₦airaland Forum

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aribisala0:
Exactly what it is lazy ignorant assertions
Do children of widows turn out better
Do children of singles fathers turn out better than children of single mothers
Do you have any evidence from Nigeria specifically to back up this assertions
So for example maybe you can point to prison figures
Or JAMB results
All those developers arrested in India and elsewhere for drug trafficking are they children of single mothers
Most armed robbers are not raised by single mothers
They are raised by Muslims and Christians. So we should get rid of Islam and Christianity

Buhari never knew his father
IBB was not raised by his
Father
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Are you a single parent lol? It seems you are,

Anyways If you did any research you won’t be saying all this.

Since you are the one talking about “lazy” assertions, then you shouldn’t be lazy. Go through my posts for info i dropped from Freakonomics. Get that and look for the original material, read about how they established the facts, their methodology and approach.

…and unfortunately the answer to your question(s) is YES. Single parents raise more criminals!

This is based on facts. The report was something about abortion and crime rate, and they were indeed correlated. Before you spew any thing that doesn’t make sense for your information Steven Levitt holds a PhD in economics.

Stop spreading misinformation both Buhari and IBB were not raised by single mothers (unmarried or divorced). Their fathers died, their mothers were widowed. I have made that distinction clear in my earlier posts but i guess you just chose to close your eyes.

DiarisGodoo:
See my post above. And how about single father

Oga singlehood parenthood is a no-no.

Besides you’d agree with me that the % of single dads (never married or divorced fathers that have their kids living with them) is low compared to single mothers).

Either way it’s a no brainer, both are a no-no for healthy development of children.

ariesbull:
That's the truth Mayne their parents are single mum or they had kids outside the family way that doesn't stope from saying the truth....I WILL NEVER ALLOW ANY OF MY KIDS TO MARRY ANY CHILD RAISED BY SINGLE MUM.... mind you I said single mum not widows !


Apple doesn't fall far from the tree and Regina has proven that !

They can argue! Truth is bitter

Brother leave people that are trying hard to be politically correct.

Once i ask a babe, are your parents together and she says “No they are divorced” she is not the one.

I no get energy, the people that have plenty energy and have nothing productive to do with it can run the race.

aribisala0:
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How do you define single mother?

Is a widowed mother a single mother?
A divorcee
A mother who never married?
Single mothers also raise boys not only girls
When you make very sweeping generalisations it is a sign of low brain power
Unsuccessful marriages fail because there are 2 people involved. A man and a woman
They contribute equally to failure or success of marriage
You would have us believe marriages fail because of women
The statistics do not favour your assertions

A lot of married people have fathers that are always on the road away from home e.g politicians, musicians soldiers pilots and the kids are raised by the mother or maids

Think don't just make lazy and ignorant assertions

Single mother = never married or divorcee

This is not hearsay, these are not lazy assertions.

Children of single mothers hardly turn out alright completely boys & girls. It is worse for the girls, they can hardly ever keep a home.

ariesbull:
Those guys are just why it is wrong to marry into a family of any girl raised by single mum!


They are blasting NED cos of the way their sister acted

Well, I don't blame them , it is why it is good never as a man marry into a family of kids raised by single mum

This will ruin the chances of Anioma state ! Never marry a kid and the one raised by singleuk and the father didn't give out in marriage... To avoid issues like this !

I don't have hate for single mum but Issues like this

You see as people do like say they no see your post. Single mother’s daughters ehn, just avoid them.

I honestly haven’t seen any of a single mum that her daughter married and didn’t end up divorced.

There is power in the environment over a person, have you ever wonder why the omni-potent God required Abraham to move, why not just bless him why he was and give all of the surrounding countries there to him, nay his environment needed to change.

A girl who grew up with a single mum, can hardly have a successful marriage. It either they hate men, or that see men as source of income, its always one negative thing.

When this babe made a video about her killing her husband so said it was a joke/cruise. Imagine waking up at 5am to see someone high as a kite staring at you.

Over N125 million transferred to her, what beats me about people like Regina is the sheer lack of prudence. Ask her to account for it, nothing! Absolutely nothing! Nothing saved, no business, no income stream, nothing! Unfortunately a very hight percentage of Nigerian young ladies are just like this.

King Solomon in all his wisdom knows what He was talking about in a Proverbs 19:14 - “a prudent wife is from the Lord"

Love800:
Omo, did you comprehend my post well!

Na only you know wetin you dey talk.

I understood your post.

