Christianity Etc › Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by harbjar(m): 12:29pm On Jun 02, 2017 |
alBHAGDADI: The below are what your Prophet said in the authentic hadiths.
Sahih Bukhari (84:57) - [In the words of] "Allah's Apostle, 'Whoever changed his Islamic religion, then kill him.'"
Sahih Bukhari (89:271) - A man who embraces Islam, then reverts to Judaism is to be killed according to "the verdict of Allah and his apostle."
Sahih Bukhari (52:260) - "...The Prophet said, 'If somebody (a Muslim) discards his religion, kill him.' "
al-Muwatta of Imam Malik (36.18.15) - "The Messenger of Allah said, "If someone changes his religion - then strike off his head." just take a look at this mischievious soul... you re quick to go on net and bring false hadiths and label them authentic and amazingly you have even failed to quote a verse in the QURAN that says kill an apostate.... woe unto you... if you know so much abou islam, how come you failed to quote a verse in QUran that says: Let there be no compulsion in religion: Truth stands out clear from Error: whoever rejects evil and believes in Allah hath grasped the most trustworthy hand-hold, that never breaks. And Allah heareth and knoweth all things. quran (chapter 2 verse 256) |
Christianity Etc › Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by harbjar(m): 12:07pm On Jun 02, 2017 |
Salam Alaykum. As much as divorce is allowed in Islam, the process of divorce is however more complicated. A woman you intend to divorce must complete 3 menstrual cycle I.e spend 3 solid months. Idda (waiting) period.
There's no where in the Qur'an where the punishment for renouncing Islam is death. It is absolutely wrong and against the teachings of rasulullah.
The Ulama said a Muslim man with an unbeliever as a wife has no right to inherit her property, and vice versa. Therefore, by inference, it is not by force that you must divorce her. Its just the best so that, there will be peace and understanding (since that's easy when you are of the same faith) and your children will not be misled.
There's no compulsion in religion. AllahuA'lam. Allah knows best... for a;; those who re quick to come and comment bou islam... i'd employ you to get an english translated quran and read so you know what the truth is and not insane things some people come to post online so as to defame others religion... as jesus christ (may peace and blessings of God be on him} said.. seek the truth and it shall set you free |
Christianity Etc › Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by harbjar(m): 11:43am On Jun 02, 2017 |
Odingo1: If he is a Yoruba muslim he can seek the advice from yoruba sheik,but if he is a northern muslim,he should not seek for advice because they will tell him to kill the woman as written in koran.The woman have committed Apostasy and according to the Koran or haddit,such person should be killed. ya all should be careful what you say bou islam... there is no such verse in the QUR'an that says kills an apostate... instead what we have are ut those who reject Faith after they accepted it, and then go on adding to their defiance of Faith, – never will their repentance be accepted; for they are those who have (of set purpose) gone astray. — Quran 3:90 Make ye no excuses: ye have rejected Faith after ye had accepted it. If We pardon some of you, We will punish others amongst you, for that they are in sin. — Quran 9:66 He who disbelieves in Allah after his having believed, not he who is compelled while his heart is at rest on account of faith, but he who opens (his) breast to disbelief-- on these is the wrath of Allah, and they shall have a grievous chastisement. — Quran 16:106 |
Christianity Etc › Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by harbjar(m): 11:00am On Jun 02, 2017 |
tallfish145: Please I need your advise on what to do as my wife suddenly renounced our religion after visiting a pastor and I married her as a Muslim. though I intends calling the union off anytime soon. asalaimunalikum brother... i would advice you to seek the advice of a sheik or a knowledgeable Islamic cleric.. you know its wrong to divorce a woman anyhow in islam... seek for what to do before taking actions tht might result into the wrath of Allah.. though i know your intentions are right |
Christianity Etc › Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by harbjar(m): 10:59am On Jun 02, 2017 |
tallfish145: Please I need your advise on what to do as my wife suddenly renounced our religion after visiting a pastor and I married her as a Muslim. though I intends calling the union off anytime soon. asalaimunalikum brother... i would advice you to seek the advice of a sheik or a knowledgeable Islamic cleric.. you know its wrong to divorce a woman anyhow in islam... seek for what to do before taking actions tht might result into the wrath of Allah |
Christianity Etc › Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by harbjar(m): 10:56am On Jun 02, 2017 |
alBHAGDADI: Hello brother,
I will first of advice you to calm down and do t make hasty decisions.
