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A DNA test ordered by a Mwingi court in Kenya has confirmed that a pastor accused of defiling a 17-year-old girl in a church impregnated the victim.

The test results showed that Pastor Steve Masila impregnated the Standard Seven pupil, who hails from Nguutani ward, on August 12, 2017.

Mwingi senior resident magistrate Grace Kirugumi on Tuesday, September 11, granted the suspect a Sh200,000 bond with a surety of the same amount.

The Arising Christian Ministries pastor appeared before the magistrate at the Mwingi law court for the release of the DNA result.

Masila is accused of defiling the minor as she was mopping the church in preparation for a Sunday's service on the fateful Saturday.

According to the victim, Pastor Steven found her washing the church on that fateful Saturday evening and defiled her warning her not to tell anyone, else he would harm her.

"Pastor Steven found me mopping the church and raped me warning me not to tell anyone including my mom," said the victim.

The court had heard that Masila, after committing the offence, threatened the minor not to disclose the matter to anyone.

The minor opened up to her mother with information that it was the pastor who had defiled and impregnated her.

The mother (pictured) said when they told the Pastor about the newborn he denied hurling insults at her.

‘He insulted me terming me a bad mother as opposed to what he thought if i could destroy his reputation alleging he is the dad to my grand daughter. He further went on saying to take him where we we can, ‘ the poverty stricken widow narrated in tears.

Masila upon being asked he started threatening the mother that they will all die and the kid will also die since they are accusing a man of God.

The pastor has denied the charges and was remanded at Waita GK prison until he settles the bond. The hearing will be on September 18.

Meanwhile, it was gathered that on July 16,2018, residents of Nzawa village evicted Pastor Steven after the news made headlines last.

Apart from the girl he raped and impregnated, he is said to have hooked several other girls from area to the dismay of the villagers.

According to the area residents the rogue pastor has been insulting them for a while, but worsened it by threatening them that they will be dying one after the other for falsefully accusing him of tasting school going children’s forbidden fruit.

Simon Mutua, a resident told journalists that they took the law into their hands and evicted the son of God from Nzawa village for this served him better.

‘This self proclaimed pastor has to leave our community now for we cannot continue living with a rapist in the name of serving God,’ another bitter resident added.

Pictured below shows residents evicting the pastor;

https://www.torimill.co/world/9766/dna-test-confirms-kenyan-pastor-impregnated-17-year-old-girl-he-raped-inside-church.html

A Nigerian clergyman, Godfrey Emeghalu Godfrey, took to his Facebook page to advise women not to leave their marriages because they were beaten by their husbands.

According to him, the physical assault is only a form of chastisement for their wrongdoing. He says if a woman doesn't want to be chastised, she has the option of not getting married.

Godfrey who is synonymous for making controversial posts, state that God is against women leading a nation and also leading men.

Read his posts below;

https://www.torimill.co/viral/9751/beating-your-wife-should-not-make-her-your-enemy-nigerian-clergyman-says.html

Lalasticlala Mynd44 Dominique

A Nigerian man has exposed the plot of some educated Nigerian men to destroy the future of “beautiful”, “intelligent” and “career-oriented” women.

Darren Idongesit, a Nigerian writer, met some educated friends of his at a pub and when they started discussing, he was shocked by the words that came out of their mouths.

According to him, there are men whose aim is to “decommission” women who have huge prospects. They chase after the women, endure all insults and humiliation, act like the perfect man, all with the aim of getting the woman pregnant. When the woman is pregnant, they lead her on up until the time it is no longer safe to terminate the pregnancy, then they abandon her.

Warning women about this plot by some men, Darren wrote;

"Dear Nigerian ladies please be careful who you sleep with because what I heard ‘educated’ men talk about today is horrifying.

I am one of those few people that will rather be tortured to death before I reveal secrets or identities especially when decency demands so, but I’ll not hide this rubbish I heard my educated friends(university graduates) say today at a pub. I had to leave the table when the conversation had degenerated to a level I would never stoop to.

Dear ladies, there are some men out there to decommission you especially if you are beautiful or intelligent in school or career-oriented and independent.

There are dangerous men out there who follow women, suffer some humiliation, spend money but their ultimate goal is to get you pregnant then they let you keep it till a time when abortion is impossible. When they know you are finished or now committed to them, they simply deny everything and abandon you.

One is saying he did ‘shoot to kill’ on a church girl that was playing hard to get. The girl was so innocent that she didn’t know when she was pregnant or her safe days to have sex, she didn’t even know what a male contraceptive looked like or that men spread diseases. That church girl was decommissioned and now a hustling single mother.

Please dear ladies, avoid this hypocrisy – learn sex education even if you are abstaining till marriage. Learn not to trust men when it comes to your reproductive rights. Learn about contraceptive pills like Postinor 2 so when someone intentionally tries to ruin your life, you know the power is in your hand.

I can excuse the thousands of secondary school boys who unintentionally decommission their classmates because of ignorance but for a man to rubbish a grown up woman, that is just absurd. Talk to your friends who are nurses, pharmacists, doctors etc Always be prepared because there are hitmen out there who derive pleasure in ruining the lives of promising women."

https://www.torimill.co/viral/9737/man-exposes-plot-by-some-men-to-destroy-womens-future.html

A Zimbabwean couple, Sisasenkosi Sulu and Mandlenkosi Maphosa, failed to show up for their own wedding ceremony in order to avoid police arrest as the couple are now on the run for allegedly stealing groceries from a supermarket.

According to reports, wedding guests had arrived and were waiting for the about-to-wed couple to show up, instead, a young boy of 13 and a 22-year-old lady represented the couple, reports iHarare.

