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I doubt. Where are the buildings

You sleep with a girl. You pay her money. She take a tape of you and ask for 15m.
Too bad.

Make an example of her so others will run away.

OP, please hustle before you call person wey dey chop suya a waste of money

butterfly777:
They are no more hiding their evil agenda.

We know that 3 Major events are going on in Nigeria:
1. Terrorist groups are attacking communities, seeking to conquer them for Islam.

2. Fulani militia are attacking communities, seeking to conquer them for the Fulani.

Both seem to have the support of the FG.

3. The FG is trying to forcefully take lands from different states and turn Fulani to natives of the states, to eventually conquer the states.

As much as they may try, all these agenda have failed in Jesus' name.

So true, so true

nans24:
The girl go sabi Bleep well well
Can see it in her eyes.

To sabi bleep is not a curse; it's a blessing. Every man wants that from their wives; same from every woman

Sounds more like a muslim than a Christian. He needs some teachings on the fundamentals of Christianity especially trinity.

It's supposed to be the opposite way: you feel more attracted to those you have not have sex with than to those you have had with.

Maybe there are features you like that she doesn't have: height, weight, color, shape, skills, etc.

You have to be honest with yourself and discuss this feeling with someone mature and apply the advice and see if there are changes.

Sexual attraction is necessary for marriage. That's what will make you treat her well. It will be bad for both of you to proceed without curing this.

Please don't have sex with her. That's not the way. It will not also change anything. It might be worst. And she will feel used.

You have spoken quite well. Very educated. I salute you.
The problem there is you build a big house on an assumed foundation. The pastor and the church are the primary parties in this case. You are not even qualified as a witness because you are not even a member of the church. You are too far away to know the truth.
You also stated that the pastor have been serving there four 4 years. That one is not even an assumption, it's a distortion of the facts. The man explicitly stated that the church stated in August 2020.
So Mr. Assumptions, you have a very good presentation. However, you are trying to force it into this case, when this case is for something else. Go and look for a more suiting presentation that fits into the facts of this case.
Thank you

BKayy:
Have you been there?
Those that told you about Hell are creating Heaven on their own land.
Have you been to Silicone Valley, Florida, Las Vegas, Ibiza, Bahamas?
That is them replicating what they think heaven will look like here on earth that they are sure exists and enjoying it while you wallow in the deep foolishness of "Hallelujah"
Haven't you come to the e realisation that you black people are the devil and your land the hell.
Courtsey of their brainwashing and the scammers that are operating the business church enterprises of black hell countries

Travel please. You are too ignorant of these places you have mentioned. Listen to testimonies of those who have been there. There is no lasting satisfaction there. Your imagination of the blacks been religious and the white been non-religious is also very generalistics. You should rather say the atheists. They are very few. More are actually blacks than white.

I am an Accountant. A chartered accountant. I also have economics friends. I can tell you for a fact that if you have 20 graduates of accounts and 20 graduates of Econs with good grades, all the accountants will get jobs and only about 5 of the Econs guys will get a job. The skills that an econs graduates will provide will be taken up by the owners of the business. It is only the big companies that will ask for Econs. Even at that, they will have to compete with the banking and finance guys for the job.

However, an econs that gets a good job will earn more than an accountant in the future.

Abia state is the capital of bad roads in Nigeria

I think I understand the OP position. Let's first of all listen to her before we judge o. On the surface, you will think she is bitter and jealous. But on the careful look, you will see she was betrayed.
She opened up on the guy to her friend. They both jointly concluded that the guy was not good enough. So she cut things of. To her surprise, her friend is now with the guy.
I think you should rejoice OP. Two very useless people just left your life. Your friend owe it to you to have at least discuss this with you. But no, she was secretly pushing you out of the picture. The stupid guy must have been after the both of you.
The only place I will have a problem with the OP is if she likes the guy but decided not to date him because of what her friend said. It means the OP is still immature and indecisive. Something her friend definitely has. That is a sign of adulthood.

GreenFarmsNG:
Question is who ordained him for ministry and when and where was he ordained?

I think you should start first with stating the requirements to be a minister and also established that it must include ordination by another minister before you come up with this question

Brandonx:
How can a sensible lady agree to meet a client in his house? Except she's going to do runs. Someone you don't know from Adam you didn't set a meeting in a public place.

Hmmm. Take it easy. They are not total strangers. She was not alone either. The lesson we can learn is that we should avoid cars as much as possible. Tell me where we will meet and discuss. No pick up

It's high time the church is governed by human government. There should be someone that pastors give accounts to

Good point. But I think you have left the question. Except you are saying whenever God leads you to a spouse, the spouse will definitely have integrity. Although Rebecca was a product of Divine hand, yet she joined her son to play her husband.

Righteousness89:
Integrity is a Priceless Character!
Very Important in Marriage..
Lack of it could lead to endless woes and pains!

Having said that, Marriage is a life time commitment.. pls if you are not Divinely led to a spouse, pls do not enter..

Pls Be patient for divine guidance in Marriage, it it saves you from lots of struggles and stress..

I say this from Experience..


Marriage is like a Journey, you don't know what it holds..
But if you are guided and led by the Alpha and Omega, the one who knows all, then what he gives to you will definitely be a joy..

