Family › Re: Nairaland Christmas Giveaway 2020 by hstar: 12:56pm On Dec 25, 2020*. Modified: 12:00am On Jul 11, 2021 |
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Celebrities › Re: Nollywood Movie Producer, Chico Ejiro Is Dea by hstar: 12:46pm On Dec 25, 2020 |
bigpriik: Chico ejiro this name is so popular, though most of us don't know him facially.. Exactly When I was a kid, I would see produced and directed by Chico ejiro Sometimes, amaco ejiro But I've never seen them facially Later on, I mistaken dem for Zack orji This time was around 98 99 and year 2000 |
Christianity Etc › Re: Father Christmas Scares A Child As She Cries & Runs Away by hstar: 12:32pm On Dec 25, 2020 |
anochuko01: The girl's running posture be like that of Messi I noticed the running posture too She go sabi run |
Romance › Re: My Christmas Gift To Fellow Nairalnders by hstar: 10:09pm On Dec 24, 2020 |
Vinaluv: hmm ok bye Unquote me na, vina I mean modify or delete my number from your quote |
Romance › Re: My Christmas Gift To Fellow Nairalnders by hstar: 9:56pm On Dec 24, 2020 |
Vinaluv: hmm ok bye Modify the quote and remove my number please |
Romance › Re: My Christmas Gift To Fellow Nairalnders by hstar: 9:45pm On Dec 24, 2020 |
Vinaluv: sorry i can't but drop yours if you wish Flash me or SMS me I'll call you back |
Romance › Re: My Christmas Gift To Fellow Nairalnders by hstar: 9:40pm On Dec 24, 2020 |
Vinaluv: sorry i can't but drop yours if you wish Vina, where art thou? Where are you? |
Romance › Re: My Christmas Gift To Fellow Nairalnders by hstar: 9:35pm On Dec 24, 2020*. Modified: 9:58pm On Dec 24, 2020 |
Vinaluv: sorry i can't but drop yours if you wish Flash me or send SMS, I'll call you I'm taken d number down after ab seen ur flashing I look forward to your flashing or sms |
Romance › Re: My Christmas Gift To Fellow Nairalnders by hstar: 9:20pm On Dec 24, 2020 |
Vinaluv: Guy you forget say na small phone Vina, I'm waiting for u please |
Romance › Re: My Christmas Gift To Fellow Nairalnders by hstar: 9:17pm On Dec 24, 2020 |
Vinaluv: Guy you forget say na small phone Ok, let me av ur number and you'll quickly remove it |
Romance › Re: My Christmas Gift To Fellow Nairalnders by hstar: 9:03pm On Dec 24, 2020 |
Vinaluv: North And I would really appreciate it if we can become friends U on WhatsApp? |
Romance › Re: My Christmas Gift To Fellow Nairalnders by hstar: 9:00pm On Dec 24, 2020 |
Vinaluv: North Wow, that's fantastic So we can't become friends like this? |
Romance › Re: My Christmas Gift To Fellow Nairalnders by hstar: 8:47pm On Dec 24, 2020 |
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Romance › Re: My Christmas Gift To Fellow Nairalnders by hstar: 8:30pm On Dec 24, 2020*. Modified: 10:11pm On Dec 24, 2020 |
Vinaluv: I can't read my mail cause am using a small phone for now. . |
Food › Re: What Are You Cooking On Christmas Day? by hstar: 7:43pm On Dec 24, 2020*. Modified: 3:15pm On Dec 25, 2020 |
Nothing |
Family › Re: I Am Angry. My Wife Did Not Inform Me That Her Siblings Were Coming Over by hstar: 7:39pm On Dec 24, 2020 |
falcon01: leave your house, just disappear for 2 weeks switch off your phone they'll find you tire. Good advice Shebi she no get sense, sense go get am |
Family › Re: I Am Angry. My Wife Did Not Inform Me That Her Siblings Were Coming Over by hstar: 7:27pm On Dec 24, 2020 |
Klass99: You don't even need to be in a relationship or married to realize how wrong the OP's wife is, on so many levels.
The situation is so wrong in every way, I was shocked and awed at how anyone (wifey in this case) can be this clueless and insensitive.
I am too shocked I can't even articulate the thoughts running through my head right now. Like seriously, who does this?
It feels very disrespectful to me especially the part where she let the brother sleep in their bed, like common now!!! How old is this woman abeg?
@ OP/T817, let me tell you a true life story about my friend Alex (not real name). Alex travelled home to marry, when it was over and done with, him and his wife were to return together to his base.
On the day of their departure at the motor park, his wife's people bundled a relative of theirs to join them on the trip to their new home WITHOUT asking Alex if it was okay or informing him either.
It was at the park Alex first became aware of their plans, he firmly put his foot down and told his wife's elder sister and other relatives present (who accompanied them to the park) that there's no way that's going to happen.
There was a bit of drama where his in-laws started pleading with him and pressuring him to take that relative along. The wife was almost in tears as well because she could see Alex was not in a good mood about it.
The drama attracted other passengers who were paying attention to the exchange, but Alex was firm and refused to be coerced into what he didn't plan for.
