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One of the things wrong with Nigeria military n police is too much talking. Why don't we hear about US strikes before they happen? Nigeria intelligence is in Cho Cho cho...

Someone should assist, how can someone recover shares bought by deceased parent in the 90's?

Again I bought shares in 2008 and forgot about it, my brother called 2 months ago that he saw my name n our dad's name on the web site, I have tried to own it or even get my dividends, to no avail, I have also written to Afrinvest but they don't even reply even after I talked with their rep.

Please how do I track n move these shares to a portfolio where I can manage them...

Please help, how can someone go about changing date of graduation on nysc portal? This is the 3rd batch the school is sending out list of corrections to be made and each time, they omit my friend's name.

Aside going through the school to effect this change in date of graduation, what can be done? How can it be changed?

My friend is depressed because there has been so many hurdles through this schooling and here 3 years after school, my friend is still going through so much...

Please I need assistance... anyone who can help facilitate this thing... NYSC please help

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The true indication that we now have a great leader in Nigeria is when the perpetrators of killings in the middle belt especially Benue state is brought to book and justice prevailed on them with peace being experienced in the middle belt.

There is no way we can have food security in Nigeria and the middle belt which is the food basket of the nation is always in crisis

What do they mean by she was scaming a woman like her? Would it have been okay if she was scaming a man?

FarEl18:
Okay Thanks. I

Actually, it comes in 2 units (at least mine, I can see some people posting a newer one that is just one unit). One is the receiver and the other is the router. You are supposed to place the receiver close to a window and it is what holds the Airtel sim. Then you connect the receiver to the router via LAN/Ethernet which broadcasts the WiFi signal.

Fyi, I sometimes connect from the receiver directly to my laptop using LAN.

Hello, can you assist me on how this nokia airtel thing works? I bought mine for about 7 days now, registered my sim, got a confirmation from my dealer that I am on the free month subscription, I downloaded the nokia app and I have been trying to set up the whole system, still it tells me no signal found, I have repositioned and even gone to other buildings, I keep following the signal n it keeps saying no signal found.

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The north are not serious

Nigerians abroad

I had a friend, we went to same primary school and same secondary school, I started work after secondary school and was doing well for myself, my friend went to a very good private school and when he returned, he was almost turning to destitute, he came to me, I tried helping him set up a business, I also showed him the ropes, in the midst of setting up the business, somehow he traveled out, from one country to another country...

Each time he calls, he always talk about girls girls girls, and one time, I told him to help me get something of 30k for my niece, he told me he just spent about 15million on this and that... I lol

And because I changed city, career and many other things coupled with the current reality, I just needed some cash to go by for some few days before things gets running, I messaged my friend, he was replying and as usual talking about girls till I asked for assistance, he ghosted till today... and I know he is doing very well, infact his current career was a step by step guide from me, as it was what I was doing...

You see the Bible was explicit enough when it was written: I looked up to the mountains from whence commeth my help? My help will come from the Lord who madeth the heavens and the earth...

You see some Nigerians abroad think, it's either entitlement attitude that's making some persons in Nigeria ask for assistance or people in Nigeria are just lazy...

Personally, I am not poor or lazy, but you see it's not easy changing career and location within Nigeria in this current economy...

Dear friends abroad, please 5k, 10k, 20k, 100k, even 2k is important for your kith and kin back home, the woman in this video poured out her heart n mind... The situation is real, it's not fake despite how calm she looks...

And who I have an amazing classmate abroad who is doing so much to assist us...

How is he coming through We organized ourselves into a cooperative, he doubles on everyone's contribution, amd you are at liberty to borrow times 2 of your savings i.e, if I have 100k with the cooperative, I have access to borrow 200k, and if another friend is ready to guarantee me and he has saving of 300k in the cooperative, I have access to 800k, we are just about 8 in the cooperative n bro, has that corporation come through And see, we pay back with interest of 2.5 to 3.5 depending on certain conditions, sometimes when we feel relax and happy, we hold business talks... at the end of the year, we share our monies with the interest gain and who wants to stop can stop, but bro, no one has left, this is our 4th year...

Adamux:
I have noticed over time how some people have been throwing insults at Adeboye, Soyinka, etc because he didn't support their tribesman.

I am a Muslim from the North, you will never see any of my people curse or defame religious elders over Politics. Not even people of the opposite faith.

Funny enough, it's the same set of tribalists that prides themselves as good Christians. Is this what your holy Bible teaches you? Don't you have shame?

You always complain of marginalization. Is this how you intend to garner support for Peter Obi? I'm afraid your next generation just like your fathers will still cry of marginalization if you don't learn to be build bridges and be cultured.

