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Lovit:
In all you do, marry an emotionally intelligent woman

If not, small quarrel like this, she won't cook talk less of serving you food

Women low on EI, always lose their marriages, sometimes people think it is an evil spirit or village people that are causing women from a particular family to lose their marriages, but it is just low emotional intelligent that runs in that family

How do you know a woman with low emotional intelligence?

1. They quarrel a lot
2. They are very irritable
3. They don't know how to say sorry
4. If there is a quarrel, even if she is at fault, she won't admit it and she won't apologize
5. If you are married to them, you the man will always be the one to make peace, she doesn't know how to make peace
6. Their mood swings controls them, they don't think outside the box
7. Relationship with them is always one sided, you do everything to keep the relationship going. the day you stop, relationship dies
8. They are always critical, frowns at jokes, they don't overlook faults

etc

Eh! God! I need to work on myself then. My husband has been very enduring with me.

Akalia:
You are here bragging because you have a man that is not influenced by his family against you. You didn't stand your ground anything, your hubby simply backed you firmly.

No he didn’t at first. To surprise you, we had a lot of fights and arguments about it coupled with interferences from his people until everything was settled amicably, respectfully, maturely and naturally.

You can choose to believe me.

fabolouz1:
This story is not real because wtf ? people are depressed and cook up stories to gather sympathy.

I doubt it’s cooked up. My in-laws wanted to try this with me but I stood my ground.

MrNipplesLover:

But some of these women always beg to knack dem hard naah, if u no give em the hard knock, dem go say u no sabi knack... Or dey go outside dey search for hard knacker, which always end up in cheating...

Which one person go come do now, mummy wa?

True

In a case of cheating, are you saying the matter should be resolved immediately?

harmargedon:
hello, How's your dog doing?

Hi, good morning. Which is healthy for 4 months puppies, can food or cooked beef mixed with carrots, cabbage and rice?

Secondly, at what stage do they start looking muscular?

Natbrowny:
That child got a bad start on earth. Extremely SAD

Really bad start in this sick country

CyrusVI:


Seems in Ghana, they like to catch cruise with the dead. Dem dey dey creative when time don reach to bury the person

Dem just wan stress those termite.

😄😄😄😄😄😄😄

Great work 👍

ScotHarvath:
You are very correct. Very correct, she wants to go.


I wish her luck and all the best!

I really want to kick her out now as we speak but I still being considerate because of m the children.

You really should take it easy. We women sometimes undergo a lot of emotional trauma and harbor a lot that later affect our countenances. It’s possible something is up in her throat and she doesn’t want to communicate it hence her actions/reactions. A lot of marriages have passed this stage and it wasn’t easy. If you still hold on to love please communicate more and calmly, explain how her actions is affecting you and the family. Talk about what you expect from her, talk about loving her, her body, soul, mind, wishes for the family, a lot more. Put down your jottings on a book so you can be organized when saying these things. Study her mood every time before bringing up issues and advices. Let love and peace lead. I wish you the best.

gtassure:
.....If your livelihood is tied to the man and he is better than your husband 19x and you fancy the man too, you are not likely going to tell your husband!

You guys should try to judge categorically and smartly. No need going into details for this.

chatinent:
I remember a certain time a married woman wanted to visit me and she suggested a hotel. Now the thing is that she was as free as a bird and had no ulterior motives or intentions. In fact, she wanted somewhere confidential so that many eyes wouldn't see her discussing with a male figure since she felt that some people around there might know her husband.


But she forgot the main thing...a hotel? I reminded her that while she was trying to save her marriage, she was also on the verge of losing it because if she is caught in a hotel with a man, she'll run out of explanations even though she's innocent. Like I mean no excuses can defeat the big question of "what is you and a man doing in a hotel?"


E come bi like her brain no really go that side.

But she corrected her mistake immediately and sincerely apologized after I reminded her. And trust me, she has no ulterior motives. I didn't either. She's a very sincere and upright person so I was sure she's not what you think.


Update: All y'all saying she had ulterior motives or that I was naive are wrong. I strongly stand with what I said. This is someone I've done business gigs with over the years and never was the relationship sexual. And that's because boundaries were built. It was the over trust that made her forget what ought not be heard or done.

I recline to my seat as I keep reading all y'all negative thoughts you feel must happen to a man and a woman meeting forgetting that everyone cannot be you.

Don’t mind those doubting Thomas’s. I strongly believe you because it’s something I can innocently do without any ulterior motive. Infact, I would gist my husband about the meetings because he trust me like that and I trust him too.

strangest:
What tribe did she date..... They showed her PEPPER

She said “Yoruba Demon”.

jayworld15:
Since CR7 and Messi exited European football, the sport has been uninteresting, devoid of spectacular moments of brilliance and greatness. I hardly see matches these days as I don't want Man Utd to give me BP

Lol

Looks a sparrow bird

Googledotcom:
If all the "human being" clothes were assumed to be dirty, which one did he put on before leaving the house ?

Plantain leaves ?

🤣🤣

TheSociopath:
Blood test of the mother, or the amniotic fluid

Thank you for the clarification. 🙏

TheSociopath:
Marry her. Anytime she is pregnant, you'll do a test to see if the baby is SS. If yes, you'll abort it and try to conceive again

Hm.. never heard of this medical procedure before. Please how do they do it? 🙏

Biglittlelois:
Your solution is bone marrow transplant, do you have the financial capability for bone marrow transplant when you birth a child with SS? Because you will surely have one or two, so do you have the financial capability to travel out of the country to do a bone marrow transplant for your SS kid? Are you willing to risk it? Because that child may not even survive the operation, can you live with yourself after the expenses and loss knowing you consciously and delibrately let it happen?

My honest advice for you is do not get married, you will find love again with a compatible partner, for your own good.

Is it possible to have a lucky AS child out of AS + AS?

jubrilELsudan:
NA EVERYBODY DEY STAY GRA LIKE YOU?

😂

Proud of you Yemi. You’ve come a long way.

uchwar1:
it concerns me the moment it was made public

Your question is inconsequential because they might not see it, so read and pass.

uchwar1:
Married when and where?

e no concern you

Edipet:
Take your money out of zenith Bank

How can one take it out if their network isn't functional?

I don't get how this information is supposed to educate us?

Mcheww back to the matter #Obidatti all the way

My husband was gisting me about one of his colleagues that just got a pay rise, that said the extra money would be for a lady on one of the floors of their office. Meanwhile, the guy get family and has vowed not to tell his wife about his new pay rise.

Men una well don o!