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[quote author=begwong post=62034157][/quote]Lol may Allah guide you. If only you knew the consequence of calling a muslim kafir.
Anyway noting is unexpected from an ignorant person. I have giving the op evidence from quran and sunnah for the questioned ask. Its up to him to act on guidance or self desire. Our hisab is with Allah afterall

AlBaqir:
For anything to be tag Haram in Islam, Quran or Rasul must have declared it Haram exclusively. Kindly show us a single verse or a single Hadith (even if it is weak Hadith) that specifically say "wedding ring" is haram. Thanks

This is epic..kindly tell us in the entire quran or hadith that forbade us from eating human flesh...

There are three sources of legislation in islam,
The quran, sunnah and fiqh on issues based on sunna as extablish by the companions.
That been said the issue of ring is clearly a non islamic culture and the rasool has forbidden on that my verse thus goes
: “Whoever imitates a people is one of them.” Narrated by Abu Dawood (4031) and classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh Sunan Abi Dawood. 

Secondly,

The Muslims have no need to imitate any of the other nations in matters of religious rituals and acts of worship, for Allaah has perfected His religion and completed His Favour, and chosen for us Islam as our religion, as He says (interpretation of the meaning):  

“This day, I have perfected your religion for you, completed My Favour upon you, and have chosen for you Islam as your religion”

[al-Maa'idah 5:3] 

Finally,
It was narrated from Abu Sa’eed al-Khudri (may Allaah be pleased with him) that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “You will certainly follow the ways of those who came before you hand span by hand span, cubit by cubit, to the extent that if they entered the hole of a lizard, you will enter it too.” We said: “O Messenger of Allaah, (do you mean) the Jews and the Christians?” He said: “Who else?” Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 1397; Muslim, 4822. 

To the op always asked religous matters from learned people so as not to be misled by small ignorant people. May Allah contnue to guide you and us all. Ameen
And to bayhaqi its better to say I dont know if you dont. Its safer and wiser

AlBaqir:
# Wedding ring is a cultural or social practice. While it has nothing to do with Islam, there's no command to its forbiddance. Therefore, it is neither obligatory nor haram to wear it. It is not even a recommended act or an act we frown at as far as Islamic laws are concern. On the other hand, some used to speculate that wedding ring is Christianic. That is a plain lie. Wedding ring is an European culture just like suit (coat) and tie is their's.


# However, the fact that your husband gave it to you, that means he wants you to wear it. I don't know his intention but norms of our society is "recognition". A woman with wedding ring is recognised and generally believed to be a married woman, and society gives her more respect. And men are usually back off the tail of such women (except perverted men).

# In India, their culture is not wedding ring but a red spotted ink at the forehead of a woman, that signify married or engaged. And keeping of moustache for men indicate married men.

* So, please look for your wedding ring and put it on provided you can still find it or talk to your hubby to provide another if he still wants it on your finger. May Allah strengthen and bless your family.

Wa Salam alaykum.

In as much as am trying not to be emotional on your response, am compelled to call you a jahil as there is no other way to say it more polite, ring is a culture associated with known muslims, that has root way bag to pagan romans (google should help you), thus is is an innovation to islam in it the least and an imitation of pagan culture. There is simply no hujja or prove that a muslim woman should where a ring, its alien to us and strongly discouraged. Remember the rasool s.a.w said whoever imitate a people would be among them,

Allaah has forbidden the Muslim to imitate the disbelievers, and the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allaah be upon him) spoke very sternly concerning that, as he said: “Whoever imitates a people is one of them.” Narrated by Abu Dawood (4031) and classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh Sunan Abi Dawood. 

Wearing ring is not only alien to Christianity (though they know noting about their history) but a full pagan culture.

Secondly,

The prohibition on imitating the kuffaar applies only to that which is exclusively theirs and which is not common to them and the Muslims. 

What explains the meaning of exclusivity is that if the person who does that action is seen it would be said of him that he belongs to the group which we are forbidden to imitate. This can only apply to actions which are not done by anyone but that group. As for actions which are common to them and the Muslims, it is not correct to say that doing this is regarded as the forbidden type of imitation, because this action is not exclusive to them. 

Based on that, the rulings on things that are only forbidden because they are imitation of the mushrikeen vary according to time and place, and according to different traditions and customs. 

If that kind of clothing in a particular country is worn only by the kuffaar, then it is haraam for the Muslim to wear it in that country, but if in another country it is worn by both Muslims and kaafirs, then it is permissible to wear it in that country. Nowadays, wearing pants or suits is not exclusive to the kaafirs; rather they are worn by Muslims in most countries and they do not think that wearing it is imitation of the kaafirs, because it is not exclusively theirs. 

