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Quinolone:
Listen brother, she is using you for the attention you give her. Right now, she holds the power in the relationship, and you can't have that now can you

What to do -

1: Don't get angry at her, its not worth it

2: Talk to other girls and have sex with them, if she gets angry, don't say anything,other than you have needs and you need to do something about them

3: If she threatens to leave or is angry or jealous, let her leave, this is a power move, and its extremely manipulative

4: When she sees that you don't care less, she would come back, this time, you have the power and can set the rules

Note: Don't rub it in her face that you are seeing other girls, it will only make you look childish

Remember a relationship is a two way thing, if you want to be intimate with her and she doesn't want that, you're free to go, and so is she, you guys simply don't fufuil each other's needs


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Dude you are so dumb.

Op keep her and wife her. You want to continue fornicating ehn. You better receive sense.

Ajengogo:
We have been married for almost 10 years now, with 5 kids. The last child is over 2 years old. My wife used to indulge me with sex a lot. And I enjoyed every bit of it. Sometimes I indulge her a lot too. I do sometimes resist it. Same with her too. Such has been our sex life so far; which has been good enough.

However, I started noticing a lot of reluctance in her each time I approach her for sex more than a year ago now. And it is getting worse these days. Each time I demand an explanation from her, she either complains of tiredness, headache or that she is seeing her period. The surprising thing to me now is that each time I touch her breast she cringes like a person that just stepped on naked electrical wire. Not to even mention several weird nightmares I experience each time I force my way, which even against my personal principles and ethics.

Note that I don't do sex like on a daily basis. Once or twice in a week is ok for me

Our sex life is dying. I don't know what becomes of this marriage without sex. And I do really love her. Any good suggestions will be appreciated

You need to do family planning.

5 kids in 10 years is too much.

That's why she's running away.

What of ANN? Fela Durotoye

Calm down. She did nothing wrong.

She said her husband never did that and that it's a planned work.
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Miss Binta Maria Aleogo, from Etsako Local Government area of Edo State, is the best graduating Masters student of the University of Benin, 2015/2016 academic session. In this interview with Vanguard Learning, Binta who studied Biochemistry reveals her secrets to success; God and self competition, as well as the challenges she faced as she rose to 5.0 CGPA. By Tare Youdeowei

GETTING first class
It was all God, because if you compare the way I read to the way others read, I don’t think it is any match at all. It was purely by the grace of God, I have always believed in the spirit of excellence in whatever I do. I always want to be the best, if there is a best grade, that’s what I want. It is that drive for excellence that has always propelled me to success. God’s grace that’s how I made best student and also made a first class.

Challenges
I lived off-campus throughout my four years. The first challenge was electricity. Where there is no light at night, it makes reading at night difficult because you have to rely on candles or rechargeable lamps, especially if you don’t have money to run your generator. Friends were not a distraction because I didn’t have so many friends. There are also some lecturers that require you to go the extra mile in preparing for their courses in exam, maybe because of the way they teach, they come to class and they don’t teach well or they give you scanty materials and expect you to go and do more research.

Major motivation
That aside, talking about the rush; sometimes they rush our classes, they rush our test or even rush our exams. Those were the few challenges I encountered. To overcome is to remember what brought you there in the first place.

Carryovers
There was one carryover, it was a missing script. I was in 100 level then, I was naive and did not know my way around, I tried to pursue it to get the grade out, but it didn’t work, so I just made up my mind to write the course again. It was not really that I failed the course.

Support system
God is my major motivation. You know that drive or the pursuit for excellence, the need to always be the best? Know that it is not about competing with anybody, you are competing with yourself. And of course friends, well wishers and my family; you know that feeling of not wanting to fail them or you wanting to always make them proud? They are the propellants of my success.

Msc. 5.0 CGPA
It was different from the B.Sc, you can’t compare the level of input that it requires to MS.c, it is really demanding. We had to research on all courses that we were taught; the questions asked were problem solving questions, you have to think and it is not just about memorizing the note given in class, you have to go the extra mile. First semester exams went well. By second semester, I was planning for a scholarship abroad so it was really taking a lot of my time and attention; I was so distracted that I almost lost interest in continuing the program in second semester. I started reading for my exams few weeks before the exams started. What really amazed me the most was that I was able to complete all the bulky courses within a short period of time, and still do well. It was just God.

What the future holds
I have always had a heart for children and women. I have always looked forward to having a facility, for lack of a better word. I don’t want to call it a foundation because it is going to be bigger than a foundation. It is going to be a facility with several branches all over the world that would cater for women and children; women who have been abused physically, emotionally and otherwise. Women who are not empowered financially and children, who have been abused, maybe sent to hawk on the street, maybe orphans who can’t take care of themselves. The facility will empower them, train the children free of charge through school, there will be several jobs for them and several means of empowerment for them. There are other goals and dreams that I have as regard my career and other areas of my life, they are so numerous but let’s just stick to that one.

Ph.D
Yes of course! In fact, as an academician you cannot afford to be stagnant. If you remain stagnant, you won’t be relevant in the society. You have to keep improving yourself. I look forward to doing my PhD as soon as possible but not in Nigeria, maybe Canada or America.

