So many people think it's going to be business as usual, in one hand, there is alot of individuals without basic career skills who are not even ready to be employed currently in Nigeria, on the other hand, employers are treating employees badly, they don't even realize that the bottom of the pot of soup is leaking badly... Government on the other hand is gearing it's belt to exploit taxation without making checkmating the excesses of employers, even the expatriate in Nigeria are beginning to be treated badly, I worked in a barge last year and there was no expatriate food for the Asians, they had to resort to eating only rice and cabbage for more than a month... The very first time I saw expatriates downing tools, Nigeria local content contractors no fit pay indigens and expatriates...

Anyways, there will be an harmonization somewhere somehow...

robosky02:



Truth is we need some serious business minded inform and experience hands too


Not just youthful jamborees

You are one of the numerous problems plaguing Nigeria, in a post not so distant away, you accused Gernot of not taking advantage of the home base players, you also accused him of not building a formidable team with the current crop of Nigerian youngsters in football, not you are speaking from another side of your mouth, talking about Victor Moses and experience hands, I pity the Nigerians who do not have the sense to decipher all your propaganda from truths, the Nigerians who do not see that your stand against Gernot is for personal reasons, how much will be you and your oga cut when Victor Moses gets called up to S.E and finally secure the endorsement you guys have been missing out from

Stupid how blind your ilks think that Nigerians dont see beyond your dotted lines...

Gernot was the best thing that happened to S.E after Bonfere Jo and Steven Keshi...

I am here to help

I know you have been a liar and full of shit from the beginning

Don't give out informations that will lead to revealing the identity of the child

Why are you not posting the document? Why are you posting 3 or 4 pages

Be remorseful and plead for less time and mercy

If you were innocent why did you plead to be tried in Nigeria?

The document available to everyone where the documents presented by the prosecutor

The document convicted you Mr. Bah, you are lying and full of shit

Don't call him condemned

He is not an accused, he is a convict

They didn't allow for gps kini kan

My lawyer said I shouldnt tender that one

I have spent over 150k dollars

He calculated 25k dollars



*Too many statements that contradict themselves from the protagonists and antagonists

Bully bully

Derail

Derail

Bully bully

Black mail

Chatacter Defamation

Black mail


My take on all these:

THE FIRST SET OF PEOPLE: Many of the people here, were moved by emotions and funny enough, they represent the multitude who didn't read the 1200 page kini, these people are much and I fall within this category, for us, our justice system revolves around the practice of "tell me the truth na you do am?"

Whilst this system is flawed, it's the system we are used to and it appeals to our state of hopelessness, we do not understand the Complex system of juror and forensics, at most we only get to watch CI and marvel at the complexity of develop investigations.

In all our bits, what is valuable to us, is our integrity and our investment is our emotion, that's why when our integrity is brought to question, we quickly rest, our emotion is only loyal to us... The fear of the future to be likened to a "condemned" rings fear in our ears, so this piece here on this faceless forum can hinder or make us in the future, after all, the forum is not so faceless...

THE SECOND SET OF PEOPLE: They are the antagonist, they are the elites, they came around dangling tales of helping the course of Mr. Bah, they sounded so puffed off, maybe it's the American spirit (the reason we all want to go to the America to be baptized in the American spirit; Nigerian has a way of humbling you even before ambazionians), I notice they have the capacity to give assist, they did read the document or pretend to have read the document, but they claim to see lies lies lies of the op, if you dont see those lies of the op, then to them, you are a rapist apologist...

The third people: the follow follow, they just follow the winning side, when Mr. Bah was winning the discussions, they were everywhere, cheering him on and calling on the village elders to come seat in parliament and chew kolanut over the case, when the antagonist started picking holes like stones from Mr. Bah's carefully prepared ewa agoyin, these people jejely changed sides o, they did give me some comic relieve... These crew don even want their ancestors to be called rap singers talkless of rape apologists, these set of people are just after the contact and influence they will get and make from here, e be like say single jand babes full this discussion

After all said and done, powerhouse5050

Only you and God knows if you are innocent, a part of me still feel you are innocent, but honestly the fact against you is huge, should you even plead for reduce sentenced, it has implied your acceptance of guilt, should you hold your ground, you will be accuse of being arrogant and rude..

@ Chatinent, I feel for you, you are a good man, a refined man, you did stand your ground and faced persecution, not for supporting Mr. Bah but for having a listening ear... Kpele, you didn't write anything defaming about the Atlanta journalist (at least from what I read), you only posted what he wrote by himself and he even acknowledged his sarcasm, I wonder where you tried to defame him as was adjudged from (in Peter Drury's voice) "some sections of the crowd"

@ Powerhouse5050 give your attorneys a detail event of everything, hold nothing back, calmly use the questions asked by the lead antagonist and her elitist team to form some of the questions the world and the prosecutors will ask you... If truly you are innocent as you still claim, Keep the spirit high don't falter, hunter no de shoot monkey when de inside cage, infact na banana e go give am...

