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Romance1997 Vs 2018 Photos Of Kenyan Childhood Friends Who Became Couple by IamHeWrites(op): 2:00pm On Feb 15, 2018
Kenyan man, Kirui Luke posted before and after photos of himself with wife to celebrate Valentine's Day.

They met back in 1997 at Kimoigut Primary School in Baringo County as classmates in Standard 5.

https://torimill.com/2018/02/check-out-before-and-after-photos-of-childhood-friends-who-became-husband-and-wife.html

RomanceRe: "Ladies Above 30 Are Close To Menopause & May Give Birth To Slowpoke" - Man by IamHeWrites(op): 5:46pm On Feb 11, 2018
HausaOverlord:
To an slowpoke undecided
It's actually an Ímbecîle that's was written but changed to slowpōke
Romance"Ladies Above 30 Are Close To Menopause & May Give Birth To Slowpoke" - Man by IamHeWrites(op): 5:40pm On Feb 11, 2018
https://torimill.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/02/endowedlady989856449-300x200.jpg
A South African Baker @nandi_cakes , took to his Twitter page, to list reasons why marrying a woman above 30 is a ‘wrong move’.

According to the South African Baker, such women have low fertility and baby with such lady might have downs syndrome.

Here’s what he wrote;
Why men shouldn’t marry women over 30 A THREAD
Firstly women over-30 have a lower fertility. If you want to build a family with these old donkeys be prepared to possibly have a downs syndrome child. 2. When you marry a 30+ woman, you’re marrying her 30+ joysticks she’s had over her long life on earth. She has more bodies than a grave yard.

Women over-30 are very bitter from the wasted prime spent on failed relationships she hoped would lead to marriage. Now that you’re marrying her, she should be grateful, but she’s not. She’s always just angry.

By marrying a woman over 30+ you are investing everything in a rapidly depreciating pleasure provider that has already lost a lot of its aesthetic value… She will be wrinkled in the next 5 years and already having back problems.

Many guys these days are marrying early 30’s women, and then, almost immediately – Bam!. It’s over almost before it began. Its because you are trying to make ancestors housewives. Leave these dinosaurs.

Marrying an over-30 woman is like buying a used car 1Km short of its 120,000km servicing. The over-30 woman can fix herself up enough to fool the prospective provider/hubby for a short while, and once the line that is dotted is signed her true colours come out.

Many women who are not married in their late 30s today never saw it coming. They had a plan: finish their first degree, masters, a job, a promotion, make money, be independent and settle down by 30, latest 32.

Over the years, they turn down potential husbands, go on a partying spree like they have frozen time, only to arrive at 35 with nothing to show for it other than a dead end job, a car, and sometimes a child from a relationship that never quite worked out

So, now they are stuck in a phase where they will never find a man of their dreams and have to settle for any man who will be gracious enough to even suggest marriage. By now, all those flimsy and shallow standards they used to have are gone, humility is their second name.

I have seen many women on Twitter in their 20s buy into the misguided, feminist belief that men & marriage are bad for their academic & career advancement. What feminism does not factor in is that the older a woman get, the less a chance she stands of marrying someone desirable.

This is a fact of life, don’t come here with your Nywe Nywe Nywe misogyny… VOETSEK

Very few men would marry a 35+ woman when we live in a highly hypergamous (act of marrying someone wealthier than you) society. There are plenty of young and hot beautiful women ready to settle into a marriage where they play the second fiddle as long as the man provides.

It is good to be ambitious, even better to break the stupid glass ceilings, but at what price? Bottom line, at some point, you will need a man in your life. My experience of having observed women 30+ has proven that they mostly live a life full of regrets.

Let me share with you from my observations the signs that a woman is likely to end up single, and lonely and stay away from these types!!
1. She values education and career over marriage and relationship. She’s always throwing statements like “Marriage isn’t an achievement”

2. At age 30+ she has more liquor in her refrigerator than fruits and vegetables.

3. She can take down more shots than any of her peers at 30+ who have kids

4. She’s into smoking cigarettes and addicted to weed.

5. Her idea of fun at age 30+ is a night out with the girls.

6. At age 30+ she still insists on only dating men based on what
their career is. “He’s a lawyer” “He’s a doctor” “He’s an engineer”

7. The idea of cooking for a man is a total turn-off to her.

8. She has never forgiven her father for abusing her mother, or her first boyfriend used to abuse her and she now thinks every man is violent and controlling.

