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Jonathan39:
I am from Anambra state. This nonsense is not necessary, we have poor people even in America not to talk of all part of Nigeria. We Igbos are industrious but let's take It easy with our ego. It does more harm than good to us. What happens to being humble?

lol, being humble in Nigeria will only send u into extinction, so you must be loud like the lion. The lion roars always to scare enemies and intruders away.


Quiet middle belt and some northern tribes are going into extinction if you don't know

The river will always find its routes. ....if you look at the Adelekes and their success, you will know there is an Igbo gene running in them, no wonder Davido went back to a Igbo land to give his son a solid footing.


All the great families in Nigeria have a root in Igbo land, from Obasanjo to Atiku to IBB, to Fani Kayodes to Aliko Dangote, to Akeredolus, to Peter Odili to foolish Wike.......all of them have a root in Igbo land just as most great white men have their root in the Jewish nation, but the miscreants continue to hate on the blessed tribe of Igbo for no reason, instead of humbly befriending an Igbo guy or lady to connect to the greatness, una go hate tire sha, but we move

Savagethe21st:
but if trump opened door to immigrants from war torn arab countries the would introduce terrorism

nobody is talking about allowing those ungrateful terrorist loving Muslim countries.


We are talking about hardworking immigrants from Mexico, Puerto Rico, Southern Nigeria, etc, sincerely searching for better opportunity to improve their lives, not terrorists from Afghanistan, Syria, Yemen, Pakistan, Libya, Algeria, Northern Nigeria, etc

The funny thing is, SARS was created to combat armed robbers, kidnappers, ritualists and cultists. But I can bold tell you that SARS hardly catch armed robbers and kidnappers and cultists, they even collaborate with them to carry out high level robbery and kidnapping.


The only people SARS arrest, detain, extort and kill are innocent people who don't have arms to fight them or defend themselves. They hardly go after real armed robbers and kidnappers they were created to fight.


Another set of people they go after are young Yahoo boys, and if they refuse to settle them with big enough money, they kill them, which is not their jurisdiction.


All SARS officers ought to be arrested and detained, they are all demons, they are the number one cultists, voodoo worshippers. The level of jazz they carry is the reason they are always thirsty for blood

Nigerian would have been the most amazing country with happy people if not the old fools called political leaders



Op, you deserve award for this humor, you made me laugh out loud

Mikehot:
immigration indeed yet trump won Texas the state that boarders Mexico.

His immigration policy worked, his economy policy worked.

What failed him was his foreign policy not the conservative angle but his pulling USA out of everything, insulting USA allies and their leaders.

His internal unrest in his everyday adminstration causing chaos e.g how he addresses press, how he alienates his base more, how he uses twitter 24/7, black lives matter, his nonchalant attitude to address pressing issue live covid19, how he ordered no mail in vote from his base, there is always one thing that would strike a nerve from different voters.

Yes, you raised vital points too

Joe Biden should note that what destroyed Trump was not his clamp down on Muslim Terrorist in Middle-East and Africa, not any of his internal policies, what then destroyed Trump you may ask It was his inhumane immigration policies that shut American doors to vulnerable people from poor countries...his harsh immigration policy that made so many minors and babies to die at immigration camps near US borders with Mexico...God don't joke with children because their soul is the holy spirit, pure like diamond You cannot love God and hate children! God is kind, God is loving, God is love. If you love God and want God to fight for you in time of distress, you must learn to show compassion, empathy and kindness towards children, the poor, and the vulnerable no matter what.




Almost every Amercan citizen today are immigrants, they migrated from one country or another out of poverty, civil war crises, dying economy, hunger, political turmoil, etc, so why would Trump whose great grandparents were also immigrants, whose wife is also an immigrant decide to shut American doors against the poor and vulnerable Is he not aware that those poor people from poor countries like Nigeria, India, Mexico, etc are the people that built the America he is enjoying today through provision of cheap labors


Biden if you like when you become the next US President, follow Satan Obama's footsteps and empower Muslim terrorists to overrun the world again, also force African nations to pass LGBT into law, the way sickness will deal with you eh, Buhari's case will be a childsplay

No cause for alarm, all women are guilty of this, even the ones who met each other years or months before the marriage are all guilty, most ladies usually marry for comfort and security, not really for companionship.

They are not fighting for the man, they are fighting for financial empowerment, survival, poverty eradication and future security.


You all must get the fact clear, women don't fight because of a man, they fight because of the security and comfort (money) the man have to offer...take away the man's money and they will be mocking him, and asking him don't you know your level

Freestainworld:
men this babe no reach at all, the other girls are far better than her.

because they rigged Igbo girl out. If na Igbo girl rep Nigeria, you for see beauty na











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GavelSlam:
They should also make sure all Ipob affiliates are banned from getting into the country.

