₦airaland Forum

kingdman:
Any woman that can not cook is useless to her husband... a woman should know how to cook atleast 7 different kind of soups

Wetin be 7? If possible 5 dishes from each the major ethnicity in the country with other intercontinental dishes as well.

Mamarockzie:
I have only said these words once in my adult life, and I said them to the person I loved more than anything. As embarrassing as it is to admit, it was my most recent relationship, and I'm well past the age where I should be telling anyone I hate them. But I did. Michael had knowingly hurt me on a level that elicited so much pain and anger, hatred was the only way I could describe it.

The details of what happened between us are complicated, and they usually are. But essentially, he launched an emotional warfare that ended in utter destruction of the kindness, love I had. It was absolutely heartbreaking to watch someone I love so deeply treat me in the most degrading way ever yet I stayed hoping for the best.

In the end though, it wasn't how bad he treated me that hurt the most, because I (stupidly) was still in love with him but him intentionally hurting me all because of he knew I genuinely loved him.

I had to create a diary for it too, at least to read how I unknowingly allowed myself to love the wrong person genuinely.

Madam please move on from this guy na.

Stop disturbing us with his issue, there are other wonderful things out there that can make u happy. Just locate them.

edoairways:
I hope they don't spoil this one

Abi.

edoairways:
I don't know if he in charge however nollywood actress Gloria Young mentioned the remark of glamour girls

Yes, Even Nneka the pretty serpent. Let cross our hands.

NoFap123:
WizKid - Grammy
Burna Boy - Grammy
David - Coming to America

Choose your G.O.A.T wisely

I chose David though am not a fan of any of musician. The hate on that guy is too much because t he still rocks.

justosee:
I didn't see any part of the article that suggests the children are in same neighborhood with the pastor.

Reread again. Probably the reason they went Inside to play since they know the owner in their area.

AFONJACOW:
They should do proper investigation because I see no sense someone will hide his crime in his own property that will implicate him when he has chance of disposing them elsewhere, the grandmother is also a prime suspect here, kids left your place since 7th and you couldn't even check same day to know if they reach their destination in peace

Abi! I almost thought same too, the grand mother should be questioned too.

That pastor though I don't trust them is innocent.

firstratedcitiz:
Yes. Kunle Afolayan is better than Ramsey Nouah. But Ramsey is trying. He performs better than most other directors in the film industry, at least. His movies, even though mostly not his own original story, are not flops, like millions of Nollywood movies flooding the market. Nigerian films are so popular in the United States. You won't believe it but we do watch a lot of Nollywood movies over here. Not only Nigerian and African immigrants, but white people also watch Nollywood films. Therefore it's only right that we need talented minds producing these movies. I am however disappointed with how the producers subtitle some of these movies. The English texts used as subtitles are often full of grammatical mistakes, which is so embarrassing.

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Yes he is trying compared to those Asaba movies but not with a list directors yet.

I was happy when he ventured into directing his two movies so far are medicore, that rattle snake was such a diaster, box office was flop. he still need to improve. With time he will get there.
Subtitles have always been a problem to Nigeria directors. I just don't know why even some on netflix even lion heart.

edoairways:
Ramsey Noah's movies are better of whether remaking or not. By way glamour girls is on the way

I hope he doesn't make the same mistake he made with rattle snake. that movie was a diaster even at the box office. I really love glamour girls o, I just can't wait hope he doesn't disappoint.

firstratedcitiz:
I give it to Kunle Afolayan. The guy is good at what he does. I watched Citation on Netflix recently and couldn't stop wondering how he got it so right. Even the lead character in Citation, Temi Otedola, was only making her debut appearance in Nollywood, yet Afolayan succeeded to make her play the part well. Another film director in Nollywood whose works deserve equal commendation is Ramsey Nouah.

Ramsey Noah doesn't even come close to kunle. He just started and the two movies her started with are not even his own original story. They were a diaster at the box office, he made a mess of those old classic.

Giving time he will improve but not close to kunles league.

Citation and the tribunal are two of kunles most intelligent movies.

I trust his work but his movies should be more entertaining. Most of them are not entertaining but with very good story lines.
Only entertaining moves with gud plot performs well in the box office.

I expect nothing less from last days generation. May Jehovah protectbhis servants from people like this till his day of Anger and destruction of the wicked.

chatinent:
I can.

Ok. am interested, am listening.

chatinent:
Talking about a billion years is too far.


Jesus prophesied that the end is this period. We are living in the last of the last days.

Can you prove it from the said Bible.

Nigerians are naturally mannerless people without respect. So if you know what is gud for you better learn to ignore their vile attitude.

Sometimes u go just dey surprise wetin being anger come now?

bwambasolomon:
Weldone, you seem like you are her defender. What you don't know, you are talking as if you were in the same room with us.

