MrBrownJay1:
and so?! i dont get where the problem is.
if someone offers you a job, if you dont want it, you say no and jejely walk the fukc out... but dont pretend that because children pay 200k for school fees, you can dictate how much you deserve as a teacher in that school. thats what the school is offering, take it or leave it! so you mean that if they were schooling for free, then you would also work for free?!

stop looking at other people's finances... in order to try to lift yourself up, as you dont know what they spend that money on:
- are you paying the rent for the building?
- are you paying the electricity/equipment used in that school?
- are you paying for the free food that these kids possibly get?
- are you paying for all the extracurricular outings and activities that these children learn?
- are you paying the salary of all the other staff and owners of that school?

But the main thing that defines a good school is the quality of the teachers and the teachings. Tell me can you get good quality from those schools?

BERNIMOORE:
Fubara has deceived those urchins Jumping up on CTC appointment, One chance

implication now is that FG Now controls whoever is elected LG chairman, The FG will easily select and this Gives APC candidates more advantage, so we expect even fubara chosen ones I mean the few ones he can influence to Rebel against him.....and join with APC FG....of course the FG will dangle the carrot....VERY INTERESTING....when a child is tall like the father, he got no experience and tricks like the father..

How? Are all those states PDP states? Think

S = vt - 1/2*a*t^2

s = 6
v= 4
a= 8

6 = 4t -½×8t^2
4 = 4t -4t^2
-4t^2 + 4t =4
t^2 - t -1=0

Undefined

My own observation is the legs still have muscles and are not thin.
It's means those legs are still carrying weights.

Luton 2:3 Chelsea
Luton 3:4 Arsenal
Luton 1: 1 Liverpool

They are stubborn

Zonefree:

She's not wearing bra. Her dilapidated breasts are romancing her tummy.

She for just button the jacket and plead with the man. You don't just shout and argue with your lecturer and expects him to succumb to your silliness.

God bless the Lecturer for eradicating nuisance in our society.

If you are correct, then your eyes dey see dirty things. Either way, that doesn't qualify for indecency. I think there will worse students inside that exam hall. If dem point torchlight well, we may see something else dey ground.

She is very decent

You have to listen to counsel

When you say confirmation what do you really mean. What you don't know you don't know. A pastor takes your names and asked God if this two will make a good couple together. If God says no, he will tell you. If God says yes, he will still tell you. However, if you insist on going ahead, he will join you together.

That is absolutely correct and proper.

The problem people have is they way they interpret it. When a pastor confirms a marriage, people think it means there will be no problem in their homes. So wrong. But it means there is a strong support for each other's weaknesses in that peer.

Try dey pray and walk with a praying pastor.

Your sister left him because he was broke.

Your sister is the one in the wrong here. So if he becomes broke again in future she will leave.

Please let Your family go get some home training. Marriage is for better for worse.

Thank God he is coming back for your sister. If I were him I will only go for my kids and forget that sister and family of yours.

But this girl wicked.

He sent you 15k for Uber, you no show.
He sent you another 15k after you apologise for the first one, you still no show.

He invited u to restaurant you show. You no chop 10k food; you chop 70k.
Overall 100k all for what?

U think say him be fool.

Yeye

Na to view Abi na to buy?

A good idea. But they should still be under parenting. The guy should be made to learn to provide. He should not be allowed to enjoy free food. He should learn to work and make money. He should not only be allowed to be enjoying that girl. He should provide and protect her and the child.
I wish them the best

Have you Don comparative analysis of men in different countries to know the differences Nigeria men have over other men from others countries? My dear, Nigeria has some of the best record in divorce.

Travel

If I see similar from akwa ibom. Living in Abuja. It for make sense.

If after investigation it turns out to be true, he will be set free

Let her gooooooo

You are supposed to be excited about who u r going for. This that is affecting u will become the reason you will leave her tomorrow.

Fountainofyouth:



Mary and Joseph got married before the birth of Jesus, comparing Joseph and Mary's situation to that of today where couples commit fornication and quickly get married is funny, was Joseph responsible for the pregnancy of Jesus?

The point I was making Is they went ahead with the wedding while marry was pregnant. I don't care by who. Joseph didn't go about explaining to everyone that he's not responsible for the pregnancy. He owned it.

I contest point 13 about pregnancy. The Bible you are referring to didn't speak about wedding at all. The Bible infact endorses marriage o the account of premarital sex between people.
In the event of Mary and Joseph, when were the two married? Before the birth of Christ or after?

