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The story is not complete. How come her siblings think you are the father of the girl?? Is this same with your siblings too?

At what point did you get involved with your wife and this girl?

Have you heard the girl's father side of the story? Or you just believe what your wife told you?

Men have been doing this same job of bus driver in Nigeria for ages ooo. These men have been assaulted for ages ooo. They will not be looking for cheap sympathy up and down

It is a woman turn to do same job now. We are seeing sympathy seeking up and down. I thought the new world says Men and women are equal.

She should leave the bus driving work if she cannot cope

And that saying that the women will kill you if you have more wives is not even logical.

In monogamy, there's more incentive for the woman to kill the man because she gains all his property after he dies. This is why most men whose wives killed them are in monogamy.

If the man had say 3 or more wives with multiple children between the wives, the motivation for any of the wives to kill him is near zero because the man's property will be shared among the wives and children.

Monogamy gives women power over the man while polygamy takes away many of their powers. This is why all women, including my mama will not like polygamy.

Also this is how it is for real.

A man with one wife is not far from being a bachelor. This is because once the woman settles down, she can start her troubles and start rationing affection etc.

A man with 2 wives will be having alot of fighting to settle at home between both wives. But they will now be competing for his attention.

A man with 3 wives will have more peace of mind and attention. This is because the factions will be 2 by 2. First and second wives in one faction, the man and third wife in another faction. Balance of power, and that brings peace. They might still be disturbing the peace of the man at this stage but it's usually minimal.

A man with 4 or more wives is finally free from from women troubles, and shenanigans. And he will enjoy all attentions he deserves. This is because at this point, women know that their shenanigans and troubles will never bother the man again. They will either maintain peace or pack out of his house.

If not economic reasons, polygamy is the best for any man when it comes to marriages.

If you can afford it. Go ahead.

No let anyone tell you what Bible says o. That was in the old days. Today women don't obey that verse of the Bible that says they should submit to their husbands but are quick to refer you to the verse that says "one man, one woman".

Yes ooo. Marry her, build a house for her, etc.

Una no dey hear word.

A typical case of " Women are always in business while men are in love".

Wake up guys.

Hahahaha. Simple na. Try put fingers deep into her thing. If 2 or more of your fingers can enter, she is not a V.

The number of fingers it can take beyond 1 finger determines the mileage.

If you struggle to even put 1 finger in, she is a V.

KobomatPhones:
I met this girl on 8th of March (last month) and around 22 of the same march. She called and said she was experiencing pregnancy symptoms. In less than 2 weeks?

Long story cut short, she’s pregnant.

Pls how is this possible?

According to her, her last period was around 20th-25th of last two months (that’s February)

There is 50/50 chance that the you impregnated her.

Just make sure you do DNA test to be sure after birth, you can't trust people these days because she might be sleeping with other boys.

Feldie:
there is no country on earth that has grown as much as the US economically in the last 80 years but somehow somehow white uneducated Trump lovers are convinced the whole world is taking advantage of them despite the fact that they spend more money on their defense than the entire African continent spend on their entire budget. Where are they getting that money from if the world were truly ripping them off? They can print dollars if they want and the whole world shoulder the inflation. I'm glad Trump is tanking their economy. This time they will experience what bad economy and inflation truly mean.

China did not place 67% tariff on the US. Trump totally made up those numbers. He even claimed an uninhibited island, whose population are only penguins also placed tariff on them. The earlier you people understand that Trump is insane and also suffering from cognitive decline due to aging, the better for you.

Those Islands must be included so that Australia and different organizations will not use them as loopholes to avoid paying tariffs.

This is well known in maritime industry worldwide. This is why you see some ships owned by US or UK companies flying Bahamas or Panama flags, to avoid some taxes or tariffs.

Mr Macron should first tell us if European union are charging tariffs on US products or not.

You call yourself my ally but you charge me tariffs and I don't charge you. What kind of friendship is that?

That's a parasitic relationship.

She must be given same prison sentence as a man who molested an underage girl. Simple.

Only a Virgin should be looking for a Virgin to marry. If you are not a Virgin, who will marry your leftovers??

Also, NEVER reward an olosho with marriage. YOU WILL REGRET IT.

CoronaVirusPro:
Oh!

