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Afodot0022:
Good day naira landers and happy holiday. I am writing this base on the challenge am having in my marriage. Some of you might have known little about the issue i had previously cos i brought it to the forum.

It happened that my wife was having emotional affairs with another man which i knew through her chat.

Though family and pastor were involved and have tried everything to resolve the issue between us. I have decided to forgive and forget and also give her a second chance even though it was a difficult situation for me, I decided to let go cos of my two daughters and don't want them to share from a broken home.

Now the issue am still having is that my wife has promise to change and be a better person and also promise to cut any emotional tile with the man. But I wasn't confident with that, so i told her to block this guy on all social media and also delete his number so there wont be any communication between them cos i sense if they both keep in touch, they might go back to what they were doing before. She got angry when i told her this and she said she can't block the guy cos they have been friends for many years even before she got married to me.

She started dating the guy last year under my roof and her reason was that i pushed her to do such act cos i wasn't giving her enough attention and love which is totally a lie.

So house, pls just let me know if i did wrong by telling her to block the guy or i over did it. I just felt blocking him will be best for us cos i noticed my wife is not fully detached from this guy emotionally.

Pls if you are in my shoes, what will you do house. If you want to get more insight about what transpired, you can go to my details nairaland.

Pls mod, help me by doing the needful.

OH ALLAH, TAKE MY SOUL BEFORE I BECOME THIS WEAK. AMEEN

Ballzproblem2:
if only north takes education serious,they would have been breaking more records like this ,but no ,they will rather use their brain and fill it with jargons from Koran , anyways kudos to her

That Quran is why we are and we will keep controlling your affairs, that Quran is the reason she is smart, that quran that you mock will be the reason you burn in hell

Just 15million....Kai Nigerians are finished, are we will sign so documents that will make them free forever after which we will realize the damaged done is actually worth 15 billion euros.
If this was a western territory the compensation for half the damaged would be in billions.
It's unfortunate.

God1000:
Vladimir Putin is finally coming to his senses, I said it before that Putin more than anyone else wants this war to end.

His ego won't just let him call for peace talks, he grossly underestimated Ukraine and the resolve of the west.

Russia's invasion of Ukraine is a complete fiasco and strategic disaster, Putin should just give up his imperial ambition and colonial fantasies

He can't singlehandedly redraw world map in this 21st century, Putin's harmful expansionism must not be allowed to happen

I don't understand why some nigerians continue praising such a psychopath, mass murderer and war criminal who has committed atrocities and crimes against humanity.

No sane and reasonable person will support such egregious individual.

Anybody in support of Putin's barbarism doesn't have the moral compass to speak against boko haram and bandits who are causing havoc and mayhem everywhere in Nigeria.

This man has made Russia a laughingstock and mockery among nations of the world, he has become a global pariah too.

CIA agent in Nigeria I greet you

And Qatar gave us the best...what a game

Jennyclay:
Haba! Kilode! A year is too early for him to start a new relationship. How are we sure he didn't kill his wife just to marry another woman... You know you men can't be trusted.
Atleast 3-5years is okay before he can move on

Some people and there short foresight...
He is over due for marriage.

[quote author=Racoon post=118453587][/quote]You will never learn....and they will say peter obi is a Nigerian project not and Igbo project..lol
Who is deceiving who..you can't tolerate small criticism and you expect to Winn elections..let's see if your six states will give him the presidency. Smh.
This was the similar way your criminal military officers killed the northern elites in the 60s and claimed it was a Nigerian coup and not an Igbo coup.
But Nigerians are wiser.
Gra gra no go give you presidency. It's not by Nzobu Nzobu..as soludo said...he has said nothing but the truth.

[quote author=Racoon post=118453587][/quote]You will never learn....and they will say peter obi is a Nigerian project not and Igbo project..lol
Who is deceiving who..you can't tolerate small criticism and you expect to Winn elections..let's see if your six states will give him the presidency. Smh.
This was the similar way your criminal military officers killed the northern elites in the 60s and claimed it was a Nigerian coup and not an Igbo coup.
But Nigerians are wiser.
Gra gra no go give you presidency. It's not by Nzobu Nzobu..as soludo said...he has said nothing but the truth.

So because obi mother burial make new for oba, every body want make him own to turn to another news.
If no be stupidity na for burial you want use money make news

I advise you not to have sex, you've tried already and you jus have two more years to be done with school, be more patient and if he truly loves you he will wait and even encourage you.
Secondly he can marry you even while in school.
I married my wife when she was at 400lvl from the University and she is running her PHD today at ABU...me I am still hustling making money with my degree and I don't plan to go back to school.
Secondly Alot of blessings come with been a virgin...note that the instant you have premarital sex with him, you will become enslaved to him and you wi always crave for more....
Lastly at 19 you should be a virgin and remain so till marriage.
stay away and finish the good journey you've started.

