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By fatherAb
Oyb and hot funmi, e bi like say 2 of una done dey fall in love ooo. Una follow una self from 'engineers' thread come here again. una beta carry una selves go Romance, or dating zones to get to like una selves. Me just dey trip 4 una oo. VAL DEY CORNER

The hegoat has been looking for a way to hit on me but for some reason, he develops a cold feet. May be his crystal balls told him that I'll just do nothing but emasculate him till the end of time. I don't date wimps, I date real men that are masculine enough to face me.

@hotfunmi,
THE WORD `RAPE`DOES NOT EXIST AGAIN SINCE THEY ARE HUSBAND AND WIFE.
THE WOMAN SHALL BE GUILTY OF AN OFFENCE CALLED` DENIAL`IN THE INSTITUTION
THAT PERMITS THE TWO THINGS (UNDER) TO BECOME ONE.
WHAT GOD HAS JOINED TOGETHER LET NO ONE PUT ASUNDER.
WHAT GOD HAS JOINED TOGETHER ARE THOSE TWO THINGS UNDER THE
HUSBAND AND THE WIFE,THEREFOFORE THE WOMAN SHOULD PUT NO ASUNDER.

Saying no to sex has nothing to do with asunder. It means that I cannot open my legs now and it should remain that way. Asunder is when a third party like mother inlaw comes to dictate to his balless son on how to live with his wife.

By Pennywise,
Marital rape is nothing but an aberration of terms. I am happy some of our girls/ladies here have been bold enough to repudiate this. The access that marriage grants the man is unconditional and non-negotiable.

Unbelievable. Can you show me any section in the marriage contract that affords the woman a chance to sign her life away to these bullocks called men? How can you even begin to defend the bolded part of your statement? marriage means 'cojoining' and not a woman leasing her body to a man.

by kola
IN MARRIAGE,THERE IS NOTHING LIKE `RAPE`.
HAVE YOU NOT HEARD THE SAYING THAT SAYS:
FOR THIS REASON A MAN AND A WOMAN SHALL LEAVE THEIR FAMILY MEMBERS,
JOINED TOGETHER & SHALL BECOME ONE.
THIS REASON IN THE CONTEXT IS FOR THE MAN & THE WOMAN TO MAKE SURE
THAT THE TWO THINGS UNDER THEM DO NOT RESIST EACH OTHER SINCE THEY ARE ONE.
THAT IS THE MAIN REASON WHY A WOMAN IS BEING HANDED OVER TO THE MAN SO AS
TO KEEP THE TWO THINGS CLOSER .

Where did the bible say "rape her if she refuses"?

Imagine a situation where a Man's wife is not available to Him as a result of child birth or menstruation, He can easily go to his other wife(if he has got one) and wouldn't have any course to go outside thereby reducing his tendency of contracting diseases,prevent unwanted pregnancy, leading to no cause for abortion and thereby solving several social problems

You must be a helleva woman. you forgot that marriage is commitment and not a social spree. If he cannot wait till i wean my child or cease to menstruate, then his commitment to me is barbash.

haha, oga o you are really hot! but take a look @ this ; do u think u can fulfill purpose alone without someone 2 complement u? fufilling purpose; not in the sense of getting someone 2 depend solely-on like a parasite but getting someone in which both of u will find joy and happiness together.

Being a woman is a terribly difficult task, since it consists principally in dealing with men.

heh heh,

you come across more and more like an 'ashley yewo' every time you post.(would that explain your bitterness towards the male gender? abi your customer don give u 'the virus'? )

please stop giving naija sistas a bad name. you are a disgrace to them.

it would seem 'yahoozes' are quite welcome at your house, since those are their vehicles of choice.

Why am I wasting my time with this sorry excuse for a man? I can't be a rose in any man's lapel.

surely you know the difference between a 404 and a hilux? . even if you're too dumb to process the written word, you should have no problem with processing images, unless your eyesight is as poor as your wit

Hilux? that one na motor? no be that pick up truck wey Toyota build last around 1995? Na that thing you wan take come my house? Are Engineers barred from driving cardillacs and Beamers?

How can a man rape his wife?
Are u people kidding me or what?

