serious campaign of calumny to rubbish and discredit those brown stones in Anambra quarries. So that Anambra builders will import and transport very expensive grey stones from other peoples stone quarries to use in their houses.

The farce of Anambra stones not being strong enough has been defeated by most Onitsha buildings defeating that lie! Those Onitsha buildings built with brown Anambra quarry stones more than 30 years ago are still standing till date! Even when the newer buildings built with the grey stones are falling!

Invitationn:

Pure misinformation...I love your audacity tho
Obiano must be a s.lave too right? Because he's not raised any alarm about your claim.
Lai Mohammed; stop making everyone dumber.

Euouae:


You called am Ijaw man "mere"

You got guts!

The entire SE cant even match the Ijaw tribe.

ogwumgbe:


If what you just said is true which I know is pure lie, then the governors that allowed such to happen have to be held accountable to vomit Anambra money

OfoIgbo:


Having the people is definitely not the same thing as getting Biafra.

Kanu needs human blood for his Biafra to be actualised, while the file carrier may get you that Biafra without human blood.

Don't be surprised if this expected UN referendum will come via Tony's effort through LNC/NINAS, in spite of the fact that the publicity they have is almost non-existent compared to Kanu's Radio Biafra and their social media handles.

Another major strength that Tony Nnadi has that Kanu lacks completely, is that Tony is willing to remain in the background.
Tony is not the chairman of LNC neither is he the chairman of NINAS, but Kanu would have insisted on leading both organisations.

Tony, realising that the ethnic minorities of the LN may need a sense of belonging is happy for the organisatiton to be led by a renowned Itsekiri legal luminary and an elder Pa Fred Agbeyegbe.
Today, NINAS is being led by a Yoruba elder Prof. Akintoye, even though Tony is the brain behind PRONACO, LNC and NINAS. He understands the importance of representation. This is a major quality Tony has that Nnamdi doesn't have.

Nnamdi is more of a populist and likes to be seen as the messiah and praised, and to be the A to Z of the organisation.
Tony prefers collegial approach with duties intentionally and strategically assigned to certain individuals, and is quite happy CARRYING FILES provided the aim is met.

Personally, I believe this much talked about UN referendum is more likely to come via Tony's efforts, than Nnamdi's efforts. Let's watch the space

Don't get me wrong, Kanu is ideal to counter all of Buhari's devilish moves, and the introduction of ESN is a master stroke. Kanu remains my nigga for that

clarocuzioo:


Please can you shed more light on this. We need to get informed.

DubaiLandLord1:
Is Timipre Sylvia an Ijaw man part of this conspiracies too?

IGBOSON1:


Bros, you have to understand the deep-seated negative attitude these people (we all know who they are) have for Igbos that drives all these wicked actions we see happening towards us in this country! They don’t want to grant Anambra oil producing status so the state doesn’t get ‘too much money’ and leave their bitter, Igbo-hating ass behind!

Their thinking is: ‘we’re withholding their oil producing status, yet they’re developing this much, how much more when they start receiving an extra stream of billions per month!? We wouldn’t see their break-lights!’

QuotaSystem:


Unfortunately I am not responsible for your cognitive bias which misled you to assume anyone was lumping military & dipliomatic support together. From my captions it would be clear to a 10 year old that I was referring to French & Belgian military support through mercenaries, weapons, planes etc. but of course that would be rocket science to a typical semi-literate, brainwashed, cownu zombie without mental capacity for critical analysis. Indeed France supported Biafra heavily militarily & otherwise.



Lies. Pure lies.

Swedish & Portugese Pilots were still flying for Biafra up till January 1970. Mercenaries like the German born Rolf Steiner who was a Lt. Colonel and assigned to the 4th Commando Brigade, and Welshman Taffy Williams who served as a Major until the very end of the conflict



Going to war ill-prepared & depending on your local ogbunigwes was the height of foolishness, so it's no wonder Biafra stood no chance especially against the well orchstrated blockades. If you were half as smart as you fancy yourself to be, you'd have noticed this is a rejoinder thread so the Wiki screenshots were pulled from the other thread. You should't be so dim that you have to be spoonfed logic all the time.

Biafranboys:
The biafran nation can not be allowed to be for we do not trust what they will become with their vast wealth around the Russians and the French

Read those above and I thank the guy that posted it here gwafaeziokwu, we as biafrans must start a diplomatic pressure on the British and plead with them to let biafra go, igbo states with oil and gold and other mineral resources must strike a deal with the British and the Niger delta people can strike a deal too

The world is now about give me I help you, we can bargain with Britain

Omoslim26:


Yeye pikin, you are lucky to be in the South land�� at least you are free from those your very angry taquiyya brothers, dat are doing competition on who kills the most in your Ne region ��.

AniOmaa:
Until you can tell there's a difference between proferring DIPLOMATIC support and MILITARY support for those countries listed on the Biafran side, then there's no point even having this argument with a daft cow-dung sniffing Aboki. Majority of those countries that supported Biafra with the exception of France (as documented and collaborated by various foreign war journals and correspondents that covered the events of the Nigerian civil war) only gave their support diplomatically to Biafra... the so called mercenaries you posted only fought in Biafra for a few months at the early stage of the war, but majority of them left Biafra due to insufficient payments or were killed in action... it's on record that the only mercenaries that actually stayed on and fought with Biafrans inspite of all the crippling odds were Major Taffy Williams from former Rhodesia (a man who had nothing but great respect and admiration for the bravery and tenacity of the Biafran troops under his command) , Rolf Steiner, and the popular Swedish pilot Count Carl Gustaf Ericsson von Rosen who was famous for flying the "Biafran babies" till the end of the war.

Biafra largely depended on its home made weapons ingeniously manufactured by Biafrans themselves to sustain the struggle, it was only late in 1968 that France actually began to give some military aid to Biafra by sending tons of arms and ammunition via the Uli airstrip.. but the effort from France however noble in its intentions, was simply too insufficient and belated to salvage the already precarious and demoralizing Biafran war situation already made worse by starvation.

Please actually educate yourselves more about the facts of the Nigerian civil war even though your palpable ignorance can be pardoned since they extricated these things from our school curriculums, go read books, journals interviews and various other credible databases about the war instead of accentuating your stupidity by picking your "facts" from Wikipedia!

Omoslim26:


just negodu onyè nzuzu�� anam a su ghi asusu Igbo, I na asu m bekee�� isi odikwa ghi nma??

I dare you to point out where I was wrong��

Omoslim26:


Ngwa gwa zie m ebe m mere mistake��.