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Jobs/VacanciesRe: I've Just Been Employed As A Teacher, What Should I Do Next? by Hectroy(m): 1:16pm On Aug 29, 2023
You already have the drive to succeed. Request for old note and syllabus from the VP Admin side by side with the previous class note. I'm sure this will help with online research.
TrustNone Ypost=125436021:
Hello guys, I graduated earlier this year but couldn't serve as I wasn't eligible for NYSC as I was above 30 years of age when I graduated.

Coming back to Port Harcourt, I applied as a Subject Teacher in several schools, went through several interviews and made it, after going through their salary rates, I had to go for the highest bidder which is 40k and I'll be Teaching two subjects..

Now the thing is, I lied heavily that I'm a experienced Teacher during the interview and added imaginary and non existent schools to my CV, what made me scaled through the interview here was that I researched and also went through several threads and noted down all what could possibly be asked and I also obtained lesson notes and lesson plan samples from one lessonnotes moniker, researched, practiced, found a topic and revised and scaled through the micro teaching, the next day I was offered the job.

Now schools would be resuming two weeks from now and I don't need to fumble, guys please any insight on what is expected of me as teacher?

How often should I give assignments?
Where do I get the syllabus and textbooks?
How often should I teach a topic, should it be one week per topic?
Any other thing I need to know?
Your inputs would be so highly welcomed.
RomanceRe: My Wife Has Set A Timetable For Sex For Me. What Do I Do? by Hectroy(m): 5:51pm On Aug 24, 2023
Number 1. You need to start seeing her as your wife and not a sex object.
Number 2. You're trying to shift the focus from her but you as the problem.
Number 3. According to you she just reduce 'access' from 3 times to two weekly, don't you think that is fair for a wife of 5years probably a nursing mother.
Number 4. You hit her with a remote leading to her loosing consciousness and this was treated as normal behavior? Temperament.
Number 5. I don't think you are who you portray yourself to be on this platform.
Number 6. I think you've succeeded in killing her emotions.
Recommendation: seek a therapist.
FamilyRe: My Husband Is Not The Same Man I Married. by Hectroy(m): 3:17pm On Aug 14, 2023
Believe it or not some men feel betrayed knowing you're more on the side of your family and to them you just failed your first loyalty test. The least you could've done is to just encourage him rather than been seen as reckless with words. To him the N50,000 you dropped is not out of support but more of you trying to save face. Some ladies should know that there's life after wedding and as such should be more sensitive not to be seen as being one sided.
From your narrative, he was told to provide cow, and decorated hall alone but his family were still the one that provided food. What then was your family's contribution? To me it's insensitive for brides parent to "extort ' by turning what could've been a moderate wedding to a jamboree.
I've seen where some ladies mediate and influenced cutting down of some items.
Women should know that their role as a wife starts from pre wedding preparation.
My advice to you is swallow your pride and apologize.
CrimeRe: Seyi Olayode Decomposing Body Found With Breast, Hair Missing In Ibadan by Hectroy(m): 5:39pm On Aug 11, 2023
So according to your tribal mindset, this only happens in the south west? Why not just condemned the act and avoid invoking tribal sentiment. Tribal and religious speech should be stopped because that's what brought us to our current predicament. Condemn the act without insulting any tribe. There's always a Judas in every gathering so your attempt to generalize this condemnable act is insensitive, callous and spiteful. Shalom.
izonborn098:
Free sef i no go marry from south west'
Even single mom' i can't
Very very disgusting set of people.
*everyday they are harvesting up to ten people'
*what about the ones the media don't carry
*what about the ones they go scot free.
*anybody defending this useless act' though some of them never bring kid to this world' so they don't know the pain of losing ones kid' talkless of being harvesting by wretched yoruba man and woman.
HealthRe: Do I Have Herpes? by Hectroy(m): 5:44pm On Aug 09, 2023
Dude, You're so irresponsible and endangering not only your wife but the unborn baby. All this infection if not properly treated can lead to deformation of baby since I'm certain you will at a point still slot that dirty thing into your innocent pregnant wife unprotected. For you to have the mind of slotting in than already infected pr**k into another hole shows how disgusting you are with no conscience. Men don't act this way.Tueh.