You are an hypocrite, you lots insulted Goodluck Jonathan, you lot tried killing Bishop Kukah and because you are an hypocrite, you are sounding sanctimonious here.

I am not igbo, but Soyinka and Adeboye are a Representation of bad elders in Nigeria, they are section about truth they speak and that's why many persons insult them.

You hypocritical lots from the north will rather turn the blind eye to insightful comments made by your own leaders, today you lots are singing the praises of abacha who was a killer and corrupt, u won't call out Pa buhari for bringing Nigeria to nothing but wait till Goodluck is mentioned or Obi is mentioned...

Don't worry, everyone will be alright in Nigeria... you lots should keep forming hypocrites till one day the blind eye you are turning will turn against you...

TimeManager:
A very cheap talk, people around you had to hold your leg and beg you to accept defeat and make a call to Buhari to congratulate him. It was the toughest moment of your life. Orubebe was already carrying out your plans at Abuja collation center. GEJ, we respect you, don't talk too much and throw it away.

-Kiss the truth!

And when people come for your own touts of elites, you will begin to talk nonsense about respect and patriotism...

All what GEJ has been saying since 2012 are true, but you lots and your bigoted elites won't accept the truth.

My younger bro bought a phone and left it to charge in church, after closing, he couldn't find the phone, dude saved almost a life time to get that phone and he was very emotional about it. He had just lost his previous phone to pick pockets and he bought this one barely a month interval.

My sister stood in and went to DPO calabar at ebrumede division, they told her to pay about 40k for tracking, which she did. The worth of the phone then was about 50k (so it was a gamble for us). She went with receipt of purchase, the phone pack and identity cards.

It took almost 2 months when they called her to the station, they didn't show her anything, just gave her a new phone of same specifications and refunded the 40k back to her. She dashed the police people 10k and came home with the new phone.

They didn't disclose to her any other information... When she asked to see the thief, they asked if that's what she wanted or she wanted back the phone...

But another police officer informed her personally that the person who was arrested with the phone bought it from a shop and he took them to the shop, the shop owner could not identify who he bought the phone from, so he had to pay for everything and refunded money to everyone and also bail himself...

Phone sellers have been told that before buying second handed phones, they should record faces and collect i.ds of sellers, else they will be the ones to answer once issues arise.


Meanwhile, I think the rise in decluttering business is increasing criminality in Nigeria especially asaba, thieves go into houses to pack properties so they can render to declutters.

The govt have to find a way to regulate this surge. I like the idea of decluttering but it's giving criminals easy channel to sell stolen properties unchecked.

DevilsEqual:


I don't know what people enjoy from causing unrest

I hope the militants get fished out and dealt with

Why would u kill a soldier on a peace mission?
Anyone who thinks this is a flex is very sick

The soldiers, were not on a peace mission, they were sent there by a militant leader who somehow could command them.

I am sure the military is unraveling alot hence they are still there in the village. The killings were done at Okuama, why will the military be burning and killing at igbomorotu? The urhobos don't kill and behead. It's the ijaws and militants who kill and behead...

The truth of what happened in Okuama will come out one day...

This deposed king has not said the entire truth, somehow he hopes to gain after all these unrest.

Ogiame:
That would be Ewedu.. (No disrespect to my SW brothers and sisters)

My ex so over hyped it any time we talk on the phone... So, I decided to try it out. She invited me to their house so I can confirm the hype.

Her mom has already prepared it before my coming, so it was straight to the dinning table.

Amala was very smooth, as it slides it's way down my throat, but the soup, just didn't see the hype. Na the many meat wey surround the soup I just deal with.

But their “Ewa Goyin” is world class and deserves all the hype

I would have agreed ewedu is over hyped, maybe in looks, but if you struggle with ulcer and big Tommy, you will understand why people love ewedu. After eating ewedu, my stomach feels very suiting at the areas where I get ulcer pains...

People who plait and cut their children hair will see this and also condemn it.

Did their children request for their hair to be plaited or cut? In as much as the parents are convinced the steps they are taking is to equip and protect their children for the better world then its fine. However the process should be with clean equipments.

Some parents rub bleaching creams on their children, yet it's seen as civilization.

InteliJ:
Yeah true

Have they started listing the beneficiaries

BentizilL0:
Coward act... 💯

A ragtag Hamas with nothing but homemade drone made the so called IDF soldiers useless, so this is what they can resort to??..

Bombing of civilian house when Hamas are still living with their drones intact? 😂😂

Till October 7, I never thought Israel would've been dragging best army with ragtag Hamas...

Israel is nothing without US, UK France and Co always fighting for her...

