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Zonefree:
Do I even care how she sees me

they are very subtle. They will be programming the husband little by little to hate his friends that they dont like

As a guy when you friend is getting married, just know it is most likely the end of your friendship. But there is a solution....


You have to appease his wife. How?

Always buy stuff for them especially stuff that benefits the wife mostly. That is the only way she would encourage your friendship. The moment you stop giving, that is when you become a bad friend to her husband.


If you want her to hate you very quickly, let her ever know that your friend gave you money or anything valuable. She will make sure that friendship ends.

Blablamalala:
Do you sell female underwear?

no I sell semen

Blablamalala:
And it has never come to your thought that women behave this way because women know that most men are very willing to lick a woman's ass? Men know that a fellow man won't lick his feet sef.

so now you agree that they do this? I dont care why they do it, all I know is that they do it. As I said, 90% of them from my 10+ years of doing business set out to bite more than they can afford or are willing to pay for. I almost never have any issue with men, it is always women. They think every man would fall for their antics because some simps do.

Descottes:
as in ehn

Men are spotless angels while women are evil demons

I have 3 businesses. I am into manufacturing, power equipment supply and installation and construction. Sir, men are just the best to do business with, they dont bring nonsense into transactions. Women automatically think you have to be foolishly nice to them cause they are beautiful. The amount of effort they put into being manipulative is seldom found in men. They have their full game plan.
Ask uber drivers. I woman would know she is broke but would order uber, then start being nice to the driver so she wont pay at the end of the trip. There is a clear distinction between men and women, they can be both evil but woman employ tactics that would exonerate them from being labelled theives.

Blablamalala:
That's the narrow mindedness am talking about. People who lack divergent line of reasoning.

na you sabi. Humans are evil, but women are the pro manipulators. A man would come to my shop buy what he wants to buy and leave, it is a woman that would be pointing at things she cannot afford and be begging that I should dash her. I should just give her because she is a woman. Lol

Blablamalala:
Hardmirror are you trying to say all this traits are not also found among some men?

In business we come across all kinds of clients. You come across dubious men and women who want to manipulate their way to your hard earned money. In Nigeria, we call them 419. this criminals have never been gender specific. Let's be real.

How many maids have ended up being impregnated by men who are husbands and fathers?

Sometimes these pregencies are as a result of sexual molestation, (raped).

Bro, my point is, you need not be narrow minded.

baba I am into several business I dont know about you. The worst client you can have are women. Male 419 are 419 and we know it, but the women would be scamming you and still stand their ground that they are right. At least the male 419 would even run away. But they ladies have a way of manipulating situations to make them seem innocent. As a business man I wish I have only male clients. 90% of women are theives and liars. This is fact based on my experience

Martinez39s:
Nope.

haaa. Go and download it quick! Christ rock dropped mad points there

Martinez39s:

christ rock. Have you watched Tamborine?

DoctorOlasDesk:
Smh vigorously. Too much sense nor go kill you

you sef get too much sense. I have noticed your comments on this forum.

greypencils:
That is why you should marry a woman who meets you and loves you while you are still struggling.

lol, you dont know women, once they taste money, they will show you their true color. A woman cannot taste money and remain the same

Martinez39s:
Anyone who can't see that, in the intersexual dynamic, women are naturally self-centered, opportunistic, can't love, manipulative, ungrateful and remorselessly amoral when working in their best interests should be left alone. From my experience, there is no point arguing with such folks; either they know the red pill or they don't. Red pill isn't about hating or disparaging women, it is about telling things as they are on female nature even if it offends and doesn't go down well with the conventional mind.

Those men that think their mothers, wife, or sisters are different because they relate well with them and they have done helpful things can't be reasoned with; they are basking in blue pull assumptions based on their fool's paradise.

indeed, last last everyone go get sense. They should go and ask Julius agu. The man is alone now cause he is broke. The wife took her children and left him same wife he was praising before

odinson1:

most of them need a man to upgrade them. Just because they are dating a rich guy, they start behaving as if it is their money. They will be telling every guy they meet that they are not his mate. Lol

Jesuschristus:
His greatest miracle is how God became human just to die so as to save himself from himself

hehehehe. Abeg no kill me with laughter. Christian's too mumu. I was like that too before sha

Martinez39s:
Ride on, sir.

it is unfortunate some guys dont see this nature in women. Even though they want us to accept that we all are like that even men are manipulative, it is extremely rare to see a man that blackmails and uses emotions to manipulate others. Women are masters in this game. They do it all the time.