You don't need to tell the world who to shut their door against and who is a terrorist.


All you need to do for the world to recognise you as a terrorist is to bear a Muslim name, keep your beard bushy, wear one Jalamiya or Sultan and shout: "Allahu akbar" and watch how every race around you will flee


What you Muslims should be asking yourselves always is; why always Islam

If Biden wins the election, his greatest mistake will be opening doors for Arab Muslims and North-African Muslims to come into America like Europe did for them during the Arab Spring and Syrian war.

Biden should go and ask France, Germany, Austria, etc how far with Arab Muslims they let into their countries......they will turn America to Yemen and Afghanistan where suicide bombers throw bombs around the streets like Christmas carol lights

Women can be so wicked to fellow women sha. Women should just pray women should not take over the headship of this world as some of the overzealous ones amongst them are clamoring for because if it happens, women themselves are in big trouble with each other

lefulefu:
i dont understand why some girls like to put themselves into any form of indignity .if u dont fancy a guy then stop collecting tfare and trying to form sharp.ur respect should be uppermost to u.

Ibadan and Iijebu girls will not hear this your advice oh, na only beaten them de understand

Lol

BlueAir:
u mean this hook up of "pretty boy"? By a slaymama?

You have sense......such a superficial date abi relationship have no future than in the oza room.

"pretty boy" and "miss adorable" = doomsday

*fan (Dino Malaye) not fans bought her a Benz, fixed

SimplyFacts:
From my observation, marriage is likely to go extinct soon. I think the practice of feminism is making almost all the ladies of this generation think men are too harsh on them. A quite percentage of them are just too lazy. Thanks to the new-generation-mothers

As if your case is not enough,,,

A wedding slated to hold on Dec.19 is dissolved this week because the lady began to behave weirdly, claimed she has no interest again,,, giving flimsy excuses. We got to know that she just met a rich man (married) who promised to get her a befitting apartment if she could get pregnant for him. Some issues came up & her friend had to divulge all the secrets in retaliation for her betrayal, too. While the groom-to-be still finds it so hard to believe/sleep, she is busy littering her WhatsApp stats with the caption ***we move***.

OP, I hope you get over it ASAP. I'm used to saying one thing; I definitely can't be sad over someone that's happy somewhere. Do you really think she's worth sacrificing your happiness

Life goes on

Guys get rich or die crying for modern Nigerian ladies


What motivates the modern Nigerian single lady into dreaming and praying to find a husband is the promise of luxury and comfort without stress (free luxury apartment, car (s), plenty house helps to serve her while she upload pictures on instagram and Facebook to taunt her single friends, free meals, etc).....once a modern Nigerian woman cannot see or perceive or foresee this comfort from a man she is dating or courting, getting married becomes boring for her and she starts to act up and give flimsy excuses why marriage is not worth it and why marriage is not for everyone.


But let the same lady meet a guy that shows or promises her that excess comfort without stress, she will be the one pressuring him for marriage and even going spiritual about making sure he gets married to her.


Marriage to modern Nigerian women is about comfort without stress, not for building a home together like the previous generation Nigerian women believed.


Once you understand this as a modern Nigerian man, you will never have issue or heartbreak or surprises from any modern lady of today.


There are still some Nigerian ladies who want to build with their future hubby, but they are very few and those type are not usually social media freaks, they are very reserved and family oriented, they keep no or few reasonable friends.


But the wild modern ladies keep a harem of friends they compete with on who flaunts luxury life most, who has the most engaging social media account, who shows off the most luxury life....their personality do sell them off to men of integrity. They are mostly good as babymamas, second or 3rd wives, concubines and flings to successful men, all you young men should leave such ladies for people like

Even if Bidden win, the greatest mistake he would make is opening their immigration doors to Middle East Muslims drumming unnecessary sport for him. Let him go and ask Europe that opened their door for them how far. It's been one deadly terror attack to another.

The Northern political oligarchs have a very deadly agenda against the people of Southern Nigeria. They want to conquer the south politically, economically, militarily, psychologically and numerically.


Do you know that foreign imported rice is sold for less than 20,000naira in Kano and other far Northern states because Nigeria's borders in the north are all open and free for movement of all kinds of goods(rice, frozen foods, tomatoes, etc) and humans, but the same Buhari led government closed Southern border between Nigeria and Benin and the rest of West Africa to stop inflow and outflow of goods and services that make food and things affordable in the Southern states.


