₦airaland Forum

Joamoyo:
I am in need of retailers and bakery owners in Port Harcourt and environs to buy flour and sugar from my shop to haste my relocation dreams.Kindly patronize me and help my dream come true.Payment on delivery available.

08119836415
Oil mill by Elelewon junction

There is one big supermarket on Peter Odili Road. They have a big bread bakery inside. I have forgotten the name of the supermarket but it's very easy to locate.

Check with them, maybe they can even buy everything you have in your shop.

Fenrir:
Like i said little bitch boy blue

Send that fucking email

You still won't do it, will you little boy bitch?

Send the fucking address at least.

Kobojunkie:
From the conversation, he is not a coward. You are the coward, thinking it is OK to attack him for having an opinion, while at the same time refusing to meet up with him, as you yourself suggested earlier. Come on... this isn't rocket science! 😩😩😩😩😩

I think you are sick like him. I don't give a fu.ckk about his opinion. I wanted to help him test his boasted physical powers and he chickens out.

Fenrir:
Like black people in America calling themselves African Americans that does my swede in

1) did they ever see Africa?

2) were they born in Africa?

3) do they speak an African language?

4) do they have an African passport?

No they are black now

Africans get to America on planes now

But black people got there in chains

Under their logic a white south African racist with an African passport that speaks an African language can move to America and calling himself an African American

So can a fucking Egyptian

YOU ARE A COWARD.

Kobojunkie:
He said you should email him, and he would probably meet up with you somewhere in the area. It is the same thing we do here, too. So, the question is, what are you afraid of?

I cannot email any online lunatic coward. He is the one boasting and that want to fight 6 Nigerian men. I am not the one. So, if he is calling for a fight, he should be bold to drop at least a street address and NOT a whole Ikoyi, Lagos.

Kobojunkie:
From where I sit, he ain't the coward at all. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

2. Nothing wrong with boasting.

3. He literally gave you his name and even location. I bet the Swedes in that area would be able to point you in the right direction if you were to get lost. Go already and stop playing internet champion!

So we should be looking for one Abeg white man in the WHOLE of Ikoyi, Lagos, right We should start from Obalende, through Falomo and be looking for a lunatic online coward??

No Nigerian should reply this coward again. He is just an online mentally ill coward.

He boasts of how he was military, 7ft tall, can beat 6 grown Nigerian men but I gave him a favor yesterday to drop his photo, and address here so that we can put that his physical ability to test. He couldn't but gave me lame excuses, his daughter, he is retired and all bullcraps.

I personally think this person is not who he is claiming to be. And if he is actually a quarter of his claims here. Then, he is just a lunatic coward.

Fenrir:
Mate you've got my name

Nigerians are world famous for online scams so I'm sure one of you slimy but clever bastards can track my ip address and location and spread it about

But I'm not stupid enough to the address that my 7 year old daughter lives at on a Nigerian website

That's what the private email system is for

And

1) I'm retired and don't fucking works anymore
My income is passive and constant, that's what happens when you sacrifice your 20s for life after

2) I'm Europen so I'm entitled to use any Europen service at all fucking times

So I've got a UK number
Totally unlimited calls
Totally unlimited texts
Totally unlimited data to the point I can turn my phone into a hot-spot and share data with 50 people 24/7 and never run out or get extra charges
Totally unlimited international call and text

3) the devil can interview me for being an atheist if I'm wrong about when I take over his kingdom and teach lucifer tricks to torture that will him blush

But cheers for the offer

Then you are coward. STOP beating chest online.

Fenrir:
Mate I use this to vent so I don't break someone's face

And I'm not that hard to find

I've plastered my real name all over this
I've told you my location and what I look like

So just look for the norse man with ginger hair and lots of tattoos in ikoyi the place isn't that fucking big

Okay. Very good. I agree with all these your rants.

You deserve to be well known in Nigeria, so that you can help us educate more of our people.

Please put up your pictures, home address, office address so that journalists, bloggers can come see you , give you an interview and help spread these your messages more.

Thanks!

Fenrir:
Don't listen to any fucking culture you ridiculous

So no blending at all, the groom is always expected to sacrifice everything and bend to yoruba will and yoruba desires to please greedy and selfish old yoruba men

Why all these rants on a faceless forum

Why didn't you rant all these face to face with those people that accused you at the Nigerian airport

Women don't need this advise. Women are born naturally with these traits you are advising them on. Hypergamy is a natural instinct for women.

It is like advising a lion that he must hunt and kill other animals to feed.

This advise is more needed by men and boys.

Men, stop marrying down. All women, rich or poor, educated or not etc demand same thing from men. They all demand you to be a sponsor while claiming gender equality.

Nigerian government and misplaced priority.

6 months maternity leave for a country where many women cannot get employment already.

They should continue ooooo.

Zelen is a mumu man. He should continue to use his country and his people as pawns between NATO and Russia.