Lead antagonist, you did well o, I wasn't also convinced by the "convict"... Take nothing personal...

Abeg make I rest, I no get power to find trouble...

But if you are not innocent, @ powerhouse5050, may the fleas of a million camel invade your scrotum and may your hands be too short to tickle them off your balls for a million lifetime...

legendgalas:
Nigeria is not serious at all
How will you sack a coach 6weeks to a competition he has qualified the team to?
A coach that has met all targets set before him since he got the job?
I will rate him 8/10 since he was appointed

I really don't understand all these hate and calumny against the coach, the coach is doing well, very well... I enjoyed Nigerians nations cup outing, it's only unfortunate that Algeria were a better side with a world class striker in Mahrez

If you notice in all the calumny, there is this use of "we football lovers" phrase, that goes a long way to tell you it's an orchestrated calumny, and making some selfish desires to paint for the desires of all Nigerian football lovers, it's same thing about the people who say "we the Patriots of Nigeria"..

Anyways, anything them like make them do...

kenzysmith:
what abundant talent how many of ur player dey uefa champion league this season name one? For the ist time players is selected base on form u think football in Africa is child play?
What will ivory coast who had abundant talent says after they miss out
Na so una do goodluck appoint buhari shey una see the results
Make I see wetin una Emmanuel amunike go do

You speak wisdom, the only thing Rohr has done, is not picking players recommended to him by "big men", hee has also refused to give bribe or collect bribe in the normal Nigerian fashion, hence the recent media onslaught against him

Let's be honest, the man has met all the targets given to him since he was appointed coach, so what is the problem I not corruption trying knock this man off...

The current Nigeria team don't have a style of play, that itself is a style of play, Rohr is careful so the S.E is not over rated and opponents come strong against them, watch Greece, Denmark, Croatia, Poland, it's wisdom to be an underdog and win surprises than to be the strong man and weak countries come against you and you are surprised, nonsense giant of Africa.

Relieving Rohr of his job, will be our greatest undoing after relieving GEJ of his job

after4:
What you have heard is the boys story, have you heard from the woman? Is it her business that the boy was arrested? What if the boy was lying? Every school in Nigeria said you must complete your siwess why did he not complete it? Is she obligated to allow him without the siwess? You see the reason why we have graduates that cannot speak or write their names in Nigeria. This boy has not fulfilled a critical criteria for graduation why should he be graduated? That siwess is a whole semester work and he came out to give some excuse.
Mister, if that boy was well trained at home, he would have learnt to control his temper. Do you k of that that lecturer is someone's wife and mother? Imagine one small boy beating your wife for doing her job to the point of coma and you are here defending the useless boy what if he had killed her, you will then go to the husband and children to tell them "sorry". Am sure the school will deal with the boy, when they do, go and defend him

I stopped reading at "is it her business that the boy was arrested?"

Havilaah1:
Good day all, i want to pour my heart on what's bothering me and get people's view and possible solutions to the issue.

I've been in a relationship with my boo for a couple of years now and it's a serious relationship, we're are very close.. infact we're practically besties aside relationship. For some months now i noticed he no longer gives me attention like he used to, the vibe between us dropped and it was getting me angry. He stopped doing the things he knows i like, he knows my love language is attention/care as well as complement but he stopped doing all these. I'd send him a photo where i look so beautiful and he'd only say you look good, at a point i started preparing my mind for the worse.

Just yesterday he told me there's something he wants us to talk to me about and it's been bothering him and i asked him what it was, he said it's about us. He said 2 of his siblings asked him same question on different occasions but, he didn't see it as a big deal the first time but when it was asked the second time he got angry and that's the reason he hasn't been flowing well with me.

The question was how can you get married to someone who is not close to your siblings, when he said this i was weak. I know when we started the relationship he told me his siblings are free people i can relate with, i told him i will try. I was in contact with 2 of his sisters before this year( i sometimes chat, text or call during birthdays, new month and festivities).

This year i started chatting with the 3rd sister, her wedding was coming up and she sent me IV. I congratulated her and she asked if i will be around, i told her i will try and create time so i can travel down to attend. I really did travel down to attend the wedding, she was surprised when she saw me but i noticed my boo wasn't happy with me all through the event.
Now he's saying he's in close communication with my mum and siblings, they talk all the time but same can not be said about me. He was thinking how can he get married and his siblings will refuse coming to his house because there's no relationship between us.

I'm a very introverted person while himself and his siblings on the other hand are extroverts and ambiverts, i don't find it easy building up ties with people from a distance. I have very few friends, i can be in a place and i won't talk if I'm not used to the people or there's no serious thing to talk about (that's the reason i talk to his siblings during birthdays, new month or festivities). I don't know how to build up a strong relationship with them before marriage, it's even worse because we don't get to see often cos they're in a different state but I've visited them on a few occasions.
How do i handle this issue. I was in deep thought all through the night, i couldn't get up to 4 hours sleep.