The same Buhari led government is clamping down seriously on Nigerian forex market to shutdown importation that is the stronghold of Southern economy aside crude oil. To send $1000 out of Nigeria now is like trekking from Africa to USA for Southern Nigerians but very easy for Northern BDC guys.


Now they are freezing accounts of all the #Endsars protest organizers who are mostly Southern youth activists and influencers.


Aliko Dangote is in support of their closing the Southern borders because it favors his numerous FMCGs companies.


Dear Yorubas, you guys are the only ones giving these guys up North the guts to be riding a well exposed and smart Southern Nigerians like donkey. But if you guys don't wake up fully now, by the time these guys are done with their Northern agenda, it will be too late to even cry

Restructure Nigeria or divide the goddamn country so every region define what religion their region want.


Hausa-Fulani guys love fight.....they like picking up knife at slightest provocation and they are not that strong when real fight breaks out.


Let it be known to all that Igbos are one of the fearless and bravest tribes in Nigeria!


Lanky Hausa-Fulani boy who doesn't have muscle due to too much kunu and fura will be thinking he can face a well built and overfed Igbo boy......just because one Mallam in Borno mixed one useless concoction he calls jazz abi juju for him that makes him feel he is untouchable, I laugh at you guys......go and ask, Igbos have their own potent African jazz, its Christianity that's making Igbos to let go of all those things.....go and ask about powerful shrines in Igbo land that prevented Nigerian federal troops from entering their communities during the civil war in 1967.......guns refused to function......made soldiers powerless......these Northern guys know that Igbos are ready to deal with their fuckup any day, any time but we preach peace does not mean we don't have craze in our heads.


Just few IPOB boys without any gun overpowered a batallion of Nigerian armed soldiers and Police plus Hausa-Fulani hoodlums to the extent they had to start calling Abuja, Abuja calling Wike, Wike calling all barracks in Rivers State to please hurry and save them from few unarmed IPOB boys, so imagine if there is full war......Boko Haram is just a childsplay, a single tribe that challenged the rest of Nigerian tribes and held them in a fierce, deadly civil war for 3 years should not be ruled out......imagine if one tribe in Nigeria face Igbos, if one rat in that tribe live to tell the story, then call me bastard


All the things the Bishop said in the video are facts!


I will keep saying it everyday, it is Yorubas and some cowardly tribes in the South that's making these troublesome people up north to be taking Southern Nigerians for a fool

cutieBR:
What an excellent piece.. learnt alot from it.

Davash222:
Slim girl with protruded stomach

HerRoyalFlyness:
So in other words, any Tom, Dick and Harry that comes for her now, she should accept him with open arms and try to change him later. Even if he is a street tout or a drug dealer, It doesn't matter right? She should accept him just so she can answer Mrs. somebody.

You guys should calm down. I don't think there's anything wrong with having a spec or someone you're attracted to whether physically, mentally, intellectually, emotionally, whatever, name it. This thing is marriage we are talking about. What if you are unable to turn the person to your spec years into the marriage? You'd start talking of divorce? What's the point getting married only to get fed up and depressed few years later?

It's okay to have specs please. What's important is having REALISTICS specs. But I don't advice any woman or man to date or marry someone they are not attracted to in any form.

We might not necessarily have EVERYTHING we want in a spouse in one human being because nobody is perfect. But we must pick those very important qualities that we cannot do without and that still means having a spec. If you don't find the important qualities you want, please don't manage the person or settle for less all so that you can be married. You'd end up hurting yourself and the person in the long run.

Listen, whenever a single lady is talking about spec this, my spec that.....it is mostly superficial and fantasy-based qualities that are not worthy. I am not just typing this for typing sake. If I may brag small to drive my point home.......I have met so many women of all class.....most single ladies overrate themselves when it comes to physical looks.


Many guys maybe flooding around you for flings, date, one night stand, FWBs, hookups, etc.....that doesn't mean you are truly a hot chick with charming personality most men want in a life partner....men are weird when it comes to picking a wife. The qualities they seek for in a fling or hookup or casual date is not the same with what they desire in a life partner....and this is where most ladies get it all wrong and miss out.


You as a single lady maybe thinking; I am beautiful, I am sexy, I have money, I earn big income, I live in my own house, I drive my own car, I have masters degree, yet men aren't coming to me for marriage, it seems someone cursed me or I am possessed, you are not sister!!


All over the world, it is the same. I laugh at people who think ladies find it easier getting married abroad than in Nigeria....Nigeria is even easier for smart ladies to find a hubby than abroad......so many white ladies are lonely and emotionally depressed due to no serious man in their life which is why Nigerian internet romance scammers keep cashing out big......they take advantage of that situation of loneliness among western women.


