Jokes Etc › Re: The "F" WORD........... by HCH3COO: 8:33pm On Jul 20, 2008 |
studio43: have u ever trying to figure if ya parent are siblings?  This  doesn't deserve too much of my attention so let me just scroll over sharp sharp. @ibkaye, you know i love you. |
Crime › Young, Gay And Murdered by HCH3COO(op): 8:31pm On Jul 20, 2008 |
Kids are coming out younger, but are schools ready to handle the complex issues of identity and sexuality? For Larry King, the question had tragic implications. http://www.newsweek.com/id/147790>1=43002[b]
At 15, Lawrence King was small—5 feet 1 inch—but very hard to miss. In January, he started to show up for class at Oxnard, Calif.'s E. O. Green Junior High School decked out in women's accessories. On some days, he would slick up his curly hair in a Prince-like bouffant. Sometimes he'd paint his fingernails hot pink and dab glitter or white foundation on his cheeks. "He wore makeup better than I did," says Marissa Moreno, 13, one of his classmates. He bought a pair of stilettos at Target, and he couldn't have been prouder if he had on a varsity football jersey. He thought nothing of chasing the boys around the school in them, teetering as he ran.
Brandon, 14, wasn't working on his paper, because he told Mrs. Boldrin he'd finished it. Instead, he opened a history book and started to read. Or at least he pretended to. "He kept looking over at Larry," says a student who was in the class that morning. "He'd look at the book and look at Larry, and look at the book and look at Larry." At 8:30 a.m., a half hour into class, Brandon quietly stood up. Then, without anyone's noticing, he removed a handgun that he had somehow sneaked to school, aimed it at Larry's head, and fired a single shot. Boldrin, who was across the room looking at another student's work, spun around. "Brandon, what the hell are you doing!" she screamed. Brandon fired at Larry a second time, tossed the gun on the ground and calmly walked through the classroom door. Police arrested him within seven minutes, a few blocks from school. Larry was rushed to the hospital, where he died two days later of brain injuries.
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Jokes Etc › Re: The "F" WORD........... by HCH3COO: 8:26pm On Jul 20, 2008 |
ibkaye:
i wasn't Whatever! typical ewure |
Jokes Etc › Re: The "F" WORD........... by HCH3COO: 8:19pm On Jul 20, 2008 |
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Autos › Re: Who Drives Manual? by HCH3COO: 8:09pm On Jul 20, 2008 |
mwahaha |
Romance › Re: Does A Broken Home Affect Future Romance? by HCH3COO: 8:07pm On Jul 20, 2008 |
catfight
~meow meow meow~ |
Literature › Re: Role Play: Reloaded by HCH3COO: 8:03pm On Jul 20, 2008 |
Look at this yeye womanizer. I pity ye women who think with your eyes. |
Family › Re: Looking For My Father! by HCH3COO: 7:51pm On Jul 20, 2008 |
liberian goat SeanT21: why are nigerians always looking for their family. Dont You have any relatives to help you. superman to the rescue superman: ask samuel dole! liiberian goat, i think nigeria on its parts fancy Gorge waeh than your fake american cocky accent ha! i know you like the letter C in there! i there that too ha! ROFLMAO CLASSIC! |
TV/Movies › Re: Denzel Washington Vs. Will Smith (Poll) by HCH3COO: 7:47pm On Jul 20, 2008 |
Orimili: I don't like either one of them all that much. I much prefer Chiwetel Ejiofor to have some of the roles that Washington and Smith have. He is an excellent actor, and I'm sure he will do a much better job than the two.  |
Literature › Re: Role Play: Reloaded by HCH3COO: 7:44pm On Jul 20, 2008 |
StephenP: I'm happy you like it. Please don't be afraid to contribute. I know you are a very good writer. Back off player  . . . . where is ariblaze sef |
Culture › Re: Effects Of Large Tribal Marks On Faces by HCH3COO: 7:36pm On Jul 20, 2008 |
Aww this is really sad. Arnold1: [size=14pt]The Osu Caste System in Igboland: Discrimination Based on Descent[/size]
http://uk.geocities.com/internationaldalitsolidarity/cerd/dikeosu2002.html
The Osu, by definition, is a people sacrificed to the gods in Igbo community. And they assist the high priest of the traditional religion to serve the deities or the gods in their shrine. It is the belief of many Igbo traditionalists that the deities, which were (and are still) perceived in some quarters as being very powerful, would wreck havoc in the society, if they are not appeased.