HealthRe: Man Jumps Into Lekki-ikoyi Link Bridge Water by Hectroy(m): 6:33pm On Aug 08, 2023
Suicide rate has doubled, all thanks to bad economy policy without critical thinking and roadmap. Very quick to remove imaginary subsidy but foot dragging towards cushioning it's effect. People are suffering with many heading towards depression everyday.
Insensitivity, impunity, recklessness and lost of touch with the masses has now become major characteristics of governance.
This country is in comatose and I sincerely hope she can be revive back for the sake of the poor and helpless people existing inside.
People are suffering as the needy are getting isolated by friends and loved one's for fear of monetary commitment. Nowadays, nobody wants to check on you as they're afraid one might use the opportunity to ask for financial aid since they as well are trying to adapt to present economic reality.
There was a country
Which way Nigeria
Cry, my beloved country
It's all making sense.
Oh God! Help us, as we're patiently waiting for the wind of change.
TravelRe: Niger Air Space Closure Fall Out: British Airways Forced On 10-Hour ‘Flight by Hectroy(m): 11:51am On Aug 07, 2023
AntiMarxist:
The only reason commercial flights will avoid the airspace because no insurance company will cover them if they route through Niger airspace.
not because of possible fatality case since they have spare battery to recharge in the eventual case of death.
HealthRe: My Girlfriends Have Left Me Because I Have Erectile Dysfunction by Hectroy(m): 5:29pm On Jun 24, 2023
Dear OP,
Stop leaving in self denial. Why the rush to prove your potency if not because of anxiety? You keep repeating that you're considering doing it raw as if looking for someone's validation. It's your decision, your life.
On the main issue, you need to stop masturbating completely and start exercising; jogging on a spot, skipping and push/sit-up will help. I'll advice you stay away from sex for like 3 week/a month and eat lots of fruits and veggies.
There's more to living that sex! sex!! sex!!!
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Chelsea Vs Brentford (0 - 2) On 26th April 2023 by Hectroy(m): 10:06am On Apr 27, 2023
Chelsea problems started with Todd Boehly coming in and dismantling of all the structure that made Chelsea thick; Maria, Chech, reversal of policy, ridiculous contract negotiations and bringing in unfit and mediocre players.
He's also a control freak that doesn't want to appoint a coach that will question him. Hence, he's going for Poch( another mediocre coach).
Next season Chelsea will be in championship. Know this and know peace.
Cry my beloved Chelsea. Viva Abrahamovic.
FamilyRe: My Dad's Friend Willed 90% Of His Properties To His Daughters And Not His Son by Hectroy(m): 5:52pm On Apr 25, 2023
Hectroy:
If he's a good the guy as claimed, I'm sure he'll benefit from the half sister's goodwill. If not, the Dad's influence should pave ways for him in terms of connections afterall inheritance does not guarantee wealth.
My concern is the will's leakage. This is supposed to be a confidential arrangement/ activity between the lawyer and the client.
FamilyRe: My Dad's Friend Willed 90% Of His Properties To His Daughters And Not His Son by Hectroy(m): 5:49pm On Apr 25, 2023
It's good the guy is calm, I'm sure he'll benefit from the half sister's goodwill. If not, the Dad's influence should pave ways for him in terms of connections afterall inheritance does not guarantee wealth.
My concern is a will supposed to be a confidential arrangement/ activity between the lawyer and the client. The leakage though.
IyaebeTheGreat:
I swear, but I'm feeling for the son. He's not even making any trouble about his father's decisions. He's a calm gentle man
RomanceRe: He Rejected My Proposal For A Relationship by Hectroy(m): 12:12pm On Apr 22, 2023
Abeg tell them o, all the oversabi over floated ego ancestors... Be there living in 1925 when the world has already left you behind.

Lemos14:
This is 2023..the tables have turned..if you maintain this mindset you go grow beards for your papa house.
BusinessRe: How Many People Remember This Advert Way Back In The 90’s by Hectroy(m): 11:59pm On Apr 20, 2023
I think it was Papi luwe (that featured in the Deawoo Racer advert. I still remember 7up using helicopter for distribution of handbill... Fido Dido was the in thing back then.
A lot of money pumped into the advert thereby relegating Green springs, Crush, Doctor Pepper and Afri Cola etc as lesser alternative soft drink.
CultureRe: Emami Presents Fake Ologbotsere Insignias To Olu Of Warri by Hectroy(m): 3:22pm On Apr 17, 2023
Bro try do some research before commenting
MrDoGood:
How do you give someone a title. After some time, you tell the person to return it that you want to give the person another title.

