₦airaland Forum

Mayng01:
Check what you wrote & slap yourself in the face.

Randy111:
He ask for advice and that was the best you could give. The did has been done any way forward is what he seeks advice on do if you don't have any to offer him, then shut up.

Meanwhile I will suggest the Op finds a hospital where ever he is and do the needful. Consult a specialist and leave all these nurses alone. Many of them are sales girls, cleaners, Clark that suddenly giving injection Haven worn s nurse's robe.

Mayng01:
Overconfidence, cowardice & ignorance killed him

Poloyanabo2:
Rule II: don't travel with your ID card or anything related to the military...
It'll endanger your life.

k2wise:
No soldier will make suck mistake, the story is not completely true.

konkonbilo:
the way these white guys care about dogs ehn is beyond my imagination, if you think we're taking care of dogs here in Nigeria just go watch all those videos online that those white guys post on Facebook and on Instagram you go know say we no even de close. The dogs sleep with them in same bed, play with their new born bady and even lick thier skin which can never happen here in Nigeria, there even buy different toys for the dog, some dogs even have thier own bed and chairs inside the house. They call themselves dad and mom of the dogs can't even keep mentioning what they do but it's just so different from the way we train dogs here. If they can treat dogs like humans how much more them treating their fellow humans. Na that side real humanity de no be africa.

WIZGUY69:
I don’t know what this people are trying to achieve, but it doesn’t make any sense. With the loss of jobs here and there, they are employing dog to do what exactly? If they pay the dog salary, who will collect and spend it?

Mcheeew

davidhobo:
So i have this ex who hates me with a passion, when i ssy hate, i mean it can only be hatred, i dont think it can be anything else. We have broken up for about a year now, and because we stay around the same side of town, we do run into each other, every once in awhile.

Her hatred for me is just mind boggling.its almost raw hate. Can a woman hate a man she once woke upto and dated for almost 2 or 3years that much? Is it normal?

I am still trying to understand this mentality or pyschology. We lived together (for some months) and yes, we both offended ourselves yes, and she packed up and left. We were supposed to have married had some projects i had lined up fell into place, till everything hit the rocks, not because i dumped her, but because she walked.

I even apologized to her, despite not understanding how much more of blame i had than her, but she's had none of it. She's 28 and i am in my mid 30's for context. She often said I was veey wicked (from my own interpretation, because i wont suck up to her or tolerate some of her excesses), yet if I had 10naira, i was willing to give her 6naira and keep 4naira.

I never hit her, never even shouted at her once, never cheated on her,- but in her own mind, I am sure she convinced her self i did all these.. I did try to treat her nice in my own way.

Yet, post break up, her rage is unquenchable. Is such vitriol or hate normal, for women?

jawalis:
These are not necessary. Enough has been said and people have move on. Let the sleeping dog lye.

GamalNasser:
I doubt if IQ can improve again once a man crosses 30

Westernlove:
Yes also get her A Car, A rented apartment, and place her on monthly allowance as well. Thank me later.....

Zzor:
you are short for a man,sorry ooo Mr shorty

Queenlovely:
2013 my daughter came back to Nigeria from leed University. she told me she wanted to join the Nigerian army I was mad.


she refused to listen, she was almost done with everything, her father refused to stop her


the only solution was to use suicide as weapon.

I threatened to drink rat poison if she doesn't get that idea out of her head.


she complied.

today she is doing well as a venture capitalist

mrrandomguy:
1. She broke the ice the first time we met.
2. She relates well despite being introverted.
3. She is pretty and much younger.
4. She initiate chats most times. I did this the first time.
5. She keeps eye contact, does not appear shy like a typical Northern girl.
6. A colleague feel she is elitist. Who cares?
7. She read romance novels.
8. Some colleagues and "clients" don't like her character. I don't care?
9. She is a Muslim.

But
1. I am not a Muslim.
2. I am not a Northerner.
3. Women have asked me out in the past and I have lost count of green lights.
4. I have a decent job with a clear career path.
5. I feel my chances are extremely low, if I have any.
6. I DON'T WANT TO RUIN OUR FRIENDSHIP.

Nuttella:
Come and beat me, I'm in my house, president of woman beater association, y'all are going around melting out punishments to women, continue beating your girlfriend/wife, you will soon meet your waterloo.

Shancca:
Na man you be bro. I have a nephew with almost same circumstance as your niece and I am planning settling down soon. I have warned my girlfriend to stay away from my nephew; else I will show her the exit door. I love my nephew and all I want is to make his mother happy. And no one can stop that. Kudos man!!!��

Nuttella:
Why should you beat someone you claim you love, why didnt you just send her away, break up with her and cancel the wedding, you are not even a good partner, thankGod this happened, now she knows you are a woman beater and you dont deserve her. I guess this is not your first time of beating her, woman beater.

nkwuocha1:
Anigreat,

I will never ever ever ever ever ever marry a girl like that EVEN with a knife on my throat.NEVER.