God knows i love his family as much as i do mine, he himself said he knows i care about them 100% but his family cannot read my mind to see that i have them in mind. After our discussion last night i couldn't sleep, I've been feeling bad about the whole thing. Introversion is making me look like I'm not a good person.

I really don't know how to go about this, please i need advice from people who have been in similar situation.
Moderator please help move to front page to get a wider view.
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farano
Please help move to front page for wider view.

I hate when people especially ladies say tgey are introverts, you jusy dont want to leave your comfort zone and thats very fine, stop masquerading as an introvert, should there be a reason for connecting with his siblings, you will do that, you just don't see a reason, and forcing a reason to be friendly with his siblings will be counter productive, just be yourself and let him love you for being you... Learn good mannerisms and attend to his family in good manners when they come... Just dont lie that you are an introvert...

after4:
So rather than spend an extra year you chose to be rusticated, nice choice. Some people were not well trained at home. How can you have the guts to beat someone who is old enough to be your teacher

What has training got to do with the post? This boys narration clearly shows the lack of empathy in Nigeria and the instances where police brutality has boomeranged into future problems...

I remember the frustration I felt each time I left my office to go do clearance and the "big madam" was never on seat, she was either somewhere making aproko or still home attending to her business, I became enraged and caused an uproar, whilst some staffs took my side and acknowledged the "big madam's" lackadaisical attitude, some staffs tried to come me...

If truly we want to reform Nigeria, the refi should start from tge institutions and family circle, they hold the key, because that's where a whole lot of Nigerians went through to learn wickedness and stupidity...

Ehn destroy his life and render him useless, tomorrow he turns to an arm robber and kills 12 people on the high way, then you say nonsense...

I once went to work during an exam and I bless Mr. Usele of PTI and how he explained to me why I will be getting a spill, I enjoyed my spill and got the maximum mark out if it...

Double0h7:
It's because you started the conversation like a beggar. Be confident and interesting and nobody will block you.
You wven acted shocked and laughed at her for not knowing a country in a different continent (@ laughing emoji) as if your country is the USA.

The whole conversation was awkward. Next time, be casual and don't bring in countries and personal stuff. Ask about the person and don't rush... just have a normal conversation.

Can you please explain what is begging in the ops statement with the pole?

How best do you break a conversation without first sharing certain personal information especially like location Oh he should talk about the sky, moon and Jupiter?

Personally the first thing I tell any foreigner is my country and residence, so if you are not comfortable, you back off...

pocohantas:
“School is scam”
Why then is there no cluster of youths learning skills or businesses?




People in business, what has been your experience with apprentices?

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Iyaebe:
Hope you won't demand for what you don't like?that'll amount to selfishness.

You rest nau, life is not about sex and mouth action, if you so much like it and your hubby does not, but a dog and enjoy all the mouth action you want...

Easylion3569:
Previous thread https://www.nairaland.com/6821339/girlfriend-pregnant-please-me-im

And there was a voice, and he said to me; you're about to become a daddy.. And i said to him, i my really ready for this?

*What do i know about being a dad?
*Don't even know the duties of a dad,
*Don't even know the responsibilities of a dad,

I told him i've lost everything i had,
& he told me, what ever will be will be.
I told him, you are wrong, how true is that statement, when what would have been, has now seized to be.

Does one have to wake up every moning suffering?
i wish i could turn back the hands of time, it seems like someone is sitting down on me.

And now, i had to enter my room through the windows. Repeating one song over & over again.

i can't even eat nor drink water now, & i'm very hungry.
I've tried to read some funny stories on nairaland if it could put that litle smile on me, but it did not.

where can i start from here, how can i prepare for my mistakes, how can i avoid that wrong decison? It really got me down, and there is no one to take me back up.

*this is my song*
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If you could take time out to read what I am about to write:

That you are concerned about this shows you are a responsible human, I know the feeling, I bet you really do love this girl but seeing her now, it seems she is a destiny killer, it's okay that you have all these feelings inside of you. You should also consider the trauma the young lady will be going through, maybe she isn't your spec or even you level, but also consider the trauma she is going through...

Both of you should take responsibility, infact, the more you try to be responsible the more frustrated you will become, but I urge you to olease keep tge baby, don't make the mistakes most of us made...

A beautiful girl became pregnant for me, she ran away with the pregnancy after I told her and gave her money to abort it, she showed up 3 months later with a protruding stomach, I so much loved her, but I was mad as fuk, I was jobless and in a quamire in my life, just as you feel now, I felt no appetite to eat or drink anything, I told my closest friends and honestly they did give their advise, soon I took courage, I told my younger brother to go inform my parents that he is suspecting my then gf was pregnant and he is suspecting I want it aborted, I told my younger brother the truth and I needed him to break the news to my mom in a subtle way. Funny enough, my mom was over joyed with the news, my mom later sat me down and was explaining how she had a dream that my gf is pregnant and I am urging her to terminate the pregnancy, she said she will disown me if I do...