Yes I wasn't there with u neither was I there with Her.

Everyone should move on abeg e.

I just love the costumes

That Royal Jacuzzi

Very entertaining. At least it was a break from Nollywood craps.
I so love their costumes.

Fiscus105:
Crying more than bereaved, ur rant shows exact who you are. Hypothetical at highest level, go back and read how she herself commented.

A bull in a Chinese shop.

What do I expect from a wasted generation.

bwambasolomon:
I don't go into a relationship for sex. I am not a sex driven human being. I have that gift. Wanting to start a family with someone is not a crime. It just didn't work out, and trust me, I have no regrets, because I know where I am headed in life. The only thing that brought problem here is that she was asked to contribute 40% of expenditures, which is fair for a girl who earns the same as I do. So there was nothing wise about her move.

U were unfaithful with other babes, u secretly smokes, drinks without her knowledge from the beginning. I also spot hot tempered.

Am sure no reasonable lady will regret such a break up.

The reason I say is a very wise move by her.
U both should move on.

lastchild:
you are right, but based on my experiences, women are fragile in emotions

unless you hated the guy before you guys parted ways, as long as you still likes him, if he eventually becomes your male beastie again, it'll happen

Madam just ignore this stupid comments. His type are those that sleeps with married women so he thinks are women can be like other people's wife he sleeps with.

Fiscus105:
If circumstances can bring two of you together physically and this guy disturbs you a little bit further, he will definitely break ur defense and spark sensation burning in heart. You might not agree o but its reality.

Useless human being! U think everyone is weak and cheats on their spouse?
Keep screwing ex-turned people wife urs will be screwed too.

Iamafinegirl:
Did you tell them that when we are talking
“You are not serious is a big INSULT for you”
Did u tell then that when u say I like trump and I say “me I hater trump because of this and that” it is already an offense and you admitted that maybe it’s true you having issues with me airing opinions because you are boss or what I don’t know? That was one day holyspirit made you admit...so you knew you had the issue all this while but you would be shouting I am the person arguing (I never knew different opinions was argument. I heard it first from you).
Did you tell them a simple conversation or difference in opinion even on a gist is an insult to you?

Did you tell them I think of quality and wen a frying pan was needed I was saying the new expensive ones sef are not good, they burn. Second new is better in this case and we got a second new one? Because it’s not necessarily about cost but most times you won’t even be able to understand the depth of what I suggest sometimes.

Did you tell them I explained something one day that I paid money to so and so person to avoid a problem and you tried to give me another solution to have taken and I was like “me I don’t want wahala oo thats why I did what I did@ and because everything is fight and arguement for you you had stood up stormed out of the house because you felt i said I don’t want your wahala etc when all I was saying is that I didn’t want wahala if d issue boomeranged and so I didn’t even look for other means I just did d surest method in question” did u settle down to listen or because you never patient and always ready to call everything an argument or fight you had kickstarted your nature?

Did you tell them you wanted a car and I said this car is too expensive tell someone who we know imports to bring for you although the person could delay and may change the car you agreed on but I said do a written agreement with him so it would be cheaper for you and that way he won’t do anything funny ? And you would spend less and get a better grade or level like the one I got instead of paying for something lower at the same price as the one you paid for in town. Out of love, did you not turn it to fight and say I am wicked, and louded the issue and dramatised it as being evil.
Did you tell them you lied to me that you don’t drink or smoke?
But you drink and lied from foundation of a relationship to win a girl?
When I realised out of anger I said you lied to me you don’t drink but you are a drunkard.
Did your remember saying my father who doesn’t drink at all and you know fully is the drunkard
You have called me demonic woman
You have called me stupid woman
You have called me very stupid woman
When you were trying to win me and I was saying no no I didn’t want, leave me and you were ever persistent didn’t I tell you I am scared the depth of what you feel is more of obsessive not love?
Then I should to shout I would say cause am not a lier that you should leave me, is it by force etc etc which u refer to today and I do tell you then your pressure was too much and I didn’t like you which is normal to any woman who didn’t initially like a man that kept pressuring her...knocking her gate over and over on different occasions etc.

The list is endless but if we discussing and you don’t understand what I am saying and I am frustrated talking and I say “you no dey understand English” you just flare up that that is a big insult.
Things that aren’t insults you made them insults to defend yourself.
Did you tell them the most times we went to Shoprite then I use to be the one buying things...and you usually pick nothing. So why should Shoprite be so expensive if I buy water “nestle water” and other things from there even before we ever dated and you used to follow me there to win me and I never asked you to pay for me or use you as a toaster?

Did you tell them that you are building and I am also building because we had started the seperate building plans before we started dating?