There is a woman on my street that is or was dating a former commissioner of police. The amount of trouble this woman started causing everywhere and small thing, she has called this commissioner of police. She would block the road and wait until police come and fight for her not minding the traffic she is causing. And the mumu man too would be doing all to please this village girl.

I have NEVER seen a man do this. It is women that would shout, do you know who I am because they are dating one big boy

Starzo:
exactly, that's the true purpose for the redpill. Not to hate them but always have your emotions in check while dealing with women so you won't be manipulated.

a woman would cause trouble, then go and involve her mumu husband and the simp man would rin to go and fight without sense risking his life because the woman wants to boost her ego.

Starzo:
redpill is Golden

.Thank God for he redpill

guys really have to wise up. Relate with women well but be very sensitive careful not to be their mug. Live your life without hate and dont let anyone force or manipulate you to hate

Ishilove:
Thank God you said "seldom do", which gives room for the agreement that it actually is employed by men as well. I first heard about 'gaslighting' from a man I know. This man is the king of gaslighting. It's like the word was even invented for him. He is the master of emotional blackmail and manipulation.

I also disagree that women use this tactic to a larger degree. What I feel is women are more subtle in the usage than men. A woman can manipulate you and you won't even realise that you're being manipulated, while men do it more blatantly.

ok.

Ishilove:
Let us stop these he vs she social media gender wars because they have no bearing to reality.

Guess why I opened this thread. It is not because of "he vs she"... i don't like it too. I have a gf I care very much about.

I just had a very funny experience involving 3 women one is my client and I am a client to 2 of of them. 2 of them employed aggressive emotional blackmail just because of small balance they are to pay. Lol. It was funny how much effort they put into the blackmail trying to make me fight my client and my client also trying to make me fight the other 2. It was just funny and guys almost never do this. I have seen my female clients doing this over and over again. One even tried to seduce me so she wont pay for goods delivered to her and when I was not having it, she wanted to turn it to fight. Lol

Ishilove:
Selfishness and manipulation has nothing to with gender and everything to do with the inherent human nature.

Have you seen children manipulating their parents into granting them their desires? They manipulate with tantrums, emotional blackmail, sweet words, exaggerated bodily expressions etc. The behavior is not learned, rather it is the inherent nature of man manifesting itself. Selfishness is also engrained in the very fabric of nature. Animals compete for limited resources for themselves and their young, and this trait is also not limited to animals but highest animals in the food chain, vis human beings. Selfishness transcends gender, and cuts across the very fabric of society itself, Mr HardMirror. Did the Hungarian Prime Minister not say that the wellbeing of his people transcends the politics of the current Russo-Ukrainian war? Was he not called 'selfish' for not considering the devastation being experienced by hapless Ukrainians?

Let us stop these he vs she social media gender wars because they have no bearing to reality.

you made some good points. Wont drag it with you but I just have to clarify to guys who think redpillers have gone bunkers. From my relationship with both genders, women employ emotional manipulations to a large degree. They would intentionally pit friends and families against each other. . Something men dont do, or seldom do.

Reelmii:
I dont even know wat rephill is

Is it that tetracycline drug or blood tonic

no o. It is blood capsule.

tillaman:
I was about asking the same question
The type of threads on NL these days sha

toor. Na small children here dey open such topics

Mooh247:


Sometimes it's scary to me... I read one having issues with his biological mother and I kept wondering how lucky and furtunate I am without even knowing

.

a mothers love is usually first for her children. It is part of the nature I am talking about. Those ones who have mothers that dont protect their best interest are truly unlucky.

Ishilove:
I usually read their threads to gain insight on how foolishness works.

true they way they talk makes them seem foolish, but women have a nature of being self centered and manipulative, we dont have to fight them or insult them because of this... as I said it is an evolutionary trait designed to help them compete with men, what they lack in physical strength, they have in intelligence. It is not a bad thing

Mooh247:
Going through Nairaland red pillers post always make me thank God for the kind of Women in my life

Father Lord I thank you for giving me women who are pillers of strength and support to me

oga ibhave a gf I can say is the best in the world, but she still has that nature in her just like every woman. But not here is argue with you, just enjoy your life

Should people be sharing this? Is it to brag or what

On nairaland it is either you are with the Redpillers or against them. There seem to be no boundary or middle ground.