Prior to informing my younger brother, I had seeked the counsel of my best female friends and make friends and I asked them how do I cater for the baby and the mom, they said double your hustle, I asked how, they said call your formal employers and tell them you need a job, I said it's not so easy, they said I should try it out, I did call about 4, the first employer said he has been looking for me and he needed me to come do some job in Dubai, sent money for my passport and said I should be fast, the second said he needed to get a mail address for me to send an email, if I will be willing to receive 700k per month on a 6 months project

So I pet my then gf, and told her to go inform her brother and we should keep the baby, upon informing her brother, the idiot said I am a poor man and he can't allow his beautiful sister have my child, I talked roughly to him though as I was already very tensed, he took her to a hospital and they aborted a 4 months old pregnancy (18weeks), they ceased her phones and disconnected communication with me, I later learnt she almost died, rushed from one hospital to another and then she revived and established contact with me... The relationship died immediately, I couldn't bear the thoughts of letting the innocent lady go through a terrible ordeal, I was her first, she was an orphan, it's a guilt I live with everyday...

You may ask about the Jobs and what happened, lolz, everyone cancelled the appointment, my passport got so delayed and I couldn't travel, the other guy couldn't get the email and I lost everything.

What did I learn?? We are only care takers of children, most children come with what will be used to cater for them, truncating the process causess a big gap in the spiritual realm...

I didn't blame anyone, I blamed myself... My friend's said I should go arrest the brother and other stuffs, I asked them to what purpose I did confess to my mom the truth and to all who cared to listen as a way of reparation, but truly tge guilt still lies in my heart. I will be 34 by next year with no child or wife or even wealth...

Why have I said this story So you can learn and make wise decision...

I read tte father of Zeus was making life hard for Zeus and hiss siblings, what did they do They went to war, the Olympians (younger generation) fought the Titans (old generations) and banished them to a land beneath the Hades, it's time we retire these old men making lifee difficult for us...


Tinubu for president sha!!!

endsarrrs:
folks like you voted the PMB government in. Now you want me to continue wailing?! We are in it together. It's either we hang seperately or we hang together...enjoy your e-buhari

I swear I was visibly angry with your first statement about Buhari administration better than GEJ till I saw this post, the trolling sweet me, If I remember the energy these buharideens sapped from me pre 2015, I feel the best way to pay them back is to show support for Buhari and APC and ruga, and anything "nice" thrown at Nigerians... But I somehow wish I could do it from somewhere where there is snow and a maple leaf flying swaying with a red and with colour hanging somewhere...

sirjamesjnr:
. What cake do they eat? It is their body, respect it. That is what maturity is all about.

What is matured about body counts? Society will always shame immorality in any guise, just recently Tega and Boma were shamed by both the young and old, married and single, it's what holds the fabrics of our collective moral values together, you can't tell me otherwise, a slut is a slut... A slut should endeavor to tell her man who she is and was, and she should be responsible for who she was/is, not camouflaging under the umbrella of past is past and not wanting to be shamed after being deceptive with the truth to gaining a partner.

An arm robber should not be job shamed, it's in his past... A ritualist should not be job shamed it's in his past... Same goes for a murderer and a drug king, and a boko Haram member... It's all in the past

sirjamesjnr:
There is no sure thing as a sexual quota. And there is no such thing as a ‘hoe’. Men that slut-shaming women are not mature to be in a grown-up relationship. No lady is not accountable to any man for her past. It's none of a man's business.

That lady A has one guy she sleep with when she was 15 till she clocks 30 and married, lady B has a body count of 100 before her 30th birthday. The truth is the two ladies have sex and they don't owe you any explanation.

If you are going to marry for 'purity" look for a virgin girl. Do not condemn a man who wants a team player, homemaker, companion, and someone who can resonate with him. A virgin girl can tick all the boxes agreed. If you found that virgin girl with these qualities good luck. There is a lady out there for every man. Time is hard, while the world is moving forward, the Average Nigerian man is talking about body count. Shouldn't you be worried about a lady who can build a great home with you so your generation won't abuse you? Whether you are wealthy or you are coming up, I will like to think you need a proper woman to build your home with you.

My time in this uncertain world, both in the corporate world and among great minds. What we care about are ladies with decent character, basic moral values, ethics, cleanliness, abilities to accept responsibility, and willingness to learn something good. Never for once within this circle of friends and learned mind do we care about what a woman does with her body. What you do when you are in a relationship with me is what matters.

