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Alexie89:
Thank you.

It's not for student visa tho.
It's the regular short stay tourist visa
I'm just confused why it didn't let me see an appointment date before making me fill all the information about intended travel date in the form.
How do I go about this. �

You can delete already filled app and refill another application with different date you want then proceed to appointment

DPlanB1:
The medical ought to come after I get a reply from the embassy sir
I will get it the company name and mail you directly

Bros how far? is your visa out?

Mokason288:
Shut up already

I could give you one reason why boys engage in YAHOO YAHOO that overrides 100 reasons not to participate

NIGERIA IS A FAIED NATION AND THERE IS ABSOLUTELY NO FUTURE FOR THE YOUTHS AND OUR CHILDREN UNBORN

Go to states like Plateau and Nasarawa the high rate of burglars and thieves will make you wish otherwise
Don’t get it twisted there are thieves everywhere even in America

NOTE: I said NO to crime no mean say I no get mind

Who are you blaming now your parents, pastors or government. No reason to justify your stealing.
If your parent didn't give birth to the number of children they would not take care of you shouldn't be thinking of stealing, I blame parents for over populating this country.
I blame the pastors who encourage the gullible fellow to come receive miracle babies and multiple the world.
The government get confused because of the first two that created the problem.

Igbo Amaka
This is why dey no wan let igbo go. The truth remains that no country can survive without igbo ... ask wike

Righteousness2:
Don't do the Needful! Keep asking irrelevant Questions until you Depart this Earth without JESUS and open yours Eyes in Hell. Then you will understand if Spirits touch neurons or neurons touch Spirits

Where is the geographical location of your heaven and hell? You can not embark on a journey you don't know the location.

DEMZEE:
Never

Men lead
Women follow

Marriage isn't a partnership, the man is the dominant gender and the woman is the submissive gender. The man's job is to protect, provide and give parental investment

This is 2021!! Your statement is for those still living in 1935
Most women are the breadwinner, who dominant gender help without finance

livette:
As you keep moving up and down, try to be repenting up and down too... Tell Jesus to forgive all your sins always. No one knows the next moment...

Repenting up and down ...... You think by asking Jesus for forgiveness up and down will take you to heaven?

Facts111:
Good day everyone..

I'll be 24 next month. The problem now is that am too shy. I don't have confidence. I don't have any girlfriend (am too shy to speak to a lady). You can wrongly accuse me and i will went away crying.

I am the first born of a family of six. A man once accused me of sleeping with his wife (the woman in question senior my mama) and i was like "me ? Me ? Me ? " and I went inside crying.

The only friend i have is my phone. The thing is affecting me seriously. I can't eat in public. I can't insult. I can't even look at your face to talk anything.... I talk alot inside... Am an online keyboard wariorr..

One boy was telling me yesterday to join 'cult' to improve. Though am thinking of it. People take me for a fool. Nairaland is my best website.

Please doctors in the house, is there any drug or medication that i can take to make me overcome shyness ?...

Is not a problem at the same time is a problem.
Is a problem because you are a man, you are suffering from low self-esteem, as a man you will find it difficult to face challenge in the society which is paramount, people with this kind of attribute often time are the people that commit suicide easily if not checked. I am not here to condem you but just an advise. You are young now start working on yourself.
I have a friend who is having same challenge and his is in his late 30's and currently he think is a spiritual problem and keep running from one church to another for deliverance. Please try and socialized. You need to be man to succeed in this country called Nigeria.
Who is a man ? A man is some one who can stand up for challenge and ready to face his fear.
My 2 kobo

Cousin9999:
The MSc abroad will open up new opportunities in Nigeria if you come back. You likely won't lose anything regarding that, and it's fully-funded, so you're probably not sacrificing to do it.

But where are you potentially going?

Who told you that Msc abroad na sure job for Nigeria?, i have seen plenty UK masters in Nija still looking for job....

OP traveling abroad for Msc on scholarship is good but ensure you make plan for your family as you need to take care of them while with you there as scholarship not include your family feeding. Find out you can work while schooling, if yes then go ahead with the plan.

Kobojunkie:
I am not one of them pastors, no. I am instead a follower of Jesus Christ who believes what Jesus Christ said that not everyone is bound for His Heaven.

Jesus Christ Himself told you that only those who are taught by His Father - not your pastors- belong to Him - John 6 vs 43 - 45 & Jeremiah 31 vs 31-34 . So if you cannot even use your own understanding in comprehending even that which is written to you in a book, what good will my teling you make your soul?

Drop that book and instead go out there and live your life the way you want.

