Mindlog: Ok. Does your half-sister have contacts of any of her late mother's relative?
From your earlier thread your family is based in Uyo, get in touch with FIDA, it is an international organization of female lawyers, I worked with their office in Nairobi, Kenya and they intervene in such cases.
Office Address: Room 39B, Ministry of Justice, State Secretariat, Uyo. Phone No: 08033022895, 08032606289 E-mail Address: lovedybassey@yahoo.com, mfonobong.uduak@gmail.com
My genuine apology for my earlier response to you. I initially thought it was just one of those guys that just want to ask questions, blame her & move on. Do have a lovely day sir.
pansophist: It's not just Nigerian girls, it's women generally. They find tall men dominant and attractive because it makes them feel safe. If you think it is only men that are look obsessed, you don't understand women.
You'll find more ugly girls will handsome guys than the other way around, unless the guy is rich. And if the guy is fat with pot belly, women will avoid him like plague. If you like, be good like father Christmas, women no go send you.
Looks are very important to women, and many find it hard to forgive a guy that doesn't look like her spec. A man may be with a good women even if she is not the most beautiful, but its hard for a woman unless he compensates with cash.
I have no problem with this, but the one wey de vex me na those short girls wey you tall pass wella, but they still consider you short because you no tall like a basketballer. To them, to be tall is a man responsibility, while they can be short like a dwarf and it's okay. Wahala.
If there is one privilege women have, it is the ability to demand for things they don't have, can't give themselves, and completely irrational, and somehow it's acceptable. E.g wanting a wealthy man when you're from the trenches or a tall man when you're short
TALL HEIGHTS SIGNIFIES :
DORMINANCE, SAFETY & SECURITY.
IF YOU'RE SHORT, YOU'RE SUBCONSCIOUSLY PERCEIVED AS BEING NON DORMINANT, AND THAT YOU CAN'T OFFER OPTIMUM SECURITY & SAFETY.
IT'S ALL ABOUT PERCEPTION.
THE GAME IS RIGGED AGAINST MEN,BUT BEING SHORT, YOU'RE AT A BIGGER DISADVANTAGE IN THIS GAME.
SO,HOW DO YOUR BOOST YOUR PROFILE & PEOPLE'S PERCEPTION OF YOU AS A SHORT MAN ?
- HIT THE GYM;
GO & BUILD THAT WILDER SHOULDER,BIGGER CHEST,GREAT POSTURE & STRONGER LEGS.
- BE IRRATIONALLY CONFIDENT;
BE FUCKING IRRATIONALLY CONFIDENT ! HITTING THE GYM WONT ONLY WORK YOUR BODY BUT ALSO YOUR MIND. YOUR SELF PERCEPTION IS CONTAGIOUS,SO, IT'S GREAT YOU EXUDE A IRRATIONAL VALUE ABOUT YOURSELF IN YOUR BODY LANGUAGE,EYE CONTACT ,POSTURE,WALK ,SPEECH & VOICE . EXUDE IRRATIONAL CONFIDENCE IN YOURSELF!
- FRAME;
FRAME IS THE FOUNDATION FOR EVERY GAME,SEDUCTION & GENERALLY ONES SUCCESS & FAILURE IS LIFE. GO OUT THERE AND BUILD A ROCK SOLID FRAME & WATCH HOW THINGS FALL IN PLACE .
ONE IF THE BEST BOOKS I HAVE READ OF FRAME IS "THE WALL SPEAKS" BY JERR. GO GET THAT BOOK & BEGIN YOUR JOURNEY TO GREATNESS.
- LEARN GAME ;
LIFE IS A GAME,SO IS ROMANCE & SEDUCTION,SO LEARNING GAME ABOUT SEDUCTION & ROMANCE IS NON NEGOTIABLE. LEARN GAME, GENTLEMEN. IF YOU DON'T,YOU HAVE YOURSELF TO BLAME.
OH YE SHORT MEN,GO OUT THERE AND UNAPOLOGETICALLY SMASH VAGINAS !
ONE OF THE MOST POWERFUL TOOLS OUT THERE IN DATING ,ROMANCE , SEDUCTION AND LIFE AS A WHOLE IS PEOPLE'S IMAGINATION & PERCEPTION . ONE MUST LEARN HOW TO USE IT TO THEIR ADVANTAGE.
AmazonTopaz: Keep quiet and stop hyperventilating.
Go and update yourself the abortions are still happening they are taking the women to states where it is legal to have the procedure carried out. Court orders are pronouncing injunctions fighting some bans so it is not a win for anything because the abortions are still happening. It is a fight that forced birthers can never win before Roe v. Wade women were having abortions after it it will still continue.