To that man who is in a decent relationship:
I know how you feel. When you develop strong feelings for a girl, it’s hard to think of her being with other guys. Even though you can rationalize that her past relationships happened before you met, it doesn’t make it any easier to accept that there were others who had been intimate with her. But you can’t dwell on this. It will destroy you, and it will destroy your relationship with your girlfriend.

Unless your girlfriend is the kind of girl that is very flirtatious, and who loves all the attention that she can get from guys, you probably don’t have anything to worry about. If she were a “hoe” she wouldn't want to have a decent relationship. So how do you get over this? There are only two things that I know of that you can do:

1. Don’t torture yourself with the details. There is no reason for you to know with whom she did it, how many times they did it, what positions they did it in, how big the guys were, and if they were better in bed than you or not. As tempting as it is to ask her these things—don’t! And stop her from volunteering that kind of information. Knowing these things will not help you or your relationship with your girlfriend in any way. They will only become mental and emotional burdens to you—obstacles and barriers that you will constantly have to overcome in order to treat her the way that she deserves to be treated. You protect yourself and you protect your relationship when you avoid rubbing your nose in her past.

2. Change the way that you look at people. Start realizing that every one of us is screwed up in some way. There are no perfect people. Every single one of us does dumb things and makes mistakes in our quest to find love and belonging. Your girlfriend is no exception. Choose to see her through the eyes of love and compassion, rather than through the eyes of judgment and condemnation.

To our ladies. I have one thing to say to you. You don’t need to apologize for your past relationships, and you don't need to explain yourself to any man. Simply understand that all you need is to be loved by someone, and if it didn’t work out, move on and build your life. Hopefully, your next relationship will work out for you.

Me personally? I’ve never longed to be with a virgin except for an ex and my girl(I am not with her because of sexual purity). I prefer my sexual partners to already know their way around their own sexuality. That means they’ve gotten some practice. Now I understand that as a man you need some certain confidence that some of you may are probably still forming. But when someone says something derogatory about the woman I’ve chosen to love I don’t reconsider my love. I conclude the person saying it is an idiot and ignore them in the future. I have faith in myself which leads me to have faith in the people I choose as partners.

Ladies out there, know the class of men you allow into your life. Be responsible for your actions.

Please enlighten me what is basically moral, ethical and clean about having multiple body counts

Your last paragraph should be and advise to ladies with outstanding amount of body counts since your post is celebrating and validating outstanding amount of body counts.

I see that the lack, poverty and hunger in Nigeria has really permeate our values, we deride chastity and edify callousness... I wonder what the op's involvement in corporate world have to do with appraising ladies body counts?

Poverty has so permeate our values that's working or owns a car is a wife material, the ones who are not working are liabilities (that's on the one side)

Poverty and class segregation has also distorted our minds that any lady who is working and living comfortably is a prostitute or corporate olosho (that's on the other side)

@op, the reason you don't care about the ladies with a billion body counts within your learned and corporate circle is very simple, you are not the husbands to them...

Mercychen:
When I met him he didn't have his own apartment. He was just fresh out of school. So he was searching for a job.

I used to visit him them at his friends place ( married man). He later got a job in a hotel at Chevron drive but along the line we had a misunderstanding and gave it a break for months.

He called and to me he had gotten an apartment at lekki. that I should come see if I like the place..
I got there and was just playing around and checking his wardrobe when I saw ladies shower caps.
I was like, who owns this? And he said they normally give them at the hotel. Chai!!! This guy can lie for Africa. Like seriously, who gives guys shower caps? So, I told him, you've been camping a lady in this house and he said, "don't start". I just kept quiet because we only just got back together after months.

I later checked his wardrobe again when he stepped out and found more shower caps.

Now, don't call me dumb. I know what I'm saying. That guy was a serial cheat. In fact, that was why I later dumped him and faced my life and God.

Okay, you are not dumb, you are smart...

But please stop going to hotels where dey give you only 2 inches septol soap, tissue paper and old worn out towels, most hotels give more than that to their guest, who many times check out without picking them up, showercaps, creams, tissue, soaps, etc, mostly customized.

Besides were you not seeing other guys during your break up

They can't be cheating on you when you have several partners...

Juliusmomoh:
I have found out and am with the evidence that he don't belong here...

Should i go ahead and tell my dad that the child he suffer to train is not his? ..

Or i should tell him to conduct DNA test on all of us? (i can foot the bill) .

Am confuse

Telling your father might make him despise you even if you thought you did yourself and your sibling a favour, most especially he feels some connections to that your step bro or his mom...

You should watch the movie "inception" then learn how to make someone do what you want them to do thinking they thought it oit themselves, that way, you don't come off as a bitter jealous brother... Hope you get the drift

1stGenAmerican:


So, in order to “contribute positively”, I must ignore the facts, any false evidence presented, and everything that I have studied about and practiced within the American Justice system, particularly the criminal justice system?