9. She is so much into fashion, and hair-styling she doesn’t want to be identified as being old in her circles

10. Her job involves a lot of travelling.

11. She can easily find a parking spot at Taboo than her way to church.

12. She believes in absolute equality in marriage without any sacrifice or compromise.

My brother if you find an ancestor over 32+ Love yourself…… run away from these dinosaurshttps://torimill.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/02/30plus01281700365.png
https://torimill.com/2018/02/never-marry-a-lady-above-30-she-is-close-to-menopause-may-give-birth-to-an-slowpoke-man.html

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BusinessCareer Tips : 4 Ways Working Adults Can Update Their Skill Set by IamHeWrites(op): 2:21am On Feb 09, 2018
You love your career but sometimes wish you were more knowledgeable and adept at your everyday tasks.

You want to improve and progress in your company, possibly to a management or executive level, but don’t quite know where to begin. Furthering your education and your day-to-day skills can be accomplished by:

Taking Night and Weekend Classes
One of the best methods in which to improve oneself is to begin taking classes to keep up with others in your particular field. If you have been out of college for quite some time, be aware that much has changed in many job areas.

Choose the classes that will help you in your current career the most. You can also choose those classes which will prepare you for the next step up from where you are. You may say you cannot afford to go back to school right now. However, the truth of the matter is, you cannot afford not to.

Taking Online Courses
An excellent option for those with little time, with no reliable transportation, or with small children at home is online coursework. Courses in accounting, nursing, business management, and much, much more await the online student. Never before has the internet opened up so many possibilities for furthering an ambitious person in the work world.

For example, if you are a software engineer or web developer, it may assist you greatly if you took a course in coding languages, specifically
Angular JS. This will help you create new and exciting applications in HTML. If you work in either of these careers and don’t know what these are. It is all the more evident that you need to take the online classes available. It is also important to learn more about these web applications.

Seeking a Mentor
Is there a person in your company whom you really admire? Is there an individual whose work ethic and decision-making skills are stellar? If there is someone whom you’d really like to learn from, approach that person about a mentoring arrangement.

A mentor is an individual who guides you toward those skills that you really need in the career that you are pursuing. They work either in the same career that you do or something similar. They also advise you and introduce you to the right people. This type of person is not afraid of sharing his success secrets with another individual who admires his capabilities.

If you cannot find a mentor, choose a famous person who has made it big in the field that you are working in. Read their biographies, outline their career steps, and learn from their mistakes.

Attending Seminars and Networking Events
If you really and truly do not have the time to attend regular classes. There are many evening and weekend seminars that you can attend to update yourself on various aspects of your job. Here you will meet others with like-minded goals and objectives.

And sometimes it is not what you know but who you know. Meeting the right person at exactly the right time can further your career more than any course of study. It is important to meet and greet individuals at networking events as they can be of huge assistance to you. They can be knowledgeable of openings that you might be interested in, training that is available or even is willing to show you the ropes in a career that you may be curious about.

CONCLUSION
If an individual really desires to stay abreast of trends and changes in his industry as well as increasing his skill sets, he will find a way to do it. If he doesn’t have time to engage in some of the preceding suggestions, it is important that he makes the time. This is what will help him become productive and successful in his chosen career.

https://sabtrends.com/2018/02/01/keeping-carrier/

Lalasticlala Mynd44 Dominique

RomanceSide Chick Shares ‘shocking’ Chat With Her Married Boyfriend by IamHeWrites(op): 7:16am On Feb 06, 2018
A side chick shared her chat with her married boyfriend after he invited her to come to his house to watch the Super Bowl.