In some special circumstances, those who hold the traditional beliefs of the Igbos could transform a Diala who committed certain atrocities against the land, into an Osu. This process involved intricate rituals (offering of libations and sacrificing animals to the earth goddess). Some of the ancestors of the present-day Osu people inherited their dehumanizing social status this way.
Because of many oral interpretations of the construct, the Osu has various definitions. It has been defined as a ‘cult slave,’ a living sacrifice,’ an ‘untouchable,’ ‘outcast,’ ‘owner’s cult,’ ‘a slave of the deity,’ and a ‘sacred and holy being.’ 3 These names mean the same: it is an abomination in the Igbo society for the Diala to marry Osu.
All human beings are created equal, but human experiences are heterogeneous. Some people have had it rough all their life on earth, while others do not have a lot to complain about. Naturally, life has the same meaning for everyone, but the Osu caste system in Igboland seems to have changed the meaning of life for a group of people branded Osu
Osu are people our igbo ancestors used to do sacrifies to the gods for the difficulties they faced then, which includes disease, lack of rain, poor farm produce, children and babies dieing etc.
The gods then asked for human sacrifies to help with these issues. When a sacrifice is offered to gods it is damned evil to touch those things.
Even in the bible when Abraham offer sacrifice to God, nobody eats the sacrify, it is burn to ashes.
The stigma that Osu have had today this that they were used for gods sacrifice and dimmed to the igbos as outcast.
To my understanding, most of then are very wealthy and brilliant people, their girls are very beautiful.
I myself will NEVER marry osu, not because I don't like them. It is because of the stigma the igbos has on them. For example, they do not involve in active igbo events. No one will elect an osu person as a governor, local chairmen, Eze, Chief, etc.
If an Osu people tries to speak on behalf of the igbo he/she is immediately discredited, because of this stigma. I still have great ambitions for myself and would not want something to hold me back.
If you are not igbo you can never understand. This thing will NEVER go away and I feel very sorry for them. We call it Ome na ala (The law of our land) We cannot leave ome na ala and start to do ome na elu (Not the law of the land)
When you go to village and see how these people live, you would feel sorry from them. They do not trade because nobody would buy from them. In school nobody plays with osu children etc, it is really terrible.
If you want to leave in diaspora all your life, them marrying osu will not really affect you. But if you plan sometime in the future to return back to Nigeria, hmmm, you really have to be very careful. Remember we do not only mary for ourselfs we marry for children as well, you do not want to give our children a bad start in life.
I am sorry I have to say this, but this is the way it is and I did not make it so. Remember that osu are human being like us too. |
TV/Movies › Re: Tulip Producer Replies Genevieve Nnaji by HCH3COO: 7:26pm On Jul 20, 2008 |
Caliente: [size=13pt]That's your opinion, I don't particularly like her.[/size] Thirded |
Culture › Re: Effects Of Large Tribal Marks On Faces by HCH3COO: 7:23pm On Jul 20, 2008 |
Arnold1: You are an idiot for bringing up this tribal mark issue with yorubas again. This issue was discussed a long time ago on a previous thread, but being the useless tribalist that you are, you wouldn't let it rest.
