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NwaliE01:
My wife has been unlocking my phone and most times, money do miss from my bank Account. I am not sure if my hard labour is secured with her when God calls me home.

Wahala. Owner of money na hard worker, Next of Kin na minister of enjoyment lol

Not every one that is related to you by blood is your family.

When did it become the daughter’s responsibility to provide for her mother

Some Adult are just children. Just imagine the dark jealousy from someone that is meant to be your family.

This is how young girls are pushed into prostitution by irresponsible parents

I tell people don’t be blind and to be afraid to cut any toxic person even some people who call themselves family but don’t want you to win

Na wa. This man may be a true man of integrity.

A Nigerian resign over yen yen yen? For where lol

Baronthecelebri:
They're dating

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The irony. That’s a rented bike, it is not free lol

brain54:
This is a good compromise...

Is it? It is a classic corporate move.

Move you somewhere else then phase you out.

Besides the word is on the street is that the pay in Dangote business is nothing to write home about compared to what companies in the industry pay.

Amotolongbo:
eh common.
Every creature has the survival instincts.

If it is by God’s plan you live, then you should just be sleeping and waking up expecting the “God’s plan” to manifest and do nothing.

You haven’t yet understood your purpose on heart, if you do, you won’t type those things.

You no sabi biology pass me. Survival instinct kicks in when it see danger.

What protects you from danger unseen? I can tell you similar stories from my life, I would have a strong leading to leave a place and when i go the unimaginable would happen. How does survival instinct save your from a natural disaster or an accident that happens suddenly?

At your bolded. Again God’s purpose for you and me is way beyond material gain or human recognition, it is obvious that is all you are thinking about. When you submit to Him, it would be revealed to you.

P.s: by the way I have worked in more than 3 major companies is Nigeria. Top companies,I never knew anybody in them. This is part of His leading, one of them is located in a very niche affluent area, I said to myself: i would to work here. His leading was: “why not, look up the list of companies and pick one”. I sent an email to my companies of choice in that area, exactly one year later guess who has two thumbs 👍🏽 👍🏽 and was called to interview for a role in one of these companies? Me . I got the job and worked there till the finesse of the environment finish for my body. i am currently in another major company with twice the pay i was earning in that job.

He helps us all round, but again material gain or human recognition is not His final or main purpose of His leading.

Amotolongbo:
Na you sabi the spirit working in you.

How has the spirit helped you please?
The same spirit that could not guide you on how to be the most successful in what you do. So it can only guide you on how to avoid death just like cockroaches, termites and other lesser creatures?

“Omo go a ni ki o ma ku, bi o ku ego na ni o pada pa”

Lol Read my previous post.

If i am not alive, how would i be the most successful naa. You sef reason am.

But i understand where you misunderstanding things, you think my mission on earth is to be the most successful business consultant? Lol even me i know it is not it.

God has different plans for us, and he has one for you. It is way beyond material gain or recognition of other humans.

Amotolongbo:
😂😂😂
I remember when I was a church goer and being fed this kinda lamba every Sunday

Spirit of God telling his Children what to do is “Lamba” lol as how?

What if i tell you the same Spirit works in us all. He is also working in me and can work in you.

Countless times, I have heard a small instruction or leading to do something. Vivid Example: when i was younger, I was on my way to an aunt’s place of work. In that area, it was common to have a small gates at the end of the close, connecting two closes (A close is typically an enclosed street with houses, it has one big main gate for ingress and outgress. Usually there is a small close gate would be at the back, connecting to another close).

I got to that small gate and something in me said “run through it”. Sister you won’t believe immediately i ran it, it collapsed from the top! The top was heavy and had cracks already. If i didn’t follow that instruction, if these bricks knack my head ehn, omo!

Repent, so this Spirit can lead you too.