What are you blabbing Olodo ? You are just a noise maker. Person wey know the bible have answered my questions... You can read through to learn stop forming.
Drop which book? I'm alredy living leaving my life in a way i wouldn't create karmic debit to myself. Keep believing that blood of Jesus will keep washing away your sin.

livingchrist:
Heaven and hell are spiritual dimension, heaven is upward and hell is downward they are not physical dimension so even if you go up in the physical heavens or dig down the earth you wont see them.
Heaven is said to have doors and windows and hell is said to have gate these are portals into those dimension which opens after death.
There are generally two dimensions one is the physical dimensions and the other is the spiritual dimension demons and angels operates in the spiritual dimension but can also manifest in the physical dimensions.


like I said hell is a spiritual reality, just as physical fire affects the physical body so also so hell fire affect the spirit, for example the demons begged Jesus not to torment them which means spirits can be tormented.



After death comes Judgment but this judgment has stages, judgment starts after death but extends to the white thrown judgment.



That is nothing before God, the book of proverbs tells is that God comprehends even the dust of the earth, every atom that make up a person God knows them and he can put them together.

Jesus is the son of God and God himself.
These two statements seems contradictory but they are not actually.
Jesus is the son of God as regard his relationship withing the trinity, same way as the holy spirit is called the spirit of God even though God is a spirit, however does that mean God who is a spirit has a spirit?
God the fathe, God the Son and God the Holy spirit means the way the persons 0f the trinity relates with each other, God is a trinue being meaning he is three individuals but the way each of these individuals relate with one another is different.

The first and second person of the trinity relates with each other as Father to Son, the third person relates as the spirit, so Jesus is the son of God as his relationship with the father but in his nature he is one and same God with the father , so we can say Jesus and the father are same God but different individuals.

Thank you for taking your time to explain all.

Kobojunkie:
You confuse me with you there.

I don't have the questions you have. Matter of fact, your confusion is all you hence the reason why I suggest to you what I will suggest to all others like you.

If you are this confused about what is written in the book, rather than ask others to fill you in, dump the book and move on with your life.

You are the type of pastor who claim to be called by God but when a church member ask questions regarding what is in the bible which he can not clarify, he will direct the person to ask Holy Spirit or Angel to explain. We know them. Don't bother responding I will not reply

Kobojunkie:
If after reading the book for your self you are stil this confused, my suggestion is that you stop worrying about what is written in it. Dump the book completely and go live your life as you choose abeg.

Is obviously you don't have answer to the question I ask, why not jump and pass my comment must you comment ? You that understand the book oya answer just 1 out of the 5 questions

Every girl experience same untill they find the right man, you have just collected your own share from the meat. Isorite .....
Let me educate you...guys don't like good girl's, be yourself in a relationship. Say no to sex sometimes, ask him for money when necessary. Show him that you can survive with him and channel your enery to loving yourself and developing yourself. Husband no dey rain. Ask Linda Ikeji you will understand better

Happy Sunday my pipul. .... I want to worship here today
My confusions about the Christian faith is the teaching and concept in the bible that contradictions itself.
However, can anyone help me answer my questions below ���
1. The location of these heaven and hell.
2. If we are spirit man, how does spirit consumed by fire inside hellfire while the body is been rotten in the grave.
3. They said after death comes judgement and at the same time said on the last day the dead shall raise again for judgement day? Contradiction.
4. If dead raise again on the judgement day what happen to those that died inside the sea and fish eat their bones and flesh then we bought these fish in the market, cook and eat them. My question is where will the bone raise from?
5. Is Jesus the son of God or God himself...? Remember Jesus said as he is so are we... that means if he is God we are also God , if he is son of God so are.

solidhomes:
I know it sounds awkward that I don't have answers to your first question, and it's because we have been separated before he got the visa. He only called me that he was now in the US. However, I think he has legalized his stay because he's come home like twice since he travelled.

If you have separated from him before he got visa, obviously he will not indicate married as his status definitely he applied as single guy, so you do not need to worry about it just go and apply as single lady do not indicate him in your application . For you daughter one has have a child without marriage.

solidhomes:
Please your kind advice is needed on this issue.

My ex-husband has been in the US for about 6 years now and we have an eight year old daughter together. I would like to travel to the US with my daughter for holiday but I am confused about the information to put down when applying for my visa.

1. We are not formally divorced, only been separated for the six years he's been abroad.

2. His daughter bears his surname and has it on her international passport.

3. He has refused to tell me if he stated that he was married to me when he applied for his own visa. I also do not know if he is legally married to another woman in the US.