Based on this, wearing it is permissible and there is nothing wrong with it. 

We have previously quoted a fatwa of the Standing Committee for Issuing Fatwas which says that it is permissible to wear pants and suits, and it is not imitation of the kuffaar. See the answer to question number 105412 and 105413. 

Shaykh Muhammad ibn ‘Uthaymeen (may Allaah have mercy on him) was asked: What is the guideline on the issue of imitating the kuffaar? 

He replied: 

Imitation of the kuffaar may be in appearance, clothing, food and other things because it is a general word which refers to a person doing something that is done exclusively by the kuffaar, in such a way that whoever sees him would think that he is one of the kuffaar. This is the guideline. But if the thing has become widespread among both Muslims and kaafirs, then this imitation is permissible, even if it was originally taken from the kuffaar, so long as it is not haraam in and of itself, such as wearing silk. End quote.

:And she wore a muslim veil though she is a christain to carryout such evil act. Woe to her and her types

Nawa oh. Ladies have no shame any more, see as they are all trying to defend their cooperate prostitution. Oloshos every where.
Thank God for islam and muslim women, at least we know what it means to have a chaste and innocent woman as a wife. The respect is different.

This is beautiful. Enemies of islam should masturbate to this as they have started doing already...

Are people this ignorant, even if you cant read the letter at least the brief from the op should make one realise it has noting to do with love or suicide, the poor girl was sock, probably had a premonition of death,decided to right a will that is encouraged for every muslim to have. The story is as simple as that

Citykings:
Www.kelechisblog.com.ng

Kelechi blog indeed. Peak of bogotry and sentiments (from their name you shall know then.)

hyfr:
Pls correct me if I'm wrong. The moderators on Nairaland are they below 20yrs? I can't fathom any sensible reason why someone who learnt how to tiptoe should be our concern, when they masses need an eye opener and a way to come out of poverty. Instead the moderators are forcing other peoples lifestyle,family issues, problems etc,down on us.Thousands of sensible topic are wallowing underground. NB: most of us see this forum as one of the ways to escape the various issues of life. Sorry for the epistle, I'm high right now

I agree with you. The current moderators of nairaland need to get matured on the kind of post they bring to front page

If he was a muslim imam or mallam,he would have been declared an extremist,terrorist and the Muslim a hero for marrying his love.
Alas it would have been a love story.
But as its the other way round lets see what the extremist Christian have to say about it

Macelliot:
What is Human resources?
An average Igbo man beats a yoruba man hands down.

Statistic

YORUBA
Richest yoruba men
1) $500
2) $400
3) $350
4) $250
5) $150
poorest yoruba men
1) $0.1
2) $0.3
3) $0.5
4) $0.7
5) $0.9


HAUSAS.

Richest hausa men
1) $700
2) $250
3) $130
4) $40
5) $10
poorest hausa men
1) $0.01
2) $0.01
3) $0.01
4) $0.02
5) $0.02

IGBO


Richest igbo men
1) $395
2) $393
3) $386
4) $384
5) $381
poorest igbo men
1) $1.5
2) $1.5
3) $1.5
4) $1.5
5) $1.6


As an example between the average Hausa community where one man will be too rich while others are extremely poor, compared to the Igbo community where there is high competiton.


Rather for an Igbo man to leave a $700 for a single man to have it all while the other is poor, they rather share it $350-$350 (50/50). So none will be poor.

Nigerians are funny, so we should just accept these statistics if yours because you are what exactly?
Statistical lord? Lol

124mumsy:
islam is just too mechanical and grude

Guy instead of you to inquire,read and learn of what divorce three times means in islam you and the nicompoo you quote they show ignorance on nairaland. I dont have the time to type much otherwise 1, I for clear your doubts on how crude your faith really is, secondly it dos nt make any difference clearing ur doubt

maxiuc:


Unless they stop this hijab wearing
Because sometimes they odour oozing out from that hijab can pursue potential husbands

They should be plain

And be allowed to mingle around openly

Lol he taught she is a kritain girl whom are mostly identified with smelly pussy. Infact its a miracle to see one of your ladies without a amonia/rotten egg like smelly pussy. I swear na d main thing were pursue me from your ladies be that. Anyway thank God they are now learning from us on how to wash their stuff after urination and sex

The might not be strictly drscribed as sect but groups or associations which might or might not be under a sect. That been said all forms of group or association is discouraged within the muslim ummah. Either its mssn oh or nasfat and the rest, this is what I know and understand from the explanation of a noble sheikh of sunna I trust. Mal abdulrahman abdulrauf abu naseer (may Allah guide him further) . Allah knows best

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leathalbeast:
so when you quoted me did you find any insults in my sentences? or you can sadly no longer deduce insults from questions? is a pity because your educational system is going downhill and people like you are a testimony to that.

the truth hurts and sadly the truth about you is that you are unschooled and that's a fact.