The shocking part is,his wife was also home.
He asked her if he could tell his friend to bring her and pretend to be his friend’s date.

https://torimill.com/2018/02/side-chick-shares-shocking-chat-married-boyfriend.html

Lalasticlala Mynd44 Dominique

Romance"It's Buhari In 2019 Or We Burn The Zoo Down" - Fulani Phd Says by IamHeWrites(op): 4:52am On Feb 06, 2018
Twitter user @ibraheem_pkm wants everyone to know he is ready to resort to violence if his preferred candidate doesn't win in 2019.

His Twitter bio says he is a Fulani engineer with a PhD.

See his tweet below;

https://torimill.com/2018/02/buhari-2019-burn-zoo-fulani-phd-holder-rants-twitter.html

Lalasticlala Mynd44 Dominique

FoodRe: 6 Surprising Health Benefits Of Kiwifruit You Should Know by IamHeWrites: 4:54am On Feb 05, 2018
Here is the picture... The bot banned me that's why am unable to upload it


Kexcellency Troublemaker007 Donnest4u Oblitz gbaskiboy

Celebrities#bbnaija: Here Is Miracle Twins Brother Nzemeka Martins (rapprince) by IamHeWrites(op): 4:58am On Feb 01, 2018
Nzemeka MARTINs (Rapprince) is a rapper, a singer, signed under Damex Records

He’s fans keep saying they are twins

see his picture below

http://www.citizenshelm.com/2018/01/bbnaija-here-is-miracle-twice-brother.html

RomanceRe: Nairaland's First Posts ever. See Hilarious Comments! by IamHeWrites: 9:44pm On Jan 24, 2018
Ehn ehn... undecided
OK na
RomanceRe: Ghanaian Headmaster's Sex Video: Student Is 20 Not 16; Headmaster Her Boyfriend by IamHeWrites: 9:34pm On Jan 24, 2018
Gofwane:
you don miss be that. If you see the way that headmaster dey fire that girl ehn, chaiiiiii ;
If you see how many people download it.. 41k
RomanceRe: Will You Marry These Girls If They Are Deaf And Dumb?(photos) by IamHeWrites: 6:20pm On Jan 23, 2018
PierreDeFermath:
the first girl is so damn fine,Op,who is she and what's her name?
Davido's ex girlfriend

Sira Kante
RomanceRe: A Lady Looking For A Guy To Rent, To Act As Her Husband (photos) by IamHeWrites: 9:27am On Jan 23, 2018
Am available lipsrsealed
RomanceRe: Can Somebody Tell Me How To Read The Private Messages On Nairaland Forum? by IamHeWrites: 9:06am On Jan 23, 2018
Mandynews:
I checked my email
That's it... Reply it then from there you take your chat to somewhere else
RomanceRe: Can Somebody Tell Me How To Read The Private Messages On Nairaland Forum? by IamHeWrites: 8:13am On Jan 23, 2018
Mandynews:
Can someone please help me figure out how to check the Nairaland messages that are sent to me in my inbox?

I can't find the messages, I have no idea how to get them grin

Thanks in anticipation.
Check your mail

That's where you will see the message
RomanceRe: Nigerian Lady Advises Men In Relationships To Stop Acting Single by IamHeWrites(op): 8:06am On Jan 23, 2018

RomanceNigerian Lady Advises Men In Relationships To Stop Acting Single by IamHeWrites(op): 7:58am On Jan 23, 2018
A Nigerian Lady has taken to social media to share her thoughts and to advise men in relationships to stop acting single.

Making her stance known on Twitter, She wrote:
“Please if you’re in a relationship. You should know you’re accountable to your partner. Stop doing things on your own. Don’t switch off your phone then come back like nothing happened. Stop acting single! If you’re not ready to answer to your partner, please stay single.”

She also asked ladies to never allow their men make them look crazy or turn them into mad women for wanting to know their mans whereabouts.