According to one of the guests at the wedding;
“Some of the relatives did not know that Maphosa and Sisa were fugitives. Therefore, they were totally shocked when they saw a young couple walking down the aisle. “The boy who played groom was 13 years old and the one who replaced the bride was 22.

One of the relatives of the couple, Nothabo Moyo said;
‘‘At first, I thought the boy was a ring bearer, but then again he was a bit old for that position. I only realised later what was going on when the young bride entered and stood next to the minor, and they were being addressed by the names of Maphosa and Sisa who were supposed to be getting married. ‘‘It was not fun at all, because after spending a lot of money on outfits and presents, it was just child’s play.” iHarare reports that Sisa was arrested in July for allegedly conniving with her fiance to steal groceries worth more than $2 000.

After she was granted bail, Sisa escaped to South Africa following her partner, Maphosa, who had managed to flee.

https://www.torimill.co/news/9713/zimbabwean-couple-fail-to-show-up-for-their-wedding-to-avoid-arrest.html

Lalasticlala Mynd44 Dominique

35-year-old Kenyan woman and mother of 11, Rael Mukeku, is happily married to two husbands.

According to Mukeku, both of them are aware and happy with the polygamous arrangement.

Rael lives in a grass-thatched hut, the only house occupying a small rocky compound behind in Chyulu Hills National Park, Makueni County.

She has spent much of the three decades-and-a-half of her life in marriage, something she does not shy away from revealing. She first got married at the age of 10.

“I married my first husband in 1992 and we were blessed with our first child the following year.

"I have had 10 other children since then,” Ms Mukeku told the Nation at her home, slowly opening up on how she ended up leading a lifestyle frowned upon among the Kamba and in most Kenyan societies.

Juggling between rocking an infant and trying to appease three other children donning threadbare clothing, who have been crying for food, she recalls her background. She schooled up to Standard Two at a public school, worked as a maid at a neighbour’s home, and got married in the same village.

“The second husband came when I had seven children already. He didn’t like taking care of the children unless some of them were his and this is how we ended up getting more children,” she reveals.

She is quick to admit that she has quit binge drinking, khat chewing and snuff taking, habits, she says, she had picked up early in life from the bad company she kept and which she had carried along with her until early in August when she dropped them on a doctor’s orders.

She, however, does not regret marrying the two men, who work as casual labourers, and giving birth to many children.

“My only mistake is that I settled on men who are not rich, but this does not worry me much because they are caring and loving,” she chuckles, recalling a recent incident in which her husbands joined forces to care for her during an illness.

“One sold all his three goats and a kid to clear the hospital bill, while the other provided the money we needed for the day to day upkeep,” she says.

It was her physical needs that encouraged her to get another husband to fulfil them since the first husband, Muema Nguu,50, (pictured) is sickly, wasn’t able to. She had confided in her mother about the problem before taking in the second man.

Muema also sanctioned the idea but asked to meet his would-be co-husband first as a condition
“It got to a point where he advised me to identify one man and officially introduce him,” she says, echoing Mr Nguu’s account of the events leading to the compound marriage.

“It was a difficult decision. It was preceded by a difficult period in which I had become weak after suffering a long illness,” says Muema, while herding his employer’s cattle in the next village.

Despite a deal they had struck, which was witnessed by a local elder and one of their adult sons, Mr Nguu at first struggled to come to terms with the relationship.

"Upon realising that he had impregnated her I got mad and warned that such should not be repeated”. he said.

Years later and three other pregnancies down the line, he has embraced his co-husband with whom he has a lot in common.

The two were orphaned at infancy and worked as casual labourers at the homes of their neighbours in their childhood after dropping out of school for lack of fees.

“My relatives are not happy with this arrangement, but every time they complain I remind them that they have refused to help me raise my children,”
says Mr Nguu, regretting that his children have not got a proper education.

Mr Nguu says that some of his adult children are yet to come to terms with the compound marriage, something that has been worrying the extended family.

“Our main worry has always been that she has been identifying them with their different fathers.
Rael’s father Mukeku Nguu says he does not approve of his daughter’s polyandrous marriage.

“We have always advised that she treats them equally and that she stops telling them that they belong to this or that husband,” says Mr Timothy Mutua, a neighbour and distant relative.

“His children call me ‘Dad’. When he is unable to clear school fees, I get him sorted out. He reciprocates when I am in a financial mess and he is better off,” says Mr Nguu’s co-husband, Mutuku Muia, 45, who works as a farm labourer.
Unlike Mr Muia, who spends all his nights at home, Mr Nguu comes home at most twice in a month.

Ms Mukeku says that whenever her husbands happen to be at home at the same time “they do not fight over anything because they agreed to be in this relationship"

https://www.torimill.co/world/9699/my-only-mistake-is-that-i-settled-on-men-who-are-not-rich-35-year-old-mother-married-to-two-men-says.html

Credit :-The Nation.co.ke

According to a Nigerian man, Kelvin Odanz women are always on the look out for exciting experiences which it is impossible for one person to provide.

Read the rest of his tweets below;

"Loving your woman with all your heart and doing all the right things won't guarantee her loyalty to you.

She can just get attracted to an adventurous crackhead who makes her "feel different" or whatever.

If your woman is loyal, consider yourself lucky and privileged

I am not sure there is a man out there who has all it takes to deserve a woman's loyalty.

Women are naturally dreamy, fantasists who are never contented. There is always something missing.

So they obviously have more reasons to cheat and the reasons are abundant around them.

For we men, we are just men. We cheat with our penis and that's mostly basically it.

But women cheat with their heart, their mind, their soul, their body: everything.

They are endlessly yearning for new things, new feelings, new desires, new adventures. Insatiable beings.