You See, in Islam it is mandated that such a wife is to be killed for leaving Islam. That was the order given by Mohammad to all Muslims.
Sahih Bukhari (84:57) - [In the words of] "Allah's Apostle, 'Whoever changed his Islamic religion, then kill him.'"
Now, can you kill your wife because of religion? Deep down in your heart, do you think it is the right thing to do? I don't know how long you've been married or whether you have kids together, but pls consider the fact that you love her, kiss her and hold her dearly in your heart before you think about killing her just to please a barbaric religious doctrine.
Have you asked her why she left Islam? Do you honestly think Islam is the way to the truth? Have you juxtaposed your Prophet Muhammad and Yahshua the Messiah to see clearly which of them is worthy to be called the way, the truth and the life?
Below is just a peace of both men and how they treated women. Pls, be honest with yourself for once and see if you've not been deceived, a thing which your wife has discovered.
Enter Jesus
*He brought back a dead girl to life *He healed a woman with an issue of blood *He prevented the stoning of a Mary Magdalene *Mary Magdalene washed his feet with perfume and her hair in show of appreciation *Women wept during his trial and crucifixion *Women wept at his grave due to love for him *He said men should love their wives *A woman was the first to hear of his resurrection
Enter mohammad
*He married a 6yr old girl called aisha *He consummated the marriage when she clocked 9yrs *He saw a little baby crawling and swore to marry her if he is still alive when she comes of age. *He killed a Jewish woman's husband and father then converted, married and had sex with her on the same day *He married the wife of his adopted son after seeing her unclothedness and desiring her *He married his first wife, a 40yr old widow when he was 25 * He Married 11 wives and use to sleep with them all in one night *Says a woman's testimony is worth half of a man's testimony *Says 3 things spoil prayers - a donkey, a black dog and a woman *Prescribed beating of wives *Prevented women from inheritance *He wore women's clothes *He ordered the stoning of an adulterous woman *He was Killed by poison given to him by a WOMAN
Mind you, everything written above can be verified in the bible and Quran.
google is not your enemy on the day of judgement, you will stand in front of God and one by one you will prove all these lies you have made against islam and prophet muhammad... |
Education › Re: How Much Did You Spend On Your Final Year Project? by harbjar(m): 11:33pm On May 30, 2017 |
lilwill: this was/is my project. I spent ₦85k on it. the present/past tense is because Lautech has decided not to let us graduate if this is true, so we have students that can produce this in NIgeria and we still import toothpick.... this countryis a joke.. we just wasting brains |
Education › Re: How Much Did You Spend On Your Final Year Project? by harbjar(m): 11:31pm On May 30, 2017 |
in all honesty. am not sure i spent up to 5k... |
Romance › Re: She Wants Me To Deflower Her by harbjar(m): 12:31am On May 26, 2017 |
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Romance › Re: Virgin Number 6 And Still Counting... by harbjar(m): 12:45pm On May 25, 2017 |
you re a fool for bragging bou this kind of shameful act.... idiot.... those virgin bloods are on you |
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Romance › Re: My Gf Is Fun Of Urinating Anytime I Eat Her Bong Hole. by harbjar(m): 6:10pm On May 24, 2017 |
Kingsley1000: so u've been drinking her urine ....very medicinal urine is not medicinal and never will it be.. stop these rubbish |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Drop Your Number To Be In My Fun Group by harbjar(m): 10:58pm On May 23, 2017 |
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Romance › Re: Could You Sleep With Someone Who Is Amazing In Bed? by harbjar(m): 3:47pm On May 22, 2017 |
