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Family › Re: ₦25k Cost A Life: Husband Divorces Wife After Discovering ₦3.6M In Her Account" by Helpout12345: 3:27pm On Mar 28, 2025

This is not new and peculiar to his wife.

Majority of women do this in relationships and marriages.

They will have money but will refuse to help the man saying "it is a man's responsibility".

They are always business minded in dealing with men.

Unfortunately in this case, they lost their son while madam was playing her feminine game.

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Travel › Re: Should He Japa Or Not? by Helpout12345: 2:03pm On Mar 28, 2025

Kongaone:
Hello travelanders.

A friend met me for advise so I decided to bring his story here for a more broader thoughts from especially the experienced amongst us.

He works in Nigeria with a salary of about 600k monthly, he was able to raise 50m for japa which will cost him and his family about 36m to UK on study route.

Due to the current inflation, his office did a 100% salary increment making him to earn 1.2m monthly net.

His confusion now is, should he still japa or remain in Nigeria now his salary has improved?

@Justwise
@nlfpadmin, pls help for a broader view.

He will be one of the stupids to leave a job paying him 1.2m per month to japa through student route.

Even if he must japa, he should use Permanent residency route of Canada, Australia or the US.

He also should know that he will start afresh in the destination country and there is more than 60pct chance that his wife will divorce him once family financials change in the destination country.

Women are always in business while men are in love .

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Romance › Re: Cameroonian LGBT Activist Bandy Kiki Marries Her Ijaw Girlfriend by Helpout12345: 1:42pm On Mar 28, 2025

Why do they always need one to be pretending to be a man since they don't like a man huh

This is a sign that these people are not okay upstairs. Or the solution to their problem might be a good working gbola that resets women brains

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Romance › Re: My Confession by Helpout12345: 5:13pm On Mar 27, 2025

Nicenancy:
I love my husband very much
But there is this guy I met online I have been chatting and I am beginning to have feelings for him though I don't admit it and can never cheat on my husband but this is what I am feeling. I blocked him because he is always trying to talk dirty with me. But he is always on my mind now. Please advise

Interesting. I think you are the one asking why men cannot stick to one woman the other day.

In that marriage, your husband brings more to the table than you and you still have mind to start emotionally cheating on him with a random online dude.

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Properties › Re: General Topic Thread-To Discuss Anything And Everything in Building Construction by Helpout12345: 4:53pm On Mar 27, 2025

Ayohbk:
Hello All, Thanks for your feedbacks. after several back and forth these are the costs paid and work have started already. Just dropping the information for anyone else who might need it.

Omo on Ile #1,350,000
Safety Commission. #200,0000
Town Planning Office. #200,000
These were paid Last weeks

Then Labca were paid 1.3m. Tried to beat it down but they didn't agree. Even after the 1.3m they gave conditions that we should finish the work quick before they move their oga. Else we'll have to pay another Money if we stop and restart some other time.

Nigeria was really a country.

Thanks for your inputs. Cc diordaves acmebuilding Billions123 gabbytabby kopell and everyone else

And Nigerians that collected all these will also be blaming politicians for the decay of our system.

This is why I always say that Nigerians are Nigerians' problems. For the country to change for the better, it starts with individual Nigerians and not even politicians.

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Romance › Re: No Love For Broke Men by Helpout12345: 3:57pm On Mar 27, 2025

Women are in business while men are in love.

Men should always remember this.

Travel › Re: AIR PEACE Airline Is A DISGRACE!! Cancellation And Pathethic Customer Service by Helpout12345: 10:36pm On Mar 26, 2025

Airlines cancel or delay flights all over the world.

Countries have check and balance aviation laws to ensure that Airlines well-compensate and treat their passengers with dignity, empathy and respect when the reason is beyond Airlines control. When the reasons is based on Airlines fault or reasons within their control, the laws ensure that they compensate the passengers, book hotels for them and arrange transportation as case may be.

The problems in Nigeria is that these laws are not existing or not enforced on the Nigerian Airlines.

This is why Nigerian Airlines are notorious for many cancelations and delays with no major consequences.

Air Peace will have to operate with foreign standards within Nigeria if they want to compete with other foreign Airlines operating same routes as them. Otherwise, they will lose customers.

I believe in patronizing Made in Nigeria services but I also want quality services for my money.

Properties › Re: General Topic Thread-To Discuss Anything And Everything in Building Construction by Helpout12345: 4:45pm On Mar 26, 2025

Helpout12345:
Hello folks, I want your opinion on this quotation I was given for stamped concrete flooring with full sealant and polish.

The total floor area is about 385sqm. The contractor submitted a total amount of 4 million naira for both materials and labor.

Please is this a fair quotation or not at this moment?

Thanks

Travel › Re: Nigerians In America, How Are You Coping With Trump's Racism ??? by Helpout12345: 3:57pm On Mar 26, 2025

Gerrard59:
BTW, the Black people who should complain about racism should be only African Americans as they were taken to the US AGAINST THEIR WILL. Every other black person got there via an airplane WILLINGLY and knows his or her papa's village.

Exactly. Stay in your country if you don't like how the host is treating you.