I've never seen that before

Wahala grin grin grin
BusinessRe: Over 2m Businesses Die In Nigeria In 5 Years – SMEDAN by Hectroy(m): 9:31am On Apr 14, 2023
You must be residing in Jupiter to believe that the upcoming Census about to be conducted by this same administration that failed to deliver credible 2023 election will now oversee a credible exercise. Have you for a minute ponder on why the rush for census now having in mind that the administration have less than a month to leave. It's all a gimmick design to apportion the North with high population thereby justifying the diversion of all infrastructure and establishment.
Continue waiting for digital population same way we waited for BVAS.

TemplarLandry:
Believe Nigerian Government's agencies' statistics at your own peril. How did they arrive at that number? I'm looking forward to our upcoming first digital Population and Housing Census, we're about to know our real population for the 1st time.
BusinessRe: Over 2m Businesses Die In Nigeria In 5 Years – SMEDAN by Hectroy(m): 9:29am On Apr 14, 2023
You must be residing in Jupiter to believe that the upcoming Census about to be conducted by this same administration that failed to deliver credible 2023 election will now oversee a credible exercise. Have you for a minute ponder on why the rush for census now having in mind that the administration have less than a month to leave. It's all a gimmick design to apportion the North with high population thereby justifying the diversion of all infrastructure and establishment.
Continue waiting for digital population same way we waited for BVAS.
TemplarLandry:
Believe Nigerian Government's agencies' statistics at your own peril. How did they arrive at that number? I'm looking forward to our upcoming first digital Population and Housing Census, we're about to know our real population for the 1st time.
FamilyRe: I Love To Marry Her But worrying about the high bride price by Hectroy(m): 11:56am On Mar 22, 2023
I understand your concern which is the monitary demand aspect.
Believe me, Anambra doesn't demand exorbitant bride price. If you are very sincere about it and good with people, even your prospective in-law can make some adjustments if your intention is clear and don't 'Buga'. But first thing is to discuss your plan with your lady so both of you can be on the same page. There's always life after marriage.
OmoGomesIlorin:
I meet this lady in December 2019 and by 2020 we had the opportunity to connect with each other on a friendship level. From my interactions with her and observations, she is cool-headed and calm, intelligent and ambitious. Her skills match someone I dream of marrying. She is from Anambra, state - Umuoji

However, as a low-budget guy, I am weighing my options due to stereotype of demanding for a gargantuan bride price.

I want to know if what people are saying online is true or exaggerated


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PoliticsRe: PDP's Sherriff Oborevwori Wins Delta Governorship Election 2023 by Hectroy(m): 4:44pm On Mar 20, 2023
Sense no go Kee you...
wehdone:
Congratulations PDP, I guess Sheriff is the better candidate. But on a serious note... Does it mean that Obidients and LP was just about Peter Obi? Or is the wave coming to an end?


That aside, Igbos should be calming down. They talk too much. They reveal too much! We should learn to talk 'sooooo' much less! STFU, and keep your opponent guessing. JEEZ!!! I hope we have learnt a lot from this Election sha...

South-south people should also now understand that we have been divided and conquered. I hope you guys enjoyed the stray bullets you received when Igbos were being bashed. If Afikpo people, Abakaliki and Nsukka people can be called Igbos, I don't understand why someone from Aniocha, Rumuru, etc, people with Ikechukwu, Emeka, etc as names, would say they are not Igbos! Your Igbo is even easier to understand than Nsukka Igbo!

We have been divided! It's up to us to unite ourselves. Else, we will remain conquered.

Best wishes my people...
EducationRe: When School Fees Are Not Paid, Who Should Be Punished? Student? Or The Parents? by Hectroy(m): 1:35pm On Mar 16, 2023
Subtle reminder is ok if the parents are not serial defaulter, having in mind the present economic situation.
It has nothing to do with the pupil, punishing them because of late payment is outrightly wrong and that should happen, I'll pull my children out of the school.
So what happened if I eventually paid?
PoliticsRe: My First 100 Days As Governor of Lagos - GRV by Hectroy(m): 11:28am On Mar 14, 2023
Osun is functioning without Alpha beta.
Dapagun:
3 and 4.

Cancel your tax consultants then where will the money came from to do what you said you will do with the "money saved"?

Have you thought that the legal battle that will arise from terminating tax contracts might actually bankrupt the state? Who now handles taxes? Corrupt civil servants who no one can monitor?
FamilyRe: Dilemma: Would She Be A Problem For Me In Future ? by Hectroy(m): 6:38pm On Mar 04, 2023
You know this lady has history of cheating, she cheated on you with a man and also cheated on the same man (or another man) with you. Why can't you just move on and look elsewhere. What if she gets pregnant for you and decided to keep it as she's done before? This lady knows about your intention to come look for a wife, do you think she'll be ok with you just using her for procreation alone? Please move on and stay away from her. I don't understand the coming back to look for a wife thing. Don't you have any relationship ongoing?
quote author=oldienavie post=121454323]I am a single man in my early 30s, I used to have a girlfriend some couple years ago .
She cheated on me, I didnt break up with her but the relationship just kinda died and she moved on .

