₦airaland Forum

Baronthecelebri:
It is good to help people, but I don't forgive,if you offend me I distance myself from you entirely, I don't forgive.

Brother this is it. I would forgive and never have anything to do with you ever again.

Op did not mention the ones you have offer serious help to in the past, in form of lucrative jobs etc. When you need something small in comparison they complain or ghost only to come back later when they want to check on your progress.

Bruh i won’t even reply their “hello” or “how far”. That is the end!

NiRfreak:
Most men wey be newly married no kon geh sense again for this country....like clueless.
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Which planet does 2 weeks pregnancy means no more touching, kissing and sex for a couple.
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Even 7 months pregnant woman with big Belle still dey knack Deir husband. 2 weeks honeymoon and waiting 9months after delivery seems like something sensible to you?

It walks like duck, quacks like a duck, looks like a duck. Some people like Op go still dey ask if it is a duck.

From what Op wrote is it not very obvious that something is amiss with his wife, besides if she is not getting it from him she is most likely getting it somewhere else.

OP goofed on sexual compatibility - she has low drive and you have high drive: no matter what NEVER MARRY HER. Her being a virgin has nothing to do with her low sexual drive, there are virgin that go on to love sex afterwards, some become super promiscuous, so it has nothing to do with that.

The pregnancy story (few weeks) is obviously a tall tale she is telling to keep him at bay.

She seemed to settled for him cuz he was ready available. Me i no dey advice married man, once you have entered marriage; you next step is your call.

Mirasteel:
This man isn't a pastor but a fraud.

You no need loud am.

The good book says “There is nothing hidden under the sun” in other words one day the matter go cast and we will learn the truth.

Let’s just just give it time

Omo i trust Nigerians.

No hustle wey dey no dey run

madridguy:


You are competing with other nationality in the UK so come back home if you need attention.

There is no competition.

Just that everyone minds their pocket in UK. Nobody has the time or resources to take care of another fully grown adult. If you like don’t work to feed yourself, for UK your suffer no go get part 2

FarahAideed:
It's a bad thing , why are IMF leaders countries currencies not depreciated like the Naira if it's a good thing .and please dont bring Korea here ... Currency devaluation should be considered a crime against humanity , you are literally throwing the sweat and hardwork of honest people into the gutter

Omo at this point, I’m thinking to myself.

Are these people our enemies?

If they talk like an enemy, give advice like they don’t want your progress, tell you to do things they won’t do; omo they are actually your enemy.

This life deep mehn.

Ibtxxo:
Please I have tried but nothing Is working.
This started when I was 15 years now I am over 40s.
This is the bad attitude I got from my dad.
I am afeaid of going out for fear of being mocked .
Instead I sleep and stay indoors everyday.
I have lost real sense of living.
I still stay with my parents.
My only source of living is betting.
I am a graduate and I struggled to graduate due to my low self esteeem

Being a homebody is not a problem.

Your problem is your lack of “basic” goals.

How did something as basic as getting a job slip pass you till 40?

Well its never too late, start a small business or get a job fast than join a church.

At the church become a dedicated worker, I believe these two - job/business and church will help you rebalance. Create a social network.

Don’t ever think its too late, as a man even 50s is not too late. I have thought of it most of us are chasing the same thing - financial freedom and progency. A man that started a good job at 25 fit no see N100 million till 50 while someone at 40 starts his life within 1 year he see N100 million legit.

My point is do away with lazy, start your race.

Thundafireseun:
The whole market square must hear , the day a wife / woman/ girl feeds a man

I always say it, women are very pragmatic. This is why man should maintain same energy.

She is not your wife, she has no right to drain your financial resources. You shouldn’t be spending anything.

muyico:
She can't work?? Her family and husband family nko? That is problem of full house wife

Brother she has a phone. She refused to sell just for cho cho cho, yet she prefers to steal.

foolbuster:
Exactly, the only option she has is stealing. We should encourage her.

Are you minding them. See her accumulating children. We have made an habit of making irresponsible adults famous in this country.

If there is anything she needs urgently it is mental evaluation.