If these people take all of “these evidences” the condemned man is presenting and approaches ANY reputable entity with “these evidences”, they will be either insulted, ignored, or both. On the same token, this is one of the very reasons why the Nigerian consulate and others who have the power to help have abandoned the convicted man.

If you feel that I have in no way contributed positively to this discussion then may God Bless you with the wisdom and discernment that a few people in this discussion actually have. Please place me on ignore if that is possible on this type of forum

You are still on this thread because you somehow want to get a feeling that the op is truly innocent before you tilt towards helping him, that's a good thing, we want Justice served but please don't be too harsh on him, he is down already... Okay be harsh on him but don't break him.

If "these evidences" the op is presenting can not carry water, one of the ways we are hoping to help him is to weave "these evidences" into a firmer pail that can hold sufficient water sail the op to the shores of freedom, only good counsels and people who understand the American system can help him, edakun help him when in your heart, you feel he has cleared the grey areas that cast doubts... I saw how professionally he has responded to some of your direct harsh questions, like he studied the answers from "okere high college", they didn't come off as an arrogant rude individual, you self try go read am...

@powerhouse5050, you are doing well, try open up, you know say who naked no de shook hand for pocket, people when go help you de here, na say make you stand well, na who get load to carry de first balance for ground... But honestly e get some questions when one guy ask when you no answer satisfactorily, I go quote the questions make you try answer them one after another... Make God help u and help us...

Kajaard:


Lol , you and this your funny comment every time

Baba that's the truth, standing up for Omo-naija on a sensitive case like this is very risky, even when nothing is attached, your personal integrity and self worth is attached, I am only imagining how well I will sleep if and when the op is acquitted and freed, I will feel like i fought for the independence of Nigeria as chaampioned by today's youth... But if matter con get k leg say op no innocent, the hurt and the shame will be likened to another bouth of "lekki massacre". So me just dey read the riot act to am make e de study am...

If you guys are going to constitute an online team pls @ Chatinent holla @ me, especially when you have conviction that the op is truly innocent after meeting him and looking into his eyes and not just the facts...

If he is innocent and you see fear in his eyes slap am and shout for am, naija no de born mumu, na Ghana and south Africa de born ekpa...

Again @ powerhouse5050 you know na...

Try de eat sha as you de crech, no go allow ulcer join the high college when you de sha, once once still de halla ur maile, na she go fit pray for you and your wife, if you offend them beg them, make Dem pray for you... Then your papa and your senior brother their prayer go work wonders... Mainwhile naija de ur back, no reason the government o, If them answer you good, if Dem no answer you focus... No fear o, na time e go take beans go done, stammerer go call e papa name, take time de sing naija anthem and call on your ancestors to prevail...

chatinent:


Please allow her comment. It's the essence of this thread. We are here for justice, right? These are the stepping stones to it.

I thought so too, it's good to analyze issues from different perspectives, they will form a core for any counsel ready to defend the accused...

@ powerhouse5050 you really have to keep shut online, gather the persons who have rallied round you and talk to them, you see how 1stgenAmerican tackled you by your own words, that's how police everywhere works, but if we chose to tackle everyone by their own words, no one will survive...

Give a detailed account of all stories to someone/ your attorneys, answer all necessary questions as truthfully as possible, I am sure you are against bigger fishes, if they can't silent you by keeping you behind bars, they sure will come for you if/ when you get out, but any ways, tell your story as best you could, stay away from the media and let your attorneys/ person handle the media for you...

But if you are guilty as regards these case, baba, a million flesh eating scarab will feed on you for a million afterlife...

I wish you well and luck

1stGenAmerican:


If you go back to the beginning of the other thread, he told you all that he confessed because he didn’t know better. Now he has changed the story completely and started out this reply saying he was never arrested yet ended it with him being placed under arrest.

This is getting funny because he is clowning you all. How does someone on a VISITORS VISA BUY SIX SUVs CASH and LIVE in an apartment complex? In the US, there is a procedure to making very large purchases with cash and anyone who knows that procedure will see the lie.
How does someone on a VISITORS VISA LAWFULLY BUY, REGISTER, AND INSURE A CAR?

You guys are dealing with a compulsive liar who will soon manipulate you into thinking that police were jealous of his wealth.

I am guessing you didn't stay or grow up in the suburbs of Nigeria, merely reading the op's writing, it clearly shows he lacks clear understanding and use of the English language, I read carefully not to be ferried along in the current of manipulations, if we are to pick your words sentence by sentence just as you are picking his word, we can say you are the one manipulating us, where has the op said the police were jealous of his wealth? Why lead us on in that path? Why identify yourself as a woman? To gain female sympathy or to further manipulate us that you are using a 6th sense to nail the op and the rest of the men folks don't have the 6th sense? True the op has made contradictory statements, but each statement was made to suit each situation he was, as maybe a dealer (which I strongly feel he is), he sure may have exhibited certain pompousness and Nigerian crudeness, but "if" this man is innocent, lets save him...