I know guys find a way around getting divorce certificates from here to the US so they can marry their "akata" or whoever would process their papers for them.

But I don't know if my ex did this before he got his "stay" in the US, because he's been visiting Naija regularly from the second year he travelled. He has also refused to own up to the exact thing he did.

4. What is the chance of applying for and getting the US visa as a single mother, especially as my daughter bears her father's name?

5. Would I need a consent letter from my ex to travel with his daughter if I eventually get the visa?

6. Is it possible not to mention him at all in my application and not be linked to him in any way?

7. Or should I just apply with the true information, attach my wedding certificate and pictures , and proofs that my ex abandoned our marriage six years ago without a proper divorce, has been in the US since then, and that we have no intention of ever getting back together?

8. But what if he is married in the US presently? Won't I be causing trouble for him?

Thanks for taking the time to read my ramblings. I really need clarifications about this. Forget the emojis

Is unfortunate you experiencing this ... is really complicated but try and apply using separation as single mother not divorced because it might require you showing prove evidence of divorce documents. If he aren't in US that will be easier for you.

Did he travel using tourist visa? Has he legalise his stay? Investigate all that I will help you in you visa application.

bibiking7:



After going through the telpecon thread. You guys should go to the goldenbridge.org.ng site which I believe is the one claiming to be giving out Grants. Check thier board of directors. It's the same set of people running telpecon. Most likely, the same scheme just rebranded. When one cast, they rebrand and start over.

We have finally check this is what we got

Kobojunkie:
I was not born in a Christian home and I have several other of what you call religious books.

1. You claim most of the teachings in the bible are illustrations not in the real context, so tell me, what are the teachings illustrations of and what are your sources in this?

2. Also, Where does your understanding that the Kingdom of God is on this world come from? Where did Jesus Christ teach this?

3. Where does your explanation for the meaning of the Idiomatic expression come from? Gates are openings that lead to a destination and here you claim the intended destination for those who access the broad gate differs from that of those who access the narrow gate, why?

Your emphasis is on the kingdom of God yet you don't know the location of this kingdom. Meanwhile you are still pointing Jesus Christ in this discussion while my explanation is not only based on Jesus teaching. Bros or sis, I'm not a religious person. Believe in your heaven and hell I have different view on that.
If we continue with this argument we will remain here till tomorrow. Let me attend to other important thing.

Kobojunkie:
1. Where does your understanding that the Kingdom of God is on this world come from? Where did Jesus Christ teach this?

2. Where does your explanation for the meaning of the Idiomatic expression come from? Gates are openings that lead to a destination and here you claim the intended destination for those who access the broad gate differs from that of those who access the narrow gate, why?

Question upon questions ....... if Christian bible is the only religious book you have read, please try do some research from other boosk it will not only change your thought about life but will make you understand your bible better. Most of the teaching in the bible are illustrations not in the real content, do not limit yourself reading christain books because you were born in a christain home, have an open mind. I'm not a religious person biko I have grown beyong that.

Kobojunkie:
1. I assume your intent is to gain direct access to these locations of your own hence the reason why you ask me of the geographical locations , right?

According to Jesus Christ, the Kingdom of God is not of this world, yet it is inside of you and all around you.

2. I still would like your response to my earlier question. What are the narrow and broad gates Idiomatic expressions of ,and in what reality do you speak of?

You are speaking in parable .... what do you mean by kingdom of God is inside and in around me yet not of this world. Well kingdom of God is on this world for my understanding.
2, idiomatic expression is also known as parable. ... NARROW GATE is to live a righteous life which has to do with lots of principle and mankind find it difficult, while BROAD GATE is sinful life people live for prosperity that is why most pastors are teaching prosperity.
Hope you now understand

Kobojunkie:
Idiomatic expressions of what?

And what reality do you speak of? That of the Kingdom of God?

If may I ask "where is the geographical location of kingdom of God and hell fire ? Because who ever want to get to a certain location must first knowthe direction and the location of the place. Please i will like to know

Kobojunkie:
According to Jesus Christ, no one can enter into the Kingdom of God without first being born again - John 3 vs 1 - 10. And He also said that there are two gates into this Kingdom of God - the broad gate which leads to Hell and the narrow gate which leads to Heaven - Matthew 7 vs 13 - 14. So,clearly, it is not enough to be born-again. One must ensure he walks In through the narrow gate in order to enter into the door that leads to Heaven, a door which only a few will find.

