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HenryIgwe01:
My name is Henry, 27 yrs old. I am new here, it was my younger sister who introduced me to nairaland. She is a member here.

Brilliant and intellectual minds are here so I believe you people can help me with an advice because I am so depressed and I don't know who to talk talk to about my depression.

I'm a stammerer, a chronic and dreadful one at that. I can repeat an initial word like forever before I could complete my statement. It has made me hate my life and existence. I have a very low-self esteem, I can't express myself, I can't even approach a girl not to talk of being a relationship because I'm afraid of being mocked.

I'm a graduate in accounting education from AAU. I have always dreamt of becoming a lecturer/teacher. I'm smart and intelligent, I love to impact knowledge but I can't express myself. It's a big disability for me.

Back then in University, when i went for my teaching practice, the first day I taught in a classroom, I sense an undesirable atmosphere. I knew the students were trying to laugh but they respected their selves. When I got home, I locked myself and I cried.... But life goes on.

I graduated 2017, I went for nysc 2018. Since then my life has no bearing. I have not achieved anything. I feel inadequate despite I read a lot and I'm intelligent. It pains me I can't communicate to impact knowledge without stammering.

My father is making it worse for me, he compare me with other guys, he has never appreciated any thing I've done for him, he talks down on me. He finds fault in anything I do, he talks as if I created myself.

My mom and siblings are the reason why I haven't committed suicide. They encourage me everyday, especially my mom who is sick now.

I prefer to be completely deaf and dumb than for me to talk and not be able to express myself.

God is not perfect. If God was perfect, he would not have created some people with disability or deformity. Some people were born crippled, deaf, blind etc.. And you wanna tell me God is perfect? He's a partial and sentimental God. I try to understand his vision but all I see is damages.

Please I'm so depressed. I need advice.

Your write up shows more of the reason why you were depressed.
See you can't win God. When you understand this, then you can deal with the situation trusting him.
Who says people don't get healed of chronic stammering, I know someone who did, he can now express himself better.
Thank God! you are not dumb bro or deaf. I pray God heals you soon.
Thank you

If I were in your shoes, I'd stay in Nigeria

Souzin:
I don't think it's getting resolved

It will be resolved trust me, you'll be paid in full

Souzin:
My November just showed invalid account...
Same account I have received sept & October.
Why is Gtbank doing this

I experienced the same thing I use UBA

Enisam:
Abeg any UBA subscriber here wey don receive payment?

I am still awaiting mine...I use Uba also

So Ada dick won marry now

I am not a fan of Buhari, but honestly, Reno's hatred for this man worries me. he may not be perfect, so is Reno and whatever agenda or endorsement he is trying to push.
listen to polithiefcians at your your own peril

Clap for yourself sir.......you have achieved something, please who is frying beans

before you leave your job make sure you meet all the requirements to legally migrate, as suggested read through the website, you don't need to be certified by any firm, the company is sure you can deliver. Just work with them call them to let them know every step you have taken.

Congratulations! A door has opened for you.

Jones4190:
Smoking is not a sin, the bible says he gives us herbs for our health

For meat not for vapping or smoking

timesup234:
Vampire America days are numbered. I thought you wanted to post about the over 75 planes China flew over the Taiwan strait this weekend. America is a paper tiger and her military myth will be exposed in Asia. Then stop spreading western propaganda, nobody is hungry in North Korea. Americans are the most hungry people on Earth. 70% of American children go hungry every night. Over 100 million American are on food stamp. The United States is an overrated shiitthole living under a bubble

And America is still the greatest and most blessed nation on earth.

Some Men should be locked up in the zoo. This is a disgrace to manhood

You can't take heaven away from there heart.

