₦airaland Forum

Problem is Nigerian women are not taught to develop themselves, they are not taught to be independent and have their own first before depending on a man. So they end up empty inside, dumb as a door knob, can’t carry on a normal intelligent conversation and just walking around decorating their outside with nails, lashes, weave and waiting and hoping to attract a man to take care of them with that and their pussy. It’s getting old and Nigerian men are catching on that there are other options than these useless women.
I am a women, an independent one and yes, I have a man.

ENIGMATIC2023:
The only only thing on the mind of a an average Nigerian girl is dick and relationship

So true. Dick and the relationship is really a way to get paid for pussy

Who gives AF. He’s been cheating from day 1 and it was all for show anyway.

Fake ass shit. You can see their body language that this is fake. & the thought of fucking her is disgusting

Trust me, you can stand there with a sign until you drop dead. Those Germans don’t give AF about you. Matter of fact, they don’t want any Africans in their country.

I always laugh at these usual closed minded Comments from people that have never traveled outside of their state let alone to another country.
A women is a women, with exceptions. Nigerian women are most likely to fake love because they see that you
Can benefit them in some way and American women will most likely be more independent, so if you are an insecure man who wants to always have 100% control over someone, look elsewhere. Nowadays a marriage is a partnership not a Nigerian dictatorship

So.....And? Who gives AF what they do. They’re just a regular couple, 3/4 dysfunctional anyway so why waste time on them

I don’t understand this begging mentality at all. Get your own bag and do for yourself. Nobody owes you anything just because you have a pussy or just because you have titties and ass. Nobody wants a dependent.

Such a complete waste of money to spend any time or money on a degree in Nigeria. It’s only to please the family because it’s basically a worthless piece of paper in the end.

NYSC is also a joke, a sham and a waste of time.

She would have gotten the wrath of my taser or my pepper spray

rentAcock:
I hope they are requiring Chinese, American and Eruropean citizens provide proof showing they are also COVID negative before entering the Nigerian airspace. Anything else a slap to our face. Imagine the epic centers of the coronavirus are making demands from us where our infection rate is well controlled.

If you read at all, you would know that these protocols are already in place.

Dalby:
Why did the relationships end if they were so good

Have you ever been in a relationship? There are 1000s of other factors that come into play that have to all line up that have nothing to do with age. You can have a great relationship with someone and have that one thing that makes it not work for one or the other. Doesn’t mean the relationship wasn’t good.

Absolutely agree. He is a smart man and knows that love and true connection knows no age. It’s not always he/she is just there for the money, that’s just a typical Nigerians closed minded way of thinking.
I have had very good relationships and strong connections with those that were older by more years than society accepts but it was real and very beautiful.

I applaud this guy for speaking out against norms of the very judgemental Nigerians.

I don’t know who’s worse, American police or Nigerian police SMDH

Sis you want to marry so desperately that you will put up with this? Next she will come to visit and he may not even tell you. If he doesn’t stop disrespecting you like this, leave. Period.
Have some self respect.

ericangel01:
good woman scarce pass. just one percent of woman are good

It’s actually 5%. Only 5% of women worldwide are worth keeping. That number is probably 1% in Nigeria though.

Everything is not about sex and everything is
Not about getting money from somebody. Make your own money then you can Bleep who and when you want instead of prostituting yourself. Because call It what you want, there’s a lot of prostitutes in Nigeria.
Have some class, you don’t need to Bleep everything that moves or everything that had 20 naira in the bank.
So many women are so lost nowadays.

It’s either excellence or scamming, no in between. Nigerians are a people of extremes

Take NOTE Nigerian ladies. You have to come offering more than pussy and a hot meal twice a week. Get yourself together and be an asset to your man and not a liability, that’s how you get and keep and man.

Quit worrying about wigs and weaves and nails and eyelashes and how big your ass is, they don’t care about that shit. Get your bag$$ and that good man will see you and show up.
The days of the man coming to save you and the fam are over and they should be. Putting ALL the financial stress on a man is wrong.
Signed -a women

She’s a H O E going to the highest bidder.

Absolutely not. Especially in Naija. You have a male “friend” y’all are fucking.

Michhy123:
So what is your advice

My advice is to keep looking bro. It DOES exist except if both parties live in Nigeria�

Real love absolutely exists. In Nigeria though, it’s probably a rare thing because people are too busy doing what they need to do to survive, looking for a man to take care of them, so finding security trumps love. This is partially why there is so much cheating in Nigeria, people are not in live with their partner or
spouse, they have other motives for being together.

Which is very sad because finding your soulmate is one of the best experiences in the world. Having true love, genuine love is so beautiful.
I am the happiest I have ever been since finding my soulmate. We were definitely meant to be.
So don’t give up but if both people are in Nigeria, your chances are very slim finding what I just described.

Moving on and getting your glow up is THE best revenge! Let Karma take care of the rest

Nothing like finding a loyal and loving women. This gives men wings.