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You already have the drive to succeed. Request for old note and syllabus from the VP Admin side by side with the previous class note. I'm sure this will help with online research. [quote author=TrustNone Ypost=125436021]Hello guys, I graduated earlier this year but couldn't serve as I wasn't eligible for NYSC as I was above 30 years of age when I graduated. Coming back to Port Harcourt, I applied as a Subject Teacher in several schools, went through several interviews and made it, after going through their salary rates, I had to go for the highest bidder which is 40k and I'll be Teaching two subjects.. Now the thing is, I lied heavily that I'm a experienced Teacher during the interview and added imaginary and non existent schools to my CV, what made me scaled through the interview here was that I researched and also went through several threads and noted down all what could possibly be asked and I also obtained lesson notes and lesson plan samples from one lessonnotes moniker, researched, practiced, found a topic and revised and scaled through the micro teaching, the next day I was offered the job. Now schools would be resuming two weeks from now and I don't need to fumble, guys please any insight on what is expected of me as teacher? How often should I give assignments? Where do I get the syllabus and textbooks? How often should I teach a topic, should it be one week per topic? Any other thing I need to know? Your inputs would be so highly welcomed.[/quote] |
Number 1. You need to start seeing her as your wife and not a sex object. Number 2. You're trying to shift the focus from her but you as the problem. Number 3. According to you she just reduce 'access' from 3 times to two weekly, don't you think that is fair for a wife of 5years probably a nursing mother. Number 4. You hit her with a remote leading to her loosing consciousness and this was treated as normal behavior? Temperament. Number 5. I don't think you are who you portray yourself to be on this platform. Number 6. I think you've succeeded in killing her emotions. Recommendation: seek a therapist. |
Believe it or not some men feel betrayed knowing you're more on the side of your family and to them you just failed your first loyalty test. The least you could've done is to just encourage him rather than been seen as reckless with words. To him the N50,000 you dropped is not out of support but more of you trying to save face. Some ladies should know that there's life after wedding and as such should be more sensitive not to be seen as being one sided. From your narrative, he was told to provide cow, and decorated hall alone but his family were still the one that provided food. What then was your family's contribution? To me it's insensitive for brides parent to "extort ' by turning what could've been a moderate wedding to a jamboree. I've seen where some ladies mediate and influenced cutting down of some items. Women should know that their role as a wife starts from pre wedding preparation. My advice to you is swallow your pride and apologize. |
So according to your tribal mindset, this only happens in the south west? Why not just condemned the act and avoid invoking tribal sentiment. Tribal and religious speech should be stopped because that's what brought us to our current predicament. Condemn the act without insulting any tribe. There's always a Judas in every gathering so your attempt to generalize this condemnable act is insensitive, callous and spiteful. Shalom. izonborn098: |
Dude, You're so irresponsible and endangering not only your wife but the unborn baby. All this infection if not properly treated can lead to deformation of baby since I'm certain you will at a point still slot that dirty thing into your innocent pregnant wife unprotected. For you to have the mind of slotting in than already infected pr**k into another hole shows how disgusting you are with no conscience. Men don't act this way.Tueh. |
Suicide rate has doubled, all thanks to bad economy policy without critical thinking and roadmap. Very quick to remove imaginary subsidy but foot dragging towards cushioning it's effect. People are suffering with many heading towards depression everyday. Insensitivity, impunity, recklessness and lost of touch with the masses has now become major characteristics of governance. This country is in comatose and I sincerely hope she can be revive back for the sake of the poor and helpless people existing inside. People are suffering as the needy are getting isolated by friends and loved one's for fear of monetary commitment. Nowadays, nobody wants to check on you as they're afraid one might use the opportunity to ask for financial aid since they as well are trying to adapt to present economic reality. There was a country Which way Nigeria Cry, my beloved country It's all making sense. Oh God! Help us, as we're patiently waiting for the wind of change. |
AntiMarxist:not because of possible fatality case since they have spare battery to recharge in the eventual case of death. |
Dear OP, Stop leaving in self denial. Why the rush to prove your potency if not because of anxiety? You keep repeating that you're considering doing it raw as if looking for someone's validation. It's your decision, your life. On the main issue, you need to stop masturbating completely and start exercising; jogging on a spot, skipping and push/sit-up will help. I'll advice you stay away from sex for like 3 week/a month and eat lots of fruits and veggies. There's more to living that sex! sex!! sex!!! |
Chelsea problems started with Todd Boehly coming in and dismantling of all the structure that made Chelsea thick; Maria, Chech, reversal of policy, ridiculous contract negotiations and bringing in unfit and mediocre players. He's also a control freak that doesn't want to appoint a coach that will question him. Hence, he's going for Poch( another mediocre coach). Next season Chelsea will be in championship. Know this and know peace. Cry my beloved Chelsea. Viva Abrahamovic. |
Hectroy: |
It's good the guy is calm, I'm sure he'll benefit from the half sister's goodwill. If not, the Dad's influence should pave ways for him in terms of connections afterall inheritance does not guarantee wealth. My concern is a will supposed to be a confidential arrangement/ activity between the lawyer and the client. The leakage though. IyaebeTheGreat: |
Abeg tell them o, all the oversabi over floated ego ancestors... Be there living in 1925 when the world has already left you behind. Lemos14: |
I think it was Papi luwe (that featured in the Deawoo Racer advert. I still remember 7up using helicopter for distribution of handbill... Fido Dido was the in thing back then. A lot of money pumped into the advert thereby relegating Green springs, Crush, Doctor Pepper and Afri Cola etc as lesser alternative soft drink. |
Bro try do some research before commenting MrDoGood: |
