Dailyparrot: I have to create this thread after reading through the topic on front page asking for jobs/professions that will make you not to marry someone.
So, I'm talking to this Unizik student that's studying medical radiography. Everything was going well. She even told me that she has told her mother about me and all. We met on Facebook and she's already asking to see me in person.
Until the day she found out that I use my car for Uber/Bolt business, everything changed. This girl stopped talking to me.
She has never been to Lagos and does not know how Uber works. She was asking how much I earn in a day, and that hope the Uber is not like their normal school cab that charge 100 naira per person, bla bla bla.
Well, I just don't want to let her know my net worth. I don't do Uber full time. I work on Fiverr and because sales dropped there, I decided to use Uber to make up for the income. I also do academic research for foreign students. Etc. I am into a lot of stuffs that fetch me nothing less than 400k a month so I don't think I should be regarded poor.
My house in the East is at roofing level. I am almost completing the payment of 4.5 million for a land I'm purchasing at Mowe, I own my car plus another Sienna I bought when Fiverr was booming.
I have a masters degree. So, should a girl reject me because I use my car to drive on Uber?
I am just laughing at her ignorance. The other time, we were talking and I jokingly asked her why she's putting on make up, and she was like, so she can find better suitors.
I thence assume I am not a better suitor because to her, I'm poor. This is someone earning 8k per month in the school that she was teaching during ASUU strike.
I wonder why women are impatient when it comes to taking decisions and that's why most of them regret later.
I am supposing being a medical student makes this girl think she deserves someone better than just a cab driver.
LOL.
Lol! This one really pain you.
My guy na woman stop to talk to you not God. You don't need to disclose you networth to a woman for her to validate you. Man who use money to get ladies always run into marriage issues once that money stop comings.
You have all these and you need a lady schooling to validate you?
The presidential candidate of the All progressives Congress APC, Asiwaju Bola Tinubu campaign in Abia State and during his speech he referred to Peter Obi as one of his tenants in Lagos. Tinubu says he's Peter Obi's Landlord in Lagos and he would beat him silly in the coming election.
Can't this man just for once make sense and tell us how he would govern and better Nigeria. His campaign is just all about calling out Peter or Atiku.
Now I understand the saying " Even if you have money, you can't buy class..."
Deeprooted: After getting the job,he was posted to one northern state where he met the lady from the south west.
In less than 6 months, he told me someone wanted to say Hi to me when he called. I heard a lady's voice. He later introduced her to me as his fiancee.
Long story short. We went for wedding and all.
At the point of delivery which the doctor insisted on her having CS due to her medical condition, my brother insisted the wife will deliver via push. It was then the doctor made known to my brother " oga you're talking as if you're not aware of your wife's health"
Omo!!! Na there my brother come say he no Sabi ooo. It was discovered she's indeed SS. I asked my brother before we went for all the marriage rites of they're compatible health wise an he answered affirmative.
After the discovery, my brother left the wife in the hospital but my dad and I insisted he gets back to her till after everything.
It was when was after the successful surgery my brother told me that his wife brought the test result from another lab, reason being that he was busy when they were supposed to go for the test together.
For 60 years 40 million Ibos able bodied men and women can't build a River port or dredge River Niger, they can't build an inland port with a connecting rail from Onne or PortHarcout
*What do you actually think would happen when Lekki Deep Sea port connects to Lagos -Kano- Maradi Niger Republic Through Standard guarge rail the revenue streams to Lagos?!
*How much do you think Dangote Refinery which is one of the largest in Africa producing 650000 barrels per day would Generate in revenue to Lagos , South West and Nigeria?!
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Lol. Igbos dey give you sleepless night? Ode. E sure me die say you follow for all those touts for Ajah under bridge
ScamHunter: Not tenable. Being stingy to someone you like can arise as a result of many things. Im fact, it's not everyone that should be given things. Some time need to learn some lessons.
How common man won take explain give area say e no stinger, na money e no get.
