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Available247:
Sometimes it can be difficult for humans to understand non-biological things. i've witnessed a ghost multiple times. Not everyone has that sight or spirit to see a ghost. Meanwhile i'm not a smoker. There are things in this world bigger than science humans will never apprehend.

Don't waste your precious time.

Kenplay:
I almost cry after reading this.
JJz
I almost cried after reading this.
Just free your heart from the guilt and treat the next person better.

Bro, I nor go lie you, tears gather for my eyes as I dey read am. Many people have no idea what they're losing/have lost because they failed to look beyond what their bare eyes can see.

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Isoright! Most people are guilty of this...Including me
Gone are those days in school.. Uniben..after banging a girl from electrical engineering department.. just wanted to bang and move on but unfortunately for her she was madly in love with me....she was very intelligent but stupid me put beauty first before brain...
I still regret it up till this moment...
I still wonder why I gave her such disdainful treatment those days....I treated her like she was a nobody simply because she has no facial beauty and no coke bottle shape...
She will sacrifice her time, money and books just to be around me but instead of me to reciprocate. I Will ignore her..
Still she didn't give up... constant calling.. checking on me if am fine! non stop begging me with tears..Buying gifts for me always
She was doing all these because herself esteem is low due to her unattractive body! And stupid me continue to take advantage knowing well that guys don't toast her alot... until one day she decided to walk away with tears....

Please! Blessing! Anywhere you are right now. Just forgive me.....and forget those treatment......i apologize...
I just pray i see her again in life...so i can apologize..
Mehnnnnn.... school days ehnnn....we niggarrrs can be so childish and sophomoric in our sense of reasoning... every one should be treated with respect and show them love whether they are beautiful or not

This is very touching. Looks are highly deceptive.

ennyhola:
We shouldn’t pick up issues out of nothing.

I am sure there are other pictures where the governor was welcoming Trikky!

You are a thinking man.

askings:
She didn't tell me she spending a week until after wedding

She didn't have to. You should have discussed this with her beforehand since it was so obvious her workplace isn't close to your home. It's either you get her another job or you find a way to sort out the transportation issues, with the latter highly unlikely. This is a serious matter.

Wahala!

Both of you should have talked about this before tying the knot na. How can this be? Was there some sort of unusual occurrence that led to the marriage? This is just too shocking to believe.

mezico96:
They are all real ma'am and i wish i could give more details about my life and how it affect me within that period. Though i as stated in my first post about my encounter, i know it will be difficult cos of the doubting thomas,people who suffer from ignorance.

some say its a movie or a fiction...bla bla bla which make me sometimes wish they see a little of what i saw. It is not a good experience and i don't wish that for anybody, if you don't believe am okay with it but pls don't call me a liar cos it hurts.

Lol bro I think you misunderstood the lady. Her text wasn't referring to your story. She was referring to that picture used by the person she quoted. It's from a storybook, I also wanted to ask him to remind me of the title until I saw a reply to her post.

Zzor:
I used mostly because unknown to many ladies, that's where they get the odours from,just few got it from hygiene problems.Take it from me

Lol I can't take that from you, it's not a fact. Like I said, it results from a wide range of factors, meaning that bad hygiene is just one of them just as interaction with semen is.

You are right, but I don't think "mostly" should be the right choice of word here, given that there's a wide range of causes which do not result from sexual intercourse.

mezico96:
Then...
though everything is still fresh and I can still visualize everything I saw

Okay bro! I wish you could continue narrating but since you're still sensitive to it, you can take your time until you're ready.

mezico96:
Bros that will be some other time...I'm really scared typing this... maybe tomorrow or so

Lol scared of what exactly? Are you still being haunted?

MhisTahrah:
Amen to your prayer, thank you.
How can I get the book?

If you're a fan of ebooks, you can simply download the PDF online or you can just get it from playstore.

Yeah me too, I was just banned and unbanned twice for an inoffensive comment in this section.

MhisTahrah:
What's the point of existence in the first place?I like to think that while difficult situations may be similar, they are unique to the person(s) experiencing them.
All your optimistic quotes are only applicable certain situations like in financial difficulties.Pray to never experience things that can break one's will to live.You're being narrow-minded here, let's consider rape and bullying, these are things that can destroy one from the inside. I am not sure I'm being coherent, this is a sensitive topic for me.

I sincerely sympathize with you for whatever you have experienced that made this a sensitive topic for you. I pray you have the strength to fight the battles that it has stirred up.

I implore you not to treat those "optimistic quotes" faintly, it will achieve a lot. Believe me! It all starts in your mind. It's extremely sad to not have the will to live or even fight to, because your willpower is the core of your mind. I can't do anything for you to have that will but trust me, you need to. That's the first step of your journey to freedom.

I am struggling, you are struggling, we are all struggling. It doesn't matter the uniqueness of the struggle, please stay positive and you'll never regret not giving up.

Please I insist that you read the book I suggested, it's a powerful one.

MhisTahrah:
You're projecting your feelings on others.You believe there's a reason for every struggle so others must automatically believe so too.Why should we struggle in the first place?And aren't we all going to die?No matter how much hope you've got or the multitude of reasons for life struggles, the surest thing is death. In fact, committing suicide is dying on one's own terms.

For every struggle you have, there's always a first person to have experienced it. What if everyone commits suicide for each struggle they go through? That defeats the whole point of existence in the first place. You seem like someone who's on the brink of giving up and you're looking for a justification for that. It doesn't work that way ma'am. People wey dey survive difficult situations nor get two heads.