And the months you spent all your salary not even on the building alone oo. Busy dashing people and at 3rd of the month you were broke and I was like how would we handle the house you said I am there and I held those months because that’s what a good woman would do. I know men can have extended family responsibilities but women too have and it’s still ideal to plan inclusive of extended family.

Did you tell dem that wen you arrived at the counsellor we told them we had a 60k and 40k rule as at then but we just weren’t piling it in the same account and the pastor said ok we should do it as a joint account so no one would feel he is bringing all the money” and we stop spending differently. you told them it’s the pastor who proposed it or he told us that ok you people should just put the money in a seperate account and the wife asked what else is making you angry and you said contributions for repair should be added”.

Did you tell them that when your drivers license expired and there was a delay with joint account , you said you would keep some part of the contribution for where you stay but I must submit all my own contribution to your younger sisters account while you submit just some to her because you don’t trust me with money. The younger sister would now be the one dishing out the feeding money to me who is the one working? While you comfortably keep part of your contribution as a boss. Did you tell them I said you should give her all if i would also have to submit my own all to her since she is the chosen financial manager of our own institution so she can be dishing out money to both of us as at when due since distance is not a barrier to bank transfer so I would also monitor u because you don’t trust me with money and you want to monitor what I am eating when u aren’t even there with me.

Did you tell them you don’t live according to your means and you always borrowing and financing a lifestyle heavier than you inclusive of feeding which is high (because you eat 70-80%) of all the food in the house? Did you tell them you have collected above 14 million naira loan and you haven’t completed any house you are building aside still having normal money people have used to complete their own houses.

Did you tell them you give them babes money and say send me your account number Cus I have seen it but to buy Apple extra for me out of a budget as per my love this one na for u from my pocket? Did you tell then as we came back from your location you had meeting with your babe asking if hostel has resumed and all by 6pm same day?

Did u tell them that I had been using clin-cap face cream, benzoxide peroxide face cream, and you have been using it with me and I have never said this cream is 2000 and the other is 1000 let’s contribute from budget but you bought olaybact for me 400 naira and you were balancing account for me?

Did you tell them I did a soap mix of 13000 naira to 15,000 naira and you have been lovingly using it With me since January and I have never in my life said your contribution for soap but you won’t even do it, if you did sef you would have been asking for money by now.

Did you tell them that even to buy apple while taking me to were you lived loveingly as per this is my new location has to be from the budget and that you couldn’t say babes aside this budget this for you?
Did you tell them I also contributed for the fuel as you were taking me lovingly to your new location? Location you dey go dey come yourself but as I go follow u go know d place I must pay for transport. I for kukuma just enter public transport. But I don’t even have a problem with that since that’s what he wanted. We just accounted for my part.

Did you tell them...that I am not wasteful and you went ahead to do things you wanted to do and started blaming me for it. Like buying a new tv when your mum was around for them...knowing fully well I hardly look at a television and you did it for you and yours?

Did you tell them this girl who doesn’t contribute lovingly gives your sis money and also give your mum at least in the best way I can afford within my means once in a while but you no send me message so that’s my business you are not even seeing it. Na me send myself?

Did you tell them when your mum came I told you on phone that I don’t think you should but extra mattress that I am not at home and you aren’t home and that the kids that joined could stay with your sister in her room and mummy use our bed? Or viceversal since they won’t stay for long? How have I made u spend or I have cautioned you instead in spendings and it has been insults or I am arguing?

When last did you buy me a gift in a year and half? It was a wig when you were still trying to toast me. That was only when you were trying to win my heart.
Did you tell them you don’t do anything for me, and I don’t ask you for money for cloth, hair etc or my own fuel as I am a responsible adult and not a burden on a man which you know yourself. Did you let them know that the food you eat 70% of and the house repair you would do definitely if I am there or not is what you would always come and stand on my head for when we weren’t yet contributing in a joint account. Did you tell them you don’t take care of me and you are just so self centered about the feeding part because you eat more of the food? Yet I was still buying food oo no be say I go out and don’t bring anything to the house. I still buy meat, tomatoes, onions etc but maybe not just up to the person who consumes the 80%.

Did u tell them d day you took me out and water was bought which was like two years ago was a special day I think maybe Valentine or my birthday or something and “I was only asking to be treated special”. As per today na correct day, spoil me na.
Did you tell them that I spoke of buying some thing like good blender or electronic because you need quality one to last. Since the former cheap one spoilt, The cheap juicer bought spoilt first day. Even for my father house like 5 spoilt blender dey and from experience we realised blenders spoil easily and more expensive one last more?

Was there not finally a decision where the expensive “binatone” blender was picked because for some things, quality is important so it lasts?

Did you tell them I met condoms in your other room and you alleged it’s your boss that came to your house to use it? Because you couldn’t tell him no?
Did you tell them that if I want to do something you would use my car and if you want to do something you would use your car and I said love should cover all this there should be no differentiating of car for activities and you can use mine when you want and viceversal?