Franzinni: I remember one day in ibadan, I was on a j.o.b with a couple of people, and then gist bring gist nah so one friend of mine come look me then he come begin wine me next thing, baba raise hand come to knack egede and God knows, me no even know when I raise hand recieved am in public... The guy come look me eye to eye come smile, mind you I am a bloody ignorant JU man ... That smile stuck in my mind becasue they were like 6 men and I only knew one .. the guy wey come knack egede.
Now we all were to stay the night in a challete, Omo that night I no fit sleep I just dey ask myself wetin make me knack that egede self... Because I saw one of the men bring something in from his car which he wrapped in a towel .. I had an uneasy feeling. .. but ultimately my looks alone will naturally put the fear of God in anyone so I just kept the act up and remained in beast mode all night... God knows if they wanted to check me for the handshake, there is nothing I could have done but collect the treatment... But I thank God.
I always tell people, the way you speak tells alot about you. Look at Tinubu, always speaking like a frustrated low life. How can you tell people "if you don't win your wards, you won't even get a soaked slice of bread" And people were cheering him oh!
I swear. If we fail to give Obi should loose these elections, I am done with Nigeria.
Calm down bro... Young ladies love to play silly games to "test" their partners, so it's not a new thing.
If I were you, I would snap the Facebook account on her phone as evidence and keep it. I would also open my own fake account using one big boy's picture and ask her out promising her money and love. . . Most likely she'll fail the test, then you can let the cat out of the bag so she can see how her game backfired.
Abfinest007: There are two types of women The one that fear God and the one God himself is afraid of
Nobody knows what the man went there maybe he was on a mission too .fear Nigeria women
What are you saying?
The lady was on a dating app abi only fans app. Then the husband's friend informed him and he set trap for he with a fake account. She belongs to the street
SalisuJasper: I got a disturbing message this morning that one of my friend is late due to drug abuse. Hes name is Tanimola aka moller in onikolobo abeokuta ogun state.
He was addicted to the drug and can't go a day without it and just yesterday they said he took overdose.
This is a real story as you can confirm from anyone in that axis. Drug abuse is very dangerous and can cut ones life short.
Loud, colorado, sk, ice is not good for you. the earlier you know, the better.
OP kindly push this to front page for others to learn
You have no respect for your Dead friend. Why not pass your information without posting the image of your supposed friend.
ChizzyBuna: The girl really likes me, but she is too shy. If I ask her questions it takes her long before she reply. She is also very indecisive and kinda slow. But she cute We will meet on Friday and I want to have sex with her. If I tell her to sit on my laps she will sit but she acts very shy. How should I make the move for sex?
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Update on today 18th January
She finally visited my state, I took her out we are and drank very well. She dosent drink alcohol, only malt and softs
I was direct and honest with her, we went to my place, she already knew my plans. But to my disappointment she is on her period I even touch the tampon as I put hand there E pain me but such is life. I just play porn for my phone, both of us lay in bed watching porn. I wish I asked her earlier if she was on her period. I for cancel the visit. But it's well.
We ended up kissing and I ducked her nipples. She was still shy but more relaxed than before. She told me she is not a virgin. She is just a naturally shy person that all. Any way I dropped her off by 3pm even tho she wanted to spend more time with me.
No sex, just kissing and nipple sucking At least she is now comfortable with me.
I just hope no be child abuse u dey plan. No vex oh.
