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TravelRe: BA Explains Their Actions. by HRhotness(f): 1:32pm On May 02, 2008
Is that their Idea of an apology? angry

Its either they aologise or they dont, none of all this half baked crap
CrimeRe: Incest! Man Keeps Daughter Captive For 24yrs by HRhotness(op): 3:45am On May 02, 2008
FashionRe: OPINIONS PLEASE!!! Who Is Hotter? by HRhotness(op): 3:02am On May 02, 2008
undecided
too bad it wasnt a game undecided
FashionRe: OPINIONS PLEASE!!! Who Is Hotter? by HRhotness(op): 2:55am On May 02, 2008
As the name states
FashionRe: OPINIONS PLEASE!!! Who Is Hotter? by HRhotness(op): 2:51am On May 02, 2008
ztyle:
Really,then that's a good snapshoot but u snap the front & leave the back, how will i know who is hot? undecided
in ur dreamz dude! cool
FashionRe: OPINIONS PLEASE!!! Who Is Hotter? by HRhotness(op): 2:45am On May 02, 2008
ztyle:
Good, nah the photographer.
Thank you! grin

I was the photographer
FashionRe: OPINIONS PLEASE!!! Who Is Hotter? by HRhotness(op): 2:41am On May 02, 2008
ztyle:
@poster
NONE, u want know my reason then ask me. wink
whats ur reason then?
HealthRe: Many People Are Suffering In Silence. It's Called Depression! Lets Talk About It by HRhotness(f): 2:35am On May 02, 2008
i had a period of depression and i thank God for the kind of mum i have, she saw the signs early enough and forced me to seek help. I lost all my confidence and was jumpping from one relationship to another. the thing is some people can't even tell, they just don't know why everything has lost meaning. You never quite get over it, even now many years after I still find it hard to get out of bed in the mornings,
the trick is to be surrounded by love, people who understand enough to be there for u but not push you too much. I took time off and moved in with my mum and we'd spend long hours just talking about nothin in particular, then my cousin gave birth. her fiance dumped her when she was 5months pregnant without any explanation, so she moved in with us and when her baby came, it was like someone turned the lights on in my soul. i used to spend so much time with him and i remember how his laughter always made me smile. I still go for counselling once in a while but i think it was family that helped me through the difficult times. Being alone can only cause you to sink further into depression
TravelRe: Your Experiences With Eating And Your Funny Stories Of Your Trips by HRhotness(f): 2:12am On May 02, 2008
As with all of my trips to Nigeria, the tradition is having Ewa Agoyin and Agege bread for breakfast. On one trip, i woke early ready for breakfast and the cook told me the woman who used to sell it nearby had moved or sumthin,,, so determined to have my breakfast i pulled on a pair of jeans and jumped into the car armed with my storage bowl and N200 and directions to the nearest joint.

I live just by the entrance to lekki beach so i'm infact closer to ajah than obalende,,, so i went to ajah in search of my illusive meal. at each stop i was told either they had just run out of ewa agoyin or the person wasnt selling that morning. i was running out of time so i decided to head for obalende, i surely can't go wrong,,, despite visiting nigeria at least twice every yr i hadnt actually been to obalende for about 7yrs or so. To begin with i got lost driving around in circles trying to get my bearing and then like the light at the end of a tunnel i found a road side buka that had the wonderful beans and bread. i bought enough to feed an army headed back into my car and in my hurry to get home and without realising it, drove into a one-way street and through a LASMA check point,,, i don't need to explain what happened next but thank God for british accent,,,, I didnt have my license or any form of identification, no phone and no money. they "detained" me there until someone came to "bail" me (their words exactly).

I had to call my brother on credit from those road side call centres and when he arrived i was happily eating my ewa and bread and gisting with the mechanic that shared a stand with the phone people  embarassed grin that was one of thebest days of my life
CultureRe: Why Are Nigerian Men Sooooo Impossible!? by HRhotness(f): 1:41am On May 02, 2008
@ NubianQ

Abeg ignore him and his kind,,, his breed is soon to be extinct.
It will take a while but more Nigerian men are beginning to appreciate women for something other than their lady lumps.
If women spend more time developing themselves rather than obsessing about some man coming to marry them and taking all their woes away, they will see that they will infact be able to take their own woes away, PLUS, they end up with a man who loves and respects them as partners, and not end up as a glorified slave and baby producing machines.