You said he didn't show remorse, is pleading for mercy not remorse? Which remorse do you want an "innocent man" being accused falsely to show? If he pleads for Besides why was he charged with terrorism Was it lack of remorse too? It seems not showing remorse is now a terrorist act in the US.

deewhytee:


I wonder oo... he's sounding so vindictive, as if he knows the guy from somewhere before... abi he don drag girlfriend with him before ni?
Why he's all over the thread, vilifying the guy upandan is beyond me. (As if e dey dia when the guy was committing the crime).

He doesn't even want to leave room for the fact that the guy could have been wrongly accused and convicted (like it happens at times all over the world...US inclusive.)

Wetin happen gangan sef??
Yoruba people would say "OLORUN ma je kaa pade Alatako oo".. Amin
(Meaning: may GOD not allow us to be unfortunate to encounter an Antagonist oo.. Amen!

My thoughts exactly, I feel this man made God knows it all individual has something to gain if the op is kept down, I have a strong feeling he has something in it, I saw him patronizing justwise in a bid to sway influence into his vindictive mindset and he is seriously leaving a trail behind him, if he feels the op is being deceptive, let him furnish us with the truths the op is hiding, we have read articles that punctured the alleles method or whatever it is in DNA analysis, he has threatened the op of exposing the identity of the victim (which I didn't even see or decode from all what the op has said except her name is daubert).

If the op is a rapist let him burn and die in a million afterlife.

In cases of rape, it is permissible to throw the child and the bath water away, But if he is not guilty, why do we watch and the dogs feast on child calling for his mother?

1stGenAmerican:


Sure! I can answer that.

The documents I posted DOES say that 2 sets of DNA were found. One belonged TO THE VICTIM and the other belonged TO YOU.

I am sitting here watching you rile these people up because most don’t have the capacity to understand what those documents state.

ANYONE in the US with a JD that is reading WILL NOT HELP YOU because the more you talk, the more we can tell that you are purposely being deceptive. There is no way on Gods green earth that a jury will find someone guilty when the DNA presented in court belongs to someone not related to the crime. That may happen in Nigeria but NOT HERE.

The people still believing you and asking me questions prove that they are clueless about the US Justice System.The Nigerian consulate will not help you because you lied to them. The person attending your Pretrial hearings stopped going and started ignoring you when the evidence and YOUR statements showed them you were lying.

Cc justwise

Some how, I was trying to want to join the op and other empathizers to plead with you to look into his case, but the more I read, the more disturbed I get about your responses, some of us who have not left the shores of Nigeria are not fools you should know, from your posts till this instance, you are sounding like someone who gains something to keep the op behind bars (if he is innocent), yes some of us understand civil and criminal cases, but stop sounding like there is one big issue there, even oj Simpson with all the evidences pointing at him was acquitted before found guilty by a lower court, in as much as I may not be sounding knowledgeable and the op not sounding coherent, I suggest you and all your know it all and nonsense whatever you think you are should go to hell and burn to ashes if you have nothing meaningful to help the op's case and you continue to be vindictive, why kick a man who is down

And op if you are a rapist and trying to swindle the Nigeria public, the hell that awaits you can't be measured in Celsius, if you are guilty quietly serve your sentence and make reparations, you will have a better afterlife than swindling the public and suffering for a million afterlife...

Davash222:
The Moniker above me should be ignored like poverty.



There's this ecstasy that comes from women with waist bead during coitus. It's orgasmic. The dangling sound is glorious.

No ecstasy anything, which ecstasy will you get from a very wide pussy adorned by many waist beads

It's all part of seduction process, why are married women not putting them on

obi4eze:
Oga this is not the right place to bring family issues. You should be a man and solve your family issues instead of washing your dirty linen in public.
If you truly love your wife as you claim you should be able to ask her why she lied and sort out the issue with her instead of coming to expose her here.

We are not your wife and neither is she us.

You have not said anything meaningful, this is a faceless forum at least on surface level, you don't know the man or his wife, asking questions here is a way of letting out steam and keeping away from depression...

Even the solution you gave, is meaningless, someone lied to you and you are asking them why they lied? You should be ready for more lies.

@op, only ask her what she did with the extra 5k and not why she lied, be satisfied with what she tells and move on, if she does it again, then you can take the ATM card from her and leave her with the sms notification, when your salary drops, give her what you want to give her for her and your son's up keep.

This is bad, the uber and bolt poverty stricken drivers are terrible people, I suggest you look for them and kill them with a shotgun, the law will understand, especially that they keep calling and even came to her house... You no need even alert men, do it yourself it shows you are a man capable of handling situations...

Do it in broad daylight so no one messes with you girl ever again...

It be like say after women na nairaland we go fear o, the way una take furnish this guy details here na wa.