Women are systematically degraded by receiving the trivial attentions which men think it manly to pay to the sex, when, in fact, men are insultingly supporting their own superiority.
Marriage is for women the commonest mode of livelihood, and the total amount of undesired sex endured by women is probably greater in marriage than in prostitution.

Question:
How hot is 'hotfunmi'?

over 1000 degrees celsius.

i agree with you that's napoleon's view. but himself made d principle using historical xperiences of people whose wives either make or mar their lives. it is still accepted that behind a successful man, there is a successful woman.

It's accepted by those that chose to accept it prolly because they are beclouded by the male dominance in the society. I am an independent woman who does not need a man to accomplish whatever I want to do. If somebody must queue behind the other, he should be the one and not preety hot Funmilayo.

heh heh,

I'm impressed, you are slowly. . .very slowly. . .learning about the interesting field called engineering. before, you only knew about technicians. now you know about draftsmen.with any luck, before the year is out you'd have mastered the whole engineering team organogram. . .

Knock yourself out. I know you've been looking for a way to hit on me but does not have what it takes. Sorry, e go better. The beautiful ones are not yet born.

as to alagbon jail, did you see me there? i know you spend every other weekend there after you get caught in the 'ashley yewo' raids by the men in black .

How am I sure the fake police woman is not your mistress? You better report to EFCC and tell them your side of the story. How did you get the money to buy that 404 you dey drive?

An expert is a person that has made more mistakes than anyone else

I'm not surprised at your signature. Who knows? may be you were the draftsman that drew those buildings that fell in lagos last week.

if the woman no gree,
leave her and help your self with soap or vaseline
na still the same release u go release

Don't mind them, if you want friction, go scrape your wetincall for wall and leave your wife alone.

neither LovePeddler nor wife truly loves me but my cash only

Well,  the bible only ask men to love their wives and never asked women to love their husbands. Women should  love their husbands  based on the abundance of their hearts  and it's strictly at their own discretion.

@ hotfunnmi

u said u disagree with the quote made by d poster, well that's fine, everyone with his /her view. but i will want u to try and make a research on the THE MYSTRERY OF SEX TRANSMUTATION which is one of the principle Napoleon Hill gives in his classic book THINK AND GROW RICH. check it out,

Didn't you just say that views are different now? Whatever is written in that book is Napoleon Hill's view and may not be necessarily true.

There are wives who barter sex for cash or the hubby doing their bidding. What's the difference between that woman and a street LovePeddler?

A LovePeddler loves you not but your wife loves you.

It's time to express our love poetically, So,write a quatrain for your val here. Alliteration and rhyme pattern should be in order in your poem  plz.

This topic happens to be one of "The Topics" that makes replies sound stupid.
In the first place, i think whoever dropped the topic is extremely,

What nonsense, as far as i am concerned, Rape cannot occur in a marriage,

Before i say more, i think we should really hear the complete gist rather than give
opinions based on your own understand of the circumstances that led to the event,

Roses UP!

I guess you are one of those he~dogs that voted in affirmative.

A good wife should never allow the man she loves to walk out the door,fully loaded

You don't need to be a sex slave to some doggone man inorder to prove how good you are as a wife. Good wife/husband is relative and dependent on lots of factors. The truth is that men exploit women in Africa and expect those women to carry the burden because they'll be rewarded with a goddamn vocabulary called 'good wife' or in the case of christians, 'virtuos woman'.

I

can only pay back by putting on belt on my Denim y sleepin for the rest of the year!

Funmi, LadyT, won't that be fair enough?

You get what you deserve from women. Most atimes, women that withold sex from their husbands do so to either avenge for what he did to her or protest for something that has been landing on deaf ears. If you treat your wife very well , you shall be rewarded with the 'fat meat' at night.
Imagine, how do you allow men like OYB to get into you after being nasty all day to you?

going by so many of your posts, it would seem that idiocy is synonymous with 'hot' women. please do tell - are you blonde?

He's back from Alagbon jail. Fake draftsman wey dey call himself engineer.