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Travel › Re: Nigerians In America, How Are You Coping With Trump's Racism ??? by Helpout12345: 3:56pm On Mar 26, 2025

Kaczynski:
the US literally thrives on immigration

without immigrants, the US is nothing

And is it by force the immigrants must help the US thrive ?? If the US says they don't need immigrants help, immigrants should go to another country or stay back in their country and help their country thrive.

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Travel › Re: Nigerians In America, How Are You Coping With Trump's Racism ??? by Helpout12345: 3:51pm On Mar 26, 2025

Honestly, if Nigeria can get a president like Trump for just 8 years, many Nigerians in the US including those brainwashed by the media will start relocating back home.

A president that put his country and its citizens first and not the rubbish leaders we are currently recycling in Nigeria.

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Travel › Re: USA Employment-based Immigration (EB-1,EB-2,EB-3 Visa) by Helpout12345: 3:32pm On Mar 26, 2025

Amo12345:
Good day house, pls, I would like to submit my application soon for EB2 NIW. I have a bachelor of science in Chemistry with over 10 years working experience as a chemist and as a teacher and I have MA in education psychology. I am a registered member of chemical society of Nigeria and chartered and license chemist with iccon. I have 2published article as a co author. I have wes evaluation of my MA transcripts evaluated for canada PR bf, can i use my canada evaluation to submit this application, and Pls, what's my chance of getting approved, and what can I do to increase my chances of approval, thanks

1. You can't use Canada evaluation to file I140 for EB. You will have to contact WES again to evaluate your credentials to US equivalent.

2. On your chance, your endeavor is sounding like "A chemistry teacher" with 2 co authored papers. I think you have about 50pct chance of approval for NIW depending on the officer reviewing your case and how you package the application.

3. Your master degree will have helped but it's not in Chemistry.

4. To improve your chances, try to study the criteria for EB2 more and work on more areas to improve your chances.

Remember the big question the officers look for is "what have you done with your degree that is significant to warrant US national interest and waive job offer requirement. And can you continue to do those significant things when you enter the US.

Now as a Chemistry teacher, how outstanding are you as a Chemistry teacher? Do you have documented evidences to prove how outstanding you have been as a Chemistry teacher? Papers you published, how significant is the information shared in those papers? Who are using it now ? What is potential use in future?

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Travel › Re: Nigerians In America, How Are You Coping With Trump's Racism ??? by Helpout12345: 3:07pm On Mar 26, 2025

Don't let leftist American media deceive you.

Trump is doing great. Nigerians with papers are loving it. Of course, we have some Nigerians who are brainwashed by leftist media here that will never see anything good in what Trump is doing even when they or their children will benefit from it.

And on racism, there is racism everywhere in the world, even in Nigeria. Only on this platform, we can see racism between Yoruba and Igbo etc.

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Properties › Re: General Topic Thread-To Discuss Anything And Everything in Building Construction by Helpout12345: 8:16pm On Mar 25, 2025

Hello folks, I want your opinion on this quotation I was given for stamped concrete flooring with full sealant and polish.

The total floor area is about 385sqm. The contractor submitted a total amount of 4 million naira for both materials and labor.

Please is this a fair quotation or not at this moment?

Thanks

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Family › Re: Meanders Abeg Make Una Help Me Reason This Matter by Helpout12345: 4:17am On Mar 25, 2025

Dbabs204:
Follow left, I dun follow right.

Sorry that you have to learn a hard way.

The lady only used you to japa to UK. That guy has been f.uccking her since August 2024 she arrived in the UK.

Sorry . When we tell guys that they should stop all these investments on women, they will not listen.

People that carry even wives abroad, many of them regret it, not to talk of a girlfriend.

Politics › Re: Kogi Central Women Lead 'Natasha Must' Go Protest (Photos) by Helpout12345: 1:18am On Mar 25, 2025

This is sexual harassment

Politics › Re: Natasha Akpoti-Uduaghan's Response Amid Recall Process By Constituents by Helpout12345: 1:16am On Mar 25, 2025

She will soon accuse her constituents of sexual harassment.

Romance › Re: Why Is A Man's Body Count A Flex But A Woman's A Red Flag? by Helpout12345: 12:07am On Mar 24, 2025

BaddieFreak:
Why is it that many men care so much about a woman's body count but don’t seem to hold themselves to the same standard? They want a partner with little to no experience while having a high body count themselves. Isn’t that a clear double standard?

Why is it that many women will not even talk to a broke man, not to talk of dating him huh

And they don't hold themselves to same financial standard they expect from the man. Is that not a double standard?

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Romance › Re: Why Are Men Not Patient In Marriage Anymore? by Helpout12345: 6:49am On Mar 23, 2025

Even women will not agree with you on this.

If you are a man, something is really wrong with you.

Travel › Re: Why Nigerian Marriages Will Always Fail In The Uk by Helpout12345: 3:07am On Mar 23, 2025

EmperorIsaac:
It's just a universal rule: women are in it for business; while men love genuinely! Nigeria men don't understand the dynamics.

💯 percent correct. I have nothing to add.