[quote author=mutantninja post=120157661]I have been threatened before and believe me fellow nairalanders, it wasn’t a joke… during uni days I dated this woman , she was a medical doctor , she was in her 40s… she helped paid my schooling fees and sent me money for food… it was crazy because I was only 20… this woman bought me a blackberry which was well worth over 200k then.. I saw her as my savior … but every evening we would go to a hotel where she will make me have several rounds of sex with her, even if I was tired she will force me and use me like a dog , although I wasn’t aware of this, I thought I owed her my life cos I was abandoned by my own family because we were so poooor …
This went on for years, I was in my final year she had made me change my plans to be an engineer and I was now a medical student, so for 7 years this woman turned me to her slave.. she invited me to her matrimonial home and introduced me to her husband as her distant nephew who is going to be staying in their mansion and I kid you not this woman was very powerful as she was not only a doctor but married to a very powerful politician in Nigeria today … she made me have rounds with her in her husband’s bed.. I became a shadow of myself.. During my final year, there’s a girl (now my wife), that use to be my bestie from yr1, I was in love with this girl , this woman found out I was always seeing this girl and she got jealous and arrested me and accused me of stealing 20m from her safe in her room… I got arrested and spent 3days in cell here in kuje … when she came visiting, she spat on my face and called me a lowlife and a slave ,.. I shed tears typing this.. she threatened me so much I had to warn my bestie (now wife) not to ever talk to me again.. my release was secured after I swore never to talk to my bestie (now wife) again… fast forward 3 yrs later she died of cancer … and I became free… trust me, I was still in contact with my bestie because I really loved my bestie (now wife) even if she threatened to kill me I couldn’t have resisted… my bestie understood and we kept thinking of ways to free my chains from this evil woman … but a divine intervention happened! I don’t believe in God but a miracle happened and now I am a free man!!!!
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In-between, you knew this lady was married yet you willingly went to her house and her matrimonial bed?
DispatcherLagos: And the Christian's book told them that if the man was a Sinner before his death he will rot in hell and if paraventure his killers repents before their deaths, they will go to heaven.
Now assume that you have sense, does that make sense to you?
The same "Christian Book" will tell you Jesus also forgave and assured a thief who was crucified alongside with him on the cross. He assured him of Heaven just because he believed.
There is no sin God cannot forgive. Although I believe for every sin, there is a penance. If it's not paid by the committee, his or her children will pay. Sins of the father's is real.
Winterhaven: When I'm having strong feelings or being in love with someone and she doesn't feel the same way about me, I ghost her completely, so whatever I feel for her will fade into oblivion eventually. But the case I'm dealing with presently is unique. I'm in love with her but she doesn't feel the same way about me. We once worked together sometime last year which was how I met her. She seems decent and responsible. I love her and want a serious relationship with her but she said she is concentrating on her career and just want us to be friends. I later deleted her number from my phone and decided to ghost her and move on with my life hoping my feelings for her will eventually fade away. But whenever I thought I've forgotten about her, she'll reach out to me - she'll call me on the phone, we'll talk, she'll ask me how I'm doing and that I've forgotten about her and all. She always keep in touch with me from time to time. Personally, I just want to forget about her since she doesn't feel the same way I feel for her, but whenever she'd reach out to me, my feelings for her just keeps rushing back. She called on Saturday, she complained I've forgotten her. I told her I've not forgotten her, that I still have her in my thoughts. So I want to ask, is it advisable for me to keep in touch with her despite the fact that my love for her is unrequited?
Suck in your feelings and move on. She likes you as a friend not as someone she can date. Redirect those energy to people that love you. 5yrs from day, u will look back and regret on the time,energy and resource you spent chasing the wrong people.
Curious345: Operatives attached to the Lagos state police command are currently investigating a woman Busola Oyediran and her partner Akebiara Emmanuel for physically abusing her two biological children.
Busola Oyediran and her partner Akebiara Emmanuel who lives with her two children from her failed marriage in the Egbeda area of Lagos were arrested on Friday
following reports from neighbours who complained about the constant physical abuse of their children aged 5 and 2 years respectively. Vanguard learned that Busola Oyediran had two children with her former husband.
According to neighbours, Busola beats the children at every slight provocation inflicting bodily injuries on the two minors
However, denying the allegations Busola said the children sustained the injuries after they fell from a tricycle.
Confirming the arrest, the spokesperson Lagos State Police Command SP Benjamin Hundeyin said the duo will be arraigned in court on Monday 16th January.
Meanwhile, the children are receiving treatment at the hospital.