Ever since I was little, I have always thought that women need marriage more than men. That women feel pressured to remain in marriage more than men. Then I discovered nairaland everything changed. I noticed every time a woman expresses a desire not to get married or is happy to be free from a bad marriage a lot of guys start to vent and pour their frustrationson her and insult her why?

terrezo2002:

[s]Like I said if you do it God's way, you will have the right result and if you do it other ways you will also have a result. It doesn't matter whether you are a pastor or not. Marriage doesn't respond to the fact you are a Christian, but to the fact that you follow God's rules.

I don't a version of God. There is one God who created all things. He created males and females. He also made them to be fused together as one.[/s]

I'm sorry that didn't make any sense.

is Allah same as Yahweh?

is Amadioha same as panku/Zeus?

terrezo2002:

I know you are a humanist. [s]You deny the Creator that's why you always have problems[/s].
[s]Let me lecture you. Marriage was created by God and if you don't do it God's way, it will turn out to be abusive and stressful.[/s]

not all religions is against divorce. Christians have problems in their marriage too. stop yarning trash. chris oyakilome/okotie are not muslims. tonto dike is not an atheist. Marriage wasn't created by your version of god alone. it is a social institution with varying conditions according to the cultures/religion of the people involved.

mpowa:

But marriage don't have to be stressful and abusive, that's why you should do your homework before marriage.

But people lie, cheat and change. tommorrow is unknown. life is full of uncertainties.

terrezo2002:

[s]For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother and shall be joined to his wife and the two shall become one flesh. Marriage has a spiritual implication. If you know your marriage may not last, do not marry.
You may not understand it unless you experience it. And don't be deceived by those who claim to be happier after divorce.
Why I am bothered is because as God hates it I hate it also and I must do all it takes to fight divorce.
Stay blessed[/s]

we do not all suscribe to your religion you hear?

some people are actually happier after they leave stressful, abusive spouses.

terrezo2002:
Before you go into marriage, pray, ask God. Prepare spiritually, financially, emotionally and be matured. God's plan is not divorce for God hates when people separates.
Divorce doesn't make you more beautiful rather it makes you incomplete. You were joined to a person before and both of you became one so what happens when one splits into two. They become incomplete.
No joy in divorce, prayerfully work out your marriage. may God help us

why are you guys pained over another person's divorce? talmbout how is isn't complete nonsense

GAZZUZZ:


atheists are not welcome o!

Funny thing is I have tried this business in the past, and I was cheated by both muslim and christians.


The knowledge of good an bad, right and wrong is embedded in everyone, sadly a lot of individuals are shameless, and have no honour.

Returns from this kind of business is easy to squander, a married man will have better focus, and a target, he will also have an adviser (wife) who will constantly remind him of his obligations.

In case of default, he is easier to manage, unlike the single ones that will drop your key and hop on to the next train.

if have been cheated before regardless of religion why does your condition exclude people with no religion.

interesting

rex444:
You are just a big big ewu....i don't want to call u a fool ok? Your blood comes before any damn thing, u hear me well? Any damn thing. If ur girl is not comfortable that her husbands whom she is supposed to cook for when ur not around are staying with u,then she is not worth the fight for....use ur damn head

only an Igbo man would say this

Ugosample:


Women have been having kids for centuries so..........

and have been dying in child birth for centuries. with higher cases of "ogbange/abiku"

cstr1000:
I thought that Love is the most important?

who told you that?

Auki:
These are all Christian dominated countries, materially rich but
morally bankrupt. With time, Nigerian Christians will follow suit.

Watch carefully.

I would rather live in Sweden than Nigeria. the crime rate is much lower, better quality of life and higher life expectancy and gender equality and marriage equality.

and there is no Islamic terrorism

If th st is immoral to you then I guess your definition of morality is different.

see his head like Ebuka's own. fine bride to be, average groom to be

KreativGenius:


SO much tension tonight

so much foolishness tonight

KreativGenius:



Been reading up on sexybbstar's comments. She's someone i admire for her beliefs. So please leave her alone oh...

dude fucķ off my mention. go check the meaning of bullying in the dictionary. I'm not holding her.

KreativGenius:



i disagree why bulying sexxybbstar ? so unfair, she has a right to her beliefs

I'm not bullying her. I'm actually praising her . she is not among the misguided feminists na

leave them alone go marry the submissive ones na.the ones that belong to the kitchen and other room. e. g sexybbstar

egoldman:


I am not trying to say that it matters , but for the sake of your kind of reason i will point this out ,most of the Chibok girls are Christians .

whether christians or muslims chibok is scam, why is nobody talking about the poor police women and unimaid lecturers? yet they unleashed mayhem on IPOB.

I'm just a nobody on the internet. the people that can do something are busy campaigning for 2019 elections. while these ones are shedding crocodile tears

nice one

Wetin concern me. make them keep kidnapping their abokì wives and children na, since they more interested in IPOB. if them like make them cry full bucket.