She started dating another guy but I was also sleeping with her occasionally cos she liked me, anyway, the guy found out and he decided he was not going to marry her, but somehow she got pregnant for the guy.
I was already out of the country when she got pregnant for him.

The guy wanted her to abort but she wouldn't, she has a beautiful daughter now, she is not doing so bad as she works with one of the top banks as she is very comfortable.
Because of the trauma she suffered during pregnancy, she became close to me as the boyfriend totally abandoned her and the guy has not set eyes on the daughter till today, the daughter is now 6 years old.

I have been out of the country for 7 years and I am due to be back in Nigeria in a few weeks time, I am going back to purposely to look for a wife, we are going to be in the same city .

We currently talk everyday and it has been like that since more than 6 years ago, she is not dating anyone at the moment and she also knows I am coming to look for a wife.

Its almost certain that we are going to get back to having sex as its just obvious despite that we have never discussed that, its hard to really stay away from her but not impossible I am thinking there is nothing wrong having her as a Friend With Benefit pending when I get a wife that I want to marry and then discharge her.

Will it be possible to be Friend With Benefit with her and easily discharge her when I find another woman I want to marry without issues ? I love her and would have considered marrying her if not for the history that we shared, we have now become the best of friends, but I am just confused if resuming sex with her will not make it difficult to keep her away from me when I find another woman.

You know women can be very emotional .[/quote]
HealthRe: Midlife Crisis: Am I Slowly Becoming Addicted To Alcohol? by Hectroy(m): 1:00pm On Mar 03, 2023
I know this feeling, more of despair and disappointment, nothing seems to interest you and nothing seems to be working. Thought of having a decent drink is refreshing to keep the mind from delving deep into depression. We are leaving in an insane country and whatever will keep your sanity intact is welcome. But remember to do it in moderation. You possessed a good and pure conscience. It is well with you.
gard9ner:
I never realised that alcohol can be this enjoyable, all my life I’ve always detested ppl that drink, whenever the topic comes up I always remember a certain wealthy man when I was younger, even with all his wealth he would drink himself to stupor every night and vomit, his driver would have to carry him, it was a very bad experience as neighbours to witness those nights especially as a young boy. So I concluded that drinking is unacceptable and I grew up with that ideology, not until recently I’ve started having a rethink.

For sometime now, especially couple of weeks ago leading to last Saturday’s election, I’ve been having a difficult time, I feel like I’m drowning sometimes, maybe it’s midlife’s crisis I don’t know, I don’t know how that feels but what I know is that I was gifted a bottle of expensive vodka last week and I accepted knowing fully well what I was getting into, I knew I was going to step into another phase in my life, I could have sold the drink but no, I kept it.

Like I said already, it’s been rough with me lately, the current cash crunch in the country isn’t helping, the last strew came when last Saturday’s election was announced by 4am, I was awake watching, it struck me like a bolt of lighting, I felt speechless physically but this deep hurt like my soul was groaning. Fast forward to date, I’ve consumed a couple of bottles like bloody mary, VSOP and other spirits which I mix in chilled soft drinks. I so much enjoy this new habit, I can never drink to stupor, I just lock up myself in my lounge, play some music and sip away or lock myself in my car at night and sip with music, I stop when I start feeling a bit sleepy, I just sleep quietly and peacefully. My wife just smells the stuff on me but hasn’t said anything, as I still talk reasonably and even engage her with more humor in those hours, I’ve also noticed that the house is stress-free, no arguments or hard conversations when I consume too.