HOE TALKS EVERYWHERE |
Romance › Baby Mama Or Second Wife.... Which Would You Choose by harbjar(op): 9:54pm On May 21, 2017 |
which one would you rather become, A BABY MAMA OR A SECOND WIFE .. AND WHY |
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Romance › Re: My Facebook Lover Almost Hit Me On Our First Date!! by harbjar(m): 8:23am On May 21, 2017 |
instead of you to be happy that you got to know his true self before you guys get too deep in ta relationship.. besides m not a fan of cohabitation if u re nt legally married |
Romance › Re: Woman Pours Hot Water On Neighbour's Manhood For Refusing To Sleep With Her (pic by harbjar(m): 1:09am On May 21, 2017 |
he should pour hot water in her p**... mke she feel the pain |
Romance › Re: Do You Sleep With Clothes On? by harbjar(m): 1:06am On May 21, 2017 |
i go to bed with my suit self and shoe.... no space for nonsense |
Romance › Re: Ladies And Gents,how Did You Loose Your Virginity by harbjar(m): 12:52am On May 21, 2017 |
all the girls are claiming to be virgins and the guys are claiming to be don bleepers. pls who re the guys sleeping with then |
Romance › Re: Nigerian Couple Who Met On Twitter Are Married Now (Photos) by harbjar(m): 11:40am On May 16, 2017 |
abeg if its possible fo one, then its possible for all... anygal who is active on twitter and needs a guy follow me @harbjar, my whatsapp number is on my profile.. lets start with a DM too.. you never can tell, ur prayers can get answered |
Romance › Re: Fashion Madness! Check Out What This Lady Proudly Wore To A Lagos Party Photos by harbjar(m): 12:32am On May 16, 2017 |
giving her exactly what she wants.... cheap publicity ugly LovePeddler |
Education › Re: The Rate At Which Secondary School Students Have Sex by harbjar(m): 1:10pm On May 15, 2017 |
[quote author=slawomir post=56537955]the thing is really annoying. although is at this stage that the hormones that stimulates sexual urge towards the opposite sex is produced in large quantities in their body. progesterone, testosterone and the peptide, neuropeptide and love hormones like the oxytoxine. but internet has also contributed to the increase in sex among them. imagine my 14 year old female cousin have an internet enabled phone(infinix three to be precise). imagine what she does with such phone! even the way one little girl in Lagos now disturb me on facebook ehnnn. initially I taught she was an adult not until I realized she was still in secondary school. the only thing we can do is for everybody to advise their younger ones at home because that loose little girl on the street or spoilt little boy is someone else sister or brother[/quote professor |
Romance › Re: 6 Things men want in a relationship by harbjar(m): 10:38pm On May 14, 2017 |
Dotwillis1: I decided to post this after seeing So much threads from ladies about been heartbroken, fear of losing their man to someone else and so on.
Okay Girls lets put an end to the needless fighting due to miscommunication, the unnecessary sex-less nights, verbal shut-downs and the rest. Follow this thread as we pour out our mind on some things we want from you in a relationship. So read through and do as we say, and I promise you’ll never see your relationship through the same lens again.
I have very short list here, so I leave the rest for the guys:
1. Respect
Men feel respect as love. So show us some, don't argue, don't insult in return even when he does out of anger.
Moreso, respect our choice and career. If he feels like you disapprove of him or the things that he believes to be integral to who he is as a person, he will have a hard time trusting and loving you. If a girl didn't respect my path or mission in life, then i will find it very difficult to feel anything other than an anxious need to distance myself from her.
2. Praise And Approval
Men have infamously tender egos. We need frequent reassurance about ourselves, our career paths, our sexual prowess, and our attractiveness (among other things).