For students
For the youths who are aspiring to be in school, don’t lose hope. Keep your eyes on excellence, which should be your focus. Don’t see it as competition with others, in fact, the person you should be competing with is who you were before. Strive to be a better you and the sky would be your starting point.

Source: http://www.vanguardngr.com/2017/01/unibens-best-graduating-student-gives-tips-academic-success/

Cc Seun, Lalastica

murmee:
Handsome4real, I also want to totally disagree with you. Most children of that age would have panicked and start crying. If the action on that little boy was not outstandingly significant, CNN would not broadcast it. That boy is a gifted child and deserves to be celebrated and that is what CNN has done!

You are wrong. Remember that they are also twins and they are wired to look after each other. Trust me kids protect their siblings by default. You just see yourself as inferior cos you are black and African.

timidapsin:
Thank God the kid had the sense to rescue his brother, if it were to be an African kid

I totally disagree with you. Any other kid will do the same because survival is a human instinct.

Lol...very funny

Mark Zuckerberg is the owner of Instagram, WhatsApp and Facebook and some months back he introduced some similar features of Snapchat on Instagram. I updated my Facebook Messenger along side other apps today and after a while I saw a notification on my phone from Facebook Messenger, only for me to open it and see that the new update has new features. I went through the new features and discovered that it has been upgraded to enable its users take pictures, make videos and add different filters similar with Snapchat features. Despite these new features, one can still chat, call and make video calls on Facebook Messenger. Pictures below.

Pic 1 is Facebook Messenger New Update look.
Pic 2 is Facebook New Feature.
Pic 3 is Snapchat
The remaining pics are features of the new updated Facebook Messenger.

Cc Lalastica, Seun.

Lilimax:
@ Maclatunji- All these question have been asked severally and it does not stop the fact that mavros are growing
Let's wait till January 14th for the next line of action

Common sense is not common.

ELIJAHARMONICA:
Garri with mango
I hated myself that day

I've had this countless times and nothing went wrong.

marshalcarter:
buns nd gulder

Funniest combination

Ifakiland:
U went to spend d nite in his house, he forked u and u decided to pray in d mrn after?? Menh God is truly not a man o!

So cos she had sex she shouln't pray again? Are you God?

SamuelAnyawu:
I really miss my Secondary School. Airforce Secondary School Makurdi, Benue State



Discipline at its peak

I attended Airforce Secondary School Ikeja

Just once course on the programme and she's showing off. Nawa oh.

lagosflexcamp:
smh just listen to yourself. You be amateur sha that haven't understood how the mind of an average naija girl works. Look, if you have a gf and you are not bang**g her right, trust me, she will never appreciate you nor respect you as her man. If you like buy the entire world for her, her cold and cheating attitude won't change towards you. She will always *cheat* on u with another sharp guy.

Most naija girls don't want love( well they don't even understand what love means). What they mostly want is goodsex, your money and your bad boy behavior. I really pity amateurish guys like you sha. Na una dey show our naija girls love pass and na bad boys dey enjoy una girlfriends pass. lol

Op take heart sha bcuz na you fuckup, so don't blame ur gal

I agree with you and is majorly common with young girls below 21 years . That was how I dated a girl for 4 years without touching her. When I finally wanted to do, I met a wide pit.... . She said she did it in the third year of us dating . Well, me I made sure I knacked ;Dthe hell outta her till she pleaded she was tired n begging me to stop . She had to gave me a handjob for me to cum. After that we broke up in the next 2 months cos she was still playing games.

Ever since then, I make sure I get in between their legs. Even if I dont enter, they gotta make me cum except she's really a girl who doesnt do dick game.

It is only a stupid girlfriend or wife that will get angry or feel neglected because her man wants to watch just a 90mins match. Instead of her to join him she was claiming her way. She aint ready and still needs to learn more.

mizzbouqui:
Hmm but why are some guys so obsessed about football, aww how I love my boo #team no football# but they use video games to am, anyways my advice is that since you are so addicted to football and ur mama sef can't take it from you as you've said, I think the problem here is that you go out to watch your match, why don't you watch it with her in your room abi aw much is Gotv or Dstv, she is feeling neglected you can watch your match inside your house with her, she will adapt dont worry by her actions she cant afford to lose you

It is only a stupid girlfriend or wife that will get angry or feel neglected because her man wants to watch just a 90mins match. Instead of her to join him she was claiming her way. She aint ready and still needs to learn more.

Mouth wide open after seeing this.

It's only teenagers of niw that will support post ume. Post ume should ot be scrapped. It has helped admission compared to when there was no post ume. WHen its scrapped it will encourage corruption more than it is now cos there will be different b athces based on connection or moeny payed. Pist ume reduced this as only those eho pawssed get admission. Also most schools are strict compared to jam exam. I wrote post ume in 2008.

That's my alma mata. I'm not surprised that they decided to conduct post utme. All the best to all prospective post utmites.

Blood speaks.

Where is the drainage or guttter please cos small time the road will get bad?

Very funny.

Yuneehk:
Ehn? So what do we do now?

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Enugu is the prettiest followed by Lagos.

Yuneehk:
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Your email address aint correct as the mail I sent did not deliver.