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worriedgirl:
Disclaimer : This is real so please kindly drop the necessary advice needed before the saucy comments.

My name is Lilian (pseudonym) and this is my story. Few years back, I was admitted into one of the universities in Nigeria. It was a great opportunity and I made up my mind to make good use of it. My intelligence endeared me to one of the senior professors in my department, the head of department to be precise. I enjoyed the attention he gave to me cause it gave me a chance to learn from his vast wealth of knowledge. He was a very intelligent man, he got all his degrees from UK universities and his intelligence was a force to reckon with. It didn't take long for me to start crushing on him... helllooooo don't blame me, I have a weakness for intelligent men and he liked me a lot too cause I was really young (I had to increase my age to get into the university ) and I was one of the best students in my set. He was nothing like the other lecturers, he related with students very freely and didn't have a high-handed nature like our Naija lecturers. We would talk about so many things in his office and I gained a lot from his intelligence, he was impressed with me cause I had one or two things to chip in regarding any topic that was raised. He would give me money sometimes for lunch and pleeaaasseeee free me, I didn't beg for it ooo, I was young then sef, my eye bin never tear for money.
I heard some stories about him being a womanizer and sleeping with students to give them financial assistance cause he was really loaded in the pocket region but he never exchanged sex for grades as he was really disciplined in the academic region, the man sef no dey waste time to give me "b" for him course, me wey be him paddy paddy. I never paid attention to the stories cause he was my idol after all and he never made any sexual advances towards me so it was none of my business. He was like a mentor to me and would always give me beneficial advises and I knew he had my best interest at heart. I had a little crush on him too.
On the day of my graduation, I gave him a gift and we said our goodbyes.

When I went to serve my fatherland (NYSC), he kept in touch regularly and started showing emotional interests. I made my first mistake by accommodating it, pleaassseeee don't chew me yet, I had a crush on him and he was my idol for crying out loud!!! Note that I never exchanged emotional messages with him, I only sent a smiling smiley whenever he sent them, he was sacred and I didn't have the courage to do it even if I wanted to.

After NYSC, I got a good news, my school was going to retain me as per best graduating student in the department thing. After finalizing everything, I was to work in his sub-department. No be for this kain country wey pesin dey throway better opportunity like this, no time to state the benefits of this job, all I can say for now is that it's a Federal university so think about the benefits yourself. When I visited his office briefly, he brought up the affair thing, he's married with children that can marry me sef so I knew it was never going to happen. He asked for a kiss and when I remained motionless, he hugged me tight and asked me to go and think about it. There's nothing to think about, I think the crush I had on him was academical cause there's nothing attracting me to him sexually at all, moreover he's somebody's husband and he's old enough to be my father too. I'm not scared of him causing any problem for me cause I don't think he would go that low, he is more intelligent than that. The problem is that I wish we could go back to how we were before this affair thing came up. He complimented my stature and it irritated me. I don't hate him at all, I just dislike the strange air building between us cause of his request. How do I act around him now that I have to work in his sub-department. I plan to act dumb like I don't understand what he is saying and avoid being alone with him cause he is retiring in five years time, but how possible is that? Working with him for five years and avoiding him, does that look realistic? I don't want to ever offend him not cause I'm scared of him but cause he has been my idol for too long, I respect him too much. I'm praying that the school sends me abroad for my PhD, at least that will remove 2-3 years from the 5 years. Please start throwing advises and for those that will still decide to bash me, please bash with a heart. Thanks.

Veektoria:
" oyaa oyaa repeat am"

emandman:
Thank you jare, av used Google translate they are telling me to extend my data for another 6months or it will be deleted if I don't by 18/8/16 mtchewww...make dem no follow me doing that kind rough play again ooo

policy12:
I love and admire this girl,yoing cool headed and humble..you hardly hear much about him if not the intro of his work. He has no much publicity like Don..

undefeated:
Try entering PTI, then you know some are harder

sound60:
,,, maybe you should go kill you self,,... This is d world we live in accept it,,,

Ajewealth123:
oga forget that English wey u dey speak.am a product of both and I can tell u serious poly students are fucking good.if not even better.

kings09:
R u scared of the HND grads? Beta buckle up cos HND engineering guys r used to practicals alredy while the university is all about theory n paper drawings. The psychological superiority u enjoyed has bn removed so beta ginger/upgrade urslf

Aare2050:
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DeRay98:
Prof of English of language how many sites have you visited today to correct badly written English, grammar etc? Smallie..

DeRay98:
Tough aggressive application

pamcode:
Wow congrats. By the way was it a laptop or mobile phone you used for it.

mukina2:
Ok Guys the new FPL season > http://fantasy.premierleague.com/

The main league is open to everyone .the code is 139890-46011

We have screen shots from last season . . .. for FA cup, Carling Cup and Conference .. they will be given out by standings only.

Please let us know your team names from last year .. no 419 here

For those who removed their team, you will not be given FA cup codes .
The h2h code, is limited to 20 per each league. FPL stops the number of entrees for private head to head leagues to 20 .
so we will have FA cup 1
FA cup 2 etc

If i didnt give you the code and find your team dia, i will 'comot' am

codes are available on request..