If the original people that have these thoughts pastor s holding on to are non-believers, then I fear where he belongs

Will dead children that have not accepted Jesus go to Hell?
Yes and No.
The condition of the Child's Parent will determine the faith of the child. If only one of the parent is saved, then the child is saved. This is directly written in the Bible. 1 Corinthians 7:14 For the unbelieving husband is sanctified by the wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified by the husband: else were your children unclean; but now are they holy.
Now if the parent are not saved, the children are unclean and will go to hell. You can see several references that God have sent destruction on parents and have not excepted the children. NOAH Flood, Distriction of Sodom and Gomorrah, Distruction of the Amalakites, Destruction of Land of Canaan, etc. In Rev. 20:21 the Bible say Children were among those that stood before God in judgement and were thrown to the lake of fire.

This is not the smartest comment, if you know what background check is. Sadly, you cannot delete it again. May you never wish to get a job in the US government because they will run through all your activities to see any criminal tendency.

DominusPrime:
Boss man!!! Its not easy to make that list men. You've done well for yourself. I hope they find you so we can hear your own side of the story...

I know when things are not working, people look for reasons and you can just pick on anything and belief. Gap teeth can never be a problem.
Everything was ok but still you were not accepted. Perhaps the jobs have been very competitive and some other persons edge you by a margin.
Study more, prepare better. You will make it

What you did was bad. You should tell her out of guilt, not out of fear of her incarnations.
The woman may all along suspects that you are the culprit and wants you to confess. Her incantations are just noise, they don't have potency. More potent ones are done in secrets and not repeatedly.

Keep chatting with her. Arrange a date, then meet up. Not in your house ooo. Somewhere neutral.

United we stand; divided we fall.

The thing is this: you don't need that prayer; you can do without the answer.
when you come to that point of ' I will never let you go unless you bless me', you will not even know what and how others are praying.

MZrapper:
I will advise you to go and kick the bucket.
You have no reason to be alive.
I have always known you ain't a man, weak shim.

This is a public space. Be careful of what you say.

somethings are better left unsaid.
Grow up.

OoniOfIfe:
Truth be told d girl worwor. Hbd 2 her thou

sweetrace:
Not really. I’m actually enjoined not to argue about such issues. If you read your Bible, you’d see that there as well.

So you cannot come up with one scriptures that support your doctrine "God will never leave me, no matter what I do". Then shut up

sweetrace:
Hey! Please suit yourself and believe what you want. I’m not trying to convince you of anything. If you have a Bible, you can search it yourself.

I have a bible, i have searched and have not seen. You that have seen should be gracious enough to share. Is that not what God expect from you?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZAkW28qyFVA

Please study this video very well. Check what happens before and after salvation.

sweetrace:
Christians don’t join cults, steal or do... And for God never leaving us, it is the word of God as stated in the Bible. So even if a Christian does wrong, God cannot leave him or her. They may suffer the consequences of their actions, or God may in his undeserving mercy help them out if the ugly situation. But God won’t stop being their father. If my earthly father disowns me, it does not stop him from being my biological father. I wish Christians would just feed on the Bible and stop trying to see their traditions, beliefs, and mindset as Christianity.

Please show where God said he will never leave you no matter what you do. Ensure you do not misquote God or take his words out of context.

sweetrace:
I’m in a rush and I hope I’m coherent. Saul did not have a relationship with God. David did. David repented which is part of having a genuine relationship. You don’t want to hurt someone you love. When you do, you repent. When you don’t, there are consequences. Like you steal and up in jail. I don’t think the consequences can ever be an invasion of evil spirits. Evil attacks Christians. The attacked Jesus. They will attack us. But to dwell in Christians, no way. The parable of the prodigal son tells us that God’s Love for us as a father is without repentance. He lived a wasteful life, but his father did not send evil to him. His mendicant state was a consequence of his riotous living. The Bible tells us God will never leave or forsake us. It does not give conditions. While earthly fathers can disown their kids, our Heavenly Father can not. It is not his nature. We are sons always.

I see. I like that type of Christianity. Our heavenly can never leave us no matter what we do. We can kill the entire universe, join the biggest cults, steal the entire wealth of the world and He is bound to stay put. I love that type of Christianity.

sweetrace:
The narrative is in Matt. 12:43-45: “When an unclean spirit goes out of a man, he goes through dry places, seeking rest, and finds none. Then he says, ‘I will return to my house from which I came.’ And when he comes, he finds it empty, swept, and put in order. Then he goes and takes with him seven other spirits more wicked than himself, and they enter and dwell there; and the last state of that man is worse than the first.…”
If the unclean spirit on returning met its previous host occupied by Christ, one much stronger than it, it will have no room to return to.
Like I said, we have different views of Christianity.

You are much better than the other guy. You have come up with relevant scriptures. 100% accurate scriptures. And yes surely, if you are occupied by a stronger, a lesser cannot invade the person. I also agree with you that Christianity is a relationship.
But I hope you are not suggesting that the relationship cannot be broken. In this same Chapter, verse 50 mentioned that we should do the will of the Father.
There are many fathers that have disowned their children for disobedience. Except you are a believer of ones saved, always saved. I believe that working in the will of the father is necessary to retain the spirit of sonship.

Talking about David not getting demons when he sinned. The reasons were because he repented and the spirit of God was not taken away from him. Compare that to Saul, he sinned and refused to repent and so the spirit of God was taken away from him and an evil spirit got him