I think if your woman decides to relegate all her desires in order to be remain loyal to you, then you're lucky and privileged.

I find relationship talks boring but I think this is a tip from someone who is fairly "experienced."

Love your woman and guard your expectations.

https://www.torimill.co/viral/9652/its-is-difficult-to-keep-a-woman-from-cheating-no-matter-how-well-shes-being-treated-man.html

Lalasticlala Mynd44 Dominique

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A Gala seller moved people to tears by his actions when he spotted a group of prisoners in a van stuck in traffic.

The prisoners were being transported in a Nigeria Prison Service van heading to Ikoyi Prison but were stuck in traffic. As usual, the prisoners stretched out their hands through the tiny holes by the sides of the van and the Gala seller's next action surprised everyone.

He took the Gala he was selling and began distributing to the prisoners for free. When the van began moving, he dropped his basket by the side of the road, grabbed a handful of Gala and ran after them to make sure everyone gets a share.

His kind acts got him the attention of other road users and someone who was moved by his action, shared the story.

Read the story as narrated by an Instagram user below;

https://www.torimill.co/viral/9641/see-what-a-gala-seller-did-when-he-saw-prisoners-in-a-van-stuck-in-lagos-traffic.html

A twitter user has shared story about his course mate, who is currently in Toronto, Canada to recover after a messy divorce.

According to Dr. Kene, the lady is a bank executive based in Abuja. Unknown to the woman, her husband of six years was gay.

Upon finding out, she stayed with him but to her shock the man finally eloped with his lover, abandoning her and their kids.

Read the tweets below;

https://www.torimill.co/viral/9629/nigerian-man-abandons-his-wife-and-two-kids-as-he-elopes-with-his-gay-lover.html

Twitter user @CallMeBoop, shared the sad story of how a man left his wife for the lady they had been having a party with.

The wife had actually suggested a party in their home thinking it would help her husband from cheating on her.

Read the rest of the story below;

"My cousin recently left his wife for the lady they been having a three some with

Since somebody asked I’ll go ahead all tell the story. We’ll call my cousin Tony for the sake of the story, his wife Bri and the three some participant Jill. Now Tony is one the dude that girls mom warn them about. Always up to no damn good.

So tony and Bris story start off in High School. They meet sophomore year. Tony loves white girls(Bri is white) he has always believed he can get white women yo do what he wants. Where as black women they weren’t really checking for him.

Tony gets Bri pregnant within 4 months of them dating but he’s young, broke, and he definitely didn’t want an actual relationship with Bri so he denies the baby and cuts off all contact with Bri he even drops out of school and moves across town.

So fast forward a couple months Bri makes Tony take a paternity test. He is the father so he tells Bri that they should be together for the baby but he tells us the family he just wants a piece of Bris checks and benefits she’d just got her first job.

Tony starts cheating on Bri immediately with her coworkers who tell her what’s going on however they don’t show her actual proof so she doesn’t pay them any attention. In the midst of Tony cheating he gets one of the coworkers pregnant.

Bri is heartbroken but she wants to stay together for their kid. Tony goes a step further and has two more children with two other women so a total of 4 diff children from 4 diff women now Bri decides she needs to leave Tony alone but not before she finds out she’s pregnant too

Tony convinced her they should stay together so the kids can grow up in a two parent home which was something Bri always wanted so she stays. Fast forward about 3 yrs Tony has never gotten a job but he gets put on to a scheme floating around the city

Tony starts renting different items from places where you rent electronics and pay on them weekly. However Tony is turning around and selling these items to people who don’t know they’re rented. After he had rented all he could he convinces all of his BMs to rent as

Tells them that if they rent these items as well he’ll give them a cut if the money which sounds good because he doesn’t do a damn thing for his children. So they’re renting & flipping these laptops, tablets and TVs as fast as they can before Bri gets caught home one day.

Bri gets caught getting out of the car by “Rent Queen” who tells her they’re there to pick up the items she hasn’t paid on in weeks they threaten to get the police involved and Bris never been in trouble so she tells them EVERYTHING!!!

Of course Rent Queen gets the authority’s involved so Tony is picked up by the cops about a week later. He decides to take all charges so the BMs can continue to take care of the children he knows he can’t take care of. Somehow Tony only gets sentenced to 4yrs in prison

Just like every nigga that gets locked up he’s telling Bri sweet nothings the whole time he’s locked up to keep money on his books. Promises her he’s going to get out and finally do right and marry her but as his family we knew this too was a lie

Fast forward to the year Tony’s released he actually marries the damn girl & got his first real job at “hungry harrys” pizza place and it actually looks like he might be on the right track until one day I get on Facebook and one of his other BMs announces she’s pregnant from him

Now Bri has caught Tony cheating since they got married and had been working on what she thought was a solution. She tells tony he can have sex with whoever he wants as long as they do it together. Tony happy af! This is every mans dream! So they start right away.

St this point they are having threesomes every weekend with. Different girl that Tony brings home this goes on for a while before Bri notices that Tony keeps bringing one girl back every other week and starts to get suspicious

She finds out that Tony has been sleeping with Jill alone quite often actually. Bri confronts him about it, he apologizes and says he’ll stop with her and they’ll just stick to their threesomes. Bri isn’t into it like before so she now has to get pissy drunk to participate

So now she’s a drunk & gets pregnant again. After Bri has baby number 4 she can’t get the weight off of her and tony is telling her that girls aren’t going to want to Bleep a fat girl so she goes into depression knowing that this means he’s just going to Bleep them alone

Tony just can’t get enough of Jill who’s the complete opposite of Bri she’s fit, no kids has a great job, car and rich parents so Tony’s knows he can’t let her go. Tony’s decides he’ll give Jill what she’s been asking for, he’s going to leave his wife

They spend about a month looking for a place for them to start their own thing. While in the midst of this Jill gets hurt at work and is about to get broke off because she’s never be able to 100% work again. Tony knows he hit the jackpot and needs to move fast

Tony tells Jill he can’t wait any longer and he’s ready to move in with her and start taking care of her since she’s hurt. Bri comes home from work one day to an empty house she thinks they’ve been robbed so she calls Tony to tell him

Tony tells Bri that he’s leaving her for Jill and how she let herself go and that their whole marriage isnt what he signed up for and also tells her that he took the furniture with him since his mom was the one renting the furniture for them.

