Smartguyboy: Happening to me right now one girl that use to come to my house we are not dating sha but we Dey knack on steady I will be hearing some people begging her to come she will refuse.
imagrg: Just to help her buy the necessities she requires monthly instead of pestering me for money on daily basis. Similarly, that may keep her off the streets.
You think you can keep a lady who belongs to the streets off the Streets? Blood Pressure go just kill you. Lol.
Brandiebird: She’s a bad girlfriend! Dump her, pm me, and I promise I won’t ask for recharge card, instead I’ll manage that 250k monthly stipend. I bet you I’m prettier, smarter, curvier than her. Op! I’m waiting for your dm 😘
lhordspy: Peter Obi in 2019 when campaigning for Atiku....
But sir, now you and your supporters share same singular opinion that Tinubu and Atiku are both too old to rule. Is this not a contradiction of opinion, deviation from ideology, or what changed? 🤔
Yes, Obi is correct. Although Op, health matters more. I don't even know how much you apc and pdp supporters have been paid o. You guys just Wana see the country burn.
DonOG: Good morning guys, an incident happened over the weekend which I would love to share with you guys so you can help judge the case because some of my friends are insisting I handled it wrongly.
A couple of my military friends, a navy officer and a soldier came into town last week and proposed to take my girlfriend out so we proceeded to her to pick her up from school. On our way we stopped by a fueling station to get fuel so I gave them a location to go wait for me while I take a bike to pick her up since the queue was a bit much. On our way out of school we came across two guys on the walk way, they exchanged glances and asked each other "what", one of the guys happened to be her coursemate that she already told me about sometime ago.
According to her, the guy used to be an errand boy for a notorious cult guy that used to ask her out during her first year, so the said guy was the one always coming to deliver messages to her. she didn't want to get involved with cultists so she would normally leave the guy hanging around without giving him a response to the messages. After the guy asking her out left the school the guy somehow started nursing a grudge against her.
While we stood at the school gate waiting for a bike the guy showed up again, this time with five guys with him and accosted my babe. He demanded to know why she talked to him rudely, before she could say jack he landed a jaw shattering slap on her cheek that nearly sent her sprawling to the ground. I was embarrassed but had to apply wisdom because the area wasn't my territory coupled with the fact that I was obviously out numbered. I held the guy's hand when he proceeded to slap her again and asked him why he would embarrass me by hitting a lady that was with me. Meanwhile my girlfriend was behind my back hurling insults at the guy saying stuff like he had the gut to hit her because he has started moving with cultists and other stuff I don't recall.
While I was trying to placate the situation, I noticed more guys closing in on us and knew I would be in danger if I didn't leave the place. I somehow managed to get a bike and took her away. My military friends were furious when they heard what happened insisted we go back to the school. I told them to die the matter because even if they are military guys we were still out numbered and we might get seriously injured before their backup comes.
They insisted on going back to the school, we went and as expected didn't meet any of the guys. They made a report to the school security and promised to come back the next day. On our way back they kept making calls and arranging a squad that would pick up the guy the next day while I kept trying to make them see reasons why it was going to be a bad move.
Firstly they can't possibly apprehend all the cultists in the school so arresting the guy will simply make the girl a moving target for the rest of the members and I wasn't willing to take that risk for someone that has just a couple of months to graduate. We might go and display power in the school and go back home while the girl will be all alone in the school without any form of protection, its not like they are going to assign a personal bodyguard to her. What if matters go south and a life or even lives get lost, it would be embarrassing to hear that it was all because of a girl that will move on to the next guy in a matter of weeks if anything happens to me. I was finally able to convince them and make them stand down.
The following day I brokered a peace meeting between my girlfriend and the guy through the cult guy's cousin that was also her friend though I didn't show up at the location. I even asked her to apologize to the guy for insulting him just to massage his ego so the matter could die down. My girlfriend recorded everything while the guy kept threatening her that she wasn't going to graduate for insulting him because she was with a guy. He went on to say that I was the target of the attack because they thought I would react to the assault on her and maybe fight back. They were even laughing at her that she's dating a coward that couldn't defend her in an attack, I just smiled.