Even women are joining this 419 thing in Naija now. This is the after effect of economic hardship and joblessness else why would a 31 year old girl do a thing like this. This kind of crime is synonymous with men alone.

This fake policewoman was arrested in Ibadan, convincted in Kaduna

By Tunde Busari


The escapade of Fagbemi Yemisi, who is currently in police custody in Osogbo, Osun State for

allegedly defrauding innocent people with impunity, is simply phenomenal. Those, who have had the misfortune of coming across the mother of two are still gnashing their teeth and cursing the day their paths crossed.
But the table has now turned; end seems to have come for nefarious activities of 31-year-old Yemisi.
This, however, depends on how the court of law handles her case. The offence, for which she is being held at the Special Anti Robbery Squad, Oke-Bale, Osogbo, is alleged impersonation.

She is accused of parading herself as a police inspector with such confidence that she, on several occasions, had fooled genuine policemen. ”The day she came here, I almost saluted her. And if you saw how she carried herself that day, you would not have doubted her identity. She spoke confidently and even asked of the rank of a woman sergeant here,” a sergeant at Special Anti-Robbery Squad told SUNDAY PUNCH.

It was gathered that she always visited different Divisional Police Headquarters for no specific purpose but to feign being a policewoman. She allegedly used it as a ploy to deceive her victims. Yemisi once allegedly arrested a commercial motorcycle operator, seizing the bike until the operator was able to bail himself out.

The most amazing of her exploits is her success in securing bail for suspects in police custody. But her day of waterloo came when she took a complainant from Okuku to a division in Osogbo. On getting to the station, she asked of the second in command after she was told that the Divisional Police Officer was not in the office.

As she was displaying the bravado, a police woman who had lived in the same neighbourhood with Yemisi in the past, took a cursory look at her. When she confirmed her identity, she pretended and urged her colleague to play along with Yemisi. Not long afterwards, she (Yemisi) found herself in a trap.

But to show the extent of her expertise, Yemisi jumped bail and fled. Before then, a boy simply called Akeem had been on her trail over an alleged debt. ”It is not that I am owing him the money per se. I assisted him to sell two pieces of clothes after we returned from Cotonue in Benin Republic. And I had wanted to give him his money but I couldn‘t see him. It was later that his sister saw me and said he had been sick,” Yemisi said.

After she jumped bail and fled, Yemisi relocated to somewhere in Ikotun in Lagos and continued her “trade,” this time at a higher level. It was even reported towards the end of last year that she was arrested for duping a car dealer, who fell flat for her fake identity. According to the story, Yemisi went to the showroom of the dealer called Lekan at Apapa and priced a Toyota car. Having agreed on the price, she requested the dealer to give her a driver to take her to the Police College, Ikeja, where she claimed she would take the money from her father working as a senior instructor in the college.

Kunle obliged her because he had always known her as an inspector at Obalende barracks. At the Police College, Yemisi took the driver to another policewoman, who informed them that the father had gone to Ibadan. Kunle still agreed when Yemisi said she would need to go to Ibadan.

Yemisi got to the Oyo State capital and took the car to another dealer called Adeoye at Iwo Road for sale. Adeoye agreed to buy the car, having been convinced that Yemisi was a senior policewoman. Yemisi had taken Adeoye to the Oyo State Police Headquarters at Eleyele to convince him of her claim. She then took N350,000 from Adeoye who promised to pay the N100,000 balance later.

The agitated Kunle in Lagos went all out in search of Yemisi. He could not find her, but was fortunate find the car in Ibadan. After he was arrested, Adeoye explained how he bought the car from Yemisi. He called her for the balance. Yemisi showed up and ran into the ambush. She claimed that her action was in order because Kunle had in 2003 collected N250,000 from her to get a car which he allegedly refused to supply. She added that Kunle refused to refund her money, hence her resort to the trick.

The Divisional Police Headquarters, Agodi, Ibadan later charged her to court. She was granted bail. But shortly after she was let off the hook, she went to Kaduna and allegedly duped yet another dealer using a similar method. Yemisi also took the unsuspecting dealer to the police command where she introduced herself as the daughter of a Deputy Inspector General of Police.

