pansophist: When it comes to romantic relationships, always go with biological reality, instead of social reality.
Biological reality would be a man marrying a woman he can take care of, is taller than and younger than her, a woman that will appreciate the experience he can give her, etc.
If you are a vulcanizer man shooting for a wealthy female banker, then you're conforming to social reality, and it hardly works.
For example, if you have 5k naira and want to feed for the whole day, it's foolish to go and eat in KFC. Buying something to cook or a roadside buka will give you more value for your money.
Let the richer women be with men that are richer than them, and you should be with a woman that in her reality, you're a catch. It's the law of relativity.
Femiwilli: I have always said it that Mrs Druggie Ebola is a fake pastor.
Look at the way she is dressed like a moslem.
When she should take every opportunity to let people know their is liberty in Jesus, instead she was to let people know that she adheres to the most hostile religion to Christianity
Now I understand how a pastor will be calling on idols She is a fake pastor in a fake church RCCG run by a fake GO Adeboye
MrPRevailer: True. Mark 10:11-12 "And he saith unto them, Whosoever shall put away his wife, and marry another, committeth adultery against her. And if a woman shall put away her husband, and be married to another, she committeth adultery."
Did your Pastor tell you that if you marry a divorced woman, you are married to Hellfire? if they didn't, please change your church
turmacs: This is one of the reasons I say education in Nigeria is nonsense.. If you're a girl, focus on hook-up, if you're a boy, focus on yahoo/ritual, that is how smart people survive and live large now....As a parent, I'll advise you to start grooming your daughters for ashewo work as early as 10, this world is very hard and they might need the skill for when things get really tough..You can start by teaching them how to unwrap condom and wear a man, how to give proper handjob, how to handle three men at once, e.tc....And as for the boys, you can start by teaching them what Nord VPN is, how to collect wire transfer from foreign countries,how to hack Facebook and Instagram, basics of BEC fraud, romance scams e.t.c.... Banking on education alone in Nigeria is a very,very risky gamble..
Most arrange marriage, u find the girls to be very decent, most are virgins with no experience. I personally have no problem with that provided our character align with each other. Less billing.
Problem is the moment you went to claim the dead body, na billing dey go take kill person. Imagine saying you must pay for a failed operation which leads to dead b4 u can collect the dead body. Not to talk of burial arrangements.
Fear of the future. Lack of emotion (stone cold). Perfectionist. Procrastination. Instant reward (dopamine craving). Fear of failure. Though am working on them gradually. And am seeing good results.
When you have the combo of Perfectionist crumble with sever procrastination. Imagine procrastinating opening your mentions until it reaches 500, not clicking on likes until it reaches like 300 something.
jesusjnr2020: Although nudity not doubt played a significant role in the rise of sexual lust to its present alarming level in the society, which calls for serious concern, the fact that there was 0% sexual lust at the point there was 100% nudity (in the beginning), proves this is not just about nudity but has to do with the mentality.
Genesis 2:25 (KJV)
And they were both naked, the man and his wife, and were not ashamed.
That's why in some societies where the people were usually partly or totally nude as it was in the beginning, there were yet hardly cases of rapes and sexual abuses being recorded or reported there, because it's not necessarily about nudity but the mentality, as the level of sexual lust in such societies had not spiralled to the point where it is out of control.
However in some societies where people were usually fully clothed, such atrocities were yet more frequent, to prove it is not necessarily about nudity but the mentality, as the average level of sexual lust in such societies is higher, hence the higher rates of such sexually related atrocities in the society.
Imagine where an adult will rape a baby or little child.
It would be most absurd to blame nudity for such madness.
It's the mentality. Sexual lust has risen to the point where it's makes people lose their sanity and humanity, and drives them (crazy) to do the most unimaginable and despicable things, which they often regret after the deed has been done.
So that should be our major concern if we really want to address this societal menace - how to reduce the level of sexual lust in the society.
To do this, those responsible for the growth, multiplication, and spread of lust in the society were going to have a major role to play.
[b]They must henceforth desist from such activities which contribute to the rise of the level of sexual lust and moral decadence in the society, since it is causing much more damage than whatever good they may think they were profiting from it.
This includes those in the porn industry, those in music industry who deliberately promote sexual lust via their music(both audio and videos), those in the movie industry who do same via their movies, those who dress sexy to seduce others, also those who glorify sexual lust by pinning the blame of sexually related atrocities, as rapes, on nudity instead those who commit such atrocious acts etc.
If they however choose to persist, whenever they get to hear the heartbreaking news of such atrocities being commited these days, as when a little child or baby was being raped or sexually abused etc., they should feel very proud of themselves and pat themselves in the back for the job they've proudly done, because that is a consequence of the growth, multiplication, and spread of sexual lust which they promote.
BigDawsNet: Let me give you a simple advice... Right now 🇨🇦 is doing well by giving couple of people visit visa dis days... nobody knows why dey open dia border... anyway with a visit or tourist visa... You friends chances of getting a work authorization is like 3% out of 100... with is his current age.. the percentage is even low...
-He won't be able to do any work -To even sweep ground for a resturant or wash plates... he will surely need a work card - tell him to come with enough money so he won't get frustrated - nobody will house him for long in canada unless his close family member are dere... so he should think abt that - some other options to stay legal is to get married... Finding a wife with ur Immigration status is like Finding a gold... who won marry visitor? He may be lucky sha - aslyum is another option... tho wen the results comes out and he fail... na immediate removal straight .. if he succeed.. his consider a lucky man.. tho it's takes d grace of God because we ain't war tour country to consider for refugee...
Final advice.. let him use his house to borrow some money... den he ca travel for 3months and see how it is over dere... just selling of ur properties to migrate to Canada on visit visa no just make sense
I heard they are doing that because there's deficit/shortage in skilled labor force, like carpenters, electricians etc
Flame333: They've seen that the country is going down and this is what normly trigger coup, hence, the urgency to intervene in Niger Republic and push back the contagious effect on our military against this evil party called APC..
My broda, welcome to democracy
Flame333: They've seen that the country is going down and this is what normly trigger coup, hence, the urgency to intervene in Niger Republic and push back the contagious effect on our military against this evil party called APC..
My broda, welcome to democracy
Exactly my thoughts. If Niger coup succeeded and makes the country better than it is, expect Arewa/North soldiers in collaboration with southeast soldiers to attempt the same here. Hence, the proactive move of Tinubu to stop them.
Flame333: They've seen that the country is going down and this is what normly trigger coup, hence, the urgency to intervene in Niger Republic and push back the contagious effect on our military against this evil party called APC..
My broda, welcome to democracy
Exactly my thoughts. If Niger coup succeeded and makes the country better than it is, expect Arewa/North soldiers in collaboration with southeast soldiers to attempt the same here. Hence, the proactive move of Tinubu to stop them.
0taPiaPia: It has collapsed already. Checked the current price of production vs profit to be made and I pitied poultry farmers.. how would you invest millions in a business and be getting thousands for an extended period
most business profit margin to production cost nowadays is nothing to write home about. One have to be very smart and extra hardworking to navigate his ways in the business world.
Because there reward system (dopamine /pleasure) is low/down after satisfying there immediate desire . Same with people who borrow money, etc. It takes someone with high (serotonin/happiness) to return things back because he's thinking of his future needs not immediate needs. Just my scientific/biological explanation.
001Lagos: Ilorin Kwara state that used to be Yoruba land is now being owned and controlled by the Fulani people from Sahel desert. That's something you yorubas should be ashamed of.
that not true. The governor are Yoruba and even the Emirates are now yorubanise. The emir speak more Yoruba than Oduduwa himself.