Comradepreneur:
I can't be the one to lodge a complaint to the police station, since my dad is quite indifferent on the matter.

As for making life miserable for him, I've been giving him cold shoulders ever since I personally caught him the first time.

But it seems like it's not enough.

Also, to add, the door nob to my sister's room is faulty, so the door can't be locked. I have 5 sisters and they share 2 rooms. But he always goes for the younger ones

I swear you're pathetic..
This guy just spoil my mind for this early morning

Comradepreneur:
This is a huge misconception with some people. I guess it has to do with the literacy of such people. But in our family, we don't condone family marriage.

And also, God forbid it gets to the stage of him impregnating one of my sisters

You're too weak to be a Muslim....."idiat"
I no get advise to give " kaword" like you..
Pathetic....at this age you don't know what to do...kai

[quote author=Naijatask post=118183657]Thank you for opening my eyes on how serious this situation needs to be taken.

I'm honestly more disappointed in myself more than my parents

Acidosis:
The "good" thing is that Natasha and Yahaya Bello are from Kogi Central. And this "tiny" region (with the least population and land mass) is responsible for 53% of crimes in the entire Kogi state.

This should worry you more, don't you think?

wow. least population and land mass
Igala man spotted...I just don't understand your hatred for the ebiras...it is terrible and bavkward

Ordinarily we will all celebrate the achievement of a fellow Nigerian, but the children of hate will use it to insult other Nigerians of different tribal inclination thus..we will just look and pass

Missing results for two years might not be seen..I advise him to register those courses as carry over and move on..the ealier the better otherwise he will end up spilling due to them and still right them as carry over at the end of the day.

Fiscabally:
Just downloaded all via snaptube,
Thanks

How pls, do I need to download any app

Rebuke:
One of my favourite set of people. They are very real and loyal but can be very stubborn, even their girls.....good lovers and very beautiful.

They are always looking gentle until yhu step on their toes .....dem go give yhu hot hot


Very protective and good to have as friends. Once yhu hear Adai, ah, yhu don belong be that.

They will fight for yhu like say yhu be their real blood. I love them as friends. Very jovial and intelligent too , once yhu are their friends, they're always there for yhu.

You're quite right....they are stubborn, but they are true to their words and are very loyal to their friends

noble2faith:
Do you even know what Anglicisation is?
You are not vast in English phonetics. There is no "gb" sound in English phonetics. Nothing like anglicisation here.

Had it been the former was the correct one, you would have been right to say it's anglicisation.

Even me confuse for the guy matter

Emperordynasty:
Very wise statement..
Colonialism is not our problem almost every nation was once colonized

Africa must rise from this blame game and victim mentality..
Asia was colonized by the west yet today they are competing in terms of development

But africa keeps crying and blaming when infact we were only sold as slaves because our own ancestors sold their own brothers and sisters...
We should determine to move forward in our journey for progress instead of blaming people for our backwardness



The loss the Igbos experienced in the Biafra war can not be recovered but we must move forward

Also I did my research into the war and discovered that the Igbos were the first to kill a westerner Governor and the northen prime minister ...so how come no one blames kaduna nzweogu and his gang for starting the war by killing the other tribe leaders of Nigeria ..Igbos drew the first blood so why do they always cry victim when we talk about their defeat at the civil war..should the northerners and southerners remain quite when their leaders were murderd in Nigeria


Please I’m not against Igbos.i love and admire them as my hometown was influenced greatly by the Igbos ...genuinely I am for a one Nigeria...
But I can’t understand why the descendant of the Igbos especially the youth ignore the part of history that they started the civil war and drew first blood and installed their brother as head of state.in the person of Aguyi Ironsi.. it was after ironsi was killed in retaliation that Ojukwu declared A Biafra state..why do Igbos ignore these part of the war and claim victim all the time

That's just who they are...the Averagey ibo man has a way of making everybody hate him. Even if you tried your best to see things from their end..they end up succeeding in turning you into their enemies.
As a northern minority growing up I use to wonder why the HAUSAs have no trust for the Igbos I felt bad for that and I felt they are been treated unfairly....until I met the Igbos as an adult, they grudgingly forced me to just be like the HAUSAs.
Note an entire nation cannot be all bad, thus we will surely have good people among every tribe no matter how Terrible they are...but you see these my easterners.....you go count 20 before you see one. The worst part of it is that they are proud of it....

OriOko88:
That mumu Harry will never be king. D fool went to marry an akata americana who re known to be uncultured. Imagine that merkle becoming the princess of Wales with her witchy face . The uncultured black girl has negatively influenced Harry that he now keeps beard . No royal male in d history of over 1000 year old British monarchy has kept beard like Harry. Effect of Akata babe influence

Black girl, what was the purpose of that.
We ourselves have accepted that we are a lesser race, colonialism has done a good job against the black race...and we are yet to heal from the sickness.....it's unfortunate

Rrchrd:
She could be a witch as they tag her
Witches exits most of them are in the villages manipulating people in the cities
She can even stop her daughter from been marry even she married she may tight her womb

Nigerian film dun finish this one

Corridon:
Majority of Nigerians are wicked. That's the fact.