MaxInDHouse:
[/b]Do you accept all churches as belonging to Christ? Because Nigeria is filled with churches and you never commend their growth but uphold only Kumuyi church so what proof do you have that far away country like America is now becoming faithful to Jesus when you can't relate with churches in your neighborhood?[b]

Sigh. Some so called Christians and their personal problems ehn.

Topic dey talk one thing. Baba don enter another dimension.

Has Jesus personally told you the “Church” you attend is ordained by Him. Some people and unnecessary problems. Oga this doesn’t not even reflect on the Kingdom of God, the mysteries of the Kingdom are way beyond you. The people you would see in Heaven, you would so shocked: just know this is a reflection of you, your level of faith and your personal problems lol.

John 4: 21 - 23 Woman,” Jesus replied, “believe me, a time is coming when you will worship the Father neither on this mountain nor in Jerusalem.

……..Yet a time is coming and has now come when the true worshipers will worship the Father in the Spirit and in truth, for they are the kind of worshipers the Father seeks

OneCandleAway:
They've been separated since. Even the brothers marriage self is one kind. I hope they've worked through that out cuz it doesn't look good for 2 senior pastors in a church to have broken marriages.

It doesn’t look good for even “1 senior pastor” in a church to have broken marriage

OneCandleAway:
This generation doesn't want to stay in unhappiness like the older generation. A lot grew up in trauma and have chosen not to be like their parents. It's just that when you're in a position of mentoring others, you're expected to have high levels of endurance, tolerance.

It is a selfish generation. No compromise, no consideration, no tolerance. It is my way or the highway generation.

Kindness, consideration, some thoughtfulness, apart from infidelity, tell me exactly what is broken in the marriage that can’t be fixed

Bestwt001:
Describing her marriage, the 40-year-old likened the end of her marriage to “a death,”

We really have to be careful about allowing every religious tom dick harry on the pulpit. This is no even biblical, she didn’t read “Love is stronger than death” in her bible.

It is well with people listening, under her tutorage. God will help their souls

Village people really worked overtime on her family matter

It is obviously a spiritual battle, nothing about this is normal.

I wonder how they were watching as they were being picked off one by one and did nothing. Na wa

freeman67:
Sometimes relationship matters especially if you are used to calling to get things done over the phone especially because you are not available to do it yourself. However, if you don't consider that a serious issue, you may go ahead and mail her to register your displeasure/disappointment in her/the banks services. Be sure you are precise in your narration then copy all the email addresses of the bank you know and copy CBN too.

That way more people and probably superiors will be aware of the situation. She will also see that you are serious and ready to go out so she will will treat your request promptly.

At the bolded, that is why i just kept quiet.

I don’t think any staff of any bank can try this level of nonsense with me. Not even for some weeks, 10 whole months. Something is definitely fishy.

Lmao I thought it was a joke; when i first heard you can get arrested for sharing a meme on social media in UK

UK has lost its focus, it is an economy on a decline; it is not noticing its on descent cuz of its significant size. I can’t advise anybody to migrate there.

Well you know what they say about the Paradox of tolerance (unlimited tolerance would lead to the extinction of tolerance, when you extend tolerance to those that are intolerant. It’s a matter of time before you the tolerant go extinct from their intolerance), UK go learn lesson

AdolfHitlerxXx:
Our mindset is critical to our outcomes.

Brother it’s sad, that young people are dying. Anyways I align with you on this.

Job said “what i fear the most has happened to me”.

Just as Bishop Oyedepo usually say (paraphrased) - No matter the condition of Nigeria, every where must stew for me..

May her soul rest in peace.

helinues:
Sorry who is this and how can I help you

Smh. You lack the ability to reflect

franchasng:
Don't blame the landlords (house owners) in Nigeria, blame the tax master President that foisted himself on Nigerians because of Buhari's inefficiency


To build a single storey building in Nigeria today requires a minimum of 110million Naira, this does not include cost of buying land.