The problem is, until a lady start to think like a man or understand how men reason when it comes to picking a life partner, such a lady may find it very difficult finding a deserving life partner.


Most single ladies are the cause of their long singlehood......let me share a story with you.


A very close friend of mine shared a story with me last week....this guy is completely single, in fact, any lady that meets him now is lucky because he is mentally, emotionally, spiritually and financially prepared and just looking for that one lady to be with. The only thing is, he has been single for too long because he is this kind of perfectionist type of a guy.....maybe too much book made him that way,maybe. If he was a lady, he may never get married, but lucky for him, he is a man, so he will get away with it because it is the man that decides when and whom to marry at the end.


So this guy told me while he was driving to a pharmacy to get an over the counter drugs, he saw a beautiful lady walking on the street.....he drove past her and parked, and respectfully came down and helloed her, luckily she replied, they talked for a few minutes the lady said she was in a hurry, and that she just want to get a taxi at the junction because uber drivers she has been ordering kept refusing to come to her location.....my friend said he offered to take her to wherever she was going that he's free, she declined that he should not worry.....he said okay and asked for her phone number, she refused, and said maybe next time, he told her that next time may never happen.....she said then that's not destined to be....he said okay......he said as he tried to step back into his car, something told him to try again, he said he called out the lady, she turned, he walked towards her and pleaded that let me have your number, its not a crime....if I call you aren't cool with picking, or talking at that moment, I will respect that and maybe not call again, so she gave him the number and with strict instruction:


Please don't bug me with calls, I hate it!!


My friend said he felt so belittled, he just collected the number, and wiped it off the moment he stepped out.


Its an insult to a young man of that pedigree....and why would a single lady give such useless instruction to an admirer


I don't care her previous experiences with other guys.....you must treat every guy you meet as a different person, not judging him with your useless experiences or encounter with some dumb guys when he hasn't even done anything of such or anything wrong.


I no longer pity single ladies searching.......most are the architect of their own problems.....even the ones that end up with foolish men as husbands, they are to be blamed.....you don't pity a company that screen out good, qualified applicants and hired the most foolish applicant....same way, you don't blame a bad employee for being a bad employee to his employer, you blame the employer who saw better candidates' application and stupidly hired the useless employee......ladies are the employer who screen guys and accept the one they feel deserves their attention, so whatever they get, they should swallow it and take it as their mistake!



If you use your number 6 and not your eyes, fantasies and greed to make choice of a partner, you will never end up with the wrong partner in life.

Let Trump win first, by then, we will ask the lifeless one about the youths he killed at Lekki toll gate. After that, foolish Wike will start warming up to join Laurent Gbagbo and co at Hague






Let them pray harder for Bidden to overturn the situation, if not......Buhari is going

All terrorists in the world are in pains as we speak....someone should check our Aso Rock villa if the head of West African terrorist association is still alive or if he has drank snipper already



Me I am here with Taliban terrorist leader here in Islamabad and the man's condition is not looking good as he may give up the ghost once Trump is announced winner



Someone should also check Shekau in Sambisa and report back to us


I am Musa reporting live from Islamabad....over to you Ahmed

Liposure:
God will answer your prayers

stop deceiving her. God cannot be mocked. How can she look down on people God carefully created and classify them as not her spec, who is she Let her drop her picture so we can judge her and see.


Single ladies must understand one sad truth about life; only a man have the absolute right to decide when to marry and who to marry. A woman can only decide who to date, who to fvck and when to fvck, but she cannot decide who to marry and when to marry, that right is reserved for men only in this world we are.


She want her spec of a man, have she asked herself if her spec want a lady like her


In her own mind, just like every lady of today, she is hotter than Kim Kardashian but to her spec or the kind of man she wants, she maybe ugly and classless.


I want my spec, do you know if your spec also want someone like you


Having enough money help mostly men to become the taste of many ladies but having money as a lady does not boost your desiribility to men, it rather reduces it, unless to broke guys looking for female rescue as wife.


Most ladies over rate themselves beauty wise...because a lot of fvck boys toast them online and offline calling them fine girl, fine girl, they start to overrate themselves and their head start to swell, which most time bring later regrets to their life if not dropped on time.


She cannot rate her true beauty herself, only her so called spec of men can rate her beauty and personality, if she matches what they need as a wife.


Prayer without work is a waste of time.

She must first apologise to her God for looking down on some men for reasons best known to her before she can find her worthy partner.

