₦airaland Forum

Rape is rape. These cases cannot be proven most of the time unless there is overwhelming evidence of brutality to that area and other affiliates. Having said that, you really cannot differentiate the real cases from the false ones since------------ ------------some like it harder and faster.


Bloody Mary! Ike and Tina Turner style! Hmmmmm!

How could anyone tell? His word against hers. Sometimes the men look like the victims. Or surveillance camera perhaps. Who knows?


Given the scope and realm of domestic abuse--anything is possible sha. But proving it is the problem. If it can be proven in any court of law--I'll say:


Hang him--till he shits! Same goes for the woman, since some women also rape their husbands.

Installing a camera in your home is gross, I think it's better you install a jack knife under your bed to chop off his peewee whenever he pounces on you without invitation.

Do you think Nigerian courts are yet ready to entertain such complaints?

Ori mi lo mu e.

These crawlies follow me around here like I've got honey on me. I guess it's not easy being a hottie.

i thnk is better you walk without bra

No, I don't want rookies like you to drool.

Are there any bras that are completely wire free and can hold up the pendulum  properly? I mean properly enough with proper sculpting, lift and cleavage? Please help because my ribs hurt else I'll soon start walking around without bra.

A lot of women these days complain that their husbands do rape them anytime they say no to sex.
Do you really think that such cases should be treated in the court like other rape cases?
I mean, is it right to give a man 20 years to life because he slept with his wife by force?

I advice you to take things easy because you may end up giving yourself high blood pressure since the haking idea may fustrate your effort more. Have a sincere deep talk with your wife. Good luck man!!!

Question:
Why is it that guys find it dfficult to wait on sex until after marriage? They always want to get there first, why can't y'all wait for something you'll eventually get in abundance?

A woman's worry really starts after she gets married. Especially if she is married to a "useless" man!

Getting the husband is not the problem, but keeping "it" and making "it" do what "it" is supposed to do is where the real problem starts.

@topic,
opposition to inter tribal marriage is just one of the carryover of primitive era. Certainly it is still rife. But I am sure it would phase out one day just as choosing spouses for children die naturally due to stubborn resistance

I don't think so because racism, nepotism and ethnic  segregation are some of the vices that will follow mankind to the grave. Racists and tribalists are not born, they learn the habit from their predecessors.

It's better for you to preserve your dried fish in the rats hole than allow your husband keep a flashy secretary. Majority of men always eat the bone hung around their neck even if they are aware that it may be poisoned.

preach preacher!

by Almondjoy,
No big deal about inter-tribals at all.

Some tribes are better for marriage than others. But the bottom line is that it is an individual matter. Personally, there are some tribes or races in this world that I would never dream of befriending not to talk of marrying. It all has to do with how they treat women and children that's all.

Can you name them please so we can be watchful?. I am sure the tribe/ethnic group is not yoruba.

By Ebaby
I don’t see nothing wrong marrying from other tribes, we are all the same people. One love Nigerians

I have families who married delta, Ibo, Hausa e.t.c but has for me oh I can only marry a Yoruba man and it depends on what state his from and background because that is for important to us

My parents rules are no guys from Ekiti, Kwara,Oyo e.t.c like that, and last names starting from SO is a big NO NO

Do you have to follow your parents rules as an adult? What is wrong with guys from Ekiti, Oyo and Kwara? what of Osun? If you can marry Ondo, why not Ekiti?

State is not even in my dictionary when it comes to marriage because it's a doggone land division, the only reservation I have for marriage is religion. I can never ever marry a moslem.

marry me, am yoruba but look ibo. talk about killing 2 birds with one stone

lol, what do you mean by that? you are light skinned?

The truth is that our generation don't give a damn about where our spouses come from. My childhood friend married a white guy from Kansas in 2005 and my elder sister in Pennsylvania married one cute ibo brother. I like ibo guys so much but I must confess that they are not as open minded as yoruba guys when it comes to inter ethnic marriage, they always like to stick to their own. Generally, most of our parents were against inter tribal or ethnic or state marriage but thank God that this generation knows better. Gone are the days my dad will tell me never to bring home an ijebu man because he'll be lucky if i marry a yoruba man sef. My prayers is to marry a Naija man tho, precisely yoruba or ibo.

by kobojunkie
It is not the government's job to necessarily create more jobs for people like this. Government can work to create a conduscive business environment for businesses to thrive in and in the end provide jobs for the masses. However, that may still be a long way away from us now.