Why don’t i believe this news

mascot345:
If u save 500k everything month in Nigeria. After expenses. Will u consider travelling abroad ?
U only work 3 hours a day in Nigeria.
U don't pay house rent.
U have your own car in Nigeria.
U have peace of mind.

Mature minds only.

Why would such a person want to japa, except the person is allergic to peace lol.

If you are allergic to peace, the person can japa to UK (no worry body go tell you).

Kingluqman:
He will love it

Lmao

It is not easy losing one’s investment, I hope he is compensated.

“Bomb factory” omo!

There are jobs you can’t pay me enough to do

SpaceX:
The rich marrying the rich, people don't know it's a sin to be a classist.

So the rich should marry “I never chop” so their family can lay waste to the resources faa

NwaliE01:
My wife has been unlocking my phone and most times, money do miss from my bank Account. I am not sure if my hard labour is secured with her when God calls me home.

Wahala. Owner of money na hard worker, Next of Kin na minister of enjoyment lol

Not every one that is related to you by blood is your family.

When did it become the daughter’s responsibility to provide for her mother

Some Adult are just children. Just imagine the dark jealousy from someone that is meant to be your family.

This is how young girls are pushed into prostitution by irresponsible parents

I tell people don’t be blind and to be afraid to cut any toxic person even some people who call themselves family but don’t want you to win

Na wa. This man may be a true man of integrity.

A Nigerian resign over yen yen yen? For where lol

Baronthecelebri:
They're dating

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The irony. That’s a rented bike, it is not free lol

brain54:
This is a good compromise...

Is it? It is a classic corporate move.

Move you somewhere else then phase you out.

Besides the word is on the street is that the pay in Dangote business is nothing to write home about compared to what companies in the industry pay.

Amotolongbo:
eh common.
Every creature has the survival instincts.

If it is by God’s plan you live, then you should just be sleeping and waking up expecting the “God’s plan” to manifest and do nothing.

You haven’t yet understood your purpose on heart, if you do, you won’t type those things.

You no sabi biology pass me. Survival instinct kicks in when it see danger.

What protects you from danger unseen? I can tell you similar stories from my life, I would have a strong leading to leave a place and when i go the unimaginable would happen. How does survival instinct save your from a natural disaster or an accident that happens suddenly?

At your bolded. Again God’s purpose for you and me is way beyond material gain or human recognition, it is obvious that is all you are thinking about. When you submit to Him, it would be revealed to you.

P.s: by the way I have worked in more than 3 major companies is Nigeria. Top companies,I never knew anybody in them. This is part of His leading, one of them is located in a very niche affluent area, I said to myself: i would to work here. His leading was: “why not, look up the list of companies and pick one”. I sent an email to my companies of choice in that area, exactly one year later guess who has two thumbs 👍🏽 👍🏽 and was called to interview for a role in one of these companies? Me . I got the job and worked there till the finesse of the environment finish for my body. i am currently in another major company with twice the pay i was earning in that job.

He helps us all round, but again material gain or human recognition is not His final or main purpose of His leading.

Amotolongbo:
Na you sabi the spirit working in you.

How has the spirit helped you please?
The same spirit that could not guide you on how to be the most successful in what you do. So it can only guide you on how to avoid death just like cockroaches, termites and other lesser creatures?

“Omo go a ni ki o ma ku, bi o ku ego na ni o pada pa”

Lol Read my previous post.

If i am not alive, how would i be the most successful naa. You sef reason am.

But i understand where you misunderstanding things, you think my mission on earth is to be the most successful business consultant? Lol even me i know it is not it.

God has different plans for us, and he has one for you. It is way beyond material gain or recognition of other humans.

Amotolongbo:
😂😂😂
I remember when I was a church goer and being fed this kinda lamba every Sunday

Spirit of God telling his Children what to do is “Lamba” lol as how?

What if i tell you the same Spirit works in us all. He is also working in me and can work in you.

Countless times, I have heard a small instruction or leading to do something. Vivid Example: when i was younger, I was on my way to an aunt’s place of work. In that area, it was common to have a small gates at the end of the close, connecting two closes (A close is typically an enclosed street with houses, it has one big main gate for ingress and outgress. Usually there is a small close gate would be at the back, connecting to another close).