Here’s my problem guys, deep inside me I know I’m doing something wrong, which is why I’m posting this anyway, even though I feel peaceful when I consume. I wasn’t raised this way, my father was never an alcohol person. I feel something is wrong and somehow I feel like I’m drowning and need help (laughs). I don’t know if this will get worse overtime or if I might be tempted to do more than this in future. I know I can never do drugs, smoke etc but this highness things is eating me, I just finished the last bottle of Strumbras spirit now which I shared with a visitor, I now think it’s even more pleasurable sharing a drink with someone. I’ve ran out of bottles now and I’m considering restocking but I’m led by the spirit to post this, I don’t want preaching, I just want to read other ppl’s comment and experience and how they navigated this phase of life (midlife crisis), preferably elders in the house if any, if you’re 40 and below and have no useful contribution pls don’t comment. I need this to get to FP. Thanks.
TravelRe: My Girlfriend Doesn't Want To Get Married To Me Before Traveling Abroad by Hectroy(m): 5:20pm On Feb 17, 2023
I'll advice that you also apply through study route, apparently she's keeping her options open and she doesn't want any commitments for now. Try yours as well so you can do same. It was never love.
Lifeinbits:
Myself and my girlfriend have been dating for almost three years that she sometimes stays in my house too. I have always had the intention of traveling abroad but i don't know how, so last year my girlfriend brought the idea of traveling and how she wants to try US study route and i encouraged her to do so. I also supported her so much with my money by helping her to pay her application fee and TOEFL exam. While doing all these, we had a conversation and she told me that if she is able to get a fully funded offer that we will be going together and I will be going with her as dependent. Now my girlfriend has gotten admission but she is yet to apply for visa and she has changed plans. She does not want me to go with her rather she is advising that I should also use the study route ifi want to travel.

Note : we had the intentions of getting married but right now she doesn't want us to get marry.
FamilyRe: How Do I Politely Ask Her To Leave by Hectroy(m): 12:47pm On Feb 14, 2023
Your own case is different as the person you accommodated is considerate and decent. This person in question is not only inconsiderate but also lazy and selfish. There no point maintaining relationship with a selfish being. She should be asked to go in a polite manner.
The bolded is only applicable if the person is not an opportunist, the lady in question doesn't have conscience and such people rarely remember who helped them. Good riddance.
Ofunaofu:
The bolded is so true

I once accommodated a new colleague, that was in 2017, after a month or so he got an accommodation and moved out. Do you know that today when ever I go to the city for some stuffs, because I have since relocated, I spend the night at his place.
SportsRe: Turkey-Syria Earthquake: Atsu's Partner Calls For Equipment To Aid Rescue by Hectroy(m): 3:30pm On Feb 11, 2023
It was a hurried reporting from representative of Ghana consulate in turkey. The club claimed otherwise. Sad.
Madrina:
I thought they said this guy has been found? God abeg o
CelebritiesRe: South African Rapper AKA Shot Dead! by Hectroy(m): 7:36am On Feb 11, 2023
My guess will be a revenge killing. The circumstances leading to the death of his fiance still stirs a lot of controversy albeit emotions. Sad news.
FarahAideed:
Award winning rapper AKA. The musician whose real name is Kiernan Forbes, has allegedly been shot dead in Durban on Friday.

Details of his murder were still sketchy at the time of publishing this article.

It is believed that AKA was supposed to perform at his birthday party on Friday.


However, he was accosted by unknown gunmen who fatally him several times, in what appears to be a hit, outside a restaurant on Florida Road. The event has since been cancelled.

https://sundayworld.co.za/news/breaking-news/rapper-aka-has-been-killed/
FamilyRe: Married Ex by Hectroy(m): 11:07am On Feb 10, 2023
You said you don't want to hurt him. This means somehow you still consider his reaction to your actions. It is called care. You still ha e feelings for him forget about the illusion of you keeping your emotions in check and not seeing him for long.
When your denial reached its elasticity limit, you'll come out and accept the obvious.
I'll advice you focus on your own life and move on since he's done same.
Let him know you don't fancy his flirty move and that he should stop it. If this continues, I'll advise you block him
PoliticsRe: LP-APC Banner Spotted In Warri, Delta State (Pictured) by Hectroy(m): 10:56am On Feb 10, 2023
People are now voting for individuals and not party
FamilyRe: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by Hectroy(m): 3:35pm On Apr 16, 2022
Why name calling? He is only worried about his dad selling some of the properties. To me he is only protecting what is rightly his own. The issue of who legitimately own this property would not have come up if the dad is being reasonable. Please protect your inheritance and get a lawyer.
simpleseyi:
You are a thief. Ole ni e. The properties belong to your father, not you prodigal son.

If the properties were originally your father's properties, your mum will claim them as her own. It should be same now that the properties are originally your mum's
RomanceRe: How I See Fine Guys Without Money. by Hectroy(m): 3:52pm On Mar 24, 2022
How do you see yourself being a parasites?
CelebritiesRe: Davido Sends Private Jet To Pick Up Chioma And Son Ifeanyi by Hectroy(m): 5:49pm On Mar 03, 2022
Almost thought the private jet was sent to picked up Nigeria nationals that are stranded across Ukranian border.

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