Many Nigerian man suffer from chronic ignorance and still expect women to be seen and not heard, that their place is in the kitchen, barefoot and pregnant,,, not if i have anything to say about it. I have been attacked on Nairaland for talking against men but I love men as much as the next girl, wink and i have the utmost respect for the marriage institution but i refuse to be treated any less than i deserve.

I believe a wife should care for and respect her husband but respect is earned and should be reciprocated. Nigerian girls today lack any self worth, that is why they sell their bodies and souls. Its sad that Nigerian girls today think so little of themselves that they offer themselves to the highest bidder in the name of "runs" how then do they expect to get respect from these same man.

Like i said, Liberation isn't a bad thing, its the power to make choices, its the right to seen and heard and respected as an intelligent individual rather than a walking vagina!
FashionRe: OPINIONS PLEASE!!! Who Is Hotter? by HRhotness(op): 12:59am On May 02, 2008
RomanceRe: Tips On How To Celebrate My First Year Wedding Anniversary by HRhotness(f): 7:58am On Apr 30, 2008
A second honeymoon
go on a weekend retreat, no phones or laptops
talk and catch up on what u've missed out on each others lives in d past yr
re-live ur honeymoon, with all the passion and excitemnt,,, wink
FashionRe: OPINIONS PLEASE!!! Who Is Hotter? by HRhotness(op): 7:55am On Apr 30, 2008
mishooo:
Ohh, excuse me! Whats hot in those extra flesh and fat?? i think guys should talk more of sexy and am saying i wont count no 3 as part of the first 4 out of the 6.
Haba, spare us ma about 'BIG' being beautiful. Bigness redures nice shape and we all know most guys go for shape most as priority, then face beauty.

I don't suscribe to bigness. Huh!
u need to meet her in person,,, i bet u'd be singing another tune wink
FashionRe: OPINIONS PLEASE!!! Who Is Hotter? by HRhotness(op): 7:23am On Apr 30, 2008
madam blush no gree make we hear word oh
she's an advocate of big is beautiful, not that we r arguing with her
but she kept everyone up all night,,,
i think #2 is hot as well, also #4

#3 does hav a thing tho, her skin glows and she has a smoldering look
FashionRe: OPINIONS PLEASE!!! Who Is Hotter? by HRhotness(op): 7:15am On Apr 30, 2008
2yrs ago at a wedding in lagos
FashionRe: OPINIONS PLEASE!!! Who Is Hotter? by HRhotness(op): 6:54am On Apr 30, 2008
from the left
FashionRe: OPINIONS PLEASE!!! Who Is Hotter? by HRhotness(op): 6:50am On Apr 30, 2008
comot for there jo,,,
so becos of this argument u came to join nairaland?
quit trying to influence decisions,,,
we agreed to get an unbiased opinion,,, angry
CultureRe: A Woman Combining Her Maiden With Her Husbands Name by HRhotness(f): 6:38am On Apr 30, 2008
i have a hyphenated name, mum's and my dad's and its hell,
i always have to spell it for people, especially when in a multinational environment, it doesn't fit in standard forms and name tags, everyone calls u by your first name because they can't attempt miss --------------------------------
can't wait to get married so i can dump both names plus who ever i marry has to have a simple name like smith
FashionOPINIONS PLEASE!!! Who Is Hotter? by HRhotness(op): 5:52am On Apr 30, 2008
I've just spent all night arguing with ma girls,,,
Abeg who is hotter?

we are counting from the left, no.1 to no.6

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VOTING OVER THANX Y'ALL grin[/size]
CultureRe: Brideprice by HRhotness(f): 1:38am On Apr 30, 2008
the price of the bride
some nigerians sell their daughters like meat in the market
RomanceRe: Would You Marry A Guy Who Hits You ? by HRhotness(f): 1:29am On Apr 30, 2008
7 pages of posts in one night!!!