Hahahaha. He has learned the code in a hard way.

Men, stop investing on women that are not your mother, sister or daughter.

The most stupid of it all is this investment on an ordinary girlfriend.

bdon12:
U left ur husband becos he cheated.Now u saying u will marry d man that cheats n has 5 other wives besides u.
Wisdom is profitable.Women should learn frm their mother.A man is ur boss..
Respect him n manage infidelity wit wisdom

Exactly. We see it here in the US everywhere among our Nigerians in diaspora. Many of our women will scatter their marriages here for flimsy excuses. Only to end up dating other women's husbands when they get outside. It is like a curse.

This is why I always laugh when I see our Nigerian women in Nigeria start copying behaviors of western countries women of "men are scum", "I don't need a man" etc through internet.

The economic situations of Nigeria and those western countries are different for women. And the so called western women, even with better economy, are paying heavy prices for those behaviors as their men leave them to do it all alone.

This trend of single mothers and hook up is just starting in Nigeria. If you have a sister, advise her not to follow internet "feminists", "I don't need a man" bandwagon. If not, she will join those Nigerian girls learning in a hard way.

OP, no two marriages are exactly the same. People always make this mistake of comparing marriages of people they know, and most especially celebrities to their marriages or marriages of their loved ones. That's an error. In most cases, it only takes a close insider to know the true health of a marriage, and not people or strangers watching from distance or watching it through the internet.

Now coming to inter tribal or inter culture marriages, from my experience, personal and others, I will say difference in culture poses additional challenges to inter-tribal marriages. That doesn't mean all inter tribal marriages fails or all mono-tribal marriages survive. One just needs to recognize the additional challenges to face before embarking on it.

Coming to the experience of your family, OP, I will not dismiss past antecedents too. There might be cultural, values, or upbringing factors in your family and that tribe, that will always prevent any member of your family from having a successful marriage with the tribe you are referring to. So, I will say you are not wrong to consider past experiences peculiar to your family as a challenge before marrying from the tribe.

Not surprised. Market is already closing on her head. Her narrative is changing.

Meanwhile she had misled many gullibles women.

We see it everyday. Once the so called feminism leaders catch their Alhajis, they change tone and can even marry secretly.

Hahahaha. Street Don dey humble my sis

tamiberry:
thank you for your response...

Please who else can help me to get started @Helpout12345 how can you help?

2.Is there a guide with templates that can be shared to me so i can DIY?
3. Is there a Telegram group to join?
4. Can anyone who has been successfully with EB2-NIW please guide me?

You met the requirements of EB2 Advanced degree or exceptional ability.

The big question is: Do you meet the requirements of NIW through the 3 prongs.

1. Prong 1: Evidence That Your Endeavor Has Substantial Merit and National Importance

So, what is your endeavor? Is it of national importance in the US? Procurement and Sourcing is of national importance based on how you argue and package your case.

2 . Prong 2: Evidence That You Are Well-Positioned to Advance Your Endeavor

I. Provide evidence of your education, skills, knowledge, and record of success in related or similar efforts.
Ii. Provide any evidence of a detailed proposal or plan that you developed, or played a significant role in developing, for future activities related to the proposed endeavor.
Iii. Explain how you plan to pursue your endeavor (for example, while employed at a particular company or through your own company) and any progress towards pursuing the proposed endeavor.
Iv. Provide evidence of the interest or support you have garnered from potential customers, users, investors, or other related entities or persons.

I think you can meet this prog2 by showing list of companies looking for Procurement professionals, some potential employers emails to you when you apply to their jobs. But you will have to apply like someone already having a work permit in the US so that employers can contact you after you applied. Many employers don't want to sponsor work permit.


3. Prong 3: On Balance, It Would Be Beneficial to the United States to Waive the Job Offer and Thus the Permanent Labor Certification Requirements. The benefit is especially weighty where the endeavor has the potential to support U.S. national security or enhance U.S. economic competitiveness.

This is where you will have to package Procurement and Sourcing professional as important to US national security or economic competitiveness. Can you do this??

On the DIY question, there are many DIY resources such as sample petition letters, reference letters on the internet. Many of these templates are usually sold though but it is better to get a template that had been used successfully by others in the past. I don't have these templates because I used an attorney to do my petitions. NotsonewMary shared the following link in the past as a get-started DIY resource.

https://myeb2niw.com/

I also believe other people can help with other DIY resources they have used successfully before.

I cannot help to write the petition or recommendation letters but I can help review strategies, arguments, how you intend to package or proof to meet any criteria, the petition, the recommendation letters, how to chose people to recommend you etc.

MadamVanessa:



There are things I know can never ever stand no matter how hard people preach or go against. Men will forever marry from the lower class in the society. This is a phenomenon and nothing anybody can say about it or do about it.

That is now changing. Just as women are changing, men are also changing.