In Igbo land, do you discriminate between those that are Osu's and those that aren't ? LoL |
Autos › Re: Who Drives Manual? by HCH3COO: 7:22pm On Jul 20, 2008 |
The thrill of manliness is something to behold. |
Family › Re: Why Do Most Educated Women Find It Very Difficult To Submit Their Husbands by HCH3COO: 7:09pm On Jul 20, 2008 |
Some of them think the education has bought them two balls to replace their  chiogo: @poster, what exactly do you mean by submitting to their husbands?? In order words, being a slave to their husbands, right?? *rolls eyes* Roll that eyes all the way to the back of your head. I think he meant some educated women contrrive to stand toe-to-toe with their husbands on every issue. |
Fashion › Re: Would You Use Contact Lenses? by HCH3COO: 6:33pm On Jul 20, 2008 |
*kisses*  |
Forum Games › Re: Be The Last Person To Post Here: by HCH3COO: 6:32pm On Jul 20, 2008 |
the people who post below me will sustain lifelong injuries and have bad luck for the rest of their lives
death, poverty, malaria, fever, epilepsy, cholera, gonorrhea, hiv
if you don't want this bad luck, refrain from posting and let the thread die here. |
Fashion › Re: Would You Use Contact Lenses? by HCH3COO: 6:21pm On Jul 20, 2008 |
Now you're typing just to get the last word in.
Everyone mixes up their image. It's no big deal.
It's too bad I love you. i would have broken your head. |
Fashion › Re: Would You Use Contact Lenses? by HCH3COO: 6:02pm On Jul 20, 2008 |
Amugbo. If anything is kolomental it is your mentality. I have personally experienced very many black girls with colored eyes. Way too many to be contacts, and they look so "sexy" . Alas, the depression is just your garrulous opinion.
White people who listen to hiphop are depressing too, right? |
Fashion › Re: Would You Use Contact Lenses? by HCH3COO: 5:54pm On Jul 20, 2008 |
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Culture › Re: Do You Have Role Models? Who Are They? by HCH3COO: 5:04pm On Jul 20, 2008 |
No wonder some people never do well on standardized tests. seanT simple question yet you tumbled at the wrong exit. |
Literature › Re: Try This Drabble With A Twist. by HCH3COO: 4:26pm On Jul 20, 2008 |
She doesn't do my type. |
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Romance › Re: Do Ladies Fart: ? by HCH3COO: 4:06pm On Jul 20, 2008 |
lol . |
Romance › Re: Unwanted Love by HCH3COO: 6:41am On Jul 20, 2008 |
whatever. go find your babe, hiss. |
Romance › Re: Unwanted Love by HCH3COO: 6:38am On Jul 20, 2008 |
i tot so |
Romance › Re: Unwanted Love by HCH3COO: 6:29am On Jul 20, 2008 |
She told me herself. |
Romance › Re: Unwanted Love by HCH3COO: 6:23am On Jul 20, 2008 |
not trying to be funny. |
Romance › Re: Unwanted Love by HCH3COO: 6:15am On Jul 20, 2008 |
Ever been in a situation where you love someone that you know you shouldn't love? for ex: brother's girl, mom's boyfriend, teacher, player, prostitute etc.
How and what did you do to get out of the situation? {love}.
In some situations, there are times people love at the wrong time, esp. loving the wrong person. Someone you know you can't have. Do you continue pursuing that person or do you wait and let the love disappear? Hey poster. It happened to me recently. I tried to love someone that loved someone else and it backfired. She told me she was giving me attention without intention. just count your loss and move on. |
Celebrities › Most Beautiful Women Of All Time by HCH3COO(op): 5:51am On Jul 20, 2008 |
This according to PEOPLE http://www.people.com/people/gallery/0,,1184666_1184662,00.html 1) HALLE BERRY Times Named Most Beautiful: 11 Sure, the 40-year-old Oscar winner has flawless skin and perfectly doe-shaped eyes, but it's not when she's staring in the mirror that she feels radiant. "I feel the most beautiful whenever I'm doing things that I love," says Berry. "I love work, I love being around children, I love reading." 2) Julia Roberts 3) Jennifer Anniston 4) Catherinze Zeta Jones 5) Angelina Jolie 6) Nicole Kidman 7) Michelle PFeiffer  Demi Moore 9) Jennifer Lopez |
Nairaland General › Re: Is Gabrywyl Mushlings?!? by HCH3COO: 5:34am On Jul 20, 2008 |
it violated nairaland's rule on obscenity |