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Liazz:
Am I being unreasonable being mad at my wife?
We relocated abroad 3 years ago but she isn't helping to settle any of the bills.

We both are gainfully employed though I earn much than she does. Our monthly expenditure is about £2000 and she doesn't care to help in any way. I foot all bills making me struggle to save while she keeps all she earns to herself. We also had a loan of over 10 thousand pounds to settle when we relocated, she didn't help with a dime till I paid all bits by bits which took me almost 2 years.

Despite this, I still help with house chores like taking care of our kids, home cleaning and even washing dishes though she does all the cooking.
I've expressed my displeasure several times but she keeps insisting I can't force her to financially assist, it's my job as I'm the husband. She seems convinced she isn't doing any wrong and no sign of remorse whatsoever.

I financed our relocation 100% without her contributing a dime.

This is causing a strain in the marriage and I am thinking if I am unreasonable in my demand, am I?
Your comments are highly welcome.

joseph1832:
Good. It's nice the Army released a statement immediately, instead of letting the misinformation linger...

Tokskob2008:
I will choose the foodstuffs because it's way more than 100k

TheWinterBird post=129953612:
You were cheating on her if you were talking dirty with another female but you're here forming victim. I wouldn't be surprised if you've met up with this person or other women, or dated other women in the so-called 7-year relationship with this girl. Neither of you are saints, but you're the epitome of pot calling kettle black.

Iykegodslove:
Good day everyone!! I am emotionally shattered as I type this message. I have been suspecting my wife for years now but no concrete evidence to confront her.

There is a boss of my mine who happens to be our family friend. Each time he calls my wife, she deletes the call history immediately. This has been happening for years but I keep quite because i love my wife and my children so much.

Of recent, i decided to know what is happening by hacking her call with him. Lo and behold, they are into deep relationship that my wife calls him baby. Infact, sleep has gone out of my eyes and am thinking of how to deal with the situation.

It should be noted that i am not working under the man in question only that we are church members and he has rendered countless of help to me. I am wondering what puts my wife into this mess. I am graduate but i decided not to work for anybody but to focus on my farming. I am doing well financially bcs i can boost of 500k or more every month. We are not lacking anything at all.

Please house ignore my typo and help with good advice.

Note: i dnt want to divorce my wife and am ready to forgive her bcs she has been of great help to my success and moreover, i love my family very well. What should i do to stop them?

Brendaniel:
I think you have to keep and feed them for a while to know you...

ennon92:


Crazy ppl full this world sha.. Opportunity most ppl are looking for is what you are whining about...I understand working from home has its own cons but not to the extent you are making it to look. Mine is hybrid, been working from home for the past few weeks, I'm enjoying it this way... Transport fare wan cut person neck.

Christianoir:
It is weird, I don’t talk with my neighbour, we only greet nd hail each other that where it end, but I haven’t really have any meaningful conversation with them before and it bother me sometimes tho.. I’m mostly an introvert nd the shy type. Is something wrong with me, sometimes I want to speak to them, but me speaking to them will mean being friendly, which I’m avoiding, ever since I rented this compound I’ve avoided trouble. Nd I’m someone who cares about what people say or care about the opinion of others, things get to me easily tho

Do they see me as a proud/arrogant person.
I’m I weird. Is there people out there like me who have neighbors like me.

Im a student tho.

Please ignore my typo error.

richiemcgold:
Music fans in Nigeria already knew Tuface before they started knowing more about a group called Plantashun Boiz or any artist called Blackface. Tuface was the one who actually helped both Blackface and Plantashun Boys to become popular all over Nigeria.

The artist that first brought both Tuface and Blackface to the limelight was Tony tetuila when he featured them in his popular song Omode Meta. In the song, Tuface was that lanky young boy with a sweet voice singing " oh o! s'ere o, won n s'ere ayo..." Only a very few knew Blackface or Plantashun Boys during this time.

Modified:
For those debunking my claims, I have only one question for you: "before Omode Meta, was there any hit song from Tuface and Blackface?

I stand on my word that Tony tetuila made both of them popular, and Tuface was the first to come to limelight in that group. I never said Tuface started the group, but he was the fans' favorite. He made the group popular. Any show they go, most of the crowd you see there came out because of Tuface, not because of faze or blackface.


Both songs you mentioned came out after Omode Meta. Stop capping; I'm not your mate. Omode Meta was released late 90s. The gap far well well.

Check out the video of Omode Meta below:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4M2cUkQqdqA

Lexusgs430:
Exactly what are they mining and where.........

jechona:
I was trapped by some police women today at mile one, Port Harcourt and they said my proof of ownership and police clearance has to be renewed so I called my FIRS agent to get update and she said;

Police clearance ..... 15k
Insurance .....15k
Road worthiness, MOT and proof of ownership .... 12.5k
Vehicle licence ... 3k


Total... 45.5k

And I was like wdf? Just to renew one car? Its like Tinubu is out to kill us. Please how much is it currently in your state?