Provide Hamas with half of those Israel weapon and watch them turn Israel to a nobody...

Smh

You are just pained for no reason, do you know without fg backing, the fulani terrorists evading farm lands in Nigeria are nothing? But they have fg backing hence they are something...

Hamasaki has Iran,Egypt a d Nigerian Muslims as allies... unfortunately for you guys, your support this time is worthless, you guys are trying to leave revenge now for Allah, but you stoned an innocent Deborah and beat that Keke man who wants to go fend for his family because you had power and you had fg backing, at the end of the day power prevails, and same thing will prevail in this Israel Palestine war, not power of Allah, but power of weapons.

And truly weda you bury your heads on the ground like ostriches shouting Allah akbar, your butt will take Adequate whiping from Israel...

And that is enough satisfaction to balance the evils your religion practice in Nigeria...

Jeon:
First time seeing a Man worrying about pregnancy.

Sad your father was not worried about you. Very sad.

Toks2008:
I don't know if this is normal but I find these four things very attractive on a lady and the fourth one is really very weird.

1. Extra small Nose Stud: Personally I find most nose studs or rings very unattractive but there is something very classy about a lady rocking a pin head extra small nose stud on one side of her nose . Unlike the big nose studs, this one looks very decent and classy.

2. . Leg Chain: I'm a lover of beautiful legs and a lady rocking leg chain on a beautiful leg gives the leg an extra beauty regardless of the skin colour.

3. Waist Chain: I am not really a lover of waist beads because it gives that eerie vibe but waist chains are in a whole different class. Waist chain unlike beads give a very classy and more beautiful look especially the dangling loosed types and it is even more beautiful when a lady puts two different colours.

4. Pierced Tongue : This fifth one is weird but the odogwus will understand wettin dey if a lady with pierced tongue use it to chew their sugar cane. Amazingly, whenever I see a lady with pierced tongue, I fight so hard not to get attracted to them cos of the bad girl vibe they give

So as a guy, what are those weird things you find very attractive on a lady?

There is nothing attractive about these things, your mind has been wired to think a woman putting on these things has some mystery about her, maybe seexual prowess, maybe confidence or some kind of feminine ruthlessness.

It's those traits you are attracted to and your mind is tricking you to believe a woman who wears these ornaments, possess these abilities.

These ornaments truly stir desires and were part of ancient practice by housewifes to stimulate interest of their husband's to keep the matrimonial bed shaking... Soon ancient oloshos copied the scheme to scam men and remind them of what their wives used in stimulating their interest, when pious wives learnt their husband's were now glued to these ornaments, they stopped using them, and devised the mystery of being quiet... The amount of mystery that loomed from being quiet wives was so huge, that men whose wives became very quiet had to begin using all manners of tactics to please them to speak or be expressive. You will bear me witness that many posh oloshos and escorts now uses this mystery of quietness, it adds some kind of elegance to the mystery, you ask what is wrong and she says nothing with a smiling face, you begin to impress by spending... till your eyes gets open that she is working on your mind...

Point is, your mind is attracted to the mysterious woman, and not those ornaments...

litaninja:
You expect anyone to speak with courtesy to "ragtag looking armed officials", with no name tags, flagging you down at a checkpoint that their IG has banned every week for the last 10 years? To do a "survey", in the middle of the day, in the middle of the road?

How does any action described make sense that anyone will talk to them with sense

Aside them dressing shabbily, I see nothing wrong in them carrying out a survey at the location they were.

I honestly like how you think, you are very logical, and because of this, I will be glad to purchase the police recruitment form for you, so you can go in there to be a reformer... Nigeria need men like you in the NPF

Britishpea:
Social media especially Twitter is building a monster in Nigerians.

Being cantankerous is self destruct. And it is built sub consciously over time by what people read, watch, listen to, exposed to, and the type of companies one has.

Nigerians especially youths are loosing it. I took a Uber one day and this particular roundabout was a messy build-up of vehicles. One of the police had passed us befor th roundabout but on getting to the main spot of the build up, the other policeman waved us down.

As a reasonable driver, you are even supposed to wait before being waved down by that policeman who was not taking bribes but doing his work diligently.

I swear this young Uber driver changed it for the policeman. Started troubles and was abusing the policeman of being ineptitude. The police was angry and was planning to delay us but for my interventions

We have a long way to go with the type of people we are raising in this country.

This just goes to buttress the point of the Bishop who said those in position of powers are same badly bred Nigerians, my problem is that the ill attitude is somehow corrupting the best amongst us.

odinga1of:
Same thing we face here in Warri. Try talk with low tune or simple manner, u will be trample upon.