Did u tell them I said we shouldn’t keep this house n let me go back to my empty house because I kuku get were I dey live na him welcome me come ooo. I didn’t even use to want to visit him initially just so purity is maintained. since you moved to new location. Did I contribute to the rent or not and you said you can’t or won’t receive the contribution so I won’t come and say I contributed to rent in future? Have you paid any extra rent other than the one you paid which covers the year you were present also? Is it that I don’t currently have a place I am staying or that I do and it was empty since I was with you?

The day he said I said drug was too expensive did he tell you he spent all his income that month already by 3rd or so due to poor planning and I used my income all for the month for food. Ofcourse I am sure he borrowed as usual for fuel for his car that month and maybe some extra things like suya etc you may want to eat and that’s why I couldn’t afford to buy that cream or is it even tablet I desperately needed quality type of drug to treat that ailment because it use to be stubborn when it comes but couldn’t afford it that month ?

In addition I forgot. The generator I would tell you to put on when wet had a generator house while some or most Nigerians just make a metal cover or so for their generator. So rain fell and the splash I could look wasn’t much and I would say it’s not like water entered this thing in its house like Dt just few splash on surface. I owned a generator I ran without it having issue before meeting you and while you where toasting me. I didn’t know I am unqualified to run a gen. I stopped touching your gen because it was complain upon complain or I am arguing with you by having a different opinion about ah it’s small splashes. Ofcourse if a gen was drenched would I with my full senses say lets put it on? When Nigerians keep their gen outside with normal cover. The days rain was so much and it drenched, we carried out the gen outside to air.

You would go out and meet the true definition of a Nigerian woman. Take care of her is what a man does, send her money for hair, dress, clothes etc.
And still buy food n do stuff.
You would remember I was never a burden on u
I hope you would have love enough for her to cover taking care of her abi u would start complaining and shouting on her too. I just hope you don’t faint then.

On the other hand I Wld meet the true definition of Nigerian man who knows he is to care at least and would appreciate that I am blessing and a good woman and not the typical African woman wen I also take up things at home. Simple

He painted the story to suit himself. He never mention he has other babes portraying himself to be a faithful saint. Is best u guys broke up.

One thing I like abt it was that u didn't allow sex. Wise move!
U can open a thread to counter him or just ignore him.

Hassanmaye:
Peace man, we are trying our best please. We will take notice ASAP, The reason for allowing post like this is because of relationship wahala everywhere, people are always sending post on relationships we have no option than to approve it.

We miss the old Nairaland where u only get to see matured topic.
These days I don't like checking here cos topic like; Regina daniels snapp picture usually flood the front page.

Richy4:
In as much as what you were trying to say is correct based on your experiences or perspectives, I disagree with you to some extent.

You should realize that we all did not come from one family.. Every family is unique in their own ways.... You don't expect one to have a good family and decides to keep them at arms length because of marriage, do you?... There's an adage that says " no one requests that hot water should be kept for him/her because he/her is gonna have a terrible fall"... So if something happens to the future husbands that you were advising to stay away from families because they were married, who will come to their support?

You took it off my keyboard!

Evening newspaper. Go and marry, kid should be running up and down.

pepperdemzombie:
Hope you and Linda no go fight again o!

He uploaded a house some years ago, only for Linda to expose him that he was a tenant. The owner even threw him out of that house eventually.
Let's hope this one is genuine.

That bursting pain am that time. I wonder why a wealthy guy like him would do that.

I have been waiting eagerly.
One of the top class written, directed, acted Nigeria movie. I want to see makanaki again seems I will support him this time around.

Blakpot:
Hating?
Above my league?
Nowadays everything is reduced to hating.

I'm not surprised you will say that, u probably watched one too many of his movies n it rendered u retarded. Sorry.

For the record, I have nothing personal against AY.
I dislike his jokes as much as Akpororo's.
I dislike his movies as much as those regular ROK junk.

Just because a movie is financially successful doesn't automatically make it a good movie.

Good example are those marvel movies n the fast n furious franchise.

If anything I'm angry because disappointed in their approach to filmmaking; its dishonest (na just another hustle).
Guys like AY don't care about the aesthetics of cinema, they are just after quick money.

Again I have nothing against AY na my fellow Warri brother, but I still wouldn't watch his movie.

Very clear is a case of hate not quality.
You have been hating on him a lot that has rendered u bitter. Too bad.

He isn't forcing you to watch. He is still making his cash and name. When u cheer for others, others will cheer for you as well.

Am not a fan of his though he is my fellow waffarian.

Viknat:
slicing right now

Her hair looks so dirty and unkept.

This babe, didn't know she is married. Congratulations to her.
But she get mind to upload this before delivery if she is not deceiving.