[size=18pt]Una Well done oh!!!,[/size]

don't u guy get sick of the constant bickeringhuh
CultureRe: Why Are Nigerian Men Sooooo Impossible!? by HRhotness(f): 12:43am On Apr 30, 2008
NubianQ:
we are in a new world and maybe we woman should define what we want and then u guys would know how it really feels.I never understand why a woman wastes her time praying to mayying some guy who treats her like shit, it amazes me,
Lastly, GUYS GUYS GUYS, I am at the stage in my life where i don't care because men pretend and want you to be something u are not, when u are wild they say u are not wife material, i hate that word so much i want to puke when i hear it, Nigerian marriages are not happy today because people are not with the right people, or maybe you marry someone because your family wants you to marry a particular tribe, sorry for you, because you are wasting your time. think marriage is only about babies, what happened to excitement?, i could go on forever but , i will leave it here, its hard to find a liberated Nigerian man who can handle an Educated woman because all they want are Quiet women who wont talk when they are all crazy. call me a liberated woman, or crazy or frustrated but am done with nigerian men and all their rubbish, GO TO THE VILLAGE AND MARRY if it means so much to you to marry someone who doesnt talk back.
I feel u sister and I agree with you whole heartedly

I made the decision a long time ago that I will make the choice, I decide what direction my life is heading and with whom
form a very young i age i saw what the quest for marriage and acceptance from men can do to women and i promised myself i wont be that person.

There are Nigeiran men with the values u seek, I know cos I've met a few and girl,,, its worth the wait,,,
hang in there and keep being strong
when u meet them u'll know because they'll recognise the person inside and they'll treat u with the respect u deserve
Liberation isnt a bad thing, its about knowing who u are and what you want
Christianity EtcRe: Where Is The Anti Christ Coming From by HRhotness(f): 11:38pm On Apr 29, 2008
I heard OBAMA is the anti christ grin
TravelRe: Disadvantages Of Living Abroad As To Living In Nigeria by HRhotness(f): 11:20pm On Apr 29, 2008
@ LoverBwoy
your neighbours call the police when you beat your kids with hammer
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~ working like a beast of burden all month, dreaming about your fat pay check but on receiving your pay slip a large chunk has been taken out as taxes

~ u can't ask for favours from people not related to u

~ the bureaucracy involved in getting anything done

~ clubs aren't open all night

~ the sun comes out only about 1 wk in the entire yr

~ no bikes, so if u're late take a taxi or run like mad

~ its unforgivable to be late

~ it costs an arm and a leg to get your hair professionally done

~ white men are all uncircumcised

~ the doctors are clueless about malaria and tropical illnesses

~ your skin dries out like mad

~ u can't just hug people u don't knw really well

~ the beer is too light

~ all shops (except grocery stores) close at six

~ if u get a flat or breakdown, cute guys don't stop and offer to help, u have to call AAA and pay for it

~ the smiles are fake

~ there are no mallams at the end of the street

~ u can't buy single sticks of gays, u hav 2 buy a pack
RomanceRe: Would You Marry A Guy Who Hits You ? by HRhotness(f): 9:27pm On Apr 29, 2008
the day any guy lays a hand on me is the last time he'll see me,
I abhor violence in any form and i detest all forms of abuse esp to women
I wont stand for it and i find it very unforgivable

The guy I'd marry wldnt dare, the thot wldnt even cross his mind becos he'll have nothin but respect me
TravelRe: Funny Experiences On Your First Trip To Naija After Being Abroad For A While by HRhotness(f): 2:07pm On Apr 29, 2008
dnative:
Me too I tire o, the lengths folks go to just to show that life in naija is nowhere near their high flying lifestyles wherever they were coming from. Personally the best holidays I've had was when I go to naija. Forget all the heat, the dust,no light, the uncoordinated hustle-bustle, that's what makes naija naija. I go home most times as usual with very little expectations and I normally have the fun of my life. From the lows (eating amala and ewedu at onigbongbo, pounded yam and snail at shitta) to the highs (sipping champagne and caviar at protea back on the island), naija is as good as it can get.
Me too,  whenever they come pick me up at the airpot, there is always Gala waitin for me in the car
then for the first week or so i'm eating ewa agoyin and amala only  grin
then the clubbing, and partying, the beach, i even love the traffic because u see all sorts
plus i love going to yaba market,,,, its mental and u can get ridiculously cheep stuff grin
CultureRe: Why Are We Fascinated By Death! by HRhotness(f): 1:57pm On Apr 29, 2008
lucabrasi:
even if your parents live abroad and u were born abroad and don't have a lot of african/nigerian friends?its ridicuous when it gets to a stage where we can't touch a coffin or avoid people that has anything to do with washing,cleaning or doing anything to a dead body don't u think tho lol
it boils down to the parents, my cousin has never been to nigeria but she spks pigin english like she was raised in the streets of warri,
she is more nigerian than i am sef and very very superstitious, its d way she was raised
that could have some influence undecided
RomanceRe: Should I Marry Her by HRhotness(f): 1:50pm On Apr 29, 2008
There is no Trauma!!!

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