Toks2008:


What I hate is when a man who chooses to cheat does so with impunity...in fact such a guy is insane.

Your wife deserves your respect and that you chose to cheat on her is bad enough but doing it to her face is totally insane...give her the respect and go farrrrrrr farrrrrrr away and ensure you use a protection IF YOU MUST PHILANDER.

This sounds as if I'm supporting infidelity but I'm not..just asking those who have chosen the hell bound path to at least respect their wives.

do you consider it respect when your wife goes for a conference in another State and cheats a least she is doing it far far away from you..?

Origin:



The trend on nairaland is atheists disrupt Christian threads and Christians disrupt Muslim threads.


Muslims know what the bible say: It's one of the books we believe in....... Muslims would rather challenge your tenets based on what the books say..... (e.g if Jesus prayed to God, how can Jesus be God)


But head on insults and hate speech...... We get that from the Atheists and Christians. ( e.g a man shows of his Muslim family- comments include terrorist, na so them they kill, for night them go de bomb).


I mean...............just help yourself to the many threads that show this sickening comments.






Modified: How did you get to the conclusion the killer was an atheist 26 people killed and no topic appeared. Killer's religion are rarely mentioned when they are Christian.

you Muslims like to play victim a lot. meanwhile in Muslim majority countries there are no minority rights.

The attacker is an atheist.

https://www.nairaland.com/4159848/breaking-texas-gunman-shot-26#62119945

as for the rest of your posts you have a point. Christians tend to criticise Muslims online more than Muslims criticize Christian

Medicineguy:

Whether you like it or not, financial success gives you a wider room to make choices when it comes to women. That's the same reason why a broke guy always begs his girlfriend not to leave him...because his choices are highly limited. No woman is perfect. In Nigeria, money gives you the opportunity to get closer to your choice woman.
[color=#000099][/color] So true

That is the fact, but getting your choice doesn't mean it is true love on the woman's side. There is nothing like love.

when you broke stay in your class, you will get broke ass true love.

when you rich stay within your class you will get rich true love.

the problem is when you are a bloke who is as broke as Bleep and expect $2000 Brazilian hair wearing ho to fall in love you or a broke ass bìtch expecting Dangote's son to fall in love with her then know you don miss road.

Origin:
@ OP great points raised.



But you have to consider so many different aspects.

Go to every Islamic topics and see the level of insults and lies been hurled about (by whom And why?)

Muslims do the same. they create anti Christian threads too.

Why is a crime committed by a Muslim tagged a religious or terrorist act.

terrorism is A form of psychological manipulation through warfare to the purpose of political or religious gains, by means of deliberately creating a climate of fear amongst the inhabitants of a specific geographical region.

so tell me how what the likes of shekau do is not terrorism. note it is different from a Muslim commites crime because of other reasons apart from religion.

While a Christian crime or fight is never labelled. ( latest case of a US church shooting by a Christian- its not even on nairaland)

there are Christian terrorists too. mind you the person who carried out the church massacre is not a Christian. he is atheist.

I keep reading of people been forced to Islam or paid, they say this without proof and yet these are taken as the salient truth. They say Muslims fight without provocation (like the proverbial child who cries that he has been beaten and when asked why he was beaten, replies that he did nothing)

well there is ese oruru case and the latest 25 teenagers discovered in emir palace in Abuja

It is ironic how you have a debate on tithes which Muslims are quite conversant about and yet are allowed to have your debate in relative PEACE.

non Christians criticized pastors too during the debates

Can muslims be assured of that same relative PEACE when they have their debate or will they have to be on guard on every corner from WHO

ideas can be criticized and that includes your religion. Christians, Catholics get bashed from left to right what makes your religion special?

I invite you to read comments on Muslim topics here on nairaland and see the level of HATE been directed at them. That will tell you who is not letting who have peace in real life.

you can ad well check Christian topics too you will see the same hate

I support #freethesheeple for both Christians and Muslims as we both have been ignorant too long of what our books truly say.

I agree. all ideas including your religious or philosophical ideas are open to criticism.



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you guys should stop giving stůpid people attention. he should have been ignored.

the dumbo reported my comment

dumb aśs bìtch. btw is your fiance a virgin?


modified

If you value that man and your marriage better carry that secret to your grave. there is no way he is going to find out. forget all these people telling you to tell him.

But if you are a dumb bitch tell him.
you already showed your stupidity already by lying then worsened the situation by pretending to be inexperienced during your first intimate moment. borrow yaself some sense.

majekdom2:
All these threads against one gender is uncalled for really. A sane guy knows which type of lady to engage, a sane woman knows which kind of man to keep as a man. Pls stop all these gender ish. It's childish

I know what is causing all these it is Buhari 's economy guys are broke babes are desperate so they come to nairaland to vent their frustration especially the guys because the chances of finding a babe to date in their broke state is slim. so blame buhari .

immaq8:
IS THIS MEN EMPOWERMENT?

this sh8t is funny