My girlfriend was upset that she had to apologize to someone that hit her, but I told her that sometimes we have to choose our fights wisely. You don't go into a fight with someone that doesn't have anything to lose. Some of my friends feel I am a coward but I still feel I handled it the best way. What do you guys think??.....sorry for the epistle or any errors.
Nairalanders might call you a simp but it's always the wise that chooses his battles. You handled it the best way. Them no die put for woman matter. Where you stop, another man will continue.
Hatrick01: My girlfriend have an identical twin sister.
Its hard for one to detect one from the other,except me that have been with her for many days.
It happened that i started developing feelings for her sister and wish that i can have the both of them.
But i know its impossible.
I dont know what to do now, anytime i visits her, if i set my eyes on the other one, i will feel like playing with her like i do with her sister (romantic play).
Pls, how do i tackle this challenge?
Which dirty feelings? Just talk say party dey hungry you.
Truvelisback: U can call him whatever names u like, u aren't a Saint either. U are the Biggest fool because u are an hopeless hypocrite and a Sinner too. God will punish u because u are a Sinner too.
Nigerian players are not smart, I don't even know the kind of agent that advices/ represent them sef
Ndidi was one of the best dms in the epl, instead of him to force a move to a big team, e Siddon for Leicester dey play now e dey chop bench. They are always comfortable in a club and even when they decide to move they end up making wrong moves
Awoniyi left union Berlin wey dey go Europe for Nottingham forest can you imagine ?
I agree with you on all you said except that of Awoniyi. Liverpool rejected him. Man was filled with revenge and zeal to show the world he is not a failure. Truth be told, all players want to play in the EPL. How many of Union Berlin match you dey watch?
Nottingham forest gave him that platform so be accepted.
After reading that the mother is aware but chose to cover the man's deeds because she doesn't want to loose the man, you will agree with me that the man is an animal while the mother isn't fit to be called a mother.
Ofemmanu1: It depends on the real you, it's all about Perspective.
If you're the one with Millionaire mindset, V.I is it.
Otherwise, Stay for Abule Egba, less stress and you'd get everything you want.
No use English set person up. Oga OP, reason your accommodation and transport first oo.. You might be spending close to 30k a month on Transportation. Everly, with 200k salary, you can not rent a place in VI na. So u go dey look within Ajah, lekki and ogombo side.
My opinion; Lagos is over-rated. Before you mention me, I don dey Lagos since 2020.
OurBusinessIsPr: There are numerous drug related arrests in India . Most of the culprits are Nigerians ..
What happens to them.?
Does India have the same stringent narcotics laws of Singapore Cambodia and Thailand?
Are they sentenced to death ?
I think India releases them after serving some time and fines paid. Because I have seen police in India rearrest pushers who have been arrested before.
Freshtruth: There is a girl i met 2 years ago she is very attractive we re just friends she is in the university 200level , she came to my house to ask for help to pay her school fees i said no problem the money she is looking for is 25k, i brought the money to her and show her i told we should lolo and i will give her the money she refuse and shed crocodie tears and walk out of my house. Funny enough she had boyfriends opon boyfriend the blood sucker is now pregnant we saw 3wks and we talk i dash her 5k when she was lamenting to me the guy that got her pregnant ran away.
People like you take advantage of people when they are at their low. Instead of you to lockup with shame, you are here telling us how you offered a lady 25k help to sleep with her. Don't even think you are not a simp.
mcfestgee: think it's high time we stop attacking ourselves in the south. The north have come together to give the mandate to Atiku. Bubu is dancing towards this direction.
This they will actualize through the greediness of the south politicians.
The only way to ensure power does not shift to the north is that the two frontrunners in the south is to agree to step down for each other. North alone cannot produce the president, they need the cooperation of a region in the south which Tinubu help them to achieve in 2015.
I will suggest Tinubu swallow some pride, step down for Obi because the northerners around him don't want him, they just want to eat his money. Also, Tinubu has so much baggage that does not appeal to youth and the elighteened Nigerians that formed the bulk of this year's election.
Once again, the North at last, last whether in PDP or APC Will rally round Atiku. That is why you hear APC decamping to PDP every day in the North.
Let South West stop insulting south East and let South East stop insulting south west.
I come in peace.
