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Nigeria Immigration should deport that oyinbo man back to America quickly.

America deport people that want to force foreign culture on Americans

Samantha125:
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I foresee alot of gbas gbos in this thread

OP, please put fo.olish in front of the word women in that your reference above.

Only fo.olish women do it to that extent that it will break their relationship or marriages.

Those categories of women even act or behave in their relationships and marriages based on what online or anonymous women portray or advise without using their own God given brains to advise themselves.

OP, what is wrong with your head?

You don't have a steady job with your pally, and here is an established farming that the man has run for years and an opportunity to become the owner and you are talking "I don't want to live in a village".

Better run quickly and learn the work while the man and the opportunity is still here before it's too late.

Farming is now a good profession these days and many rich people are looking for ways to invest in it.

AND by the way, your wife sounds like a good wife. Hold her tight ooo. Not all these "men are this and that" business only women that are out there now.

Mummytoo:
1. Yes, with all my heart
2. None, because he beat my pregnancy out, I never rested
3. The slap came because I picked a call with d name Inec, I thought it was a political call, to tell d caller he was bathing, because he doesn't like having missed calls, he told me to do that before with d different contact, buh when I picked it was a female, he rushed to me collected d phone and gbam, and my mom was there, d lady kept calling back, my mom asked him to pick but he refused
4. He makes me work day and night in d store while he monitors the money and collects everything

1. Based on the fact that there's no child between both of you. You can decide not to go back. This is a big factor and it's clear.

2. You see that cheating, it's a very grey area for men doing well financially. Many women will tell you to leave your man because he cheats but the truth is that many of their husbands are also cheating and they stay with him like that. And majority of the women that leave their husbands because of cheating end up dating another woman's husband when they get outside. I am not endorsing cheating and I don't know the financial strength of the man.

3. I don't have to tell you this as you are a woman. I will say you should do all your calculations and mathematics and decide based on that.

You will not see all those "women support group" , "men are this and that" monikers in this thread now.

If it is a thread about a woman complaining about a man, they will be all over the thread spilling their bitterness.

Hmmm. Very sad. Wife dead, husband going to prison, children are now orphans.

Instead of this, please divorce and move on.

CrisNews:
My Girlfriend went for a wedding and posted pictures from the event and I notice she Tagged her Ex-Boyfriend on the Facebook Post. On Easter, yesterday she also tag him on her post!

Should I confront her because I feel like something is wrong somewhere?

Advise me on what to do please

Don't confront anything. You too have ex na? You too start tagging them and let your girlfriend know about it.

The problem will solve itself from there.

To avoid heartbreak, take the relationship the way the girl takes it. If she takes it serious, be serious. If she takes it like a play around or game, you too take it like that.

Agreed. Children need both motherly and fatherly supports as they grow.

While some men can be deadbeats, we also have cases of some women actually preventing fathers in the lifes of their children when there is a problem between both mother and father.

These women do these thinking they are punishing the father but unknowingly to them, they are actually punishing their children.

Only experienced people know this. It's just nature.

Even in animal kingdom, a weak male will hardly see female to mate with in the presence of other strong males.

kennisman:
Pls do they request for LCA and Form ETA-9035/9035E for h1b interview.

I will advise you go with a copy, just in case. Request from your employer a copy if you don't have one.

Nazgul:
They just listed the kinds of marriages we have in Nigeria. The reality here just as they put on the website is that you'd have to come to the embassy with a marriage certificate as proof that you're married.

Most cultures in Nigeria don't issue certificate for traditional marriage so you'd still have to go to the registry after your traditional marriage to get it.

Go and read all that section again

"... Some Local Governments will issue a certificate based on that affidavit by virtue of the Registration of Customary Marriage bylaws. Absence of an affidavit or certificate of this kind cannot be taken as lack of marital status"

That qoute above is from that link.

I personally have seen numerous Nigerian couples with no registry marriages got their marriages recognized by the US embassy even when they are going through immigration visa.

The latest of my experience is my close friend, a Muslim family with only Islamic and traditional marriage. He and his family just arrived in the US on an EB immigration visa in January 2025.

Mummytoo:
As a woman, pls answer this question

Pls my fellow women, what will u do in this kinda situation, do u go back or continue to enjoy this love that was denied u all these years.

The men of God should answer

I have questions for you first.

1. Did you like the man before you married him?
2. How many children are involved in the marriage?
3. Put more information about what led to the slap. I am not supporting wife beating but we need more context. Was it a one time case or repeated cases?
4. On the claim that he collects all money you earn, how is that possible?? You also said you built shops while you were with him and he tried to collect one of the shops from you. How come he was collecting all your money and you still built shops? Clarify that inconsistency.

laptopsforsale:
Hello guys, please advise me.

Below picture is the survey plan of a land I have had for a while now, but want to start something on it now. I will be meeting with an architect and engineer next week, but I am now thinking of what I want to achieve so I have come up with this very rough sketch on the plan.

The land currently has a foundation on it which is the red coloured box in the picture. I bought the place with the foundation on it and I don't even have the plan of the foundation, so i will re-work it. My plan is to build a 1 storey building comprising of 2 units of 2 bedroom flats downstairs and 2 units of 2 bedroom flats upstairs. The blue coloured box is the area I envision the building to occupy.

The black coloured box is where the gate into the compound will be and the grey coloured box will be the parking space for about 3 cars. The green coloured box will contain at least 2 shops and the pink coloured box will be a garden where madam will plant crops with the kids - that has always been my dream. Finally, the yellow coloured box is where the soakaway will be.

Please, what do you guys think of this plan? Notice that the planned house and soakaway will cross into the area where the old foundation currently is. Will it be easy or even a good idea to re-construct the foundation to my plan and also turn the remaining part of it into soakaway?