Nope.. majority of south easterners are wicked..this shit won't happen in north.
Infact touch a woman especially a married woman and a mother ...your ghost will give the story.
The respect we have for women here is great and we won't try this nonsense.
As long as you don't insult our beliefs and faith.

robinso01:
I wonder why everything about your religion is violence. Look at what you wrote and ask yourself if that's how a responsible and reasonable person will write. By their comments you shall know them.

You think I should be apologetic about my believes..
Lol
Who cares what you think, what can one do to some one who is blind,deaf and has a heart that is diseased.
If you feel telling you to let Islam and Muslims be is violent, or asking you to let us practice our faith in peace though we are not forcing you in any way to join us is violent?
Then violent it is......your opinion is as usefully as the poo of a rabid dog...infact it is even far worse

robinso01:
But it was normal when the court allowed the use of hijab, but not normal for crs to be done in exam Abi?

Did any one ask christians to were hijab. Is it that some of you all suffer from mental degredation or what, the questioned should have been made for christians and we would have care less.
Imagine asking christians about Islamic history would that have made any sense to you.??
Fyi hijab is an integral part of Islamic faith, meant for Muslims only why are you guys sooo desperately senile about this.
It's like telling us not to go to mosque for prayers....would that ever be possible
This is really annoying!!
Smh

darling2222:
Smiles

I also smiled

Truth be said, yahaya Bello has done well.
If you know the history of development is kogi state or north central as a whole.. you will know GYB has done well, the north central has not been lucky with working governor's like north west, south south and south west......
Just compare kogi to Benue,nasarawa, Niger,plateau excluding the FCT then you would understand my point.
The only region worse than north central is probably northeast if you take zulum out of the equation then probably south east too.. nothing day happen for that side too apart from beheading of law makers, pregnant women, children and their own inlaws.
Fyi I have been to most states in Nigeria except north eastern states and cross river.
Weldone GYB...you try abeg

Faraday1997:
Let's stop creating problems please.... Come on this is just another yard stick to withdraw back.... Just know that anyhow you wish to please human they will always fault you. I see nothing in that prayer mat. I have seen materials donated to mosque with logo of the donator.... But before it will be use the logo will be removed... And likewise that mat too it was sewn on it. Come on let's leave this religious issue aside, this laws have been practiced decades ago... We are in a changed world..... Come on think along and don't bring excuses to spoil good issues. If only we can stop applying all this religion issues on everything we do and see and rather apply what will benefit everyone and not just your section it will be of a great impact. Be wise

If you want to lead Muslims then you need to understand their way of life, your opinion here truly doesn't matter, we ain't going to change our ways because of wan obi, it's either he gets us or we mobilise and get peythat understand us, remember na only Hausa Muslims they give wuna headache like this, if you play with Islam other Muslims from other tribes across the 200+ tribes in Nigeria will mobilise and your Obidient future will already be decided by us

Bomboiy:
I went through their most of the accounts and I found out that most of them are APC members. Real Muslims don't have any problem with that.


Tinubu urchins are doing the most.

You better learn, there is no crime in learning,
Muslims don't pray anywhere with animate pictures, we even avoiding wearing clothes with pictures and here is some one sharing prayer mat with pictures..lol
You better learn or you forget about national politics and stay at your regional level

SweetSauce:
I think it's better for Muslims to travel to countries where they are more accepted and can do whatever they like, Christians travel to Muslim countries and abide by their rules, reverse is the case for Muslims, always wanting to bring their own rules into another man's territory, why is it always like that, the things you guys do ehhnn, Christians can't even try half of it, you have Iraq, Pakistan, UAE, Saudi Arabia, Turkey and a whole lot of others but it's Christian dominated countries you want but you are never ready to abide by their laws, on top of that, still force yours on them, like how
Who does that

It's their country they've got the right to dress as their faith dictates in their own country, they didn't force anything on you or anybody, why should you force your idealogy of unclothedness on them,
Such level of hypocrisy the same country that celebrates homos and every form of vices anyone can think off, feels uncomfortable with people wearing a head covering...
Anyway we are not surprised...it's expected but the truth will always defeat falsehood no matter how long it takes, even if the enemies hate it.

Kobojunkie:
Simple!

Anything to make Muslims uncomfortable is welcomed by you....this we know about you people

Kobojunkie:
The ruling makes sense to me. Common Law, so long as it does not violate human right, shouldn't have to bend for religious reasons. Instead, religious individuals ought to bend to comply with common Law abeg!

The day we allow crxtans rule us, this is the way they would trample on our faith..it's in their blood. They've done that severally across history..it's not a new thing