So now Bri has 4 children no husband and no furniture while Tony and Jill move right outside of town in a nice ass apartment all new everything Jill is even letting Tony drive her old BMW & a huge lawsuit on the way so you can’t tell him shit! The end

Oh yea in the midst of all that one of the BMs got an STD and he made her think she gave it to him when she confessed she was also sleeping with someone else"

https://www.torimill.co/viral/9622/man-left-his-wife-for-the-lady-they-have-been-having-a-party-with.html

Lalasticlala Mynd44 Dominique

A lot of men will hate this doctor.

Continue to read his tweets below;

"To boys who tell ladies they are having very severe stomach pains from not having sex:
Your day of reckoning has come

That line is an ABSOLUTE lie

No man ever gets severe acute stomach ache from not having sex.
And NO, not having sex has NO LONG TERM DAMAGES to a man.

I understand as a part of some imaginary bro code, I shouldn’t put this information out there

But I’m sorry, I’m just a messenger doing the work of the Lord

The story that a man will be having very severe stomach ache that can only be relieved by sex is a total lie

What some men term as “blue balls” is actually a feeling of sexual frustration and dull discomfort due to fluid congestion when a man gets really aroused sexually.

It’s a normal restlessness and discomfort that goes with sexual release- it’s NOT a life threatening situation.

And you know what?
It’s quite very temporary and if a man has sex or simply takes his mind off sexual thoughts, that feeling goes.

It’s merely sexual frustration and nothing more than that.

It’s NOT a life threatening problem and NO woman should be made to see it that way.

As a matter of fact, even women can have the discomfort from getting very Hot and sexually aroused but having no avenue for a sexual release.

Only that women don’t tag it a name or lie that it’s giving them very severe pains.

No man will die from not having sex, please

Basically what happens is just the physiology of normal sexual arousal.
When a man gets aroused, blood flows to the genital area, IF he doesn’t have sex and the arousal is sustained, he feels discomfort-

So what’s the solution?
Simple.
Have sex.
Or avoid sexual arousal thoughts.

So is “blue balls” real?
Yes, it is.
In some men.

Is it a life threatening problem for a man?
NO

Will a man die from not having sex?
NO

Does a man have to have sex because of that?
NO. Sex is an option, not a mandatory necessity. Taking his mind off the sex will work as well.

I know a lot of men are in severe pains ( or sifia pains as that famous Governor called it), but I apologise, I just feel we should set the records straight for posterity sake.

If you want sex from a woman, let it be on the grounds of honestly gotten consent. Not deceit or lies.

I hope this table is still intact, it was never my plans or intentions to shatter anyone’s sand castle of myths.

But yeah, it is what it is.
And I said what I said.

Men actually don’t die from not having sex. And no woman is saving the life of any man by giving him sex.

See guys, we are on the same team.
I’m on your side.
For real.

All I’m saying is that sexual frustration a man feels from not having sex a long time or from being aroused and no hopes of sex in sight is a normal thing.

No need to exaggerate it or lie just to get sex

Imagine knowing that what you are going through or what u go through once in a while with sexual arousal is NOT life threatening, will NOT kil you, can NOT cause you any problems on the long term and does NOT compulsorily require sex.

Brothers, this is a message of good tidings.

And a quick note tho:
Going through the comments, some men actually believe this myth is real and not a joke.

Please for your own good, don’t be daft. The risk with believing such crap is forcibly getting sex at all cost.

Pls, NO court will justify rape because of “blue balls”.

The essence of sex education/awareness is not only to encourage safer sex practice and better attitude to handling sexual frustration, it can literally save u as a man from jail and/or from rape accusation.

Pls be smart, bro. Don’t let a silly “blue balls” myth send you to jail."

https://www.torimill.com

Some married Nigerian men say being sent on errands doesn't end after marriage. If anything, it gets worse.

Read tweets shared by married Nigerian men narrating the ways their wives send them on errands;

https://www.torimill.co/viral/9606/married-nigerian-men-share-how-their-wives-send-them-message-like-house-boy.html

Lalasticlala Mynd44 Dominique

A Nigerian woman based in Toronto has told of how she challenged cultural norms by choosing not to kneel down for her husband during her traditional marriage, and that Nigerian men are mad about it.

The gorgeous Yoruba bride said she and her husband spoke to the coordinators (Alagas) ahead of the wedding and asked that they do not ask her to kneel for her husband. The wedding day came and it was the way the bride and groom wanted it. There was no mention of submission and she didn't have to kneel.

She said her sister also took a stand at her own wedding which took place earlier this week.

After she shared her story, some women who did the same thing came to share theirs. A few Nigerian men applauded her for challenging the status quo. But the majority of Nigerian men were angry and called her out. Some even insulted her husband for supporting her.

