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Ask her. She knows best

When they say marry woman wey get work, people say we be goldfiggers. If the man dies now na ashowo this woman go be.

But men try take care of your house.

Make we hear from both sides sha to know wetin be true and lie

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imagrg:
Give am toto do everyday for free.

Don't ever ask him for money; rather, spend on him.

Do these things and thank me later!

Just be around

If he likes you, he will say it.

Guys talk when they are free to talk.

How come she is the one under pressure here. The waitress should hold the guy. The girl no sharp.
Some of these girls may not mean to out spend what the guy can't afford. Some guys are just fake. Just tell the girl say please sorry I'm not bucked up enough for that . No girl will buy something under that circumstances. Chances are she will like you or not like you. But when you keep quite and she makes orders that makes you get on the edge, the entire date will suck. You will be uneasy and not really talking and smiling. Even if you pay, you will not be happy.
So give yourself sense by taking some lead. Pick the venue, keep the order under limit. If you are in a strange place, keep your eyes on the price list. Say things are very expensive here babe. I can only afford items xyz here o. Be safe. Be smart. Don't come spoil everything by keeping quite and come make girl to cry or waitress insult you.
If you get sense, chances are you may still get the girl. But if you mumu, you will lose the girl

There is some point in his statement oh. The best things in a date is to have the guy take the lead. Let him pick the venue. If you must pick one, let it be somewhereaffordable. Ask him what does he intend on taking. That will give you ideas what you can order.
Ordering 8k wine for starters....be careful oh
One day, you may meet a guy that is not prepared. Them plenty online o.

Jennyclay:
Please can you just shut up and let us hear word

You broke men are the most disgusting and irritating men living on earth. Why would he go on a date without holding enough money

I’m very sure the lady was on her own jejely when the broke fool asked her on a date.

How much is 12k that the broke fool refused to pay?? Eh?? How much??
If a guy take me out, only a bottle of red wine I will order alone is over 8k and we haven’t even talked of food and other things.

Big shame on all broke men!!! Shame!!

brain54:
Wahala no Dey finish…

Them beat person on top him own wife.

Double tragedy!

Na that one pain me pass. Wickedness

MeineMutter:
Yes. Just tell you I be your grand papa age mate.

When a small boy tries to ridicule and elder, na im mama elder dey fvck.

I liked your comment because you just confirm say you no get anything wey I envy.

Continue in your poverty and begging ways. Live us with our work

MeineMutter:
Na your Akwaibom mamas dem wey dey com help me wash and cook I dey k.nack freely here. Dem puzzz.y sweet baje.

People dey sleep with babies, you na mamas you dey sleep with and you no get shame.

How would nairaland push a post from a teenager to front page? This is rubbish

ipobarecriminals:
God punish ikpeazu and his friend Eleyi Dapo

Ikpeazu, is that not the governor of Abia state? It reach to say Amen o
That state dey pull my state backwards. I remember this my current governor even went to repair roads in Abia state.

MeineMutter:
This is good thing? See local boy. My eyes are seeing best things where I am. And I am doing best things.

E go clear for your eyes one day and you go know say your brain has been enslaved and na prison your state of mind dey.

Dey wait. Just dey wait o.
All these Akwaibom houseboys wey dey live for BQ dey borrow data from MTN and Glo.

Dem no steal. Dem no beg. Dem dey hustle. That's good enough. Youŕ state is better ba. Glory to God

With this your name, maybe you are not a Nigerian and have never been here. Perhaps you are using your country standards to speak. I no blame you then. But if you are a Nigerian and have lived here and driven here and you still say this nonsense, God go punish you

MeineMutter:
This one beautiful road? The one wey be like catapult or woman’s G-strings pant? Shooting area pix of a road with a drone doesn’t make such road a beautiful one. Or having a road within a green area doesn’t make it a good one.

One can tell from the pix, the quality of that road. Not thick, not well compacted. Not strong. Not clean. No design precision.
For the road 2 raining seasons and you go know how far.

Hmmm. Bad bele. May your eyes never see good things, since you only like to see bad things.
Please go and fix your life with who offend you.

OneCandleAway:
What's the point of good roads when the people are scattered all over doing househelp, gateman, 4.0.4 local joint apprentice and other menial jobs.

Invest in people, develop people. That's what we need not only infrastructure. Build your people to do the jobs expatriates are brought to do. Equip them with skills so they can make money and live a good life.