She was again successful and escaped from Kaduna. And in Osun, the state Police Command said it had more than enough complaints about her. And the fact that she once jumped bail made her a wanted suspect by the police. So, immediately she was sighted in town, they went after her. Just a few days after she was arrested, a team of policemen from Kaduna State stormed Osogbo on her trail.

Yemisi was released to the team and taken to Kaduna. Like in Ibadan, she was charged to court and sentenced to imprisonment, though with an option of fine. Interestingly, the fine, according to Yemisi, was paid by the wife of a former governor who took interest in her case.

But the Kaduna Police would not allow her to go. They re-arrested her and handed her back to their Osun counterpart. Yemisi did not deny her involvement in the fraud. She rather held her mother responsible for ”my problem.” She acknowledged her “adventure” as a problem but said she would tell her story at the right time.

Our correspondent spoke to Yemisi on the allegations against her. She said, ”I am not like this (referring to her current ordeal). I used to have a shop at Oja-Oba where I sold Ankara and lace materials. But at times, something would just tell me to go and commit any crime. And there was never a time I committed a crime without being caught. The police always caught me.”

Married to a riot policeman who died in 2004,Yemisi said she also served in the Police between 2000 and 2002 before she was dismissed. ”They dismissed me when I wanted to use a fake ND result of the Osun State College of Technology, Esa-Oke to do my upgrading. They discovered and asked me to go. I did my training at the Police College, Ikeja in 2000,” she said.

One striking thing, which easily gives Yemisi away as an unrepentant fraudster is her penchant for telling lies without betraying emotion. Last November, she gave her name as Fagbemi Yemisi. Now she is Elegbeleye Kehinde. She also claimed that her father was in Holland where he was receiving treatment. She, however, contradicted this when she said the father had died some years back.

Her claim to being a former policewoman was dismissed by the Police Public Relations Officer, Oyo State Command, Olabisi Okuwobi. ”I asked her basic questions which she must know if she is truly a policewoman, she failed. She is a fraudster, using the name of the police to deal with innocent people,” Okuwobi declared.

”After I passed out from Police College, I was posted to Igarra Divisional Headquarters in Edo State. That was where I met my husband. I know that it is when one has a problem like the one I have found myself in that people who know you will deny that they ever met you,” Yemisi said while restating her claim.

Before going to press, efforts were being made by the police to prepare her for court again. But the Police Public Relations Officer, Osun Command, Joshua Olayemi, was rather pragmatic in his comment on Yemisi. Olayemi said that the matter went beyond taking the suspect to the court.

”Rather, people should be vigilant in their day-to-day dealings. They should not just open their door to anybody with sweet talk. You must ask the person intelligent questions. And when you are still in doubt, you should alert the police. Fraudulent people are everywhere looking for people to exploit,” Olayemi advised.

He observed that Yemisi was in the “dubious trade” because she knew that it was a bailable offence. ”That is why she jumped from Ibadan to Kaduna and back to Osogbo. But I think if the judge goes through her history, maybe she is on her way turning a new leaf,” the PPRO said.


http://odili.net/news/source/2008/feb/10/406.html

By menz328
thats why God made women the way they are and Men the selfish people they are

I disagree, God did not make men selfish rather the egocentric ones just want to be that way out of shear wickedness. God implored men to 'love their wives' and not 'rape them' in the bible.

look at his family background and study the way his brothers treat their wives of the way his dad treats his mom. This usually gives you a good indication of how he was taught to treat a woman.

This formular doesn't work sometimes. Some guys learnt how to be dick heads through their peer group. It's like saying that those that get involved in campus secret cults always come from families that are fetish and practice occultism.

By dalby,
In a mans case you call it seduction, in the womans case you say it is rape. And I hear you say its a mans world
The women are actually the men

Rape is different from seduction. Some women though, rape their husbands mostly by incessant pestering but it's not as gruesome as those men that use physical force to obtain what they want.

By SweetT
If he pester you for sex all the time before marriage, what makes you think he will stop after marriage ??

That's a good question because we women always make the mistake of assuming that we'll change our men. Some succeed in changing their men but most don't. As a matter of fact, most men change from manageable to worse after marriage.