See reactions below;

https://www.torimill.co/viral/9559/lady-shares-how-she-avoided-kneeling-for-husband-during-traditional-marriage.html

Open marriage is the type of marriage where the man and the woman with each other's consent, are allowed to cheat.

is it really being practiced in Nigeria?

https://www.torimill.co/viral/9546/do-people-practice-open-marriage-in-nigeria-lady.html

More; https://www.torimill.co/news/9540/lady-accuses-taxify-driver-of-theft-fraud-and-he-gives-his-side-of-the-story.html


Lalasticlala Mynd44 Dominique

A lady named Agatha Grace has accused a Taxify driver named Justice, of fraud and theft, and the driver has replied explaining his side of the story.

Agatha said she ordered for a ride on Taxify Nigeria at about 7pm and Justice was her driver. The ride was from Ajah to Chevron, Lekki, and at the end of the trip, she forgot to confirm if the driver had ended the trip.

Later, she found out he had not ended the trip and had continued to Surulere. She ended up getting charged the sum of 6,900 on her card.

She added that when she called the Taxify driver to refund her money, he told her he was on a trip and later asked her to do her worse.

She shared screenshots online to prove her story as can be seen below;

Getting in touch with the Uber driver and below is what he had to say;

"When I saw the receipt this morning I told her no problem we'll lay complaint to Taxify and if they are not ready I'll refund it myself.

"What happened is I did end the trip immediately and proceeded to another one. I agree the amount was high. I told her I'm going to refund her and she should just wait for some time for Taxify to resolve the issue.

If we don't hear from the company I will personally refund you but she refused and told me she will report to the police and take the case to social media.

"Her friends called me and I explained everything to them then they asked me to settle amicably with her. I chatted her up on WhatsApp to explain and asked her to wait for sometime but she refused to listen and told me she wants her money now now."

He added: The thing is I didn't even go to Surulere yesterday night. That's what I don't understand. Immediately after her trip. I got another trip and I can't start that trip if I don't end her own."

More screenshots shared by Agatha Grace below;

https://www.torimill.co/news/9540/lady-accuses-taxify-driver-of-theft-fraud-and-he-gives-his-side-of-the-story.html

Lalasticlala Mynd44 Dominique

The police officer identified as Celeste Jaqueline Ayala was patrolling a children’s hospital in Berisso, Argentina, last week when she heard a baby crying, and she could tell the infant needed food.

The baby was in a group of neglected and hungry children and the officer, who is also a new mother. immediately took the baby, ignored his lack of hygiene and nursed him.

According to reports, Ayala, because of her action, has now been promoted from officer to sergeant.

https://www.torimill.co/world/9519/female-police-get-promoted-after-breastfeeding-a-random-hungry-kid.html

This ladySarah Jean Gosney
@sarahjeangosney seems to be saying that while men can sleep around, women can't do same without emotional damage.

Read what she wrote below;

"Women are not built to sleep around. We sustain serious emotional and sometimes physical damage from this behavior. It inhibits our ability to pair bond to form healthy, lifelong relationships.

It is not an achievement when a woman has had many sexual partners. It's not hard for a woman to get sex. It simply means she's easy.

Protect yourself from being used and stop sleeping around."

https://mobile.twitter.com/sarahjeangosney/status/1031915932703240193

Read this thought-provoking write-up by a Nigerian lawyer, Firsts Baba Isa;

"THE GOD IS NOT TO BLAME.
When I went to South Korea for a short course in 2016, the deplorable condition of my country hit me hard in the face.

We are teaching our children to worship God while these countries are teaching their children to be gods.

We teach our children to pray for smart phones and cars, while they teach theirs to invent smart phones and cars. Then our children become adults who go to church to thank God for smart phones and cars purchased from other countries whose children have become adults who invent cars and smart phones.

That's why they don't need our God because without them our God can't bless us. It is the cars and smart phones they invent that we give testimony and thank our God for in our churches. Then we go about boasting that it was pastor's prayers and anointing that gave us these stuff.

We are teaching our kids that "A" is for "Apple" and they are teaching their kids how to turn apples into other products and how to impregnate apples to give birth to beautiful bubbles.

We are still teaching our kids the botanical names of plants while they are teaching their kids how to marry mango and orange to produce man-range. They are teaching their kids coding and programming in well equipped schools while we are teaching our kids how to prophecy and speak in tongues in well equipped churches.

Our children's school drama is about how to be a pastor or imam while theirs is about how to relocate to a new planet. They boast about conquering Mars, while we boast about hearing from the Holy Spirit. We boast of defending Jesus and Prophet Mohammed, while they boast of producing cures for deadly disease.

We choose our leaders based on tribe and religion while they choose theirs based on the solutions these leaders bring to the table.

The God we all claim to love is definitely not in love with us. But in the end, the God is not to blame.
- Firsts Baba Isa (FBI)"

https://www.torimill.co/travel/9494/we-teach-our-kids-to-speak-in-tongues-while-they-teach-theirs-to-invent-man.html

Lalasticlala Mynd44 Dominique

A man abandoned his family abroad and returned to Nigeria to take a new young bride. Now, his family abroad are having their revenge and the man can't seem to stand it.

Read the tweets below;

"So let me tell you about my trifling aunt's husband who is acting out because the consequences of his actions are closing in on him, and in true Nigerian man fashion, is causing him to act in over dramatic ways, claiming to be disrespected when he provided so many reasons to be.

My sweet Auntie J, mother of 6, married to her husband of over 25 years lived in a nice beautiful home in Houston.
She is a nurse and he is an engineer and in 2012, the start of this sordid tale,
all their kids aside from the youngest were in college.

The year 2012 is significant to this story, because this year unlike all the previous ones where my uncle would bundle up his entire family to visit Nigeria in Christmas, this year was the one he wanted to go alone, a surprise to my Aunt, and a source of joy to his kids, who were

Hoping for just one year to have an American Christmas.
My aunt was troubled at the idea of her husband spending christmas alone, but also didn't mind spending it with the rest of her family in Houston.
Christmas day arrives, they call Uncle on the phone, and pray together.