But Elon Musk can do same for UK, Germany and Canada.

Stop licking the asses of your slave masters.

Those countries are also free to cancel Elon's visa too. Visa is a privilege and a country can cancel it for any reason including politics.

He will keep his mouth only on his country politics next time.

I don't understand entitlement mentality of some people.

Which day in court Visa is a privilege and not his rights.

Did he tell the US embassy he was going to do political activism in the US before getting his F1 visa? The answer is obviously a NO.

Hope he has learned his lesson from this. He can only do political activism in his country, not on a temporary visa in another country.

This smells like fish.

neolboy:
This is my life story

Extra: The guy who got her pregnant was aware and even told the girl's sister that his property with them he is coming in future to collect it. Na so I for dey look after another man's property

Were you both not having sex or were you using protection? This part is missing here.

Anyway, congratulations.

Amo12345:
thanks foe your response: I just checked the EB1A now and guess my MA in education psychology might help or I shouldn't include it cos I can see EB1A support science as well as education, think if I add both it might help, ur suggestions is well come, pls, my published articles include the following, working on 3rd one
Production of Glucose Oxidase from Aspergillus Niger using Yam Peels as Carbon Source*,
2. *Effect of Green Synthesize Silver Nanoparticles from Orange Peels on Growth Performance and Liver Function Parameters of Male Albino Rats*,

1. On the publications, I was asking about their citations since you published them. Since they are articles, do you know how well read is the journal? Is it a popular and respected scientific journal?

2. For the 1A, you can add the masters degree if you want but it doesn't really matter. What matters is how well you meet at least 3 of those 10 criteria. Or if you have won one major award like Nobel etc. before in your field of endeavor. I have the 10 criteria below, you met number 2 and 6. Check number 1, 4, 8 and 9 if you can meet any of these commonly met ones.

1. Evidence of receipt of lesser nationally or internationally recognized prizes or awards for excellence
2. Evidence of your membership in associations in the field which demand outstanding achievement of their members
3. Evidence of published material about you in professional or major trade publications or other major media
4. Evidence that you have been asked to judge the work of others, either individually or on a panel
5. Evidence of your original scientific, scholarly, artistic, athletic, or business-related contributions of major significance to the field
6. Evidence of your authorship of scholarly articles in professional or major trade publications or other major media
7. Evidence that your work has been displayed at artistic exhibitions or showcases
8. Evidence of your performance of a leading or critical role in distinguished organizations
9. Evidence that you command a high salary or other significantly high remuneration in relation to others in the field
10. Evidence of your commercial successes in the performing arts

Mental. How man will leave all the succulent, creamy women in the world and find a fellow man sexually attractive is beyond my mind.

I guess it's because I am normal.

Peskid147:
I just meet this lady 31 while I am 32 then we just like ourselves at first site she is choleric while I am melancholic by temperament. But I noticed when we chat I do the talking while she answers short today she told me I ask questions a lot and I keep wondering. Cus she don't bring topic for conversation. How do I engage such a person (choleric). Though we both like ourselves.

Interesting. You said she likes you but don't bring up discussions. And she replies with short answers when you bring up discussions.

I doubt she really likes you. And if she does, she is still doing her "business" mathematics to assess if it will pay her eventually to stay with you or not.

Don't push it too much. Give it time, she will come around if she really likes you as you claimed AND her business mathematics gives her positive assessment of you.

I might be wrong but, this is my initial assessment.

maasoap:
You didn't analyse this very well before you supported her. In many cases, husbands use their own income to sustain the family including the wife. So, how would such husbands compete with their wives if everyone should buy and own properties separately. Besides, many people including you don't even understand the concept of marriage

My analysis and believe about marriages and relationships are based on what is obtainable in today's world. Today's women are different from women of 4 decades and beyond.

So, we Men need to change our mentality as well. DON'T do community or marital properties with any woman because today's women will NEVER do it with you if they have money more than you.

Men should STOP marrying down. Men should marry ladies close to them in status. STOP marrying liabilities as women so that you as the man don't have to use only your money to sustain the family and the liability of a "wife".

Weirdo. I hope she is sentenced to life imprisonment.

[quote author=Amo12345 post=134790568][/quote]I love ❤️ as you provided more information.

