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EmperorIsaac:
It's just a universal rule: women are in it for business; while men love genuinely! Nigeria men don't understand the dynamics.

💯 percent correct. I have nothing to add.

ucheagu:
OK I know you people will come out to attack me acting all holy and complete but I will take the few advice that I find informative.. OK the problem here is I find that at first when am with a lady it is all fun and interesting but when I get to know who you are and maybe feel like am developing feelings for you it become scaring...the thought of solving her problems become intense and then I break... I run away and it kind of scary not now but in the future because I feel like nothing will change if I don't try to change it now
So how can I balance this, so that in the future I will be ready... Because last last man need woman to trust and love

You are still a young man and you're just getting to know women.

None of them will ever be with you if they have nothing materials to gain from you.

So, don't build your happiness on being with a woman. Women cannot give a man happiness. I bet you when you finally see one that is even ready to be with you, you will miss this your single years with her troubles.

AND REMOVE that thoughts called "Love" from your head. It only exists in fiction in women dictionary. Women are always in business while men are in love in a relationship.

How can a person that cannot be with you if you can't provide material things for her truly love you ever

My friend learned this truth hard way.

He spent his money, legal status in the US and his job influence to sponsor a former girlfriend from Nigeria to the US to get a green car. Even with our warning to him, he insisted the girl will never betray him.

Few years upon arrival in the US, this girl set him up with Dallas TX police. My friend was lucky to pull through. Even police officers told him "man to man" to be far away from the lady.

STOP sponsoring women abroad. It hardly ends well for the man.

Date abroad based women.

Naija men better believe the statistics.

Stop taking women abroad. Stop sending women to school. Women are naturally ungrateful. Anything you do for women, they see it as entitlement.

Women are in business, men are in love when it comes to relationship and marriage.

Adexgentle005:
I saw this girl pic on X, they said her tape was leaked. Who know her ?

She looks like Trump or Putin. The most powerful people in the world.

She called you a f.ool

Yes. I agree with her on that if what you typed here is true. In fact. You be mugu., mumu.

Mr. Man, free yourself from this muguness abeg. You have no covenant. Go and be scattering punn.a as you want.

YOU HAVE DOGGED A BULLET by not marrying her.

I don't blame him because majority of women brought abroad by their husbands are divorcing and recking the men that brought them.

By the way, I need proof of "our money" before I believe it's not the man's money he used to japa.

Factcheck0001:
How will men stick to one woman when love have become transactional, women will always say poor men don't deserve love so when poor man finally make money then u can't tell him what to buy with his money

You get it. End of discussion on this matter.

Women are also free to spend their money on many husbands or boyfriends.

A woman should not tell a man how many women he can spend his money on. If I don't have money, she will not follow me.

Rubbi.sh question.

Since it's men's money we spend in marriages and relationships, then he is at liberty to share his money with as many women as he wants.

When women also become the bigger or only spender in marriages and relationships, they are free to share their money with as many men as they want.

I spend my money on you and you want to dictate to me I cannot spend it on another person I want?

Is it your money??m

Fake and poorly scripted story. This one cannot even make it to Nollywood.

May be it can sell in Ugandahood.

Hello everyone, I am now done with screeding, moving onto flooring of the compound. I am looking at doing stamped concrete, red and black color tone with surface polish.

Please can someone advise me on how to determine how many bags (25kg each) of red iron oxide, black iron oxide and polish I will need to do a floor of about 400sqm.

Thanks

There is no an element of love between you both. You DONT love him and he DOESN'T love you too.

I just pity the child in the mist of all these.

Both of you should continue your co-parenting from distance as it is.

This type of marriage you are considering CAN NEVER survive Canadian society.

Very good. At least they can agree to share bills 50-50.

No more "he must sponsor my bills"

Move on. She will not return those property.

She was initially into you based on fact that she was telling your mutual colleagues about your relationship.

But she had moved onto another man who is more financially better than you. And I just hope that new man is not the one trying to put her into laundering problem.

Move on. She had a better offer by the time you found another job and asked her out.

Your new job and financial strength is below the man f.uccking her now.

You have to go and understand how women view emotional and sexual relationships with men, to understand what I just dropped up there.

Don't marry olosho.

A married olosho is only on Paid Time Off (PTO).

Don't reward olosho with marriage. Some guys will not hear.

This is usually the end result.

This woman must be arrested, charged, suspended from her job, and restraining orders put against her, take those children away from her.

What nonsense.

Another unconfirmed fear mongering using unknown, "unnamed pregnant woman"

Because no one pampers us on our birthdays like women get. So we just face front and hussle.

We think of pampering ourselves on our birthdays after pepper don rest and hussle don mature.

All I will say is that both of you fit each other.

Cheats should marry cheats, faithful should marry faithful, virgin should marry virgin, rich should marry rich, poor should marry poor etc.

Do fast, go and marry her.

This is common sense but democrats party don't have common sense again.

Faith063:
Heard turbotax is for citizen and could file my tax wrongly

I haven't heard of that before. I doubt it because I have used them before I became a citizen and they were as accurate as HRBlock.

In recent years, I alternate between both Turbotax and HRBlock just due to prices and discounts on their services.

Faith063:
This is kind of serious then, SPRINTAX review is showing I'm owing as well as entitle to a refund which I'm kind of confuse about. I only upload my w2 and answer some questions truthfully

That means Springtax might not be accurate.

Try use Turbotax or HRBlock.

If what you describe about your husband is true, I agree he needs help. He should seek help as quickly as possible. I agree you might want to give him some space for now while he seek helps so that your children don't learn his addiction as normal.

I don't agree with your brother trying to prevent your husband having access to his children or sounding like he wants you to abandon your husband at his lowest point.

You and the children can go with your brother for now while your husband gets help. Then keep in touch with your husband on the progress of his treatment and rehabilitation

Faith063:
Is there any long-term implications of filing tax with an attorney for higher returns instead of using SPRINTAX as a student? Please advice...

Your concern should be competency and accuracy of the attorney and Sprintax.

Returns are based on your unique situation as per the tax laws, filing with attorney or an accountant, or other tax filing services irrespective.

Mind you, no attorney or tax services will give you a guarantee against IRS probe in future.

Something important to all women is missing from this her narrative. What was the financial status of her husband and the doctor then?

When you asked all women to describe a man they will like to date or marry, they all start from the man's financial status.

Every other things are secondary.

On your parents, you cannot change them. You just do your best and leave the rest. Give or support as much as you can.

On the girlfriend. It's usually a difficult marriage when 2 incompatible people marry. Incompatibility comes in different forms like education, culture, financial status, societal status, religion etc.

These Incompatibility are usually additional burdens to other numerous marital challenges.

If you are prepared to face these additional burdens and you have tested your girlfriend loyalty and affection for you, you are free to marry her.

But if you are not ready for the additional burdens, fund yourself a woman that is more compatible.

Majority of Americans voted for this.

Carry on Mr. President.

It's US generated intelligence. The US reserves the rights to Its usage by any country.

The democrats showed their evil minds yesterday at Trump's joint congress address.

I keep saying it. If democrats continue in this their direction, they will lose 2028 presidential election again.

Commendable. Very good job to the minister.

The minister should please bring this to the US quickly.

We, Nigerians in the US need this service too.