Anyways, people who can help, should reach out to the op with unbiased mind and if they found out he is guilty and just lying, they should come back and furnish us with the details, however, let's just wish the op is innocent and being framedd up...

brodalikeme:
I disagree with you absolutely! The virtue of being a virgin as lofty as it is alone, cannot guarantee a successful marriage.

Brand new tyres alone does not make an efficient vehicle.
Clean cups doesn’t make great drinks.
There are so many important tiny components that makes a good woman/wife.

Is there any guarantee that dirty cups will give you good drinks or bad tires will get you a good ride

Acidosis:



If that picture doesn't ignite a sense of irritation and disgust in you, then I can only imagine the state of your thoughts and physical environment. The jumoke that chooses to dance naked didn't go this low by uploading her man's s.emen as proof of her whoring act.

This is the lowest anyone can go. Only a virgin hunter/ritualist should find this appealing. This will actually disgust real virgins. Go and ask the virgins around you whether they can replicate this fo.olishness.

Eshey, as you have made your thoughts the standard on which low and high is measured, I marvel at how hypocritical Nigerians are, the picture ignites nothing but kudos to the couple, if you feel threatened by this picture in what ever guise aside the unappealing sight of blood to certain people, then you are an olosho in disguise, olosho de your eye, na opportunity you never get...

If your small mind has reduced the op's show of chastity as a move to spite an ex or to seek validation, I leave your thoughts to you and will not try to influence it...

I am not a virgin and I have had a fair share of sexual exploitation, but let's be honest, purity is a virtue and should be celebrated in any legal form.

Let's leave nonsense talk and celebrate this feat, young ladies and gentlemen should be encouraged to be chaste and to flaunt it...

Acidosis:



If you had contracted AIDS at 15 you won't be alive today to type this lengthy epistle. Careless/high-risk sex at 15 doesn't make you "woke" or, like you have mentioned, better than anyone. You're not better than people who do not see you as a competitor so you're probably fighting and running a race of self validation with yourself. Come off your self-inflicted thirst for validation and respect. That's one thing you have lost asides from your virginity.


Btw, the OP is disgusting.

There is nothing disgusting about the op, we have seen people appraised nudity as being part of our culture, isn't it part of our culture to flaunt chastity? Does the groom not sample the evidence that he broke the calabash before his kinsmen in certain tradition If nudity culture has evolved to the point where Jumuoke the towns slowpoke has decided to dance naked on social media as her new market squarr, what is stopping Ronke from taking those on social media as her kith and kin The other day we were entertained by pictures of the pubic region on this platform, we acted professionally dishing out remedies, and didn't think the pubic display was disgusting, but the sight of hymenal blood becomes disgusting because it doesn't appeal to our sense of promiscuity, had it been pictures of menstrual blood, oh, the male folks will of a sudden be insensitive and be rapist apologist if they do not empathize and eulogize the menstrual blood...��‍♂️

OloshoMan:
In this part of the world, People (illiterates mostly) overrate virginity, I had sex for the first time a month before I turned 15, I could remember my classmates laughing at me and saying all sorts of nonsense that I've destroyed myself, I can't lie I regretted having sex at the time... LoL to think, this niggas were making me feel bad just because I had"sex" just "sex" lol

There was this particular nigga, that kept disturbing and bullying me with his words...this guy was a close friend and still a virgin, I noticed some things he had in him that I didn't have e.g he steals from people's lockers, he picks everything he see on the ground (money, keys that doesn't belong to him). I was like I rather be a non-virgin than be thief.

I've met people who are or claim to be virgins that I'd never swap my own life for theirs. Virginity is not everything. People can be virgins and still be terrible. Being a virgin doesn't make you better than the next guy is (illiterates full here wallahi, some even think that once you marry a Virgin it means (loyalty, respect etc)

Africans overrate virginity... To my unborn baby girl...(I'd teach you that you can be whatever you want to be even if you're not a Virgin heck you can even be the first female prime minister or leader... Infact all you need to know about sex Education, Daddy got you... to African women losing your virginity doesn't mean you've lost your dignity, lol if your virginity is your dignity bitch don't come close to me cos you don't have any value, that is some Bush man's mentality.

PS- I'm not discrediting virgins, you can be whatever, just don't shove it down my throat cos I really don't care about it heck I do better than most of y'all tbh there are more important things than that. I don't care if any woman I'm getting married to is a virgin or not. Just be good, that's all. Bye

No body is shoving anything down your throat, it's your conscience that's shoving guilt down your throat...

If we celebrate promiscuity in the guise of BBN and sexual explicit music videos, we should not be hypocritical when people flaunt their chastity in our faces... Don't come on the tread appraising bull crap, you can open a misconduct tread and let yourr ilks join you in appraising whatever appeals to you, but on this tread, let's give a standing ovation to the couple, it appears the man also kept himself for his bride... That's just a beautiful thing worthy to emulate...