More important than coming out of difficult situations are the lessons you take with you. Instead of being an object of pity, you should rather opt for being an inspiration to others.

Unfortunately, we're in a messed up world that we can't fix. We can only do our best according to our abilities. We can't change what is, we can only determine how we respond and yes, everyone must believe there's a reason for every struggle.

I'll leave you with these words and a tip:
Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react ~ Charles Swindoll.

You can read the book "As A Man Thinketh" by James Allen.

MhisTahrah:
Truth is you cannot use your own experience to judge others. Not everyone is as emotionally strong. Besides situation differs, until you have worn the shoes, you cannot know where it pinches.

I didn't use my experience to judge others, I only responded to your opinion about me not facing any difficult situation to the point of contemplating suicide. Besides, how do you know if I've gone through worse situations than those who have committed/contemplated suicide or not? Being emotionally strong is not an innate ability, it happens consciously either from personal experience or just learning from other people's stories.

I'm not the strongest emotionally, but I'm hanging in there because I know there's always a reason for every struggle. That gives me hope. If there wasn't and the ultimate goal of my struggles is for me to end my own life, then why didn't I just die by accident or something? It doesn't make sense.

Alexaonfleek:


The biggest lie that I'm telling y'all is that I've never told a lie.

You already said it as the truth, so how can it be a lie?

Hahahaha! That Pakistani guy nailed it.

mezico96:
The truth is that am facing some challenges,I'll post it once i'm chance and have the means, i'll surely do that this week.

I'm looking forward to it. Please tag me when you do!

MhisTahrah:
Its easy to say this when you've never been in a kind of situation that makes death more attractive than living. It takes deep courage to willingly take your own life.

Lol you talk as if you know me. You have no idea what I've been through, or what I'm going through.

Xixtie:
So because he played for Barca and PSG then he is tormenting English teams?
That opportunist doesn't stand any chance against any EPL team same with his club.
Mention me after 90 minutes.

Bros 2-0. Should I still mention you after 90 minutes?

Xixtie:
So because he played for Barca and PSG then he is tormenting English teams?
That opportunist doesn't stand any chance against any EPL team same with his club.
Mention me after 90 minutes.

I should mention you after 90 minutes? You think say these ones be Leipzig wey their defence dey leak?

Xixtie:
So because he played for Barca and PSG then he is tormenting English teams?
That opportunist doesn't stand any chance against any EPL team same with his club.
Mention me after 90 minutes.

Do you have assimilation issues or sth?

Xixtie:
You people just like typing rubish. Demba tormenting English clubs?

You're aware that he played for Newcastle and Chelsea respectively, right?

ElasticStone:
Why the fvck did she not tell me she had a kid first? If she could keep such secrets from me for months, heaven knows what other skeletons she might have in her cupboard. Honestly I am furious and this will reflect in the way I will drill the useful life out of her puna. I am sooo looking forward to next week rn.

See this one. Dey there dey zuor yourself! Even if you end up hatching your plans, you think that will ruin her life? It will make you feel better but only temporarily. On the long run, you'll end up falling in the pit you're planning to dig for someone else.

The hatred and bitterness will only grow deep in you while she recovers and gets a better life. You can't blame her or anyone for who you eventually become, it's not them, it's your heart. You better don't do something you'll end up regretting, na that time e go clear for your eye. Me don talk my own finish.

TheCork:

SO becus babe decieded to ignore yor call....U calm she a ghost becus she varnish in yor bed room...correct? ..U really think u can pull chicks with Ghost story all becuz u need punnnny?? .. Try another lie son!!!!
even ordanary Nmezor or ordnary dorin27 or ordnary Victorian or ordnary Virginprincess or ordnary BKsoul or worst of all, Sweetcunt97...or even Halfcast Shortyy will never fall for yor 1962 chatup line trick.. Try harder bro! (no ofeinse)

Read your post and read his, and tell me again who should abstain from drugs.

Kalatium:
Its because of the halo effect. Its natural people will always judge a book by its cover thus we will always assume unattractive people are bad or unproductive and attractive people Are good, kind etc until proven otherwise.

That's really messed up. Though it's natural, I believe it's a flaw -- the halo effect.

MhisTahrah:
I can't take my own life because I'm scared of dying via suicide.It takes courage to willingly step into the unknown (death).

Every difficult situation is a challenge. You either fight or give up. Fighting in the midst of uncertainties takes courage. Death is scary and that's a natural instinct, the very fact that one thinks of escaping life's challenges through suicide is cowardice. Bravery/courage can only be associated with death when it is sacrificial, not through suicide propelled by life's challenges.

MhisTahrah:
If I had a tiny shred of courage, I'd have committed suicide a long time ago.I'm a coward so I'll carry on living each day as it comes.

I still don't understand the correlation between committing suicide and courage. You just said it yourself, you'll carry on living each day as it comes. Now doesn't that depict courage?

How does not taking your own life because of difficult times depict cowardice? You people are actually getting it twisted. It's absolute cowardice to take your own life, while it takes courage to stay alive when things are bad.

UndauntedYOCA:
I'm concerned about that South African lady, Zulu something. it's been long she commented!

You mean XhosaNostra?

Tribalism will do no good to a nation. Just look at the people on this thread. To congratulate person don turn tribal war. What has tribalism got to do with intelligence? Na we dey do ourselves for this country.

Bbbwings:
Shut the Bleep up
It is hard being happy in this country. She was happy for once in her life and you are here insinuating how dare she talks about it.

What exactly is the point showing it to the world?