All these are idiomatic expressions nothing like narrow and broad gate in reality. ..

emaseriki:
Here is to clear your confusion.
1. God created man, and that man is a spirit which is genderless. Then he made an earth suit for him called to body adaptable to the earth realm. So when a man dies, his body return to where it comes from and also the spirit. Remember the spirit called man which God created has a soul and when a man dies it is his soul that will be judged and not his spirit because his spirit will return to it's maker.
2. God knows before hand all happenings both in heaven and on earth but the beings he created are not robot: he gave them the WILL to do as they pleased.
3. Those that didn't hear about God (Christ) will be judged according to their conduct (conscience).

So far what I understand is that "we are spirit which is our soul that lives in the body and when we die our body goes back to dust while the soul which is spirit goes back to his owner" who decied what happen thereafter. meanwhile the spirit can not be judge so nothing like judgement we reap what we sow right on earth , is a natural law on the inhabitants of the earth.
Now you are confusing soul and spirit
Please can you explain different between a SOUL and SPIRIT ?
Can you also explain which of these goes to hell when death come? does spirit consumed by fire?

Eriokanmi:
Personalise whatever you're saying . You may have failed due to your unbelief and perverse ways. Many ignorant people like you don't even believe one could hear God speak like when a speaker is placed by yourself, hearing Him clearly...they never believe. Several of your type don't even believe there's ancestral war which you must fight to finish before you can excel in life, though not many people do encounter this. Some would follow same path with you and make it while you're still struggling to put food at your desk...if you seek the face of God things will be alright.

Here's just a little story on my experience and encounter work God.

OP, please seek God's face God still answers prayers and you'd have cause to laugh, believe.

...and to those homosapens evolution believers , you're in a serious bondage and being deceived by the devil. Taste God and you'd wish you had known Him earlier. God is real, knowing God is super sweet cos I'm a living witness.

There is complete difference between SPIRITUALITY and RELIGIOUS. Someone who don't believe in any religion could as well experince same thing you just explain, the problem we have is that most of us have been filled up with religious dogma and wrong teaching which is affecting our believe system. People has different encounter spiritually and without going to any where they resolve it themselves.

udoji2021:
My question is;

1) why not just enjoy your life even if it means doing bad things to enjoy life?
If you can't enjoy life, why not kill yourself and rest to avoid the sufferings?

To enjoy your life while doing bad - also remember the scripture that says we will reap what we sow (karma) is real that's natural law that gauid the earth and human. The expectation of punishment on hell does not exist.

udoji2021:
2) Even if there is life after death, what if there is no suffering cos God may decide to give everyone peace after death.

There is life after death that is known as ( reincarnation ) we are soul live in a body when we die our soul continue living , in this case we will return to earth to continue reaping what we sow...... the bible actually mention this but I can't point out the chapter...... but will find out and revert

udoji2021:
3) Those that didn't hear anything about God, what is their fate .

Have you ask yourself this question! What happen to our fore -fathers who died before Christianity or religious came to us (Nigeria ) what actually happen to them? They are me and you who is currently existing on earth .... meaning reincarnation effect.

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4) which of the scriptures is to be trusted?.[/quote]Don't really know but there are contradictions in most verses in the bible and i can advise you to have an open mind and study other people religious book for research purpose then you can understand life better and not to be deceived by religious sentimental people.

G-boys are everywhere, now they know how desperate Nigerians want to migrate to Canada they have switched. Many people will fall for this scam

NewDawn2O21:
soyinka graduated with a second class upper, stop giving false information

Are you his spokes person? He said it himself, he is a motivation to others who wan die because of certificate.

There are lot if influential people in Nigeria that earn a 3rd class in their first degree...
Wale soyinka is number one .....others follow
Some people don't even know where their certificate is and have never work with it after graduation.

Tjah:
better wait for ur PGD.
by d way, wat were u doing in school that earned u common 3rd class....??
flexing

So many thing can make someone earn third class and it doesn't mean he is not brilliant.
A lecturer can frustrate your life with third class. Someone can get 3rd Claus in Nigeria and still make first class in London. Some Lecturer will tell you to sort to pass and read to know, no money for sorting no pass for you

Please i want to know if research programme is regarded as student visa and does it need same process?
I will be going for 10 weeks research programme in France around September and the research centre provide free accommodation. 10 weeks falls to long stay visa category but don't know if I should choose tourist or student visa

kenlolly75:
They paid some CEOs around March/April. The payment was made consecutively within a week. Making 150k.

Did they exempt CEO and paid staffs before then or the company got payment for everyone on payroll including CEO around March / April ?
We are talking about only CEO's who didn't get paid while their staff got. This didn't happen last year