A yoruba man will step down for an igbo man? You never get any yoruba friends before?
immanuelsize: I'm not a city fan and i dislike them with the same rate i hate that rented stadium people called themselves chelsea but this time, i will support them to teach gunners the lesson of their life. Arsenal are feeling king kong these days. Beating people anyhow. I wish city will comot them.
You can never use an orphanage home to become president!
It is either you're being paid alot to say these nonsense or You must be so gullible. Why him Atiku no step down for even Okowa way be Delta igbo to be the Next president. If he truly sees his PDP platform as the perfect platform for an igbo to be president. Let me become Vice na... while Okowa becomes President.
Hatrick01: I regret doing all i ve done to make this girl happy.
I thought doing that will make her respect not knowing that the reverse is the case.
Imagine, just bcause i ve been playing with this girl for long, she no longer respects me again.
She now walks out of me while i am still talking, and i hates that which she already knew. I told her that i will slap her one day but she told me that me and her know that i coulnt lay my hands on a defenceless girl.
If i get angry and decide not to give her attention again, she will burst into tears (which i now believes its fake) and my heart will be filled with pity. I would then forgive her.
But tomorrow she will still repeat thesame thing.
Pls, how do i make her respect me once agan cuz its obvious i ve lost my self esteem.
Are you waiting to have white public hair before u understand that you're being manipulated? I lady can be telling lies and still be crying.
Gben5: I have a townhouse with three bedrooms. My office occupies one of the bedrooms, but six months ago, my boyfriend of two years moved in. To protect his five-year-old son and also two elder daughters, our plans to get married have been delayed. He came to me to tell me that his ex can no longer afford her apartment due to the drastic rent increase and is preparing to leave Accra and relocate to her parent's home. According to my boyfriend, he doesn't want to stay far away from his children and doesn't want to keep his children away from their mother. He is proposing that they move in temporarily with us. This will mean I give up my office, or he moves in with his ex to help out financially, and both of those options will destroy our bond. What do I do?
Jennyclay: They are being treated this way because they are Nigerians. Asuming they were white, they wouldn't have arrested them. Prostitution has been happening even in the days of the Bible. These Cyprus people should rest abeg! Mtcheeeww!
Lol. I understand your perspective. You were born in a lawless country. Most Nigerians break like 3laws daily. Either noise pollution, threat to life or public nuisance.
Eddodoh: I came home to pick my phone that i was charging & as I was leaving the house, I got a call from my girl that she's in my place.
I didn't see anybody when i entered my house unless one of my female neighbour that was going to the toilet, the house was quiet. I felt she's with my male neighbour who is her in-law & also her church cadet captain cos i had warned her once to stop going to sit in his room anytime she visit me. I am not stopping her from going to greet him but she going to sit even when his wife wasn't around & the guy's door is usually closed.
So, when she said that she's inside my house, i told her that she was suppose to come out & meet me. I sat outside my house by the gate, she came out from the guy's room & met me. She said that she had being calling & i wasn't picking & that i should check my missed calls. I checked & i saw that she called me like 8 times & that was because i locked my phone in the room while charging it. And, i asked her when did she come, she said that since around 3pm & it was already 4:45pm. So, she had been in my neighbour's room for more than an hour.
Considering that i have warned her against such in the past & it doesn't make sense to me. Moreso, what will my other neighbours think? It's even embarrasing to me.
We had issue last year & the same guy intervened & when we were talking during that time he mentioned that she was his ex, that it was the marriage btw his brother & her sister that seperated them though I have not let her know that he has told me such.
So, I wasn't responding to her gists or what she was saying. I didn't even allow her into my room. I was imagining why will someone with morals behave like that. Let's assume that there's nothing between them. Does that even make sense? I have confronted her again & she doesn't see anything wrong with that. She said that he's her in-law & church cadet boss which I know but I told her that i don't like her going there to sit behind close doors for that long. To my surprise she sent a message that it's over that we should quit d r/ship. I laughed & I called her to tell her that I am sure that there's more to this her attitude if she prefer we quit than she stop coming around to be with her so called in-law & cadet captain. I told her that i am ready to quit if she won't stop.
Do U think i am over-reacting? Is her attitude morally wrong or right? Any suggestion?
Did I just read "She was his ex" ? And you're still asking if you are overreacting? Dude, hope your blood pressure is good?
Some people will clearly see red flags but still decide to ignore it.