5 stars.

it is because you're NOt!! a male, that is why such statement enamates from you! im not suprised! so just incase someone got shot at his/her toe, is it possible for such person not to react painfully by shouting? !!ohh ahh!?. . . .i'd suggest u go study more about 'stimulus' will ya. .

God created humans in his own image and likeness. If you believe you cannot control your animalistic tendencies because you have testosterone, then you've got a serious problem. Human beings are little gods.

iwo sha toyin. first you tell me to chill out on the slut now you sef you dey argue with am

Temporary 'ignore'.

Kese Jabari
Kalu Ikeagwu( my baby daddy)
Gbenga Okunowo
St Obi
Paul Adefarasin
Hank Anuku
Chris Oyakhilome(this brother is fiiiiiiiiiiiineeeeeeeeeee)

LOL. . . i prefer lekpa o. . . i no pass size 4 o . . .and is it our fault that everyone of your post pertaining to men seems like its your personal experience? i mean, surely you must not have made up those ridiculous allegations about them. . , na wa o funmi, i think it's better if you go along with my excuse about it being your personal experience, because if it's not, the only answer is that you're mentally disabled o. . . b/c it is the same species of man you will marry and same species of man you'll give birth too. , or am i not right?

ignore

By Logical
Therefore @hotfunmi, @4Him and other Christians that think racism, discrimination or tribalism is acceptable by your beliefs, I have spoken the language you best understand.

The above mentined vices are not supported by christianity. I don't know how you developed 'equally yoked' to tribalism and racism etc. Because you chose a mercedes over a BMW does not mean that you hate the BMW. For a smooth relationship, you need to be equally yoked or?

girl, c'mon now. . . don't be an idiot. . .you've been assuming ever since you logged on. , . how do you know am obese when you never saw my pic. . . .eh? now, i know you can come up with something else. . . why obesity na. . .why not lekpa? why not slim?

Whatever rocks your both. You are asking how I assume you are orbo? or how patakehee is gay?, the same way they assumed that every question I asked is pertaining to my past experience. You are lepa if that'll make you feel good but it'll do you no good if you are proper orobo and am calling you lepa. Will it?

What is the best way to inculcate the reading culture in children nowadays? The proliferation of cell phones and web blogs is seriously affecting our reading habits especially the kids that get themselves busy with only computers, video games and cell phones.  Will it be proper to prolong their stay in school and ban those things in and around the schools so they can concentrate on their math and other subjects?

By jairhinzo
No. [b]because we essentially operate a PATRIlineal society,thats the reason,we take our dad's surname & not our mum's,the traditional institution is the custodian of such values and it should remain so,for sanity.[/b]During transition between trad rulers we do have female regents in some s/western towns,thats cool by me.

Is there any school of thought that is against a change from pariarchial to matriarchial or practice both like contemporary Europe is doing now? I mean, even if there is a law that enthrones men automatically, that law can be changed to accomodate 'whomever the cap fits' and not 'the only MALE the cap fits'. Shall we remain and bequeath our chauvinistic society to our kids?

Question:
Erectile dysfunction(ED) is a rising male problem. Sometimes, what we eat contribute largely to the malfunction of the peewee, yet some men continue eating as many junk as they can get. Why? Are they not scared of ED?; Again, why do most men find it difficult or are too ashamed to get help if they are confronted with ED?

HAHAHAHHA. . . . considering he didn't put your name down, then i guess, he's not considering a fellow gay. . .

I seriously don't know how this obese fool came into this picture. sarcasm or what?

You think I was going to consider a deranged dog like you?

I thought you'll consider fellow gay's.

THANK GOD THE WAR IS OVER

That's what men do, anytime they are confronted with prying questions, they instigate wars between women to get out of the situation. 4him and Pantakee have succeeded in using a fat Domitilla to dissuade Funmilayo.

Hiss*****_{Funmi farts on thread}.

Anita Hogan

This yeye man get good taste sha.

Stephanie Okereke

she may try to blow grammar and mess up sometimes, but that chick got the hottest naija body I've seen in a while. . .she be thick in the right places.

Is she the same with stephanie okere?

by Nautillus
now 4 a one night stand val with Stella Damasus      hhmmm. . . . won't be a bad idea at all

You are such a dreamer!  She's single and searching sha, go try your luck.