“She caused her death” same way you will cause yours before the end of this year. You better avoid quarrel cause na you cause am.

Burgerlomo:
But money is very important in any relationship, the man is giving the advice because he's not poor.

Exactly so he knows what he is saying.

Any woman that wants money to be in a relationship, we all know what she is. A****o!

Love800:
She caused her death.
Why going to the extent of breaking someone windshield. In that anger, some people will revenge mercilessly. Nobe everybody normal oh.
When you want to hurt someone like this girl did to the driver, think deeply of the consequence.

Sad for her death sha.
Rest in peace.

Breaking someone’s windshield is enough to be rapped and killed for?

Make this post you will get into an argument before the end of this year, and you will end up like her, since you think this is an appropriate response

Joeboypondeck:
Truth no dey Nigerian mouth 👄

They keep shouting and blaming tinubu for everything

Nigerians are wicked people.

Trust not a single Nigerian

I hope her killers get death sentence. If a member of my family is done like this and I don’t get justice. I would just wait some months, when everyone has forgotten, I will cancel Christmas on the perpetrator, I will make sure they are screaming. No way this will slide.

People are getting away with too many, nowadays i go even let the smallest offense. So you better be careful. Law 19: Do not offend the wrong person

helinues:
The opposition are trying their possible best to justify the christian persecution in Nigeria

Even me that is happy Tinubu is president know that Bandits and terrorists are killing everyone including Christians. So which ever way you put Christian persecution is real.

Becareful with the path your threading on, God hates mockers, i pity you oo.

You just stated he converted. You didn’t state his final remark that it all left him more confused

BAILMONEY:
Grammy-winning Afrobeat star Burna Boy has revealed that despite converting from Christianity to Islam and studying multiple religions, he remains deeply uncertain about spiritual truth.

In a recent interview, the artist born Damini Ogulu explained that he was raised Christian simply because that was the faith of his parents and the environment he was born into.

According to him, he later made the conscious decision to convert to Islam.

Since then, the acclaimed ‘African Giant’ said he has explored various belief systems extensively.

Burna Boy recounted: “Of course, because that’s what your parents believe and that’s what you were born into. Growing up, I was a Christian and then I converted to Islam. It’s like I’ve studied it all, but I’m still out here trying to find out what is really going on, you know? The more I research, the more confused I get.”

https://thenationonlineng.net/burna-boy-speaks-on-conversion-to-islam-admits-spiritual-confusion/amp/

When i say most people are Christians/islams cuz it’s the religion of their parents and that’s the environment they were born into i know what i’m saying.

Given that it begs the question what makes your religion is the ultimate abd only people from your religious sect will go to heaven, if you believe this you are deluded

All these lies, you received 20k for 2 years straight and you didn’t know who it was from?

Mscheww if he wasn’t based in Canada would we have heard all these complaints .

All these lies, if she had a better option she would have moved on without batting an eyelid.

How many women leave men they are dating for another man every day.

Calibrator:
One last watch and I am done

Omo I think i stopped at Season 3 (or was it Season 2).

My tired was tired.

SpencerForbes:
She has done the wedding, she has gotten a new car, you’ve apologized, she has accepted.


Why is it now on social media🤔
🚶‍♂️

I avoid people like him

My problem with him is that he initially said “yes” only to ghost her. He is very despicable. Why not say “No” with your full chest. When you say “Yes” it must remain “yes”.

Imagine her running around for a replace on such an important day.

Hullcity:
So I i have this mature turkey I have suffered to train from day old to maturity. Initially they were 3 in number that I raised, have disposed 2, remaining one which happened to be t largest of them all.

So recently, sis put to bed and mum had to leave for her omugwo, so since then I have been the only one staying in our compound.

So as I left for work yesterday, a thief took advantage of our absence, climbed through the fence, and made away with my matured male turkey valued @ 80k.

I was just going on about how an average Nigerian is now a terrible person.

Is it Tinubu that stole this man’s Turkey or was it Sanwo-Olu?

SmartPolician:
Believe it or not, Nigeria under Tinubu is just irredeemable

Tinubu has nothing to do with the natural nature of most Nigerians. We have become greedy, wicked people.

It is so bad that even if you conduct EFCC recruitment ten times it is from this same set population (greedy wicked people) you will get staff from, so tell me how Nigeria can get better without Nigerians changing for good?

Is that not why they are still doing night raids like armed robbers without any regard for their own lives

Any group of people that decide to knock down your door in the dead of night, are robbers. Don’t wait for them to identify themselves, common sense could have told them to identify themselves before breaking your door. So don’t wait, arm yourself and treat them accordingly as robbers.