But immediately u shout on top of your voice, people go respect dia old age

I be jakpa born and bred, pple are just rude for no particular reason in warri.

Yampotatocarrot:
So you met a policeman who spoke calmly and, maybe 3 passengers who replied roughly and all of a sudden, they are nice and angels from heaven?

What about the number of times Nigerians were calm and cooperative and policemen refused to do otherwise? What about the times Nigerians were stereotyped just for their hairstyle and for having beards?

I was in a Keke few Sundays back and a young guy was asked to alight... Asked where he was heading to for him to dress that way (he wore senator with palm o)... Asked to empty his bag, empty his pocket and open his phone. He asked them to empty his bag themselves in the glare of everyone that he doesn't want accidental discharge say them think say him wan comot gun or any other frivolous reasons... Refused to open his phone asking why they wanted to check it

The boss in the police van had to wave to the subordinates to allow him go, seeing that we in the Keke refused to leave the guy and zoom off as requested

This is what happens CONSTANTLY and just because you met a policeman who spoke calmly, you're now trying to twist the narrative... E be like say you no well abi? (No insults intended)

You are sounding frustrated mate... Easy on yourself...

When a catholic bishop said the judges of the Supreme court are not from Singapore but scions of same badly bred Nigerians, some persons nodded in unionism because their ox was in the fight, not really because we hoped to do better or adapt to cause change.

Once same Nigerians are opporturned to stand in the podium of power to make decisions, the wrong choices are always made.

Today, I was in a shuttle on my way to koka coming from Asaba Airport, as we approached Mariam Babangida junction, some rag tag looking group of government armed men flagged us, I quickly scanned for badges, squad title and possible name/ number tags, the only remarkable identity I saw was anti cult vest donned by a gun wielding, young "officer".

While I was doing my mental scan, I became at ease when he spoke calmly and explained they are on a survey mission and if the shuttle driver wouldn't mind, he should pack and stop for a few survey questions. Immediately this "officer" spoke calmly, the guys inside the shuttle with me raised their voices and became instantly rebellious, I reclused myself mentally from the revolt and watched the psychological defeat of Nigerians who everyday cry for better synergy and treatment between civil and forced individuals...

I bet if the "officer" had spoken in the normal NPF fashion, no one would have been motivated to say pim. The best would have been to murmur and curse under one's breath...

It was when the shuttle developed fault just a few meters away that I knew all the talk of "I am late for work" bla bla bla were just shalaye and yen yen yen put together, people who were in a hurry couldn't come down to board another shuttle for 100 naira... Everyone including yours sincerely had to wait for the driver to trouble shoot.

So in a nutshell, do you think Nigerians
will be more responsible and cooperative when talked to with respect and courtesy Or rebellion will increase

VinnyBaba:
Ogbeni, I have seen a Commissioner's Daughter wearing N400 female Footwear.😏

Some BigMen's Children are very Plain and Modest! 🙁🙁

Some Wealthy Pple's Children are NOT so CRAZY about Fashion and Show Off! 😒

I don't think that guys comment was really about the cost of the footware, it should be more about the cleanliness of the footware, how it is donned, the fitting and how the wearers feet looks.

For me feet and fingers tell a lot about an individual.

Whatsapp status upload and social media comments also give important clues.

In this Era of chatting, how a person types, also give out clues, do they type in abbreviations? (I can never hold on to the words of someone who types in abbreviations). Do they type with lots of errors? (Errors now is not sentence errors, but spelling errors)... sentence error can mean interference of first language (I enjoy typing in pidgin), but you see spelling errors, it's lack of knowledge, especially when coming from an individual who acts all posh...

Then lastly, someone who makes sly comments, especially during jokes, is a big indication of a narcissistic... the antidote? I hold up a mirror and reflect your sly jokes back at you... It's the best way to get them to stop...

UnconventionalT:
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"I am a Nigerian student living in Scotland, A Nigerian Christian guy got in touch with me via WhatsApp and asked for a relationship, saying he got my number off a church whatsapp group that I haven't been to for almost a year now. He said he's prayed about me and God has told him we are good to go. He is a student too.
I was single at the time and haven't been with a Christian brother before, so I decided to give it a chance. It's roughly 2 months and I am at the point where I want to quit.

We got talking on the platform and also through calls, about a week into our relationship/talking stage he asked me to come to his place and cook for him so he can have enough food for the coming week. I was surprised because we hadn't even seen each other at that at time. I told him I cannot, he made a big deal out of it and said stuff like it's not a big deal for me to do that as his wife to be. We got over that and arranged to see for the first time, he suggested my house and I said I don't feel comfortable with either of us seeing for the first time in our houses and we finally concluded on a Bugger King outlet which isn't far from my house. This didn't go well with him tho.