Just like religion, there are those that are extremists and there are those that are docile.

And just like religion, the extremists are actually the ones who really stand for the ideologies of the religion, same with redpillers.

Redpillers are not wrong even if you dont like what they have to say.


What most men ignore or are ignorant of is the nature of women.
Women are not intentionally wicked and selfish it is just their nature.

I know we all love our mothers and sisters and we want to pretend that they are saints. It is fine... I understand you, your mother and your sisters are sacred so it blinds you from seeing their nature.

Women are naturally selfish and manipulative, it is not because they want to be wicked, they evolved that way because that is the only way they can survive amongst males and it is they only way they can compete successfully with other females. It is part of their evolution to survive.

Women are manipulative and selfish no matter how good they seem. Relate with them very very carefully dont let them push you gragra. Never sacrifice your life l, friendships, family, assets for any woman. They have evolved manipulative skills for thousands of years it is in their blood to manipulate you and dump you when you are finished. Please be wise guys

Only female clients give me headache.

They will order for goods and it would be fight before they pay their balance. They can have 100 million in their account and they will drag 1k with you.

They can maltreated other peoples children because they are housemaids.

They can marry you because you have money.

They moment a woman has money you will see her true nature.

The moment you are struggling you will see their true nature. They can endure for a while but e get reason o, them dey calculate


LET ME CLARIFY PROPERLY, IT IS NOT A BAD THING THAT WOMEN ARE SELFISH, THEY NEED TO BE, THEY NEED TO BE VERY CRAFTY, BECAUSE THEY NEED THESE TRAITS TO SURVIVE... SO IT IS A GOOD THING FOR THEM AND HIGHLY NECCESSARY

There is nothing wrong with masturbating or drinking. Just do everything with moderation. I only drink like twice a month. As long as you do your thing just once a while abeg live and enjoy your life you only have one life, you are not coming back again o.

Princeton92:
I've noticed my girlfriend is always uncomfortable whenever I'm on call with any of my friends, she comes to me and start playing with my body especially the parts she knows is very ticklish while I'm on phone call I even plead with her to chill but she's always pressing on.
We met in 2019 and would've started dating by then but I wasn't ready and I told her I wasn't even when according her she was seeing just me so we broke up what we had then not until last August 2021, we met and started dating finally...
Then after the call she'll say I'm talk for too long with my friends but whenever she's on phone call with any of her friends I give her that space and do nothing to interrupt like she does mine btw even when I'm not wrong she makes me apologize for almost everything (them say na mumu dey love) and mind you she's good when it comes to being arrogant and very rude.

I just dunno how best to handle this issue and it's making the relationship I have with my friends to deteriorate, is that even fair at all?


Cc: Lalasticlala Mynd44 Seun

lol. Women are selfish

On nairaland it is either you are with the Redpillers or against them. There seem to be no boundary or middle ground.

Just like religion, there are those that are extremists and there are those that are docile.

And just like religion, the extremists are actually the ones who really stand for the ideologies of the religion, same with redpillers.

Redpillers are not wrong even if you dont like what they have to say.


What most men ignore or are ignorant of is the nature of women.
Women are not intentionally wicked and selfish it is just their nature.

I know we all love our mothers and sisters and we want to pretend that they are saints. It is fine... I understand you, your mother and your sisters are sacred so it blinds you from seeing their nature.

Women are naturally selfish and manipulative, it is not because they want to be wicked, they evolved that way because that is the only way they can survive amongst males and it is they only way they can compete successfully with other females. It is part of their evolution to survive.

Women are manipulative and selfish no matter how good they seem. Relate with them very very carefully dont let them push you gragra. Never sacrifice your life l, friendships, family, assets for any woman. They have evolved manipulative skills for thousands of years it is in their blood to manipulate you and dump you when you are finished. Please be wise guys

Only female clients give me headache.

They will order for goods and it would be fight before they pay their balance. They can have 100 million in their account and they will drag 1k with you.

They can maltreated other peoples children because they are housemaids.

They can marry you because you have money.

They moment a woman has money you will see her true nature.

The moment you are struggling you will see their true nature. They can endure for a while but e get reason o, them dey calculate

Built2last:
If you have any inch of brain cell left in you, never believe anything published by western media.

Don't forget, propaganda is part of war.

Don't fall into that negative cognitive entrapment of the war being painted.

but we should believe what russia says right? Russia does not engage in propaganda