Also, is it a good idea to have the entrance into the compound on the part where the house is, just as I depicted in my plan?

Again, I love the idea of having a sliding gate instead of the traditional 2-door gate. But the sliding gate will likely traverse or get too close to the area the shops could be. Any thoughts on how I can work around this?

Grateful for your responses

I am not a building engineer or architect but I will swap the positions of the gate and the shops, then swap the positions of the garden and soakaway. By doing this, you will have more packing spaces as you can pack regular cars on soakaways.

Just make sure you employ services of professional architect and engineers to design the house.

Also, remove the existing foundation completely as you don't know what is built there or intended for.

bukatyne:


But what happens when she is done?

To be honest, she will be gorgeous. And you as the man will be proud to show her up as your woman.

And the OP is right. Many Nigerian couples are ignorant of the fact that their customary or traditional marriages are recognized by Nigerian laws and foreign countries.

The foreign countries have no authority to determine what marriages they will recognize from our country. Our country laws determine what marriages are valid and what marriages are invalid.

Nazgul:
You can't travel out of the country as a married man with just traditional marriage. You'd have to present verifiable evidence at the embassy that you're legally married.

What you should be worried about is finding the right partner and making sure that you yourself is a good partner as well. Not telling your partner which marriage you'll do and which one you wouldn't.

You can travel out of Nigeria with traditional marriage.

Click the link below and read section on "marriage, divorce certificate." The link is US embassy recognition of our traditional marriages. It's same with other western countries.

https://travel.state.gov/content/travel/en/us-visas/Visa-Reciprocity-and-Civil-Documents-by-Country/Nigeria.html

suckprick:
Leave paparazzi and go make money. All this stress you put up there won't be necessary. Na poor man dey do all these ones.

Na poor man dey pursue woman and will develop headaches and mental illness trying to satisfy a woman. When you are financially stable, women do the chasing and read all sorts of epistle to please you.

Mrkc:
I don’t feel anything,
Is it because na os I Dey knack

Do you mean Olosho as os?

If so, how will you enjoy sex with Olosho?? Did you pay Olosho to enjoy the sex or just to pour your akamu?

Stop sleeping with olosho.

Unclebayo:
Leave all this simping and go hustle nigga, a woman cannot send you that type of message if you’re financially stable….. she sees you has broke and over protective nigga…. Test her and opt for a breakup and see her response,,,, she’ll be glad asf

Go make money…. she have seen another man richer than you.

Listen to this. We all pass through this as boys before we became men.

I will just add that when you finally become a man, don't marry a broke girl too.

AND don't let anyone use any Bible passage to hold you down when you become a man not to have as many of them as you desire.

gbadexy:
+234 813 945 2557. I've never met him but he has done several malls in ibadan and is known there.

Many thanks sir. I truly appreciate you.

This is why I say "Even fo.olish people will grow old".

Being old is not equivalent to having sense.

gbadexy:
No sir but I could give you the number of a painter in ibadan. I understand that some painters mouth is already wide but this painter based in ibadan willingly gave a very reasonable charge than what the painter I sent from Lagos charged and his work was neat that I promised to be working with him even in Lagos.

I will appreciate it sir. Please reply with his contact. Thanks.

gbadexy:
While we are at this discussion, I will add an experience I had at store of calcium carbonate filler.
I saw one of the workers filling the calcium carbonate with water in new paint buckets and asked him out of curiosity what it was for and he said that was what the customer told him to do. One matured person called it a term I can't recollect now and he said he uses ordinary water to complete the paints but this is a better idea he would use because those mad people don't like to pay.
I'm aware painters fill empty paint buckets with water together with real paints. Any used paint bucket of any brand could be gotten by them.
If you get the workmanship low, they would still find a way to make it up and often at the expense of quality or just at the client's expense in ways they don't know. This isn't about paint but everything in life in general.
We all know we work hard to get our monies. Even contractors here are someone else's client and it's not easy making money but pricing shouldn't be much lower than what we know ourselves is below standard and be happy we made good bargain. We live and let others live too within reasonable limit.
Lower prices definitely doesn't assure quality. Higher price with low quality simply means it should have been gotten lower and the person was cheated.

Thanks for sharing this information.

Please can you give a reasonable range of workmanship that good painters charge in Ibadan?

hkidola00:
sweetness, i dont get, does pussyyy taste like straberryy

You will not understand until you have more experience under your sleeve.

Wow. This is very disgusting. Why will a man kills himself because of a cheating woman

That must be a mental illness.

I don't know about ugly vs beautiful women, what I know is that matured women (from 35 to 50 years old) are sweeter than younger women. They are also more experienced.

After 50, the place begin wrinkle and shrinking, and they start losing the sweetness.

Nobody should advise widows against seeking new marriage.

The truth is that situations of every widow is different and that is what will determine if they need to and how easy it's going to be for them to remarry. It's usually a case by case situations.

The fact that a well paid judge, a widow with 6 children remarry after 7 years does not mean all widows will be able to remarry.

This is what we tell guys. Women are born hypergamous.

Men should apply same to women. If you are not a broke man, don't date a broke woman.

Joamoyo:
I am in need of retailers and bakery owners in Port Harcourt and environs to buy flour and sugar from my shop to haste my relocation dreams.Kindly patronize me and help my dream come true.Payment on delivery available.

08119836415
Oil mill by Elelewon junction

There is one big supermarket on Peter Odili Road. They have a big bread bakery inside. I have forgotten the name of the supermarket but it's very easy to locate.

Check with them, maybe they can even buy everything you have in your shop.