You must be residing in Jupiter to believe that the upcoming Census about to be conducted by this same administration that failed to deliver credible 2023 election will now oversee a credible exercise. Have you for a minute ponder on why the rush for census now having in mind that the administration have less than a month to leave. It's all a gimmick design to apportion the North with high population thereby justifying the diversion of all infrastructure and establishment. Continue waiting for digital population same way we waited for BVAS. TemplarLandry: |
You must be residing in Jupiter to believe that the upcoming Census about to be conducted by this same administration that failed to deliver credible 2023 election will now oversee a credible exercise. Have you for a minute ponder on why the rush for census now having in mind that the administration have less than a month to leave. It's all a gimmick design to apportion the North with high population thereby justifying the diversion of all infrastructure and establishment. Continue waiting for digital population same way we waited for BVAS. TemplarLandry: |
I understand your concern which is the monitary demand aspect. Believe me, Anambra doesn't demand exorbitant bride price. If you are very sincere about it and good with people, even your prospective in-law can make some adjustments if your intention is clear and don't 'Buga'. But first thing is to discuss your plan with your lady so both of you can be on the same page. There's always life after marriage. OmoGomesIlorin: |
Sense no go Kee you... wehdone: |
Subtle reminder is ok if the parents are not serial defaulter, having in mind the present economic situation. It has nothing to do with the pupil, punishing them because of late payment is outrightly wrong and that should happen, I'll pull my children out of the school. So what happened if I eventually paid? |
Osun is functioning without Alpha beta. Dapagun: |
You know this lady has history of cheating, she cheated on you with a man and also cheated on the same man (or another man) with you. Why can't you just move on and look elsewhere. What if she gets pregnant for you and decided to keep it as she's done before? This lady knows about your intention to come look for a wife, do you think she'll be ok with you just using her for procreation alone? Please move on and stay away from her. I don't understand the coming back to look for a wife thing. Don't you have any relationship ongoing? quote author=oldienavie post=121454323]I am a single man in my early 30s, I used to have a girlfriend some couple years ago . She cheated on me, I didnt break up with her but the relationship just kinda died and she moved on . She started dating another guy but I was also sleeping with her occasionally cos she liked me, anyway, the guy found out and he decided he was not going to marry her, but somehow she got pregnant for the guy. I was already out of the country when she got pregnant for him. The guy wanted her to abort but she wouldn't, she has a beautiful daughter now, she is not doing so bad as she works with one of the top banks as she is very comfortable. Because of the trauma she suffered during pregnancy, she became close to me as the boyfriend totally abandoned her and the guy has not set eyes on the daughter till today, the daughter is now 6 years old. I have been out of the country for 7 years and I am due to be back in Nigeria in a few weeks time, I am going back to purposely to look for a wife, we are going to be in the same city . We currently talk everyday and it has been like that since more than 6 years ago, she is not dating anyone at the moment and she also knows I am coming to look for a wife. Its almost certain that we are going to get back to having sex as its just obvious despite that we have never discussed that, its hard to really stay away from her but not impossible I am thinking there is nothing wrong having her as a Friend With Benefit pending when I get a wife that I want to marry and then discharge her. Will it be possible to be Friend With Benefit with her and easily discharge her when I find another woman I want to marry without issues ? I love her and would have considered marrying her if not for the history that we shared, we have now become the best of friends, but I am just confused if resuming sex with her will not make it difficult to keep her away from me when I find another woman. You know women can be very emotional .[/quote] |
I know this feeling, more of despair and disappointment, nothing seems to interest you and nothing seems to be working. Thought of having a decent drink is refreshing to keep the mind from delving deep into depression. We are leaving in an insane country and whatever will keep your sanity intact is welcome. But remember to do it in moderation. You possessed a good and pure conscience. It is well with you. gard9ner: |
I'll advice that you also apply through study route, apparently she's keeping her options open and she doesn't want any commitments for now. Try yours as well so you can do same. It was never love. Lifeinbits: |
Your own case is different as the person you accommodated is considerate and decent. This person in question is not only inconsiderate but also lazy and selfish. There no point maintaining relationship with a selfish being. She should be asked to go in a polite manner. The bolded is only applicable if the person is not an opportunist, the lady in question doesn't have conscience and such people rarely remember who helped them. Good riddance. Ofunaofu: |
It was a hurried reporting from representative of Ghana consulate in turkey. The club claimed otherwise. Sad. Madrina: |
My guess will be a revenge killing. The circumstances leading to the death of his fiance still stirs a lot of controversy albeit emotions. Sad news. FarahAideed: |
You said you don't want to hurt him. This means somehow you still consider his reaction to your actions. It is called care. You still ha e feelings for him forget about the illusion of you keeping your emotions in check and not seeing him for long. When your denial reached its elasticity limit, you'll come out and accept the obvious. I'll advice you focus on your own life and move on since he's done same. Let him know you don't fancy his flirty move and that he should stop it. If this continues, I'll advise you block him |
People are now voting for individuals and not party |
Why name calling? He is only worried about his dad selling some of the properties. To me he is only protecting what is rightly his own. The issue of who legitimately own this property would not have come up if the dad is being reasonable. Please protect your inheritance and get a lawyer. simpleseyi: |
How do you see yourself being a parasites? |
Almost thought the private jet was sent to picked up Nigeria nationals that are stranded across Ukranian border. |