He tells them he will be back mid January.
Mid january rolls by, Uncle still isn't home.
End of January, Mid february, End of february. My Aunt is so confused, what about his job? He tells her it's all sorted and he is building a church in his village.
She doesn't want to push

So she tells her kids what he said. Mid march, end of march, April arrives. Uncle is still not home. And now, he refuses to answer my aunt's questions about why he isn't coming home, and it becomes a reason why he doesn't pick up her calls anymore, telling her, she is

Disrespecting him as a husband, by questioning the choices he is making to serve his family at home.
His youngest child graduates from high school, he doesn't make it home for it.
My aunt who always contributed to the finances in their home, is now responsible for 100% of it.

She takes more shifts to support her family.
After 6 months of absence and infrequent phone calls, my uncle's relatives in Nigeria, call my aunt to let her know that he is married to someone else, their wedding was in December, and his new wife is pregnant. And she is 18.

They didn't know how to tell her and finally bolstered up the courage to do so.

Chile...the indignity, the despair, the disregard, the disrespect.

My aunt went into such a depression, that her youngest who just graduated from high school, had to take a year off. She deffered

Her admission to college, to help drive her mother to work everyday, because her mom stopped being able to drive herself.
They moved to a much smaller home because my aunt couldn't work at the same pace anymore to sustain their previous lifestyle because of her depression.

She was lifeless, and it terrified everyone. She became so much more clingy, imploring her children to come home every break/weekend they had free from college. Also the reason why she could justify her daughter deferring her college admission to remain home with her and drive

Her to work. A justification my aunt who upheld education like so many Nigerian parents, would previously have never done.

My aunt refused to take any calls from her husband.

He talked to everyone else though. It was his belief that as a man, he was allowed to marry more than

One woman. He believed my aunt was being stubborn for not being accepting of his second wife.
He told his children that he expected them to be welcoming to their new sibling who had now been born.

He planned to remain in Nigeria and visit them from time to time.

After 2 rough years my aunt fully adjusted to his absence and so did their kids.

Their oldest son got married in 2015 and he was absent from the wedding even though he was invited. My aunt did not want him there, but after her son pushed for it, she accepted and he didn't come

He instead sent a list of guests that should attend on his behalf.

No one on that list was invited.

The family at that point moved on like he wasn't alive.

My aunt got her grove back and began travelling, alone, with friends, with her daughters.
Her children, all doing well

Buy her plane tickets, take her on cruises, take her to concerts, my aunt is living her best life, and looking great, her spirit is so young and shiny now, like it never was even when she was living with her husband.

My aunt is now ready to make the divorce final.

Her oldest daughter is getting married next month, and has asked that her father not be invited to the wedding.
Her brother will be walking her down the aisle.
My uncle, who again declined coming for the wedding, despite this time not even being invited, has been threatening

His son, for agreeing to walk his sister down the aisle. Leaving angry voicemails on all his children's phones.

"I am still alive! What type of disrespect is this, I will curse you if you dare walk your sister down the aisle, WHEN I AM STILL ALIVE!"

It has become such a

Crazy situation that it is disrupting the wedding.
He is calling all relatives to tell them how wicked my Aunt is for letting their son disrespect him, by acting like he is dead.
My mom decided to intervene by calling him to calm him down (and the reason I know this story)

mother why he was mad.
"I am so embarrased to have a wife that is so shameless! Have you seen all the cruises and traveling she does? She is a mother of 6, and she is travelling to places like this? She is a prostitute!!"

He continued,
"And she wants to divorce me now, infact I will give that divorce to her because I am ashamed of her conduct".

A 70 years old man, "married" to a now 24 years old woman with two children who are not older than 6, has this much to say about the woman he abandoned.

Selfishness is present in men in astronomical levels, mostly because society tells men the world belongs to them.
They are allowed to do what they want, whenever they want, and expect to be forgiven and you to be understanding of it.
It creates an inability to be self aware.

"The horrible thing I am doing cannot be wrong, because I am allowed to do it, but the nothing you are doing, is extremely wrong, because you are not allowed to do anything"
The closest thing I can relate to that type of logic is how the police interacts with minorities.

They perceive themselves as superior to you and so, make allowances for the wrong they do, because in their handbook, they are allowed to get away with it.
You on the other hand, doing nothing, mimicking what they do or fighting back will get you arrested and even worse, killed.

If you think that police philosophy is illogical, then you should be aware that it mirrors male logic in it's lack of self awareness and accountability."

https://www.torimill.co/viral/9482/lady-narrates-how-man-abandons-family-abroad-to-take-a-young-wife-in-nigeria.html

A Nigerian man Taofeek Oluwanishola Anifata was stabbed to death by his girlfriend’s ex, Godson Akran, in Fort Bend County, Katy, Texas.

Akran, 38, also a Nigerian, is in custody after he allegedly fatally stabbed Anifata, last Thursday morning, in front of his own two children.

Authorities said Akran knocked on the door of the woman’s home in the 3700 block of Daintree Park Court, off Tamarron Parkway, and got into an argument with her. He left and she called 911. The suspect returned, this time getting into a fight with the woman’s new boyfriend, Anifata, who was also at the house.

That was when Akran stabbed Anifata inside the home.
The woman’s three children, who are ages 2, 4 and 12, also live at the home with her.

The suspect, who is the father of the 4-year-old and 12-year-old kids, left the neighborhood in a silver car with another person. He made it a few miles before he was stopped on FM 1463 and taken into custody.