Now tell me how you want a house owner to recover his investment if after using such exorbitant amount to erect an upstairs and he collects say 800,000 naira per year as rent? It may take him 50 years or more to recover the money he used to build the house?



Nigerians should direct their anger towards the zero performing owomida government of Tinubu.

Landlord also have his own living cost to bear, and the only way he can recoup is through his house for rent

Normally shouldn’t house investment be recovered in 30-50 years.

My apartment building the way the rent is calculated, it less that 5 years the landlord would recover his cost of building the house. Why?! Isn’t that greed?

At point I asked the also greedy caretaker why there are a hand full of Yahoo boys taking up flats: the foolish old man told me that they are one that can afford to pay . Like seriously why won’t Yahoo boys be the only ones to afford it when rent is outrageous

iwaeda:
The video made my heart skipped, Oke-Ode has more than ten thousand people, Nlfpmod. Our leaders cared less.

Again Kwara is just two states away from Lagos.

It is really too close for comfort.

helinues:
This op has dedicated his time to be posting about the unrest in Kwara state, not that he cares about the Kwara people but the unrest in the state is a vindication for anything to undermine this government.

I am a fan of Tinubu government but you don’t strike me as a sensible person.

For some weeks now insecurity has been escalating in Kwara, if your family members lived there would you be politicalizing it or asking for a solution

We4all:
You are not discerning, so let me explain. Any woman that marries a 'second hand man' has no self-worth. And if a mad man can get married, it means marriage is easier than eating a pie. Bimbo choose to remain single, but your shallow mind thinks she is lonely, and no man wants her. If she were a conformist, all she needs to do is to get married to one useless mad man just to make people like you happy. If she isn't doing so, it's because she doesn't have the shallow mentality of the average African that sees marriage as an achievement.

Speaking of immediate family, is your sibling not a part of your immediate family? Most people are even closer to their siblings than their spouses, so what is your point exactly? Besides, when you talk about love and to be loved, how many Nigerians are in love with their spouses? If they truly are, then why the domestic violence and cheating?

Mr 'marriage is an achievement', there are people who choose to remain single because they are not conformists. They are happy and living their best lives. So, stop consoling yourself that marriage is the most important thing that happened to mankind. Even Jesus Christ wasn't married and he still fulfilled his purpose on earth. The question is, how many married people have fulfilled their purpose on earth?

You are very very good at consoling yourself lol

I like that.

With this your level of thought processing, it will come in very handy for you. You’ll need it.

We4all:
You are not discerning, so let me explain. Any woman that marries a 'second hand man' has no self-worth. And if a mad man can get married, it means marriage is easier than eating a pie. Bimbo choose to remain single, but your shallow mind thinks she is lonely, and no man wants her. If she were a conformist, all she needs to do is to get married to one useless mad man just to make people like you happy. If she isn't doing so, it's because she doesn't have the shallow mentality of the average African that sees marriage as an achievement.

Speaking of immediate family, is your sibling not a part of your immediate family? Most people are even closer to their siblings than their spouses, so what is your point exactly? Besides, when you talk about love and to be loved, how many Nigerians are in love with their spouses? If they truly are, then why the domestic violence and cheating?

Mr 'marriage is an achievement', there are people who choose to remain single because they are not conformists. They are happy and living their best lives. So, stop consoling yourself that marriage is the most important thing that happened to mankind. Even Jesus Christ wasn't married and he still fulfilled his purpose on earth. The question is, how many married people have fulfilled their purpose on earth?

You are very very good at consoling yourself lol

I like that

We4all:
I have two relatives, one is a slow poke and the other is mentally imbalanced. Both were married at some point to women who do not value themselves. I know men who are useless drunkards, child molesters and criminals, but they are all married to their type (low class women desperate to be addressed as 'Mrs somebody).

