₦airaland Forum

Vijuchoco:
Chai! It's really painful when you realize you can no longer right your wrong. I feel for her..

I have a similar regret

look forward and forget the past. Although you can learn from it.

One mudu of maize flour now is 1000, 1200, 1400 due to closing of borders with Niger. The poor will suffer this.

Most arrange marriage, u find the girls to be very decent, most are virgins with no experience. I personally have no problem with that provided our character align with each other. Less billing.

Problem is the moment you went to claim the dead body, na billing dey go take kill person. Imagine saying you must pay for a failed operation which leads to dead b4 u can collect the dead body. Not to talk of burial arrangements.

Fear of the future. Lack of emotion (stone cold). Perfectionist. Procrastination. Instant reward (dopamine craving). Fear of failure. Though am working on them gradually. And am seeing good results.

When you have the combo of Perfectionist crumble with sever procrastination. Imagine procrastinating opening your mentions until it reaches 500, not clicking on likes until it reaches like 300 something.

Epinigirls:
How is "hating corruption" a bad habit?

In a corrupt system like Nigeria, that can automatically turns out to be a bad habit.

superintendents:
been introvert...I hate it...But is nature sha.....


we moooooove..

Any natural problem has an artificial solution. Work on it if you don't like it.

jesusjnr2020:
Although nudity not doubt played a significant role in the rise of sexual lust to its present alarming level in the society, which calls for serious concern, the fact that there was 0% sexual lust at the point there was 100% nudity (in the beginning), proves this is not just about nudity but has to do with the mentality.

Genesis 2:25 (KJV)

And they were both naked, the man and his wife, and were not ashamed.

That's why in some societies where the people were usually partly or totally nude as it was in the beginning, there were yet hardly cases of rapes and sexual abuses being recorded or reported there, because it's not necessarily about nudity but the mentality, as the level of sexual lust in such societies had not spiralled to the point where it is out of control.

However in some societies where people were usually fully clothed, such atrocities were yet more frequent, to prove it is not necessarily about nudity but the mentality, as the average level of sexual lust in such societies is higher, hence the higher rates of such sexually related atrocities in the society.

Imagine where an adult will rape a baby or little child.

It would be most absurd to blame nudity for such madness.

It's the mentality. Sexual lust has risen to the point where it's makes people lose their sanity and humanity, and drives them (crazy) to do the most unimaginable and despicable things, which they often regret after the deed has been done.

So that should be our major concern if we really want to address this societal menace - how to reduce the level of sexual lust in the society.

To do this, those responsible for the growth, multiplication, and spread of lust in the society were going to have a major role to play.

[b]They must henceforth desist from such activities which contribute to the rise of the level of sexual lust and moral decadence in the society, since it is causing much more damage than whatever good they may think they were profiting from it.

This includes those in the porn industry, those in music industry who deliberately promote sexual lust via their music(both audio and videos), those in the movie industry who do same via their movies, those who dress sexy to seduce others, also those who glorify sexual lust by pinning the blame of sexually related atrocities, as rapes, on nudity instead those who commit such atrocious acts etc.

If they however choose to persist, whenever they get to hear the heartbreaking news of such atrocities being commited these days, as when a little child or baby was being raped or sexually abused etc., they should feel very proud of themselves and pat themselves in the back for the job they've proudly done, because that is a consequence of the growth, multiplication, and spread of sexual lust which they promote.

God bless.

How can man be ashamed of his wife unclothedness.

Obyangel:
Beautiful, it's time to promote our culture and tradition. Enough of this Western/Asains culture. Truly, Yoruba Amaka

There's nothing cultural in this. Fetish and occult practices is all I see

BigDawsNet:
Let me give you a simple advice...
Right now 🇨🇦 is doing well by giving couple of people visit visa dis days... nobody knows why dey open dia border... anyway with a visit or tourist visa... You friends chances of getting a work authorization is like 3% out of 100... with is his current age.. the percentage is even low...

-He won't be able to do any work
-To even sweep ground for a resturant or wash plates... he will surely need a work card
- tell him to come with enough money so he won't get frustrated
- nobody will house him for long in canada unless his close family member are dere... so he should think abt that
- some other options to stay legal is to get married...
Finding a wife with ur Immigration status is like Finding a gold... who won marry visitor? He may be lucky sha
- aslyum is another option... tho wen the results comes out and he fail... na immediate removal straight .. if he succeed.. his consider a lucky man.. tho it's takes d grace of God because we ain't war tour country to consider for refugee...

Final advice.. let him use his house to borrow some money... den he ca travel for 3months and see how it is over dere... just selling of ur properties to migrate to Canada on visit visa no just make sense

I heard they are doing that because there's deficit/shortage in skilled labor force, like carpenters, electricians etc

How much is He intending to sell his house?

