₦airaland Forum

Oluwasaeon:
[b][/b] Most stupid NLder ever

GodShowmemercy:
i was right. No Agument. I knew just like a child u will come roaring

GodShowmemercy:
Advice from teenagers here in nairaland will end ur marriage fast fast

Dogogo1900:
Leave to where?
Please don't come to APC,we don't want you, you have no political value.

daben1:
honestly, house rent, it's you, pepper, salt, Maggi,... It's you, Nepa bill, Na you, everything Na you and you'll still open your uselessly wide mouth and hiss at me... God!

meobizy:
This woman and Tolani have conji issues. It is through them I’ve learned conji wounds some Naija girls worse that men. How they manage to cover it up surprises me.

Kriss216:
Being a Simp and getting married to a Nigerian girl is deadlier than cancer.

manos:
Note: it's a bit long... I could have summarized but I want those contributing to get a crystal clear picture of the situation, so that they can give better and specific advice.

The major problem here is that she mixes up things to be done in the kitchen with things done only in the toilet.
I have been married to my wife for over a year now (no kids yet) and there are certain unhygienic habits she has been displaying, since we started living together. I have been seeking ways to help her improve on it, but a calm correction from me always leads to a bitter argument between us. (She claims I complain too much whenever I point it out)

For example, she always clears her throat early in the morning and spits in the kitchen sink. (despite the fact that we have 2 toilets with wash hand basins; one in the room and also a guest toilet, with a wash-hand basin which is basically 3 steps from the kitchen). Then she goes to the bathroom, gets her toothbrush and comes back to the kitchen to brush her teeth, while doing several things with toothpaste and saliva drooling from her mouth all through.

The other day, she prepared breakfast (spaghetti) for both of us with the drooling toothpaste mouth and i refused to eat from it. I didn't complain to her either, until she asked why I didn't take my portion of the spaghetti from the pot, later that evening. I mentioned to her that, as always I find it disgusting to eat spaghetti, seasoned with toothpaste drool and saliva. The response I got from her was a hiss and then she said that, next time I should inform her if I am not going to eat the food she cooked so that she would not cook for me."
I let that slide but I felt she missed the point. The next day was her birthday and I decided to prepare breakfast for her.
While I was in the kitchen cooking, she came in with the same drooling toothpaste mouth to take a kitchen Scissors in order to cut something on her pants, even though we have another scissors in the room for such purposes. In the process of trying to pick the scissors, her hands which were covered with toothpaste drool had to cross the pot which I was cooking with. I mentioned to her that I was not comfortable with that and she just hissed as usual, still picked the Scissors and left the kitchen while angrily saying that I am just a complainer. I lost it at this point and proceeded to give her a lecture in anger about basic hygiene and why I can not keep quiet over these things because we live in a shared space and how her actions have a direct effect on me. It ended in a shouting match till she kept quiet, without accepting she was wrong.
This is the pattern almost everything takes when I try to correct her. The worst part is that I would still have to be the one to apologize for shouting at her because if I don't, I might be subjected to a week long silent treatment which I dread.
There are other more unhygienic things that are done by her, which I might not be able to post here due to the fact that I am not completely anonymous and she is still my wife but I hope this information is enough for someone to understand my frustration and profer a solution.

SpicyMimi:
This is not Nigerian made, this is Cottny.co.uk sir hehe

SpicyMimi:
Lol check well...jeans and shirts reduced! This is a new set, dollar is really high now...it was lesser with #500 before.

GeneralPula:
Set of people selling Guns and weapons are one of the richest set of people on earth..

bankulizer:
Your papa left balls, your right brain, your mama right yansh, your brother left eye, your sister right leg...your teachers right hand.

Futurejoy:
I tell you o.... our neighbor works in FAAN and after he retired , they rehired him on contract. One day, he just slumped in the office. He went into coma, entered stroke but I heard he is doing well now. I don’t know what caused all this

kingxsamz:
Eyah, but why did this one burn though?

Texman21:
I am surprised righteousness missed this one.

Randy111:
I guess trowing the 1st stone at him means you are without sin or weakness. If you can't suggest a reasonable ideas for him, then shut that gutter you call mouth and let people with ideas talk. Common sense no common ooo. Meanwhile, I won't get off ur mention until I reset ur faulty brain.

Jlow2:
Be protesting if you lyk don't fight back, learn from berom and jukuns tribe that has matched the Fulani terrorists, blood for blood, and eye for eye.

Majority of fine women are oloshos. I can't say am fine, but I had the chance to date at least 4 fine babes, unfortunately 3 end up as cheats, while d last one....well, d last one said am impotent because I refused to renounce my vows of any sexual activity till marriage..So we broke off, But I have to admit, she's damn fine

Villagemeat:
What's the name of the job you got?

roszilman:
guy, i really don't take a Bleep from anybody dat make mockery of de both christians and muslim (everybody) captives of BH, its sometin too baaaaarrd!!

mamagee3:
[color=deeppink]Are you saying she looked away because the girl/lady was sexy?[/color]

roszilman:
smelling pussy ass motherfvcker!!! Next time they would capture ur sister and mother, dumb ass!!