AmazonTopaz: Pro-life did not win anything the women are being taken to states where abortion is legal to have them. And there is a likelihood that abortion legality will be codified nationally in the coming years.
There is nothing like pro-life but pro-forced births. In Nigeria how many women have you seen that have been jailed for having an abortion in Nigeria.
The same you ,some months back,was arguing that COVID 19 vaccines were effective & actually reduces COVID 19 complications,but time,have proven you're just a robot spewing whatever regurgitated bs the media & government controlled "medical experts" told you. Today, you are again caught lying & spreading false information & living in delusion,as you always do. Overturning of ROE V Wade is a big win for everyone that value human life & acknowledges the sanctity of human life at early stage of growth ,and that's why your likes have been on a meltdown ever since.
Draslo: I lost interest in advising you when you said "I really need a child". Is that what you'll tell the police as to why they should arrest her? 9 months no be beans and she's probably not ready. God help you say the DPO of the station you wan go na woman. Dem go disgrace you comot.
Disappointed you got "Dr" in your monicker. Abortion is a criminal offense in Nigeria,and reporting such a case to the police, irrespective of whether you're married to her or not, related to her or not,the suspect will be arrested & subjected to the appropriate laws governing such offense.
JBriel: Can you prove the pregnancy to begin with ?
If she aborted, can you prove the aborted foestis is yours ?
If she says she had multiple partners, can you prove it wasn't another who got her pregnant ?
Can you prove she didn't have a miscarriage and it was an abortion?
You just displayed your joblessneee you poor urchin
What right do you have? Is she married to you. Or has a foetus been scientifically proven to be a child.
You really need a child but can't put a ring on it and have her properly married. You're a big full with this mindset looking for naive females to prey on, Jaguar
Carry your sexual predatory, lust and sexual escapades to hell plz
Abortion is a criminal offense in Nigeria,and he don't have to be legally married to the suspect before reporting a case of abortion to the police,so,stop trying too hard to sound intelligent,when you're just sounding irrational with your myopic epistle.
Secondly,a fetus is a human & a life,and Nigeria law recognizes that,and consider it a murder when the life of the fetus is terminated,with few exceptions.
Respect Nigeria laws. If you go to the west,and some states that abortion is legal,you can keep to your wokeism .
Exkandayee: I hate it when some stupid men praises women, imagine those ones up there saying he's husband is blessed just because of rice and chicken,the hoe op might be a good cook but sucks in other areas,no offense
Any woman who is proud to give her husband a special treat, irrespective of how little it might seem,should be appreciated, especially in a gynocentric society where women have neglected their basic duties at home in chase of attention & delusional fem-empowerment .
gloryhomemaker: Hey, everyone come and celebrate with me!
Recipe:
Rice Coconut Chicken Carrots Green beans Fresh peas Onions Spring onoins Green bell pepper Chicken seasoning Curry powder Thyme leaves Ginger Garlic Rosemary leaves Salt
Believe me when I tell you this gesture will go a long way in showing him how special he really is to you. Few things are as beautiful as feminine women. May God keep blessing your marriage,ma.
Beverlyjean: I always alive my friends to avoid confrontation with a man , or their husbands ... forget the women power movement, its killing women more than when there was no women power movement... a woman can't defeat a man physically one on one ... so we should be the ones to walk away when its getting heated and not the other way round... and let's stop believing words such as " no matter what we women do , a man must not hit a woman"... thats an evil statement from the pits of hell
Beverly,I just want to tell you that you're appreciated. Do have a lovely day.
Skyview01: That is not enough reason not to pay. The service has been rendered. The The guy is an idiot!
I guess you didn't watch the video. There was no sex yet,as the man claimed,and during the process of undressing her & she probably spreading her legs wide like bedsheets,the odour that oozed out of her vagina was so concentrated that the young man lost erection & interest.
[ let's observe 5mins of silence for that young man for such life threatening & truamatic experience ].
The lady ought to pay the young man for air pollution & disturbance of public peace.
Timagex: Yesterday, after the deadly attack that shook the entire country, someone said Nigerians will move on in less than 24 hours.
He was right! May God help us all....
Anyways, watermelon and dates help me a lot. You should try it.
Water melon & dates are sugars [ their sugar contents is very high ]. Their glymeric index is high. Long term,you will end up dealing with sugar associated diseases,so ,I will advise you quit consuming them. There are better ways to improve your sexual health without consuming those.
Ifze: 1. abstain from anything that contains sugar. 2. try eating cucumber,water melon,(vegetables) 3. exercise. 4. Mind/psychological training
You're advising one to stay away from sugar consumption,and at the same time, recommending water melon consumption ? Do you have an idea the glymeric index of water melon ? It glymeric index in high,and it's advisable you stay away from it , especially when quitting sugar is the aim.