She wrote:
“Ladies, don’t ever let your man make you look crazy or turn you into a mad woman for wanting to know where he’s been,why he wasn’t picking his calls, why his phone was off or who he’s been with. It’s your right to know. You’re not a NAG.”

http://www.torimill.com/2018/01/nigerian-lady-advises-men-in.html

RomanceSee Photos Of Pregnant Sex Doll That Is Going Viral by IamHeWrites(op): 5:44am On Jan 23, 2018
Hehehe this one weak me!…

http://www.torimill.com/2018/01/see-photos-of-pregnant-sx-doll-that-is.html

Lalasticlala Mynd44 Dominique

CelebritiesSee The Different Ways Nigerians & Americans React To Social Media Posts by IamHeWrites(op): 2:13am On Jan 21, 2018
Khing Bassey, a Nollywood actor shared the difference between how Americans on social media react to posts and how Nigerians react to the same post on social media. What's funny is it's actually true.

Read what he wrote below;


Lalasticlala Mynd44 Dominique
CelebritiesRe: Photos: Tboss Stylishly Begs For Fashion Items On The Internet by IamHeWrites: 2:12am On Jan 21, 2018
Mynd44 this guy should be banned for posting rubbish
CelebritiesRe: Cury Actress, Destiny Etiko Flashes Her Tigh In New Photo by IamHeWrites: 2:06am On Jan 21, 2018
HungerBAD:
Only one picture?no more pictures?
Some dude are not destined to blog but they are in it all because of money grin
Romance'I Once Went On A Date With A Guy, Saw A Ring On His Finger & He Was Like" by IamHeWrites(op): 1:57am On Jan 21, 2018
According to this Nigerian lady on twitter (@ imoteda), she once went on a date with a married man, when she noticed his wedding band and asked him about it, he said he forgot.

See her story below;
"Went on a date with a guy. Got there and homeboy was wearing a ring. I was like "uhmmmm is that a wedding ring?" He goes "oh shit I forgot!"

But because I'm a bum bitch and it was free food and wine I stayed. ?? Had an awesome time actually. Left and blocked his number.

Some of your husbands are just wild. If you're married in Lagos you should probably just give up. I'm tired of your behalf ladies


http://www.torimill.com/2018/01/i-once-went-on-date-with-guy-saw-ring.html

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RomanceSome Nigerian Guys Say Women Are Jealous Of The New Sex Dolls. by IamHeWrites(op): 1:40am On Jan 20, 2018
One Facebook user, Ebere Ezenwagu Uzoigwe wrote:
"You can't compare a real Bae with a Sex doll never. The taste is the difference, the difference is the taste. We’re still the best".

Her comment elicited replies from men, most of them saying that Nigerian women are jealous of the dolls.

http://www.torimill.com/2018/01/some-nigerian-guys-say-women-are.html

Lalasticlala Mynd44 Dominique

RomanceNigerian Girl Survives Fatal Accident That Claimed Lives Of All Passenger by IamHeWrites(op): 11:44pm On Jan 18, 2018
A Nigerian lady identified as Chioma escaped death in an accident which reportedly claimed the lives of all the passengers in the vehicle. The amazing thing is she came out of the crash with just a minor injury.

http://www.torimill.com/2018/01/nigerian-lady-survives-fatal-accident.html

Lalasticlala Mynd44 Dominique

RomanceHow A Depressed Nigerian Man Almost Took His Own Life by IamHeWrites(op): 2:38am On Jan 17, 2018
A Nigerian lady, Olusola on twitter has narrated how her friend was saved when he almost committed suicide because of hardship .

Read the story as she shared on twitter below;
“I met a friend of mine today that I hadn’t seen in about 10years, I asked how he has been and he said “It hasn’t been easy, but God has been faithful even when all hope was lost. He went ahead and told me his story which left me in tears… In his words…

“ I’m married with three children, I lost my job about two years ago and I searched for a new one to no avail. Things were really hard and at some point, we couldn’t even feed, I kept going around asking for help… Then sometime last year…

Sometime last year, my last child who is just one had an issue with his scrotum and needed surgery, we were asked to pay #150, 000. I didn’t have a single dime on me. I ran from pillar to post but nothing came out of it. Everyone gave different stories…