Another insult...I give up

leathalbeast:
LMAO an unwanted king that's trying to enthrone himself hahahaha. oga tell me o, has Nigeria being a supposed giant prevented my country Ghana from going to the IMF?

has it prevented your nation Nigeria from getting aids from danida, usaid, China?

or is it because of Nigeria that the Gambia, Ivory Coast, Liberia, Mali and Sierra Leone wars ended?

dude, your country isn't that relevant, you just like to feel important.
copy dat!

This guy is serously pained.
Am only wondering the reason why.all youve been spewing are insts from one insult to another. Is it so difficult to make a point without the insults. If I may ask, how old are you?? Cuz u really sound childish

Megatrix:
The judge is just joking. How can the sureties be held responsible for his inability to appear when everybody knows how and why he disappeared? The military is responsible for his disappearance. This judgement will not stand on appeal

Whose the everybody?..ipobs?..joker
The heroic judge is now a judge acting by a script. Pathetic people

B

modath:
No virtue / value in modesty anymore..

I tell you. Our brains are officially messed up. The next generation might see homosexuality as the next real thing. Na small small eday start

OKorowanta:
Dis buhari no go ever get sense.
Must all d appointees be bearing Hausa or Moslem names?
Abdul dis! Abdul dat!
One sided mofo!
No wonder Agbakoba dey carry dem go court.

Mr man,that guy is a middle beltan, ebira man from kogi state north central probably from ajaokuta local govt. Do you expect a chukwuma or emeka be given that position?
How many abduls or ibrahim or haruna have been given leadership appointment in eastern nigeria, yet you have vice chancellors of northern universities, federal directors with igbo names and Christians heading institutions in muslim dominated areas in the presence of qualified indigenous people. Smh

Front page material.
Mod should do the needfull. We rather talk talk than war war

aljazirahnews:
www.nairaland.com/attachments/6051269_hari_jpeg1f432c9c7a3ec67cd5f89294bed9d44d



https://www.thecable.ng/patience-jonathan-buhari-tell-magu-leave-alone-trump-didnt-go-obamas-wife

Obama,s wife wasn't a thief like you

bpalace:
You should appreciate ppl with humility, that your doctor sorts for further information on ur condition means he cares and sorts for the best option in ur management...
Nothing prevents him from giving you anything he likes... He is your doctor not a God, even consultants have look ins and seek for opinions when managing patients

Hmmm anyway there are always good people in the midst of un professionals, you seem to be one of them, my reactions are as a result of experience. I have lost a friend/ colleague and a neighbour due to nigerian doctors negligence. imagine someone with liver cancer but was diagnosed with ulcer. Its terrible

In 2012, the Minister of Aviation, Mrs. Stella Oduah, sacked eight general managers at the Federal Airports Authority of Nigeria (FAAN), six of whom were Yoruba.

Shortly after that, Stella Oduah from the South East employed 75 workers, 40 of whom were from the Southeast, her geo-political zone.

At the Nigerian Airspace Management Agency (NAMA), another agency under the minister, she recruited about 107 workers, with 68 per cent hailing from the Southeast.

Stella Oduah minister sacked the Rector of the Nigerian College of Aviation Technology, Zaria, Captain Adebayo Araba and replaced him with Captain Chinyere Kalu from the Southeast.

===

When all these were going on, under Goodluck Azikwe Jonathan, the Yoruba did not call Igbo "cows" and "animals". I don't remember anyone organizing a Radio to call for the dissolution of Nigeria during that time. Of course, IPOB was silent, Ben Akabueze, Emeka Anyaoku, Pat Utomi and other Igbo leaders of thought did not remember "Igbo marginalization" during that period.

This is just to remind us all that, marginalization is only a song for the elites. They beat the drum louder when they are no longer part of the main "chop-chop" cabinet.
And the pathetic populace who are suppose to reason are deceived by python delicacies like nnamdi kanu,
I am not amazed, as a typical ipob wants to get all otherwise he is been marginalised. He either dominates or he becomes marginalised. Thats the prison they have created for themselves.
When okonjo iweala was not only the minister of finance but the supervising minister of the economy (an igbo woman), the master barawo Diezeni madueke was the minister of petroleum,SLS a hausa man was removed from the cbn and guess who was the next cbn governor EMefiele (another igbo man) iherijika before gej was forced to retire him to prevent caos in the army(another igbo man), the shameless thief stella odua who tried to force fly Emirate to change its destination from Kano to Enugu or live the country despite the fact that most od it business flight customers are from kano (another igbo person /bigot) not forgetting that the second largest ethnic group in the country (the yorubas) where completely ignored during the clueless one administration, the prevalence of bombs in northern nigeria, deaths tens of thousands Yet no body was crying gej hates us,he is our sworn enemy,he is trying to kill us,we want our own country, we have been marginalised.
Hmm igbos should know they cant eat their cake and have it. They are not the only tribe in the country and the world does not and will not rotate around them neither is nigeria or its citizens.
They better learn to live and let live in peace or they learn to live and be hated by all.