JOACHINpedro: Take what we call penile vacation, during that period, eat loads of fruits and do cardio workouts. Also eat most indigenous fruits like tiger nut and vegetables like bitterleaf. Stay clear of canned carbonated drinks or beer, drink mostly water and stay clear of junks. Use 1month semen retention and come back to the game of love-making afterwards.
Most fruits are rich in sugar [ fructose],and you all know what sugars [ whether natural or not ] does to human's health.
It's advisable you know the glymeric index & loads of a fruit before you consume them, especially for guys trying to promote their sexual health & overall health .
LagosInter: A man is despised and feels less of himself if
(a) he is poor (b) he can't satisfy a woman.
The latter is of concern here.
A serious factor to satisfying a woman is good penile health.
This is two pronged: ability to gain, maintain and sustain an erection; and ability to last long.
The former is worse than death.
Men here will agree that there have been occasions you fail to gain or sustain erections especially from age 30.
I have experienced it too. That day I felt like disappearing.
The lady was already in the mood and I couldn't get it up.
Although in hindsight I discovered I had malaria because I used to fire on all cylinders.
This experience is dispiriting as it leaves the man disappointed and the woman unsatisfied and abysmally frustrated.
Scientific literature agrees that factors such as diabetes, high BP, infections, obesity etc can influence these outcomes.
So please I seek to know practically how men here have been able to deal with this challenge for it's when a good erection is gained that you start talking about lasting long.
How can one care for his health - penis so as to have it function optimally at all times.
How can we have good libido too?
What foods or habits can affect these negatively?
I need first hand input and experience please.
Quit porn & masturbation,then practice semen retention for 3 months,while doing that,start working out & lifting weights.
Quit soft drinks & processed carbs,consume more eggs & more cashew nuts [ please ,consume as much cashew nuts as you can, it's a big game changer ]. And lastly,ensure to spend more time in the sun, it's going to help tremendously in not only boosting your sexual health ,but also,your overall health.
virginprincess: Yes,when a man constantly collects money from his woman he becomes shameless and senseless,no sensible man will constantly collects money from a woman when it is suppose to be the other way round.
The mindset of a unapologetic narcissistic parasitic thing! The reality is that ,this is actually the mindset of an average woman. Some of us realized this long time ago,and that's why ,I personally do not help women [ no matter how life threatening the situation is ],except my blood siblings.
If I happen to be in need & request for monetary help from them,they are more likely to consider me "shameless & senseless",so, what's the point of going out of my way to those who won't jump a gutter for me ?
BigRocky: You already saw my first paragraph were I said females are not exempted from bleaching.
I don't know what you hope to gain by countering an obvious fact.
Women started this bleaching of a thing,they are wanted to look fair cus fair ladies were getting loads of attention from men.
Then men started bleaching too,to what end only God knows.
women would always want to impress their male counterpart.it a feminine trait and there Is nothing anyone can do about that.
Men would not start impressing ladies, except such men has lost their self worth and masculinity.
You're not in terms with reality.
Look around you, they're 1000+ traits & mindsets men,including you,exudes consciously or unconsciously,to impress and attract the opposite sex,but then,I don't expect you to acknowledge it.
And no,when men exudes those traits,it doesn't mean they're suffering from low self esteem, it's only when they go extreme about it at the risk of their health & well-being,then you begin to talk about low self esteem.
BigRocky: Oga I was asked a question if females are exempted from bleaching their skin.and my reply was what you quoted.
First of all,I said no they are not exempted.
Secondly I said is one of their failed feminine trait.emphasize on the word failed.
Oga, there's nothing like "failed feminine trait".
Both genders want to impress each other,one way or the other, consciously or subconsciously,so I don't get where this your "failed feminine trait" narrative is coming from.
It's biological [ to want to impress opposite sex , maybe for reproductive purpose,survival & security purpose ] but then, some go extreme to do this,and when you as an individual go extreme to impress others,despite the health risk & mental negative consequences on yourself, you're suffering from low self esteem.
A woman who bleaches her skin is suffering from terrible low self esteem,and not a result of "failed feminine trait",like you're trying to justify.
BigRocky: No they are not,is one of their failed feminine trait to look appeasing to their male counterpart.
But men, joining the trend is worrisome and should be highly condemnable.
Did you just justify females bleaching their skin ? The trend,both by females & males bleaching their skin should be highly condemned. Such attitude stems from terrible low self esteem,and both genders should be advised to work on their self esteem.