Uzemme
Oron

The reason is because the money powers of female celebrities in the entertainment industries are usually higher than the male. So there are clashes of power and control. These leads to breakdown in the family circle.
For footballers, there are no such problems to contend with.

That guy that she said is a useless guy, is your replacement.

Avoid loan app

Avoid online investment

If she tells you her mum doesn't love you, it's most likely she that doesn't love you. She has already started looking for someone else.

If she is very active on social media, she is searching for someone else.

This kind narrowness in your search. You must have a selfish motive. Go their shops go toast them

It's not all men that despise them.
Men that are in their late 30s upward and single prefer single mum. They like to inherit the kids and start training them from get -go.

Men that are windows without kids go for them.

Now there are higher preference for single mom that were never married than those that were married and divorce.

I'm in my late 30s, single. I'm talking to one. She is doing Shakara sha. I just give her space for now.

Shameless man. I pity for your daughters. You need to know the kind of laws that apply in PH. PH is not North. There is age of consent. Let the child rights protections bodies make an example of this guy. He lives in PH. The crime occurred in PH. Demand his identity from nairaland

This shouldn't be allowed on nairaland. This is indirectly pushing our girls into early sex. Please men still value virgins

Sheistoopretty:


Stvpid man is it not ur mates who giv women 100K to cook at home?

All dis lazy men sef The God that did it for ur wife to find someone like u should AVOID ME

Fo©Lish man

Don't compare. I'm sure you change boyfriend ls like wrapper. You are definitely not ready for marriage

Communication is key here.

Listen to what she is saying. Please listen lovingly and attentively. You will see if she is making a sincere point or she is just being greedy. If the point is about prices, other items that centres on the food and she convinces you, then respond well according to your pocket. Be sincere too. Don't be harsh.
But if here reason is because she needs to buy stuffs that do not concern the food like clothes, make up, etc. Or she is comparing you to someone else, shun her straight and firmly. Let her stop that nonsense.
After all you take care of other needs and give her pocket money.
Control your home. You are the man.

There are risks in marrying single mothers...but it's not a certain failure.
My problem with you now are two
1. You have a low mentality on getting younger women. You need to go passed that level. If you marry her now, in the future you mat start feeling like you didn't put yourself first. Like you settled for less. That can make you disrespect her and create a hostile home
2. Age pressure. 37 years can make you feel like you are under pressure and you can go for who will not give you a hardtime to win. Forget your age. Your own happiness should come first. Look for the best. Marriage is very long-term. Think long-term.

But then marrying a single mother is not a 100% guaranteed to fail as many are suggesting. Of course she will put her child first, who will not. That's what makes her a responsible woman. But noooo she will not go back to the father of the child. She may be too jealous and insecure because of the trauma she has gone through from her baby daddy. With time, you can heal her. At 37, you will also have your baggages for her to deal with.
Just go to the legal process of making the child yours. If the father says no (which he has the right to), then you both can come to an agreement how the child will be taken care of
Pray and follow your heart. If you are finding yourself having too many doubts as you are already showing by coming here to seek for advice, then you should probably be honest with yourself and quit.

Explore the option of remote court. Ask around

Have a budget on the car you want.
Divide the amount into 12
Open a new account
Transfer that money into it small small
If you are able to do that for 3 to 4 months, you will be committed to see it to the end.

Just make sure you don't have ATM card for that account and liv a low profile life. Tell anyone that is closed to you that this is what you are saving for.

But if you take a car loan, apart from enjoying the car immediately, you can make the car partly finance the payment. You can go into picking up perssengers when going to work or coming back (no go dey do father christmas for your neighbours, colleaguesor, relatives or friends). If you know how to drive well, you can do bolt on weekends to support your pocket. At least, let the car buy it own fuel and feed you 3 times daily. The bad side of this is the car will die quick too if you are a learner on this Nigeria road...so you must be a very good driver that knows how to slow down on bad roads and avoid accidents and crashing of the body of the car.

IceDune:

Also I did nothing wrong of which her conscience will tell her.

My brother, you are correct not to say you loved her. She sef need help. She's too fast about everything .

She was flowing with your profile message though but she need sense

Mind your business. Stop behaving like a village man. Don't ever discussed it with your neighbours...they are all aware and are minding their businesses

Communication will solve some of these problems. Ask him what he wants to do in bed but he's too afraid to ask. Celebrate him. Shower him with love. Then tell him about your fears and findings.
Don't quench fire with fire.