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Romance › Re: How Can I Be With A Woman by Helpout12345: 11:31pm On Mar 22, 2025

ucheagu:
OK I know you people will come out to attack me acting all holy and complete but I will take the few advice that I find informative.. OK the problem here is I find that at first when am with a lady it is all fun and interesting but when I get to know who you are and maybe feel like am developing feelings for you it become scaring...the thought of solving her problems become intense and then I break... I run away and it kind of scary not now but in the future because I feel like nothing will change if I don't try to change it now
So how can I balance this, so that in the future I will be ready... Because last last man need woman to trust and love

You are still a young man and you're just getting to know women.

None of them will ever be with you if they have nothing materials to gain from you.

So, don't build your happiness on being with a woman. Women cannot give a man happiness. I bet you when you finally see one that is even ready to be with you, you will miss this your single years with her troubles.

AND REMOVE that thoughts called "Love" from your head. It only exists in fiction in women dictionary. Women are always in business while men are in love in a relationship.

How can a person that cannot be with you if you can't provide material things for her truly love you ever huh

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Family › Re: How UK-Based Nigerian Women Exploit Law To Chase Out Husbands by Helpout12345: 4:28pm On Mar 22, 2025

My friend learned this truth hard way.

He spent his money, legal status in the US and his job influence to sponsor a former girlfriend from Nigeria to the US to get a green car. Even with our warning to him, he insisted the girl will never betray him.

Few years upon arrival in the US, this girl set him up with Dallas TX police. My friend was lucky to pull through. Even police officers told him "man to man" to be far away from the lady.

STOP sponsoring women abroad. It hardly ends well for the man.

Date abroad based women.

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Family › Re: How UK-Based Nigerian Women Exploit Law To Chase Out Husbands by Helpout12345: 4:19pm On Mar 22, 2025

Naija men better believe the statistics.

Stop taking women abroad. Stop sending women to school. Women are naturally ungrateful. Anything you do for women, they see it as entitlement.

Women are in business, men are in love when it comes to relationship and marriage.

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Romance › Re: Who Know This Beautiful Girl? by Helpout12345: 10:14pm On Mar 21, 2025

Adexgentle005:
I saw this girl pic on X, they said her tape was leaked. Who know her ?

She looks like Trump or Putin. The most powerful people in the world.

Family › Re: How Do I Undo The Blood Oath I Took With My Ex-girlfriend? by Helpout12345: 10:04pm On Mar 21, 2025

She called you a f.ool huh

Yes. I agree with her on that if what you typed here is true. In fact. You be mugu., mumu.

Mr. Man, free yourself from this muguness abeg. You have no covenant. Go and be scattering punn.a as you want.

YOU HAVE DOGGED A BULLET by not marrying her.

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Family › Re: Lady Cries Out As Husband Runs Away With Their Life Savings, Travels Abroad by Helpout12345: 9:51pm On Mar 21, 2025

I don't blame him because majority of women brought abroad by their husbands are divorcing and recking the men that brought them.

By the way, I need proof of "our money" before I believe it's not the man's money he used to japa.

Romance › Re: Why Can't Men Stick To One Woman? by Helpout12345: 4:16pm On Mar 20, 2025

Factcheck0001:
How will men stick to one woman when love have become transactional, women will always say poor men don't deserve love so when poor man finally make money then u can't tell him what to buy with his money

You get it. End of discussion on this matter.

Women are also free to spend their money on many husbands or boyfriends.

A woman should not tell a man how many women he can spend his money on. If I don't have money, she will not follow me.

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Romance › Re: Why Can't Men Stick To One Woman? by Helpout12345: 4:13pm On Mar 20, 2025

Rubbi.sh question.

Since it's men's money we spend in marriages and relationships, then he is at liberty to share his money with as many women as he wants.

When women also become the bigger or only spender in marriages and relationships, they are free to share their money with as many men as they want.

I spend my money on you and you want to dictate to me I cannot spend it on another person I want?

Is it your money??m

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Family › Re: Does This Mean My Husband Is Sleeping With My Mother? by Helpout12345: 5:19pm On Mar 18, 2025

Fake and poorly scripted story. This one cannot even make it to Nollywood.

May be it can sell in Ugandahood.

Properties › Re: General Topic Thread-To Discuss Anything And Everything in Building Construction by Helpout12345: 2:08am On Mar 15, 2025

Hello everyone, I am now done with screeding, moving onto flooring of the compound. I am looking at doing stamped concrete, red and black color tone with surface polish.

Please can someone advise me on how to determine how many bags (25kg each) of red iron oxide, black iron oxide and polish I will need to do a floor of about 400sqm.

Thanks

Family › Re: Should I Marry The Father Of My Child? by Helpout12345: 7:13pm On Mar 12, 2025*

There is no an element of love between you both. You DONT love him and he DOESN'T love you too.

I just pity the child in the mist of all these.

Both of you should continue your co-parenting from distance as it is.

This type of marriage you are considering CAN NEVER survive Canadian society.

Romance › Re: Nigerian Lesbians Relocate Abroad, Get Married In The US by Helpout12345: 6:55pm On Mar 12, 2025

Very good. At least they can agree to share bills 50-50.

No more "he must sponsor my bills"

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