Let your praise loose. Tell your man exactly what you find attractive about him. Let him know what physical features of his are your favourites. Tell him how attractive you find it when he says something a certain way, when he accomplishes something, or when he takes you on a date. Your praise won’t make him cocky; it will help him feel loved. 3. Sex
Men and women both connect through sex and communication, but generally, women connect better through communication and men connect better through sex I guess. 
So give us sex and don't think he is only all about sex and taking you to be a slut, No. If he reaches across the bed for you, even showing the willingness to embrace him, to kiss him deeply, and to engage him could be enough to make him feel loved
And this does not mean that men need to have sex with their intimate partners every day in order to feel connected..
4. Positive Affirmation All guys want to hear that they are really sexy and good in bed. Just like women, men need to hear that their women are happy with how they look and what they do. It makes them feel appreciated, and it's also a turn on for them. This also plays into being more vocal in bed, which is closer to the top of his list - don't be afraid to scream about how amazing he is. 
5. Space
Suffocating a man (either by failing to allow him free time or with overly jealous behaviour) is the fastest way to end a relationship. Men need breathing room in a relationship. We need time for our hobbies, time with our friends, and so on. Let us have our spaces, you don't need to call every minutes to check in, don't be too possessive. 6. Emotional Maturity
A woman who has the maturity to not blame or criticize a man for what she’s feeling, but to share her feelings in an honest and authentic way that helps a man better understand her will be attractive to a man. How a woman handles her emotions is one of the most important things men look for in a relationship, whether or not to get serious with her.
If she lets her emotions get out of control, this is a big red flag to him. On the other hand, if she can present her feelings to him in a calm, non-dramatic manner, she will win his respect and make him feel like she’s the kind of woman who will be a real partner to him. He’ll see that she can handle things with a cool head rather than becoming a damsel in distress he has to rescue.
Do you agree with the points stated?
drop ya comments not all men want sex no |
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Celebrities › Re: South African Newspaper Features Olajumoke's "Dirt Poor Bread Seller" Story by harbjar(m): 3:45pm On May 13, 2017 |
fucking xenophobic bastards!! |
Sports › Re: Anthony Joshua Moves Back Into His Mum's Two Bedroom Flat Despite Winning £15m by harbjar(m): 3:04pm On May 13, 2017 |
in nigeria, celebs will forsake their parents and go and build a mansion to live in... May God deliver us |
Romance › Re: If There Is A Part Of Your Body You Wish To Change, Which Would It Be? by harbjar(m): 2:16pm On May 13, 2017 |
my thigh... makes me look like a girl... |
Romance › Re: Christian Girls Getting F*cked By Hausa Muslims In My Office. by harbjar(m): 2:13pm On May 13, 2017 |
cassidyjosh: Its sad and annoying how our Christian girls throw themselves cheaply at hausa muslim men all in the name of been social, I am not trying to start any religious conflict of any sort but the truth is that most Muslim men thou not all, but most of them regard Christian girls as noting but sex objects or intimacy gadgets meant to satisfy their earthly sexual fantacies, fantacies they dare not practice with thier Muslim women because they are regarded as unique creatures of Allah who are not to be exploited sexually. Severally I had to put up with Hausa Muslim men in my office talk about thier sexual excapeed with christian girls who come to apply for e-passport. Christian girls stop misbehaving around with them, stop opening your legs for them, its soo annoying. Muslims girls would not even let themselves be seen with a christian boy/man let alone touch them or open their legs for them. Its happening everyday everywhere, in schools and work places. God will help you people change. Am not asking you to start opening your legs for Christian boys but be wise and use your head, stop misrepresenting christ ,instead draw them to Christ, let them see a reason through you to convert and follow Christ. God bless you. fucking delete this post... stop promoting religious sentiments please... fornication isn't allowed in both religions so stop making it sound like muslims are out there to destroy xtain girls.... fornication is fornication no matter the religion besides they weren't raped, it was a mutual thing |
Romance › At What Age Did You Loose Your Virginity And Do You Regret It... by harbjar(op): 1:51pm On May 13, 2017 |
at what age did you loose your virginity and do you regret it... lets have some fun |