Detectives said the suspect and his ex were apparently separated for at least two years before Thursday’s attack.

https://www.torimill.co/news/9474/see-the-nigerian-man-stabbed-to-death-in-the-us-by-girlfriends-ex-photos.html

A Nigerian Twitter user, @AirCoker took to her page to reveal how a man savagely turned down a female cashier.

Read the story below;

"My mum and I went to a mini mart to get toiletries.

While we were picking our items,a guy walks in. Looking around for things he wants to get.

When it was time to pay. I noticed the Cashier girl was overly friendly to this guy.

And she goes....

Ahh, you came alone today?
He replies,
My BABE traveled, but she'll be back next weekend.
She then says "your beards are fuller from the last time you came" And your shirt looks good on you, brings out your body.

I looked at my mum and she gave me this look �

Sha, the guy thanked her and smiled.

Then Aunty goes "CAN I HAVE YOUR NUMBER"? so we can talk more and get to know each other better.

"My Mum whispers to me ; I thought he made it clear he has a Babe"?
I said its Shoot your shot season.

He goes okay. Pack my Stuff...

I'll give you before I leave.
She does so with speed. And hands her phone to him smiling.

He dials the numbers, hands her back her phone

And says "THAT'S MY BABE'S NUMBER, YOU CAN CALL HER AND ASK HER IF IT'S OKAY FOR YOU TO HAVE MY NUMBER"."

https://www.torimill.co/viral/9465/lady-shares-how-a-guy-turned-down-a-female-cashier-at-a-mart.html

His idea is that the lady needs to pamper her man as much as he pampers her and she can't do that if she earns below 200K.

https://www.torimill.co/viral/9459/ladies-earning-below-200k-a-month-shouldnt-be-in-a-relationship-man.html


Lalasticlala Mynd44 Dominique

A Nigerian man identified as Mr. Friday who worked with the chairman of Delta State Oil Producing Areas Development Commission as a driver, who was arrested for allegedly raping the chairman's 13-year-old girl and getting her pregnant in the process in Sapele, Delta state has been released by the police.


According to reports, Mr. Friday who lost his job and house because of the rape was released because the issue got more complicated. It was later learnt that Mr. Friday sent fifty thousand naira to the mother of the girl to carry out abortion on the girl.

https://www.torimill.co/news/9451/man-arrested-for-raping-13-year-old-girl-in-delta-state-regains-freedom.html

Days ago, the story of a Benue mother who had sex with her son so she could have kids for her husband shocked Nigerians. But her case is not the first of its kind.

There have been stories of mothers who got married to their sons on other continents, especially in the western world. Surprisingly, some African mothers have also engaged incest and took it further by marrying their sons or having kids by them.

One Malawian mother married her son because she spent so much to train him and she didn't want those "other women who have been aborting" to come and enjoy her hard work.

Below are some mothers who got married to and/or were impregnated by their sons.

1. Memory Njemani

According to Zambian observer, Ms Njemani said;
"I invested a lot of money in the education of my son. Why should another woman be married to him and enjoy my hard work I invested in him? That will not happen. I’m marrying my son so that we don’t empower other women who have been aborting."

The two have since married and are staying together.

2. Betty Mbereko

In 2014, the story of Betty Mbereko, a Zimbabwean mother who got married to her son and got pregnant for him, shocked the world.

Betty, 40 at the time, who had been widowed for 12 years, married her son Farai Mbereko, 23 at the time,
Ms Mbereko, who was 6 months pregnant for her son at the time they got married, said she decided it is better to marry her son because she does not want to marry her late husband’s young brothers, whom she says have been coveting her. She told the village court that the affair with her son had begun three years earlier.

According to Zimbabwe Mail, she told the village court council;
"Look, I strove alone to send my son to school and no one helped me. Now you see that my son is working and you accuse me of doing something wrong. Let me enjoy the products of my sweat.".

Mrs. Mbereko’s son/husband said he was more than prepared to marry his mother and would pay off the bride price balance his father had left unpaid to his grandparents.

He said;
"I know my father died before he finished paying the bride price and I am prepared to pay it off. It is better to publicise what is happening because people should know that I am the one who made my mother pregnant."

The village court asked them to immediately break off their marriage or leave his village. They chose the latter and have since left the village for an undisclosed destination.

3. Mrs. Veronica Iorshe

Veronica Iorshe, 47, from Benue state, is currently pregnant with her 26-year-old son's child after she lured him to have sex with her for two months because she wanted a son for her husband.

She eventually got pregnant but her husband refused to accept responsibility and drove her away.

https://www.torimill.co/metro/9449/african-mothers-who-had-sexual-relations-with-their-biological-sons.html

L

flyca:
In a way, I agree.

Home is sweet when it feels like home. And there is no place like home. This statement is very true but you may not understand this until you move abroad.

Sometimes, a lot of times, I wish I could just pick up my bags and scream “I'm done here”. Then I think for a second and realize that there is actually “no home” to go back to The reason many of us are stuck abroad. So we stay back and keep up the fight.

Hugs babe, I'm with you in this one. I feel you.

Nigeria is not home

A Nigerian teacher, Mr KaKa Babatunde is mourning his former female student, who died recently.

According to Babatunde, the deceased, a former student of Sunny Bright Academy, Sangotedo, Lagos, committed suicide.

Read what he wrote below;
"No matter what we go through, no matter how depressing, traumatic and heart -wrenching the situation is, please stay strong and be hopeful. Our precious lives can't be held into ransom by a few who are hell bent to destroy us. If possible, purge out everything to a trusted fellow other than bottling up everything till suicide becomes the last option.

I'm sending my condolences to friends and families of one my dear students who gave up on scary circumstances. It's so painful to become a lesson to others. The news of ur demise was shocking and hurtful.