It shows you they are not lazy. Besides, go and check the most educated states in nigeria, Akwa Ibom is not down there. For the records, some of these "low jobs" pay fatter salary than your big jobs. Do you know how much a chef make? Or you want to think of house keepers as lowly paid? Most of them make their ways abroad from common house keeping. Ekiti state with all thr education is still poorer

Please all these people advising you to go and cheat do not know what they are saying. Let them tell you from experience whether it solved the problem or not.
The reason your wife may be denying you sex can be emotional, physical, or spiritual problem.

Emotional.
Are you two friends? Are you fighting? Are you rude or stubborn? Is there something she is complaining about? Are you not noticing her needs without her telling you, like hair, clothes, etc? Do you complement her? Do you call her sweet names? Do you lie? Do you have a vice she hates?

Physical:
Are you dirty? Do you dress well and cut your hair? Do you smoke or drink? Is she cheating? Is she sick? Is she sick down there? Are you doing your job well down there? Are your kids a handful to manage? Is she spending to much time taking care of the house and kids?

Spiritual:
Is there a devil fighting your home? Is she or you from a broken home and events wants to repeat itself? Is there a ex someone fighting your home? Are your inlaws at peace with you and vice versa?

These questions you need to answer.

God be with you

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What a useless world. How can u plan to have a child you will not father? Please don't do it. It's a human being you guys are bringing to being.

frozen70:
Am not justifying what she did because I hate reading anything about beating spouse

But for the fact that his wife was able to beat him to that point
He must have been an irresponsible man and has lost his respect long ago

Probably he subjected his wife to all sort for family responsibilities which includes
Feeding
House rent
Medical

No woman will be playing this kind of role and you expect love and happiness while the husband contributes nothing, not even security for the family

Hmmm. Counsellor. I give u A1 in counselling. The ground for beating has been well defined by you.

Please zenith bank customers
How are you all doing?

No confirmation when you receive money
Mobile app can't be logged into?

We are trapped

Worst time to be a Zenith Bank customer.

Fellows, how are you coping?


Please push it to front page...let it get to Zenith Bank

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Assumptions 1. Pornography is the source of other sex positions.
So u did thorough research to come to this.
Is there a school they teach them these other positions before they come on stage.
Have you studied the history of doggy to start with.

Assumptions 2. The bible didn't speak about anal sex.
Check for sodomy.
Check for the origin of the word sodom.

You are just ignorant sha. And your church people no sabi book like you.

That Keke has a plate number. Use it to track the owner, then you will know the location.

As a Muslim, there's no punishment for blasphemy in the Quran. Anyone who takes a soul will account for it on the day of resurrection and there's no remedy for it.
All,what they are doing is as a result of what scholars has incurcated in them due to the fact that these people that carries out such act do not have knowledge of the Quran.
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Please let the Muslim come up with evidence from the Quran that killing is the punishment for insulting the prophets. I strongly doubt it exists. I understand the strong emotional attachment Muslims have for prophet Muhammad. But I believe that they should ask with Quran and not emotion.

I don't know of any such verse in the bible. In fact, even God the Father and the Son can be blasphemed against and be forgiven for. For the holy spirit, it's never forgiven. Still does not require human punishment.

Such a nice person with a dark soul

MadamVanessa:
Ibibio= Udara or Udra

So you are my sister.
Please check your email

She's not fat

If you think he is unworthy, then you are also condemning yourself. You both are guilty of the same sins.

YinkaOlusesi16:
This is among the reasons the bible said, one man, one woman.

Please the chapter and verse?

Change your church. He needs the fire of the Holy Spirit to burn off that powerful spirit in him.

The is a sad one.
What the guy was searching for must likely be her wealth making abilities. All humans will make money but not all can make wealth.
But to be sure, find out the following:
Was there an usual taste in his mouth, sweet or bitter?
Did he go into the toilet for some times before he started?
Did he put on a ring, or some ornaments?
Did he kiss the forehead?
Was there a sexual desire in hid eyes?

The way wealth work is this.
Your environment has to agree with you. When you put your labour and your environment connects with it, it yields in multiple folds. When it doesn't, it yields zero or very few. It also push away people that can help you. No one can make it without people and environment.
She can get it back though. Let her be born again and follow Jesus.