This is the most important part of the story so pay attention - an elderly passenger in their vehicle (can't remember again if it was a man or woman) said to Alex, what you did was solid and completely right, because how you start your marriage, handle your in-laws and situations like these, will set the tone for the remainder of your married life.
You have started on a good note already by not bowing to their inappropriate plans and pressure, don't feel bad about it. Because, now they know that any plans they hatch without your knowledge or approval will not see the light of day.
It is not too late to readjust if you started on the wrong foot, if I were you two things will happen;
1. I will promptly inform my wife this is not a good time for me as money is tight, allow the in-laws stay till boxing day and dispatch them ASAP on the 27th. They don't need to be there till January
2. Let your wife know that this sort of thing can never happen again, without your endorsement. Are you not the one paying the bills in that house and the one who knows where it hurts? This thing sweet me No time for nonsense  |
Family › Re: I Am Angry. My Wife Did Not Inform Me That Her Siblings Were Coming Over by hstar: 7:16pm On Dec 24, 2020 |
DukeJoe17: T817 listen to this very carefully, Don't ever in your life again express your dissatisfaction towards a woman with words because it will makes you a weak and a nagging husband especially if talking things out had failed in subsequent approach. Just be yourself guy, Don't increase your budget beyond what you had planned to spend during this Yuletide, Allow your wife to feel the scourge of her insensitivity, Leave the house and go to your work so that you won't see the anguish on their faces. Since she is trying to make you uncomfortable kindly turn the table against her without any harsh argument, Action speaks loud. Your happiness should be Paramount because life is to short to waste and not even your wife should treat your life carelessly. Correct |
Family › Re: I Am Angry. My Wife Did Not Inform Me That Her Siblings Were Coming Over by hstar: 7:06pm On Dec 24, 2020 |
Skyfornia: Your wife is very insensitive...if I were you, I'll just drop small money that will be enough for her and my kids, then travel/leave the house without telling her...won't come back until her siblings leave. Best advice If I'm the one in his shoe I'll give her enough money that will be sufficient for her and my children, then leave the house unknowingly to her I would be back in January Nobody go borrow her sense |
Romance › Re: Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish: Dear Valenciabaddie I'm Not A Ritualist by hstar: 6:37pm On Dec 24, 2020 |
Ok |
Food › Re: Please Help How Can I Kill This Animal? by hstar: 5:20pm On Dec 24, 2020 |
Sammy07: Nothing really, but the chicken will be shaking it head, thereby making the blood to spray all over your body. Ok |
Food › Re: Please Help How Can I Kill This Animal? by hstar: 5:04pm On Dec 24, 2020 |
Sammy07: Hold it on the head.
Hold it tight and use your knife to do the needful.
Continue slicing the neck till it cut, don't let the blood stain you. Why? |
Nairaland General › Re: I Killed This Snake In My Bee Farm Today (Photos) by hstar: 4:57pm On Dec 24, 2020 |
Thank God |
Romance › Re: My Christmas Gift To Fellow Nairalnders by hstar: 4:46pm On Dec 24, 2020*. Modified: 10:10pm On Dec 24, 2020 |
Vinaluv: Bro walahi, me and you nah thesame level we dey, just that we wey get small make we manage so that others fit get this christmas. Vina, please Would like to be a friend |
Romance › Re: What Was Your First Impression About Your Partner? by hstar: 3:28pm On Dec 24, 2020 |
blackpanthar: Do you know the depths of levels being BAD has? She is as bad as BAD can be, even the devil is scared of her because she is a wild-child when she is FREE with you and a GOOD SAINTLY ANGEL in the presence of everyone else when she wants to make an impression.
She is so bad, if I dare list her badness, I would get BANNED for life from NL. 
She was my PAST-Present continuous tense.  This one pass me o |
Romance › Re: Can I Ever Fall In Love? I Am Confused by hstar: 3:09pm On Dec 24, 2020 |
Sorry bae |
Christianity Etc › Re: I Practised Christianity For 30 Years; Black Magic For 9 Years, But None Worked by hstar: 2:31pm On Dec 24, 2020 |
Sorry |
Travel › Re: My Sad And Funny Lagos Experience by hstar: 2:22pm On Dec 24, 2020 |
Wow |
Politics › Re: Nigeria And Niger Should Unite Into One Country by hstar: 1:05am On Dec 24, 2020 |
MyGeneration: The motive is for Nigeria to become more greater with territories spanning all d way from north Africa to central Africa to west Africa So dat ur new world order will come to pass abi? |
Politics › Re: Nigeria And Niger Should Unite Into One Country by hstar: 1:04am On Dec 24, 2020 |
Donspicey: Did they tell you they want to be called Nigerians
Or is it because Buhari is from Niger ?
Or are u looking for a country to add to Northern Nigeria population
Mr Man pls what is the motive behind this Motive behind it is New World Order That's the cursed guy's motive |
Politics › Re: Nigeria And Niger Should Unite Into One Country by hstar: 1:02am On Dec 24, 2020 |
olabolaji: Oloriburuku op why don't you merge the whole Africa while you are at it.
Werey dey disguise  U dey mind d cursed guy |
Celebrities › Re: Davido Shares Throw Back Photos That Will Make You Cry. by hstar: 12:42am On Dec 24, 2020 |
The toilet one Na him off me |