So, the statement: "no man agreed to marry Bimbo" is the biggest joke of the century! There are men who are ready to eat out of her palms, but she is obviously way out of their league. The truth is, it is better to remain single than marry 'second hand ' men who bring nothing but pain to a woman. Unfortunately, Nigeria has more 'second hand' men than real men, and that is why we still have sophisticated single ladies like Bimbo who are not ready to settle for such men.

Na so

“Story of my life” by We4all lol

Wow. You don fire shots at the Bimbo lol say slow poke and mentally unbalanced can get married but sophisticated women can’t. Why naa

You didn’t see Tiwa Savage’s recent tell it all, that’s a billionaire. Would i say she is desperate, of cuz not she’s human. Wanting to be loved is totally normal. Tell yourself all the tall tales you want. No-one absolutely, no one wants to be alone without an immediate family of their own to love and to be loved by; not especially at 52.

We4all:
No woman in your life comes close to Bimbo in terms of class, intelligence, poise and beauty, so stop yepping nonsense. As for your later statement, sorry to disappoint you, but you don't need to know about my life so, I won't dignify you with a response.

Lool na hin no man gree marry am at 52 Abeg comot for here

When you go past a certain age, E jus mean say no man wan you. I’m not even bashing you or her; it’s the plain truth

We4all:
Common sense should tell you that when an orange gets spoilt, no seller will put it up for sale. So, what the heck are you blabbing about?

Exactly oo

She no see buyer since, till she comot market lol

I understand your pain what is over with men, with God it is never over

Kelvinnchucks:
so I only have issues with one thing.

The soundtrack in the background is talking about killing your husband. I think ned should start writing his will

Az in ehn. I take things like this literally.

It’s just like when a “friend” is using jokes to insult you.

In abundance of the heart the mouth speakth. Na from clap, dance dey start. Issokay

We4all:
Pain kini? You are the one who needs sympathy for taking panadol for another woman's headache.

Sorry no vex

We4all:
I am not confusing myself at all. You are the one not getting the point here. The first statement I made was out of sarcasm. You likened an older single woman to a product nobody wants, and I responded accordingly.

If a product is of no use to the people that want it but cannot afford it, more people will continue to show interest until that person who can afford it will eventually buy it. Peradventure you can afford it, but it doesn't interest you, then just walk away and allow others who want it to work hard for it.

The level of irrationality here is god level.

I have mentioned it like 3 times. People that can afford it, don’t want it! you still dey talk your own lol. At that stage of life is it not even obvious to you.

Orange wey no sell when it was green, e no sell when it ripened, na when e don spoil e go sell lol

We4all:
I am not confusing myself at all. You are the one not getting the point here. The first statement I made was out of sarcasm. You likened an older single woman to a product nobody wants, and I responded accordingly.

If a product is of no use to the people that want it but cannot afford it, more people will continue to show interest until that person who can afford it will eventually buy it. Peradventure you can afford it, but it doesn't interest you, then just walk away and allow others who want it to work hard for it.

Lol now i get it.

Sorry for your pain ma lol

We4all:
How is it even possible that nobody can afford a good? If you cannot afford a good, there is someone out there who can. So, what you should do is to work hard, brush up, and level up so you can afford it.

You are now confusing yourself.

I was talking to your comment (screenshot below).

If the people that want it cannot afford it (nobody - means none of the people thats show interest can afford it). What use is it?

Again what use is a product that i can afford but doesn’t interest me in a way?

It is useless, completely useless.

This is exactly what we need in Nigeria!

We4all:
As good as those luxury products that is above the reach of the common man.

Yes “Common man” but there are people that can afford it. Their patronage keeps the manufacturer afloat.

When nobody can afford it, what use is it?

We4all:
Or maybe the people that want it cannot afford it.

What good is a product, if nobody can afford it?

Please what is “religious habits”?

Truth be told, any organization would have dismissed her. Imagine exposing your place of work on social media. It doesn’t make it right but it is what it is.

I am asking myself was there no better way for her to handle it then come on social media to put a stain on her religious body, (I am not even catholic)