In 2012, the Minister of Aviation, Mrs. Stella Oduah, sacked eight general managers at the Federal Airports Authority of Nigeria (FAAN), six of whom were Yoruba.

Shortly after that, Stella Oduah from the South East employed 75 workers, 40 of whom were from the Southeast, her geo-political zone.

At the Nigerian Airspace Management Agency (NAMA), another agency under the minister, she recruited about 107 workers, with 68 per cent hailing from the Southeast.

Stella Oduah minister sacked the Rector of the Nigerian College of Aviation Technology, Zaria, Captain Adebayo Araba and replaced him with Captain Chinyere Kalu from the Southeast.

===

When all these were going on, under Goodluck Azikwe Jonathan, the Yoruba did not call Igbo "cows" and "animals". I don't remember anyone organizing a Radio to call for the dissolution of Nigeria during that time. Of course, IPOB was silent, Ben Akabueze, Emeka Anyaoku, Pat Utomi and other Igbo leaders of thought did not remember "Igbo marginalization" during that period.

This is just to remind us all that, marginalization is only a song for the elites. They beat the drum louder when they are no longer part of the main "chop-chop" cabinet.
And the pathetic populace who are suppose to reason are deceived by python delicacies like nnamdi kanu,
I am not amazed, as a typical ipob wants to get all otherwise he is been marigalised. He either dominates or he becomes marginalised. Thats the prison they have created for themselves.
When okonjo iweala was not only the minister of finance but the supervising minister of the economy (an igbo woman), they master barawo Diezeni madueke was the minister of petroleum,SLS a hausa man was removed from the cbn and guess who was the next cbn governor EMefiele (another igbo man) iherijika before gej was forced to retire him to prevent caos in the army(another igbo man), the shameless thief stella odua who tried to force fly emirate that wanted to make kano state their destination due to the number of business flight customers in the state to either use enugu or leave the country (another igbo person) not forgetting that the lsecond largest ethnic group in the country (the yorubas) where completely ignored during the clueless one administration, the prevalence of bombs in northern nigeria Yet no body was crying gej hates us,he is our sworn enemy,we want our own country, we have been marginalised.
Hmm igbos should know they cant eat their cake and have it. They are not the only tribe in the country and the world does not and will not rotate around them neither is nigeria or its citizens.
They better learn to live and let live in peace or they learn to live and be hated by all.

Lol..isis dun say na dem oh...honestly think those people are paid to cast a bad name to islam

Omeokachie:
His hatred for the Igbo runs very deep in his veins.


No matter how hard he tries to mask it, it always has a way of revealing itself, both in his utterances and actions.

Lol..igbos are just funny people. You mean your hatred for the man runs deep into your ipob infested brains and veins.
Anyway even if he hates igbo it doesn't matter. You cant criticise me for hating a ritualist or a thief or a self centered individual whose only dream is to dominate others, an individual that lacks respect for other people way of life. They have characters that are to be hated. Come 2019. We will still vote for him and he is going to win. Make wuna kuku shit for body

Tchinaidi:
The same idiats that were happy with the military invasion in the southeast and praised the Nigerian army for killing unarmed civilians and even believed the lies told by them despite the numerous evidence posted online are here ranting on an unstantiated Information with no evidence.It is completely clear there that this biased mofos are psychologically constrained to think through thier bitterness and spite for Ndigbo.Useless bunch zoogerians

No worry, when the war youre looking for starts. You might probably be death to know you lost the second time. Cuz thats what you are from politics to diplomacy to economy you guyz are perpetual losers

Omofunaab2:
You are just wasting your time with that unstable woman.

You know ipod miscreants are peace loving and have never resorted to violence.. . Even the police man that was reported to have been killed in a police station by ipob miscreants is Ogbomosho propanganda.

The picture of the Yoruba mosque destroyed in Aba too na propaganda from ewedugerian while the video of some miscreants looking for Northerners to kill was fabricated and released from Sambisa forest by Shekau

See the level of your intelligence abi na sfu.pidity sef.. everything against the ipob is a propaganda isnt it.? But genocide was committed against you people abi.
Smh

What do you expect when you control millions and you happen to be in a relation with a biafran called anichebe...

Ngene44:
Nobody is a monopoly of violence

I would soon remind you of this

Yay FP tins