₦airaland Forum

Slayar:
All these fools commenting trash,why on earth will she starve her husband of sex.

Noah9:
Good morning nairalanders. Pls I'll go straight to point.

My wife and I have been married for 3 years, God has blessed our matrimony with a beautiful daughter. My wife is so decent, caring and beautiful inside out. I have been a great husband and father to my pretty daughter. I have never cheated on my wife since we got married.

Recently, she barely give me sex. Infact it would take a whole month before I could see Just the color of her undies and I wasn't happy about it.

Last week Wednesday, I committed an unspeakable abuse, I'm so ashamed of myself. I Raped my wife and I hate myself since that incident.

Honestly, I don't know what came over me that particular day, I tried to make advances towards her, she refused and she pushed my hand away. Out of anger I slapped her on her face (she bled from her mouth), I overpowered her and forcefully had my way through. She cried all through that night.

I regretted my actions, I feel remorse, I hate my Life . I have begged her seriously to forgive me but she haven't said a word to me for over 5 days now. She cook for just herself and my daughter, she no longer sleep in our matrimonial bed, she would rather sleep in my daughter's room or the visitor's room, she no longer greets me anymore.

I have never abused, beat or raised my hands on my wife or any woman before. Last week was my first time I did such an abominable act in my Life . What If any one notice we're having issues now, how will I explain to them what actually happened?

I don't even want my little daughter to know we're having issues. I don't know who to talk to. It's a faceless forum that's why I'm sharing my pain here . Pls how do I restore back happiness in my home, I need my wife to forgive me. I'm truly sorry from the depth of my heart and I promise it will never happen again.

Please Help Me.

AntiChristian:
See another lie from a Christian bigot! Why lie just to be relevant?

AntiChristian:
I think you should go back home and learn to mind your business! Has anyone in your house ever being raped at 6 yrs?

AntiChristian:
My brothers are in Lagos here! Na so so lies you go dey talk!

They are your brothers too na! Unknown Gunmen!

AntiChristian:
We are minding our business that's why our country is getting worse morally by the day!

Can you accept your sister to be like her?

AntiChristian:
It's not!

Do you wish such for your women folks?

AntiChristian:


But if na one man talk this one now na body-shaming!

We Ask Allah to guide her to Islam and Hijab!

motayoayinde:
WHICH ONE IS MARITAL RAPE AGAIN?

MUSLIM WOMEN SHOULD REALIZE THAT THEY ARE THE STANDARD FOR MODESTY AND DECENCY ANYWHERE IN THE WORLD.

BLIND IMITATION/ADMIRATION OF THE FALSITY OF FEMINISTS AND LESBIANS AND THE UNCULTURED WILL ONLY

UNCLOTH THEM,
DEROBE THEM,
SHAME THEM
HUMILIATE THEM
AND TURN THEM INTO KUFFAR THEN THE DEVIL WILL HAVE A REALLY GOOD LAUGH.

Patrioticman007:
Before the Balfour declaration precisely (1948) there was no state of Israel but jews living as refugees around the world. So just because they are killing Arabs in 21st century doesn't mean they won't go back to their state of slavery like they did during the Pharaohs time, for in this world na turn by turn, says law of Karma.

Lastly why do Christians have sympathy to their god killer ?, the Jews murdered him & set Barnabas a convicted criminal free.

Almighty Allah that freed South Africa from white occupation, will also free Palestine from Jewish occupation.

AdaAde:
Thank God say this platform no be Quora

Dukio:
And she is just 16

Danmisra:
Since you are illiterate let me help you, people like you don't know that the have been brainwashed by American media(CNN, BBC) to believe whatever they say, simply because they know that peiple(illiterates of the 21st century) like you don't do any research or study anything on their own.
The problem with brainwashed people is that they are so conditioned to believe any fucking news the see. As such they cannot think outside the box, so they cannot see the atrocities done by the media on people or themselves. Brainwashed people can be made to believe that they have to die by America/media and idiots like you will believe its true. All the crimes that are committed daily is only Muslim one that you see, then you are idiots when statistics of crimes are checked of non Muslim countries which are more than the Muslim countries in number. Pls go and read your bible it seems you don't know bible very well

Splitmind:
Shiishayites are not real Muslims, always twisting the truth and breaking bread with infidels

Candidlady:



seem like all men got gay tendency in them

iheard a gist bout d-banj and wande coal that year!

goaldynboy:
Stop lying you are not a Christian but a bloo.dy head slamming Muslim!!

No religion will support Muslims because they are the cause of terrorism all over the world, even in Nigeria!

You can never see a Buddhist, atheist, confusions, Christian wrapping bomb on himself to blow in a public place! ONLY YOUR FELLOW ISLAMISTS AND MOSLEMS!!

UncleKoboko:
Israel's doom is near if they don't stop their oppression against Palestinians and other dirty things they are doing.


If not for U.S.A all these while playing big-brother and defender role to them, Israel would have been DELETED!





Waiting for ignorant ass-liker 9ja Christians, especially those OSU IPOB JEW PIGS to quote me.

Datboredberry:
She could be a million times better than her bridesmaids...

It's not about looks alone... I don't know why men are so fixated on the beauty of a woman...

The bride could be smart, have an amazing personality...etc. The perfect partner..

Men tend to 'see'... I think it's dumb. That's why no matter how great their woman is, they would still cheat on her with someone who can't compare... Simply for a fine face, boobs and ass...

One reason I find it so hard to date...

saphiere:
Nairaland men support it. So channel that question to them.

saphiere:
And this happens in my dear state.

Men and rape hmmm. May God help us o.
Rape apologists coming for you. The will tell you how Nigerian politicians have raped Nigeria and nothing happened hence these criminals shouldn't be punished