Anyiiii:
We are in the month of November. I'm still not married. A close female friend of mine will be getting married in December. Two of my close friends got married this year too. I'm feeling depressed right now. Nothing interests me. My decoder is subscribed and I can't watch TV. I have food but I'm not hungry. I have money but I'm not happy. Who says money is happiness? Some men are coming my way but they are not my spec. I'm very beautiful and look so younger than my age. So stop imagining the looks of an old Lady. Why can't I find the man of my dreams? Please you people should pray for me. Is there any good luck herb that you can recommend for me to get my husband? Thanks

"they are not my spec" is your number 1 problem.



Yes I know people talk about spec in a would be spouse, but let me tell you, that your spec now will turn out to be your nightmare in future if you end up having it, so why not transform your not your spec to your spec and have peace of mind

Ike was BBNaija's Mercy's spec and superman some years ago, but today he has turned to her nightmare.


Maje Ayida was Toke Makinwa's dream man and spec fee years ago, not long ago he turned out to be the number one man she hates with passion. I can go on and on.....


Men are wiser than ladies when it comes to picking a life partner called wife, how


Men during dating and fooling around with girls in the name of dating and flings go after ladies of their spec physically; bouncing buttocks, standing boobs, flat tummy, that straight full legs, jamming thighs and maybe bambi eyes....but guys understand that those are foolish qualities when they are truly ready to settle down.


They become realistic with what they need in a wife. I am talking about men of integrity with sense not the boyoyos.


They go for inner beauty of a lady; a virtues lady with sweet heart and charming personality, her tummy might not be as flat as the tummies of the bimbo ladies he dated and drove around town showing off to the world that he has a hot chick with banging body....the lady he may end up with may not have the biggest bouncing buttocks like that Anita and Rosita and Chioma and Bukky he dated while in school or shortly after school or during NYSC flings.


But ladies keep on daydreaming about their superman, their spec.....the macho man, the tall, dark, handsome, rich God fearing guy of their dream that will sweep them off their feet and propose romantically and then marry them in grandstyle, whereas such guys don't want her type, he want an unexposed local girl from his village or from his mother's side or something like that. ...and the ladies keep wasting their time praying and waiting for this same dream man that don't want them but want the opposite of them...and as time goes, these ladies get older and their male age group become all married and leaving them to young gigolos and playboys who use them to learn how to fvck a woman like a IndecentStar


The cycle continues and the tears continues to flow as years roll by.



Dear single ladies, get real!

Every lady have a toaster, I mean toasters, among them there is your sweetheart, open your eyes and stop thinking too high of yourself, don't look down on any man, give some of them a chance.


Your husband is around you. You can't find that your dream man you have conjured in your fantasies online because same guys online are the guys you see all around you.


That your spec may ruin your life, change your taste not out of no option or frustration but out of understanding that you have been making mistake and looking for what doesn't want you.


Get real with life, crying won't solve it. All the best.

PervertProphet:
Awon "big baby".
Why don't you suggest we sell the country to America?

of course I will support that. Nigeria will prosper if sold to America than under Fulani herdsmen who only bring poverty and bloodshed, kiss the truth

VEXT:
Only terrorists hate Trump!!!
Very soon all the terrorists in the world will be wipe off...Especially,the ones in the northern part of Nigeria and the few ones in south west...

you mean OPC the Yoruba Muslim Terrorist Militant Group and MURIC

PervertProphet:
What is this Clown talking

What's all that balberdash you wrote up there?

If every African leaves the continent on a American Visa Lottery then who will develop the continent?

See as you dey do like say American Visa na visa to Heaven. Why are you blacks this dumb?

Instead of you thinking of how to make Africa the place where they will be begging to come to. You are here crying over another man refusing you into his country as if that's even true. The man only just like any sane person would do. He has a problem with illegal immigrants and not legal immigrants.

You are just a small boy blabbing what little kids are known for, get real.


US Visa lottery and US favorable immigration policies of the past saved thousands of Nigerians who would have died poor, wretched and hungry in Nigeria, kiss the truth.


I do t have time to play Panafricanism with kids on a faceless forum, I am sure if you get an American visa, you and your entire family will celebrate it, stop talking nonsense okay


Many Nigerians who are successful investors and big company owners in Nigeria today traveled to US to work and make money they brought back to invest in Nigeria.


Without capital, you are doomed! America gives all hardworking and willing people the great chance to work and earn decent living they can also use to start up their own companies in a more lucrative way.


Kiss the truth, America is blessd nation with opportunities, only the truth will set you free

MyOpinion1:
I know of someone recently who gave birth at 45 without stress....she never even enter labour room nah where dem dey collect card she just born put...
What do you say to that....

luck, destiny, grace