I got to that small gate and something in me said “run through it”. Sister you won’t believe immediately i ran it, it collapsed from the top! The top was heavy and had cracks already. If i didn’t follow that instruction, if these bricks knack my head ehn, omo!

Repent, so this Spirit can lead you too.

MaxInDHouse:
[/b]Do you accept all churches as belonging to Christ? Because Nigeria is filled with churches and you never commend their growth but uphold only Kumuyi church so what proof do you have that far away country like America is now becoming faithful to Jesus when you can't relate with churches in your neighborhood?[b]

Sigh. Some so called Christians and their personal problems ehn.

Topic dey talk one thing. Baba don enter another dimension.

Has Jesus personally told you the “Church” you attend is ordained by Him. Some people and unnecessary problems. Oga this doesn’t not even reflect on the Kingdom of God, the mysteries of the Kingdom are way beyond you. The people you would see in Heaven, you would so shocked: just know this is a reflection of you, your level of faith and your personal problems lol.

John 4: 21 - 23 Woman,” Jesus replied, “believe me, a time is coming when you will worship the Father neither on this mountain nor in Jerusalem.

……..Yet a time is coming and has now come when the true worshipers will worship the Father in the Spirit and in truth, for they are the kind of worshipers the Father seeks

OneCandleAway:
They've been separated since. Even the brothers marriage self is one kind. I hope they've worked through that out cuz it doesn't look good for 2 senior pastors in a church to have broken marriages.

It doesn’t look good for even “1 senior pastor” in a church to have broken marriage

OneCandleAway:
This generation doesn't want to stay in unhappiness like the older generation. A lot grew up in trauma and have chosen not to be like their parents. It's just that when you're in a position of mentoring others, you're expected to have high levels of endurance, tolerance.

It is a selfish generation. No compromise, no consideration, no tolerance. It is my way or the highway generation.

Kindness, consideration, some thoughtfulness, apart from infidelity, tell me exactly what is broken in the marriage that can’t be fixed

Bestwt001:
Describing her marriage, the 40-year-old likened the end of her marriage to “a death,”

We really have to be careful about allowing every religious tom dick harry on the pulpit. This is no even biblical, she didn’t read “Love is stronger than death” in her bible.

It is well with people listening, under her tutorage. God will help their souls

Village people really worked overtime on her family matter

It is obviously a spiritual battle, nothing about this is normal.

I wonder how they were watching as they were being picked off one by one and did nothing. Na wa

freeman67:
Sometimes relationship matters especially if you are used to calling to get things done over the phone especially because you are not available to do it yourself. However, if you don't consider that a serious issue, you may go ahead and mail her to register your displeasure/disappointment in her/the banks services. Be sure you are precise in your narration then copy all the email addresses of the bank you know and copy CBN too.

That way more people and probably superiors will be aware of the situation. She will also see that you are serious and ready to go out so she will will treat your request promptly.

At the bolded, that is why i just kept quiet.

I don’t think any staff of any bank can try this level of nonsense with me. Not even for some weeks, 10 whole months. Something is definitely fishy.

Lmao I thought it was a joke; when i first heard you can get arrested for sharing a meme on social media in UK

UK has lost its focus, it is an economy on a decline; it is not noticing its on descent cuz of its significant size. I can’t advise anybody to migrate there.

Well you know what they say about the Paradox of tolerance (unlimited tolerance would lead to the extinction of tolerance, when you extend tolerance to those that are intolerant. It’s a matter of time before you the tolerant go extinct from their intolerance), UK go learn lesson

AdolfHitlerxXx:
Our mindset is critical to our outcomes.

Brother it’s sad, that young people are dying. Anyways I align with you on this.

Job said “what i fear the most has happened to me”.

Just as Bishop Oyedepo usually say (paraphrased) - No matter the condition of Nigeria, every where must stew for me..

May her soul rest in peace.

helinues:
Sorry who is this and how can I help you

Smh. You lack the ability to reflect