Last Season > https://www.nairaland.com/2439739/nairaland-fantasy-premier-league-2015

mukina2:
Ok Guys the new FPL season > http://fantasy.premierleague.com/

The main league is open to everyone .the code is 139890-46011

We have screen shots from last season . . .. for FA cup, Carling Cup and Conference .. they will be given out by standings only.

Please let us know your team names from last year .. no 419 here

For those who removed their team, you will not be given FA cup codes .
The h2h code, is limited to 20 per each league. FPL stops the number of entrees for private head to head leagues to 20 .
so we will have FA cup 1
FA cup 2 etc

If i didnt give you the code and find your team dia, i will 'comot' am

codes are available on request..

Last Season > https://www.nairaland.com/2439739/nairaland-fantasy-premier-league-2015

mukina2:
Ok Guys the new FPL season > http://fantasy.premierleague.com/

The main league is open to everyone .the code is 139890-46011

We have screen shots from last season . . .. for FA cup, Carling Cup and Conference .. they will be given out by standings only.

Please let us know your team names from last year .. no 419 here

For those who removed their team, you will not be given FA cup codes .
The h2h code, is limited to 20 per each league. FPL stops the number of entrees for private head to head leagues to 20 .
so we will have FA cup 1
FA cup 2 etc

If i didnt give you the code and find your team dia, i will 'comot' am

codes are available on request..

Last Season > https://www.nairaland.com/2439739/nairaland-fantasy-premier-league-2015

Elohim1:
I Aimt Never Heard This b4 Which Bacteria Exactly??
Gut Bacteria Help Digest and Absorb Foods. The most plentiful and important bacteria in the small intestine is the Lactobacillus species. Lactobacillus helps ferment indigestible carbohydrates and, as I mention below, supports the breakdown of sugars in dairy products, which are a common source of food sensitivities.

google is your friend


Can U Pick Dirt To Eat?? Spoilt Or Infected Food?? Will Some One Give His Or Her Baby Spoilt Food To Eat??

it doesnt have to be deliberate. when u expose ur food or eat in unclean environ or fail to wash ur hands properly.
That Same Bee Sting Is Used To Cure Some Illness

predatorX:
and there is a law that says u cant do both your ph.d and ur ccie concorrently?

i don't think you went to school. if not, you would know how strenuous, nay impossible to run a PhD, then learn CCNA, CCNP, and CCIE, whilst having in mind the fact that they last for just 2years. how do you wanna develop a thesis and at the same time pass a CCIE lab test.

do u think ph.d takes all d time in the world?

ask the lecturers in your departments who finished their B.Sc's in their mid-twenties, but are yet to get their doctorates even in their early-forties despite multiple attempts.

networking is included in syllabus brother, CCNA is a pro certificate. dey dont give u any CCNA certificate if u like get A in your school. ull still go and write their pro exam!

your intellect still presumes that all certificates must be carbon-etched on paper. The world is digital bro, current certificates are encoded, it's called DATABASING.

BornnAgainChild:
Beep me when you summarize this epistle.....too long to read

cloudgoddess:
This question occured to me while reading up on some recent medical research. According to (Christian & other) scripture, God created every living thing. Why did he create bacteria?

He says man are to rule & have dominion over all animals. Yet bacteria and other deadly microbes continue to conquer us; Christians and non-Christians alike are at the mercy of whatever untreatable bacteria they happen to be unfortunate enough to be infected by.

For those without a full understanding of what bacteria are or how they work (genuinely not trying to be condescending but to educate):

Bacteria are tiny, single-celled animals that outnumber people at least 1000000:1 and are completely invisible to the human eye (progressively more advanced microscopes have been invented by scientists allowing us to better visualize them and analyze their physical & chemical structure). They are on everything, including all over & inside of your body, and in the air you breathe.

Some bacteria are harmless. But others cause horrible, often gruesome diseases and defects when they are able to access the human body. Some kill by dissolving your flesh as they release acidic chemicals into your epithelial tissue. Some cause festering rashes, blindness, internal bleeding because they are feeding on your cells and releasing deadly waste into your body.

The bacteria has no motive but to survive. From its perspective, it's simply doing what comes natural.

Perhaps the worst part is that they can gain resistance to any medicine we throw at them. Their DNA can literally change in a way that enables them to avoid the effects of any antibiotic that was previously effective. Once that happens, the resistance trait widely spreads and soon you have a huge amount of bacteria that are all resistant to our medicines (our chemical "weapon" against bacteria). In other words, they getting better at fighting back.

According to religious thought (Abrahamic specifically) a loving and merciful God, who made earth for humans to rule, intentionally created an entire domain of creatures that are invisible killers -- capable of multiplying rapidly, destroying our bodies from the inside out & continuously improving/upgrading their own artillery.

Why would he do this?

Seun:
If this is true you are merely suffering from medical Depression. Go to a Psychiatrist and they will give you drugs that will help. It's just a treatable medical condition. Get to a Psychiatrist urgently Pls. Truly religion will not cure it, but medicine can treat it. It goes beyond mere sadness.

Airforce1:
cut your coat according to your size abi according to your material?

I would rather give #35000 to charity than spendall am.

Berlyn:
[size=15pt] this is wicked you all should just stop this shii ... [/size]