But beating her up ,that I wouldn't do.But what I will do us this, Pin her to the ground and tell my niece to give her a couple of slaps and knocks ,after which I will push her out of my house shut the door and fling her stuffs through the window.

womenareapes:
shut up you piece of trash!

no woman can ever mess with my family because I don't take shit from them like you simps!

Nigeria women are so overated in this country. there value is worth comparing to 5naira note

useless set of black species with entitlement mentality.

the more we guys realise that women are not to be treated like human the more you will have a peaceful life.

I treat women like piece of shiit.

flyingpig:
I bet it was not deliberate. Just an anger reflex. He should have the remorse to regret it. I can only beat a woman when she is offensive against me; trying to go physical with me. Because even in court of law it is called self-defence.

OP, you shouldn't have beat her. You should have urged her by the side and separately to apologise to your niece in your absence, and also desist from en-slaving her with chores. She can de-list some chores to your niece while she handles the others. That would have been mature and wise from her. Sometimes we don't meet the perfect wife material, we can only mould them to our taste. But if they resist to be moulded or don't make deliberate attempts to change for the better, that's where I call it QUITS!

Anigreat:
I'm sorry to bother you all this early morning with this my story.

Apologies for any blunders spotted, and sorry for the lengthy post.

I have a niece who unfortunately the mother died when she was barely a month old, and her mother was my only sibling as my mother gave birth to two of us, remaining only me now. Her death was really painful to us, but i thank God for consoling us especially my mother.

During her pregnancy, she never made mentioned of the person responsible for her pregnancy inspite of my mother's threat. When the inevitable happened we had no other option than to adopt the child. We were praying earnestly that the child survive, glory to God she did survive though it wasn't easy, as at now she's 14years old and currently in SSS1.

Last week my mum called me that my niece says she's coming to Uyo were i am staying to stay with me since there's no school for now, which i obliged to it immediately. Prior before this call, my girlfriend whom i intended to marry was staying with me. I informed her immediately that my niece is coming to stay with us for a short period of time, immediately i told her this, her countenance change through out that day. I keep on asking her what the matter was but she keep on saying nothing.

Monday last weekmy niece arrived my place.

My dears ever since my niece set her foot in my house, this girlfriend of mine whom i intended to marry turned to something else. She stop cooking, washing and sweeping, all she does is to ordered my niece around as her house help. I was so hurt seeing this that i confronted her thinking that she will change, but she went from bad to worst.

Yesterday morning i overheard her telling my niece to wash the toilet and mop the floor before thinking of eating. My niece replied that she's too tired that she won't be able to do it(I was actually happy inside when i hear this)

What follows next was a sounding knocked she gave to my niece and the poor girl screamed and started crying.

Truth be said, i was so furious that came out of the room. I didn't asked her anything i just told her your cup is full today. I dealt with her seriously. The beating i gave to her was out of this world, that she was bleeding, though later in the day i took her to a nearby clinic for treatment.

I have learnt alot this few days. Men should be careful of the type of women they intend to settle down with.

As some of them will manipulate you that you start hating your family members or stop them from coming to your house for no reasons if you're not strong.

I want her to get well after that i will put an end to the relationship, all marriage plan cancel, and no going back and no regret.

Imagine if I've gone ahead to marry her. Is this how she will be maltreating my niece? obviously i will forever leave in regrets.

If you ask me if i feel sorry for beating her, truth is, there's no atom of regret in me, and i will never feel sorry for her. If she has the mind to maltreat a poor girl whose mother is late, she's capable of anything.

Insults are welcome.

johnjoshuaj:
It all started last year September 28, when I made out with my ex, it was unprotected, prior to that she had already told me she's treating an infection but i nor still hear word i went ahead to run it raw

So after some time early this year when i went back to school, I started noticing some changes/symptoms, It was itching me and some itches maybe pus on the tip of my d*ck and before the tip. This prompted me to contact one of my course mates of which I explained everything to him, he requested I should go for urine and RVS test of which I did and the result came back sero negative for the RVS while the urine came back Yielded moderate growth of staphylococcus.

Then the nurse prescribed the treatment of which I came back the following day to start taking the treatment, the nurse gave me two 2nd generation antibiotics and I was injected for five days.. so after taking all these I was now perfectly fine and okay.. But again two months later I started noticing the same symptoms again, and it's been close to two months now I have been managing it like that because there's no way I could go back to the nurse because I'm very far away from school, because of the shutdown of schools.

Please Nairalanders I need your help on what to do, I'm not feeling okay with the stuff, its worrying me so badly and I can't stay a minutes without it itching me and I'm now feeling depressed over it now, please I really need your help please, thank you

tnerro1:
Bros, just tolerate and continue texting first, once u bleep her(very well o) na she go come Dey text first

lilmax:
Have sex with her

That will change the whole story