Based on more information, I will recommend you use "A research chemist" as your endeavor. With those post qualification work experiences you listed, I say you qualify on merits of both Exceptional ability and advanced degree requirements of EB2. See this link below.

https://www.uscis.gov/working-in-the-united-states/permanent-workers/employment-based-immigration-second-preference-eb-2

A research chemist is of national interest to the US for sure and you will have to package your application to demonstrate how important is such scientist to the US national interest.

To demonstrate that you are well positioned to continue your endeavor in the US, keep being active in your professional organization pushing to the highest of "fellowship" if possible, keep publishing papers etc.

The papers you published sounds useful to me now. What is the current citations on those papers?

Overall, I am increasing your chances close to 80 pct, now based on how well you package the application.

On the side, have you checked EB1A criteria too? I can see you met 2 of the 10 criteria already based on the information you have provided so far.

I don't like commenting on traditional things but this is ridiculous mehn!.

1a to 1m looks like the dad wants to open a beer parlor or neighborhood bar after the wedding.

NotsonewMary:
M’ogarrrr (in Israel DWM’s voice) 🙌🏾
Good to see you back on the TL. Was genuinely worried about you at some point when you were MIA, before o went MIA as well. lol
Glad to read from you! Blessed week ahead!

Thanks Sis. I hail you back. I rested for a while on this thread when I saw the thread had been established and to allow more ideas to roll in from other contributors. I have always been good.

Yes. I noticed you went silent for a while too. Great to read from you again too.

Be blessed always!

This is not new or surprising. You were discarded when your usefulness expired.

Now, she needs to borrow your usefulness again and discard you later again.

Female nature. It is always business for them.

Tell her to call her family too na. Two can play the game.

I support her. Everyone should keep their money and properties to themselves.

This rubbish of "marital properties" is a scam. 99pct of times don't favor men.

Women will not do "marital properties" nonsense when they have more money than the man in marriages. They only support this nonsense when it will benefit them.

Men should wake ooo. Women are always in business in relationship and marriages. AND they constantly re-evaluate the "business" relationship until death or they leave you.

Not only you. Many men face similar situations before and after marriage.

Now back to my advise for you.

It seems you are going after wrong women. The other one never loved you and came from "women affairs only" family. This one too is showing a sign that she doesn't like you and only interested in billing you.

Go after ladies in your societal class. STOP looking down to pick a wife. That method is now old and not working with modern women.

The modern tactics or method for men too is to marry in their class or even marry higher class women.

These days, no matter the class of a woman, poor, rich, educated, non educated, famous , unknown etc. They all demand same responsibility from men. They are looking for a "sponsor" that they will be bossing around in the name of "gender equality".

Not only you. Many men face similar situations before and after marriage.

And don't make any amend with any former woman you wanted to marry. You owe her and family nothing., they owe you nothing as well.

Now back to my advise for you.

It seems you are going after wrong women. The other one never loved you and came from "women affairs only" family. This one too is showing a sign that she doesn't like you and only interested in billing you.

Go after ladies in your societal class. STOP looking down to pick a wife. That method is now old and not working with modern women.

The modern tactics or method for men too is to marry in their class or even marry higher class women.

These days, no matter the class of a woman, poor, rich, educated, non educated, famous , unknown etc. They all demand same responsibility from men. They are looking for a "sponsor" that they will be bossing around in the name of "gender equality".

And no one woman demands from non broke guys too.

When he was broke, no woman cared about him. Why should he care and stick to one woman when he made money

With my experience, I will suggest to any man considering marriage to marry any woman that is closest to your status.

Marry a woman closest to you in financial, societal status, experience status etc. This is when you get to see the woman that truly like you. The more the gap between you as the man (man is 99pct of times of higher status) and woman, the most likely the woman might not even like you but only coming for your higher status.

When it comes to dating, date any woman irrespective of her status if you like her but when it comes to marriage, think like women. Women are logical when dealing with men and consider status before they even date you.

If you notice I try to avoid using age to give my advise. This is because, if the 23 years old one is of higher status, say she is from a very influential and rich family than you, I will say you should go for her.

In your case, I will say you should go with the 30 year old woman if you like her because I am guessing she is of higher status to the 23 years old as you mentioned she has an established business.