So one night , I couldn’t bear the whole thing anymore, so I decided to take my life. I waited for my wife and children to go to bed, I bid them goodnight and after I had made sure they were asleep, I took the rope, went to the sitting room and say on the sofa…

I decided to wipe off every thing on my phone before hanging myself, but while I was looking at the phone, I decided to just rest my back and somehow I slept off(I don’t know how that happened)slept from 12am – 3am, woke up to two missed calls on my phone, both unknown

One international number and one national number, I called the national number, no one picked, I flashed the international number and the person called back, it was Dele (we all went to secondary school together) and he said “guy I don dey find your number a these years”

“i got it from my younger brother who got it from someone else sha. I got it about three days ago, I dey work now, but something just say make í call you this night. How you dey?” Sola, I burst into tears, like why this night” I looked at the rope which was still on the table,

Went inside, looked at my wife and couldn’t stop crying, Dele kept asking “guy wetin dey worry you now, talk to me” I told him everything and he was like “guy, na because of dawan you dey cry? I go call you for morning.

First thing in the morning he asked his bro to transfer 200k to me, just like that, though I still haven’t gotten a job, but now I know that I have a God who sees me and cares deeply for me… I asked him if I could share his story and he said it was okay.

See ehn, it doesn’t matter what you are going through, you see this God, He sees you, He cares about you, He says He’ll never leave or forsake you, through every shadow and every mountain… And He never lies. When He says it, He means it


http://www.torimill.com/2018/01/how-depressed-nigerian-man-almost-took.html

Lalasticlala Mynd44 Dominique

RomanceGuy Dating Two Colleagues In Same Office At Same Time Busted by IamHeWrites(op): 2:13am On Jan 17, 2018
A Nigerian Lady has narrated how a fight broke out in her office yesterday, between two ladies who were apparently, dating the same men.

Read below;
"There was drama in my office dis afternoon..Serious drama that someone’s wig was flying in d air. They both on suspension now though.

This is how it all started.

A colleague in my dept was dating dis guy for 2 years & they got engaged last year May bt broke it off October.

But uncle still continued the relationship ooo saying he needed more time to b ready for marriage and all,, they were knacking steady.. every time uncle will be coming to her office to bring lunch but for two people instead, she and another colleague in Admin.

If babe ask, uncle will say ah ha, are you girls not friends again.. there’s nothing wrong if I bring lunch for you and your Friend na..so the bringer of lunch continued ooo unknown to us.. uncle was not just bringing lunch to the office ooo.

He was also serving aunty admin dinner in bed in her room.. he has been knacking aunty admin since February last year even before he got engaged.. everytime he says he’s traveling, he was actually traveling to aunty admins house.

So after he called off the engagement in October, his babe cried and guess what.. aunty admin was there for her all through. Telling her to forget the guy and that she should b grateful that he should his true character before she said “I Do” to him.

So fast forward to today na, the babe in my department heard her friend (aunty admin) got engaged last night, she rushed to admin department to see ring and congratulate her.. next thing she was shocked to see the ring looked similar to what uncle gave her.

She kept looking at the ring but she was sure it was the same ring.. so babe decided to steal aunty admin phone to verify since she knows the password..besides everyone was just congratulating her and no one was paying attention to babe in my dept.

Long story short ooo.. that was how the babe in my department saw engagement photos they took and it was with her man.. she just threw the phone on the floor and dived aunty admin ..na there wrestling start ooo..wig flying in d air, slaps , bite.. everything.

They beat themselves till HR came and asked both of them to leave the building ooo.. then sent them suspension letter.. I actually rushed to admin to see for my self.. it was really sad.. now the whole Office knows everything.. Chai.. I’m sure d guy knows too. "


http://www.torimill.com/2018/01/guy-dating-two-colleagues-in-same.html

Lalasticlala Mynd44 Dominique

Family"Your Juju No Work! - Brother-in-law To Lady Jilted By Her Husband For Side Chic by IamHeWrites(op): 4:24am On Jan 16, 2018
Earlier this month, a mother of triplets, Jane Onyinyechi Ikenna took to Facebook to cry for help after her husband left her for his side chick.