Ps: the political class is less than 0.1% of Nigeria’s population, for these saying the Government is Nigeria’s problem; that’s a lie. If you like remove the present political class from Presidency to local govt chairman.

Where would you elect new people from? When 99.9% of the population is greedy and wicked, do you think by so miracle fresh elections would be done then we would end up with saints in government? If you think so you are deluding yourself.

These political class most of them grew up with a silver spoon and are partially satisfied, let a poor man get there first and you will know the real meaning of corruption.

doctore212:
Carry the money and build better two story for Apapa solely for olosho business.


By two years I will be like Elon Musk

Business Tycoon in the making.

Baba for them Oloshos

Lol at “you can hold me if you want”. Omo it would make any real mad.

Lads this is why you don’t give able abled beggars money.

Anyone really needs money badly, you go out and work for it

Me wey wan start business, Make i gather Ms give you to start business, i dey craze lol.

Feisu:
My wife still keeps contact with her married ex. She says they parted peacefully so they are still friends.
I didn't have an issue with it.

But I recently found out he sends money and gifts to my inlaws and they are all so happy with that. Even celebrating this in my presence and saying I shouldn't be jealous or anything because their daughter knows she's married and their relationship was in the past.

This doesn't sit well with me.

I also know for a fact that my parents wouldn't accept unsolicited gifts from my ex or that of my siblings.

Her ex is still “farming on the farm you have bought”

Vikto17:
Hello dear Nairalanders ,,, l am 32yrs and my fiancee is 30yrs... very loving ,, sweet and excellent soul... she tick everything l need in a woman and l will be getting married to her next year by God grace...

My major concern is that she looks older than her actual age,,, and this is her face alone... l have seen girls her senior who looks younger...
we are not poor .. she eats well and have all the necessary things a woman will want...
please what recommendation should one take to look their age and younger too,,, thanks

Oga she may not be 30 as she claims to be

Have you seen her original birth certificate or waec result (date of birth is stated).

Like you said she ticks everything you want in a women, but this seem to bother you. You have to make a final choice, whether to look past it or not

I don’t trust Dangote but I trust the Jagaban 001 of Nigeria - On your mandate we shall stand 🫡

God bless Nigeria 🇳🇬

chiiraq802:
Nice one from the Brazilian government.....drug cartels are soulless....

Some of you have no empathy until something similar happens to you.

Imagine Nigeria police raiding an area and you were shoot and killed in the process, then someone on Nairaland writes “Nice one”.

Do you know how many innocence people would have been killed. If an area is notorious for a vice, let’s apply common sense: is it everyone there that is into that vice? Of course not. Don’t forget people live mostly where they can afford.

Be careful while mocking others, it is one of the things God hates. Do you know how many people have mocked and something similar befell them,I pray you don’t get a taste of this.

fergie001:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0aTMpROW6Jw

SOURCE

“We saw executed people: shot in the back, shots to the head, stab wounds, people tied up. This level of brutality, the hatred spread - there’s no other way to describe it except as a massacre,” Santiago said.

Disturbing Video:
https://x.com/BrettAMacDonald/status/1983575674246795276?t=0-UOZwqSJgzFP4BYrQlR9Q&s=19[/quote]At bolded this is what someone is saying “Nice one” to? Police should just brace themselves l. People that make children fatherless should not expect to live long to raise their own children.

budaatum:
Is a man who trusts, foølish, to you?

Oyinbo say “trust but verify”

You can only have a problem with your man verifying if you have something to hard. All these ones you are yarning “a matured man won’t do DNA test blah blah blah” is just emotional blackmail.

No good woman would have a problem with her husband conducting DNA test

Simpleshafee:
Good one,Maryam Sanda’s name has been dropped.

Justice for men is getting thinner and thinner by the day.

Why would anybody think of setting free a woman that murdered her husband in cold bloodd in the first instance??

Life imprisonment to do what?

She would eat, drink and have a comfortable bed in prison.

Smh.

I am sure other prisoners would be waiting to “take care” of her.

Hunger is bad.

Train up your daughters with love and care, provide for her if not this is the result.

I know this house. I have seen a couple of for sale ads.

These yeyebrities, how do we confirm she actually bought it now.

I don’t know the origin of some people’s addiction to fake life, nobody is pressuring you to pepper us with pictures of cars, houses and luxury.