Only a fo.olish man will still have that old mentality of marrying down in today's world while all women bring business mentality to marriages with "gender equality".

This advise is to be taken based on the country you live and your gender.

If you are in Africa for example, both men and women. It's okay to marry and not co-habit.

If you are in western countries, and you are a woman, try everything to marry because it will pay you when the marriage scatter, BUT if you are a man in western country, try everything within your power to co-habit and avoid that thing western countries calls "marriage".

Even cohabitation with a woman in western countries as a man, you must be very careful to ensure the woman has same financial status or better than you. If not, you will learn a hard way.

Relationships and marriages are always business to women from the date you say hello to the day she leaves you or dies. It is never about "love".

Women can only love their biological son, brother and father in that order.

The truth is that she will still dump the abroad man when she settles down or gets "a career" in the new country.

What I call "December wife" don't end up well for men.

KobomatPhones:
I was like, na your ex go tell you your faults before you realize them? As an adult wey you be.

I will just tell you the truth. That her ex is richer than you. This is why she is pursuing the guy with a torchlight and ready to be a backup girlfriend to him

Don't take the girl serious. You are just a back up plan.

Did the man weld her with a welding machine or used super glue to glue her down in the relationship?

She can also take a walk if it's not working.

Women don't even wait for men to allow them go. They take a walk once their mathematics is not adding up with you.

Any woman that stays with a man for long has already done her mathematics and the man is her best offer for that period.

This is blanket generalization. It's very wrong.

The advise should be that men should be logical and look out for their interests while dealing with women, irrespective of where the woman comes from.

Men are always logical except when dealing with women. Then they become emotional and reason with their 3rd leg.

Women are always emotional except when dealing with men. Then they become logical and use their brain.

Chidollars1994:
Ever since our father died my mother is something else she will react to anything always trying to manipulate everything if you ignore her she will start crying .
Every family member from father side is evil and if I disagree with her on that it will become a problem I’m thinking of sending her back to the village but I’m afraid she will be so lonely there and I don’t want people to think I don’t care about my mother i need an advice please I’m tired

Your mother is not just becoming now. She had always been since birth, even before she met your father. This is what your father dealt with while alive.

Women are like that. All of them.

And you have done right for this step daughter. It's time to let the girl know who her biological father is.

You don't want the girl to find out through another means or through another person. You and your wife will lose her trust and it can back-fire on you both, even with all your efforts on the girl.

Face the reality now. Forget all those narratives of you being her only father. You are the step father. The truth is the truth.

I know you are already attached to your step daughter. Setting the record straight will not remove that bond, but continuing to hide this from the girl could jeopardize the bond and the trust the girl has in you.

Jamiejames:
Her siblings are the kids from our marriage and no they don’t know that I am not her biological father because why would I do that. The only people that knows she’s not my biological daughter are immediate family members.

Not one time did we stop that man from having a relationship with her. Less than 6 months of coming into her life she had a major surgery that kept her at the hospital for 4 months, that’s when I got close to her and that’s when she started calling me dad because I am the one she sees every night and day. I was young and had just graduated from college, navigating through work/business and that did not stop me from being there considering the fact that I just met her mother, a lot of sleepless nights at the hospital, he came only once and another one time when they went home and that was it. No call, no letter, no email just no form of communication for almost 12 years.

Put himself on child support and never paid a dime and believe we don’t care and don’t need his money.

Do you know how many doctor’s appointment I take her to in a month? A lot till this day, she went through a lot due to the surgery, a lot of sacrifices being made and still. We spend over $11,000 a month on medication that insurance doesn’t cover for for about 3 years straight. Man none of these matters but I’m just trying to give context. I am more worried about my daughters mental health.

Like I said earlier on, I am not a selfish person and I want to treat this carefully which is why I came here anonymously. Like some clowns here had said “she’s not my daughter why am I calling her my daughter “ wow lol well I don’t care about what anyone says, she’s will always be my baby girl for the rest of our lives.

It is more clear now with more information.

The fact still remains that he is the biological father. And you are a step father to the girl.

Yes he was not in the girl life for more than 10 years but if he is back now to make things right, please don't deprive the child this opportunity. The highest you can do now is to ask him to pay up all the child supports he is owing you and your wife. If he is a reasonable man, he will appreciate all you have done for his daughter in his absence and pay with thanks. That is if he has the money.

Don't waste any money on any legal problems at all on this. It's not going to work out. If he is not into crime or anything that will be detrimental to the child well-being or development, it will be difficult to even get the girl adopted by you if he fights you in court.

imoh4king:
Great move by Volkswagen. Other Companies also need to stand up to America. All Bentley, Audi, Bugatti etc customers in America should hit at Trump...

And their market share will go to American luxury brands like Cadillac, Lincoln, Genesis, etc.

Very good and their market share goes to Ford, Chevrolet, Jeep, Toyota, Honda etc.