Take hearts all #SBA fam. RIP Ajarat, may almighty God forgive your misdeeds."

https://www.torimill.co/metro/9437/please-stay-strong-nigerian-teacher-advises-people-battling-depression.html

Lalasticlala Mynd44 Dominique

A young woman, Adaeze Angela Anabaraonye has been thrown into mourning following the untimely death of her husband of four years.
On Saturday, August 11, the young widow narrated how her husband, Tochukwu died after he returned from Sunday Mass on July 8.
According to Adaeze who is four months pregnant, on that fateful day, he played the keyboard in Church, sang with the microphone, took Holy Communion. After the Mass, he asked her to take photos of him and their two children in the Church Chapel.

Read her post below;

"I lost my husband to the cold hands of death last month July 8 on Sunday after Sunday service. My consolation is that he had the fear of God. Praised Him that Sunday, played the keyboard, sang with the microphone and told me to snap him and the kids in front of the Chapel. He served God during his short stay on earth.

Now am confused not knowing the next step to take because am heavy and my first child of 4yrs old keeps asking of his Daddy while the second child keeps pointing to different directions at night saying daddy daddy.

Please remember me in prayers that I should deliver safely and should also be strong for these children because my heart beats faster than normal.

Please pray for a sister in need of God's protection, blessing and intervention.

Please let your prayers touch God for because I believe in psalms 121vs1 which says I look up to the mountain where will my help come from? My help will come from the Lord who made heaven and earth.

I only rely on Him.

"Halleluyah........... Glory be to our Heavenly Father. In every/any situation I will glorify your name. My husband has gone to continue singing and praising our glorious God with the heavenly cherubim and seraphim. Weep no more everyone for Tochukwu Stanley Anabaraonye is with the Lord.

He prepared himself, went to Church: played keyboard, sang with microphone, took communion.After Mass took photos with his children in the Chapel. Let place our hope in the Lord for He is the author and finisher of our faith.

My Hubby, your children and I will continue pray for you and love you always. Congratulations on your new address. One day we will all be together in the presence of the Lord. Rest in peace Honey m. We will be strong for you."

Also see the posts she shared days after her husband's death;

https://www.torimill.co/news/9429/woman-narrates-how-her-husband-died-after-returning-from-sunday-service.html

A Nigerian Twitter user, @elitetatafo took to his page to share an experience he had with a lady who left him depressed after she sexually harassed him by pressing her boobs on his chest.

Read his full post below;

"I was sexually harassed by a Girl.

She met me for the first time, and i offered a handshake and she said ;

Hey fine boy, ain't no way i'm not gonna hug you,' and then she dragged me to herself and pressed her boobs to my chest.

I feel so sad fam, this is depressing :-("

https://mobile.twitter.com/elitetatafo/status/1028211012066000897


https://www.torimill.co/viral/9423/man-left-depressed-after-he-was-sexually-harassed-by-a-lady.html

A US Based-Palestinian lady took to her Twitter TL to expose an unidentified Arab 'soon-to-be doctor' who threw a fit at her because she refused to send him some photos that she felt were inappropriate.

After his bitter rant, she shared screenshots of their conversation, but made sure to protect his identity.

Read what she wrote on her TL and their conversation below;

https://www.torimill.co/viral/9406/soon-to-be-arab-doctor-throws-a-fit-after-hijabi-woman-refuses-to-send-her-n-de-photos.html

According to the man, N200 pregnancy test kit saved him from extortion from his girlfriend.

Continue to read his story below;

"If any girl wants to fake any useless pregnancy for you, read this thread and see how I outsmarted one of them

Thread.

So Aunty came to me and said she missed her period and after doing a test, she found out that she was pregnant. I began to sweat inside a/c but I was cautious with my first reaction coz I know these things matter to ladies a lot.

I was like 'Are you sure' she replied in the affirmative. Guy, I was scared as hell but I told her it's cool and I'll live to have a pretty baby like her... But in my mind, hmmn lol. She was like no she can't keep this baby, she wanted to abort

As I'm against abortion, I told her we would face the consequences together that we should keep it... Aunty kept asking for abortion money... I became suspicious. Then I told her I would give her the money the next day.

Outside her knowledge, I went to the pharmacy, bought 4 ptest sticks... 50naira for one... I hid it well.. We slept and around 4 a.m she woke to gan pee.. Me that I didn't sleep... I called her back to come pee in a bowl beside the bed

After several back and forth, she agreed to pee inside the bowl.. After which I dipped the four sticks into the urine bowl... Not one of them brought 2 lines (which is an indication for pregnancy tho).... The way I looked at her ehn

She argued again that it could fluctuate or something... I agreed... Next day bought 4 more ptest sticks... Shebi na just 200naira...we used it and same results... She blamed it on the "clinic she did the test at".... I said OK but inside I laughed like mad.

Please gentlemen, most times these ladies are just trying to extort you.

I know many ladies will hate me for this thread but guess what.... "I'm sad"

https://www.torimill.co/viral/9400/nigerian-man-narrates-how-his-girlfriend-tried-extorting-him-using-a-fake-pregnancy.html

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A twitter user @ahungrycentaur and his partner have welcomed a son after 5 years of waiting and a tortuous journey to becoming parents.

Posting photos of their son on his twitter handle, the excited new dad wrote;
''It’s taken 5 years, 4 pregnancies, 3 miscarriages and 2 unsuccessful rounds of IVF to produce 1 beautiful baby. And here he is... the boy who lived''.

https://www.torimill.co/news/9394/after-4-pregnancies-3-miscarriages-2-ivf-and-5-years-of-waiting-couple-welcome-a-baby.html