Mr Reno, I admire the fact that you have the passion to do research. I might not be more knowledgeable than you on this matter, but please learn how to align thoughts in their right perspective.
I don't see the relevance of this theology with the Nigerian people who were never Christians nor Muslims before. Who never took part in the western religious struggle.
Southern Kaduna is under attack because of their Faith in Christ and this is all you have to say? Seek the face of God before you open you mouth next time to spew trash
Mind you the real churches then were underground. Catholicism was adopted by roman kings back then for their own selfish interest to dominate the people and control them by using "religion". It took people like Martin Luther to challenge their anti-biblical doctrines, check the documentation. One of the doctrine then was that, only the pope or the father have the right to touch or read the scriptures because it sacred and holy. But in today catholic churches God is ruling not the pope or any reverend father(not so familiar with their ways though) but at least they all have the liberty to read the bible for themselves.
The word of God is not scarce anymore. People should see the light and follow by now.

So when next you want to show your intellectual prowess you should thoroghly divide the truth for an average person who will think the "church" you mentioned means Christians. Romans only look for a tool that controls people and twist it in their favor hence" Catholicism" not " christianity or the church". Christians and pagans were the major victims not Muslims.

Funflipper:
They can keep their power. All we want is a new country without hausa/fulanis period!

No sir, Hausa/Fulani is not the problem, we still have great Hausa/Fulani people out there. The crisis use to be political, but now it has grown bigger wings(though still political). Unfortunately we have a president who is more concerned about religion supremacy than the welfare of his people and lacks the leadership qualities to govern people of diverse cultures and religion. A good leader like Mandella will do Nigeria a lot of good. Like it or not we are still under the colonial rule. We should fight a common enemy before our domestic battle.

restructuring is the solution, ..................If we can't restructure let's go our separate ways.. ...............our mumu don do! two laws operating in a so called sovereign state, who is fooling whom. polithiefkians using religion to divide, and plunder the resources meant for all.

flokii:
There is nothing like partitioning ahead of 2023.. power must shift South in 2023 else the North can choose to stay on their own.

We know the kind of noise and threats they made during Goodluck Jonathan's tenure, claiming South has to give up power to North for fairness and peace to reign.
It will be in the interest of everybody if power moves South.. South West to be precise for good governance and economic progress.

power is not moving anywhere sir, enough is enough!

Ausval:
Let's Pray we even have a NIGERIA by 2023

I pray we don't

By saying "Nigerians" you mean Nigeriens, Malians and Fulani herdsmen bah?

Ncreative not yet shortlisted

Please who is currently registering for the biometrics, come show us the way......My dashboard still reads you have not been shortlisted.

UK God will punish and render your visas meaningless to Nigerians!!!!!!!

So we should continue in this fraud you created and the nonsense constitution....


We are not fools.


Too hell with your visas


No election......

Try FUTA

savage

Anonymousgister:
On the Covid-19 thread, you always advise people to read previous pages before asking some questions which may have been answered.

Kindly practice what you preach.

Olabode971:
Great Futarians...


We standa_gidigba full ground.

Are people still registering?

The problem is from your root, there must have been some transactions taking place in the spirit realm, just pray ......say holy ghost fire set my root on fire! ......you need to address spiritual things with prayers, remember that dream is symbolic. God uses it as a medium of communication, and everything taking place is real
The idols of your father/mother house has married you spiritually, you need to break that transaction. Start praying against it seriously with aggression....i have dealt with this before so i know what i am saying.

If you masturbate......stop masturbation and see improvement in your mental wellness

After reading the headline, i lost d energy to read d news
Does this Man understand we are all flesh and blood irrespective of your status

How many days the envoy spend for nigeria, to arrive at such a conclusion.

jenny005:
Pls lets stop this protest. What has been done has been done. U cant undo the past cos even with this protest it wont change anything

Are you for real

Jeromejnr:
I have it on amazon audible.

Wow

Please can you share it to my email.......babskay60@yahoo.com

God bless you bro

Jeromejnr:
They have voted for judgment instead of restoration.

Jonathan Cahn had been warning of this since Sept 11 happenings.

You are one of the few Jonathan cahn disciple i have seen in nigeria......blessed to know you bro....do u have a copy of the harbinger2, i have been longing to read it