We met for the first time and talked, after that he said he wanted to know my place as it isn't far from Burger King. He came to my place and stayed in my bed till around past 10pm, he tried touching and kissing, I told him I wasn't comfortable and he needed to leave because of time. He got annoyed said his intentions was to stay over at my place, he already told his housemate he isn't coming back home and it's so late now to go back. I told him I cannot allow him sleep at my house for the first time we're meeting, I have a small single bed and you intentionally didn't even say you'd sleep over before. He grudgingly left and dropped 3 packs of youghurt and a bag of unfried chips which I later discovered where all expired at the time he dropped them.

I told him about it and he made a mess out of the situation. He attends a pentecostal church and critisizes other churches, he doesn't really believe in adult taking responsibility for their actions as the devil is most likely responsible for everything, we simply have to pray against the devil.
He's asked for sex multiple times in less than 1 month, I stopped talking to him one time for about 2 weeks and we picked up again. He said he doesn't have to penetrate, we can do every other things to satisfy our flesh. He said doing all that with him is the proof of my love for him which I have strongly disagreed. Sex isn't a prove of love, we are adults and can have protected sex with anyone without loving them.
The only single thing I enjoy about him is that we communicate well, he talks a lot too and that makes our communication half argument, he finds fault in any little thing and blows it out of proportion. I have told him I don't have strength for argument in marriage since we won't be arguing over minute things that get him pissed off now.

Both of us have been getting multiple 12 hours night shifts from work and two nights ago, he asked me what he was going to eat when he gets home the following morning, I knew he was up to something. I told him I can't say, we don't live together and I don't know what you currently have at home. I suggested he buys bread on his way back home. He then asked me to cook for him to eat the following morning, I sincerely let him know I have no soup or stew myself. His response changed and he later called me on same subject, citing how I don't care enough about him to be concerned about how he is gonna eat since he's been working few nights now, he compared himself to a married man that always brings food to work at his workplace. Even gave the guy his phone to talk to me, that one too said I should do things in my power to make my man happy.

I tried to make him understand he isn't married and it might be difficult to enjoy what his married frnd is enjoying. Youve never bought me foodstuff, you haven't worked before and sent me 50 pounds or less for groceries, we are both working night shifts and I sort my own food, why are you angry I can't make out time out of my rest period to come cook at your house to stuck your fridge?

I have been in relationship where I cooked, I personally enjoy cooking, but I have never been with a man that feels to entitled to me doing that for him. He says I'm supposed to be the one cooking for him. He also believes in women abroad sharing bills, but he is too traditional to share house chores"

One of the saddest misconceptions plaguing ladies of marriageable age their own actions of holding back, if a you are being asked or dating a man above 30 and you feel cooking for him is you granting him spousal privileges, then aunty by all means stay on your own.

These same privileges you granted men who pillaged you for free with no intentions... And here you see a man saying it as he wants it and you are raising demonic standards against him.

See, leave him and let him go search for a lady to offer him "spousal" benefits in relationships, you too should go look for a man who will love you for not giving him spousal benefits until after marriage... Life is not so hard... Or do you have virginity to give to him in marriage

Cooking and being caring towards your man is not what should be requested, it's not spousal benefit, how does he get to know the stuff you are made inside if he doesn't see these aspects? You waste countless number of hours talking irrelevant things and avoid actually acting relevant things...

You guys should separate... Leave the demonic pentecostal brother and find a holy catholic or Anglican ex seminarian... Both of you should be serving each other holy communion and bible verses...

Wodu89:
Hahahahaha. Kukuma collect my phone break am bro. You no go kill me o



they want to be in one of those prisons called estates in lekki where you have to go through many protocols to gain access... Then they watch those who can't afford it and feel fulfilled....

But it's the truth, I have come to realize that most activities the black man indulge in is not borne out of the utility he derives, it mostly bellows from the air of superiority, the need to feel among, pride and so many nonsense.

Kenn55:
After you make the first 100m what next? Make another 100m?
@Raydos, this is what I was trying to talk about in your thread. Every talk or argument about Nigerians is about money, more money, more more money and it ends with money.
Nobody seems to give a damn about any other thing apart from the money they make.
This thread will degenerate into an argument on who makes more money, the stage is set. This is all we care about as a people.

No one talks about security, values, respect, serenity, easy flow, fresh air, calm, someone just want to be in his barbed wired house, with generator on, a church or mosque blasting so much noise daily. Or better, they want to be in one of those prisons called estates in lekki where you have to go through many protocols to gain access... Then they watch those who can't afford it and feel fulfilled....