Flame333:
They've seen that the country is going down and this is what normly trigger coup, hence, the urgency to intervene in Niger Republic and push back the contagious effect on our military against this evil party called APC..

My broda, welcome to democracy

Flame333:
They've seen that the country is going down and this is what normly trigger coup, hence, the urgency to intervene in Niger Republic and push back the contagious effect on our military against this evil party called APC..

My broda, welcome to democracy

Exactly my thoughts. If Niger coup succeeded and makes the country better than it is, expect Arewa/North soldiers in collaboration with southeast soldiers to attempt the same here. Hence, the proactive move of Tinubu to stop them.

Flame333:
They've seen that the country is going down and this is what normly trigger coup, hence, the urgency to intervene in Niger Republic and push back the contagious effect on our military against this evil party called APC..

My broda, welcome to democracy

Exactly my thoughts. If Niger coup succeeded and makes the country better than it is, expect Arewa/North soldiers in collaboration with southeast soldiers to attempt the same here. Hence, the proactive move of Tinubu to stop them.

Savedday2:
What evening newspaper need is vibrators not a child.

All 9ja guys should avoid any evening newspaper because they are all out to hook you with pregnancy.

E no go better for any evening newspaper wey go try to near where I dey

how does this relate to what been discussed

0taPiaPia:
It has collapsed already. Checked the current price of production vs profit to be made and I pitied poultry farmers.. how would you invest millions in a business and be getting thousands for an extended period

most business profit margin to production cost nowadays is nothing to write home about. One have to be very smart and extra hardworking to navigate his ways in the business world.

tejumorelar:
We need to shutdown this country called Nigeria as a matter of urgency

if they shut down the country, where u want make people go ?

Because there reward system (dopamine /pleasure) is low/down after satisfying there immediate desire . Same with people who borrow money, etc. It takes someone with high (serotonin/happiness) to return things back because he's thinking of his future needs not immediate needs. Just my scientific/biological explanation.

Maybe bcuz of inheritance. Everyone wants to know his position first

hansomb:
Learn carpentry , painting, mechanic and thank me later.

barbing too

Learn carpentry , painting, mechanic and thank me later.

001Lagos:
Ilorin Kwara state that used to be Yoruba land is now being owned and controlled by the Fulani people from Sahel desert. That's something you yorubas should be ashamed of.

that not true. The governor are Yoruba and even the Emirates are now yorubanise. The emir speak more Yoruba than Oduduwa himself.

triple996:
this showdown will be very interesting. Ekpa vs kanu, UGM vs ibos

unknown gunmen terrorist vs Ipob terrorist aka peter Obi boys

Ruth1994:
See breast wey this small boy dey enjoy o. Life no balance

u are a bad girl. Had to scroll back.

VeeVeeMyLuv:
Lavishly spending and dashing out wads of pounds sterling on the streets of London in broad daylight!

These people are still very angry with you.


Do you know the damage you would have done to their society through your opulent lavishness?

That's why they proactively swung into action to prevent the damage by swiftly arresting you.

Not like Nigeria where people will be abusing naira notes in parties and clubs in so doing contributing to the high rate of inflation

when is that ?

Phoen1X:
Now that (tinubu) his friend and confidant is the nigerian president,...he has learnt from the former's $460.000 drug money saga and how to beat the UK govt and remain afloat.

lol

Puss360:
Abeg they should rest.. when they use cross, rosary and even the church premises for music video, nobody says anything...but when it comes to any relics of Islam, they will be complaining upandan... If they are not okay with the Video they shouldn't watch it....
Last I checked, we are not ruled by religion...

That because you Christian don't value your religion too much, uv turn Christianity into a joke, turn secular music to normal praise and worship songs. Especially those cele church, shaking Yash anyhow inside church.

wentroublecomes:
Really. I guess in the north coz the one I've been seeing and pricing is around 45k

yea, just sold mine 15k, which am currently regretting. It serves me well especially during coronavirus going to work.

You must be acting like mumu even if you're not mumu. Seeking forgiveness whenever you err make the marriage long lasting

Kukutenla:
You greet your king the way others choose for you because you are his slaves. Others come and shake hands with same king.
The supreme being wants you to be his sons not his slaves. Slaveholding is a crime against humanity

and the wife ?

Collinsaik:
even the bicycle no easy to maintain. One of its tyre nw goes for #4000. one tube #2500. Asuming he needs to replace the one tyre each month, substract from 25k , how much does he have left? I think He should look for some other thing to do.

True sha, because me I no dey borrow anybody my bicycle. D dey I change tyre , hmm I feel am. Plus monthly normal service. Not easy.

wentroublecomes:
How much can one get bicycle? I need it too

You can get at 12 to 15 thousand