A lot has happened since then...accusations and counter-accusations hauled by the warring parties, most of which are rather confusing.

However, it seems the husband has truly moved on as he and his mother are pictured with the alleged mistress, Cynthia Chizzy Diochi.

Moreover, one Fortunate Egbuchere, said to be her brother-in-law has accused her of using juju to destroy their family, warning her to desist from mentioning Chizzy's name as she alone destroyed her marriage.

See theirs posts and more photos below...

http://www.torimill.com/2018/01/your-juju-no-work-again-brother-in-law.html

Lalasticlala Mynd44 Dominique

RomanceLady Attends A Funeral In Revealing Sheer Mesh Top (photo) by IamHeWrites(op): 4:03am On Jan 16, 2018
According to Daba FM, the lady pictured below wore this revealing outfit to a funeral in Barbados on Wednesday. The unidentified lady is being dragged online for stepping out braless.

See photo below..

http://www.torimill.com/2018/01/viral-photo-of-lady-who-attends-funeral.html

Lalasticlala Mynd44 Dominique

RomanceLady Gets Friend To Help Shave Her Pubic Hair & It's Livestreamed by IamHeWrites(op): 3:30am On Jan 16, 2018
Is there nothing called privacy anymore? A pregnant woman, who will put to bed anytime soon, got her friend to help shave her pubic hair ahead of her delivery date, and they livestreamed the entire thing.

In the video, the woman is seen lying face up, with her legs open, while the friend shaved her lady part. She later turned around with her back to the friend who completed the process. The video has now gone viral but a lot of people are calling them out for exposing too much.

Watch Video Here; https://www.instagram.com/p/Bd_k4POl-T3/?hl=en

http://www.torimill.com/2018/01/woman-gets-friend-to-help-shave-her.html

Lalasticlala Mynd44 Dominique

RomanceWife Beaten To Death By Husband For Giving Him Small Fish by IamHeWrites(op): 10:37am On Jan 15, 2018
2018 has taken off, and a wife is already dead for giving her husband small fish. Twitter user @DCelebrityNurse who shared the story of her tenant’s sister, said that wasn’t the only time the lady who had scars on her body resulting from broken bottles and cutlass had been assaulted by her husband .

@DCelebrityNurse went further to disclose that preliminary scan, revealed that the lady suffered broken limbs and blunt injuries especially her kidney .

Her tweet read;
Just heard a very devastating news now. My tenant’s sister was beaten to death by her husband because she gave him small fish!!!!!! Some men are mad!!! I mean very mad!!!

So actually, this is not the first time he had been beating her, but she never told anyone. She had different scars on her body ranging from broken bottles to cutlass marks. I mean why endure such madnesshuh Whyhuh?

She actually reported to the police station the night she was beaten, where she was rushed to the hospital from. Scan showed broken limbs and blunt injuries especially her kidney. Like how do you beat your wife and damage her kidney. Howhuh?!!


Recall that on Saturday, we reported that a man was left battling for his life after his wife slashed his throat with a broken bottle, for cheating.

@Marmyla , who said this wasn’t first time Uncle’s wife attempted to harm him for cheating, tweeted;

Innallillahi wa’ina illahi rajiun!
My uncle’s wife has cut his throat with a broken bottle he is at the emergency unit right now. Before now, she has made two attempts to stab him with a knife but didn’t succeed, she has today. Please keep my uncle in your prayers .

Every fight my uncle ever had with his wife is on the basis of her accusing him of cheating on her or chatting with other women. And she has always threatened that she will kill him one day all means please and please avoid excessively jealous women .

Guys I’m still shouting this today, stay away from women who make threats on your lives either verbaly or physically. I said same thing when Maryam Sanda’s news broke. Today I’m screaming it bcz my uncle life was almost taken today. The marriage is only 2years old.


http://www.torimill.com/2018/01/wife-beaten-to-death-by-husband-for.html

Lalasticlala Mynd44 Dominique

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