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RomanceRe: And Yeah Good People!!! I finally said YES To him with my full chest! by IamV: 4:46pm On May 16, 2022
Brownygold002:
It all started with a harmless 'hi' nd I'm about to begin forever wif you.


SO This morning, my ride or die, made my finger heavier by giving me the most amazing shocker suprise kiss .


It's the easiest YES Av said this year with my full chest. Moma and papa, Tasha has a wedding to plan oo.


so I'm 18, the people wey born me ain't complaining.


I'M OFF THE MARKET OOO ALL MY TOASTERS.

It's ganna be lit tonite. Osheyy!!! Congrats brownygold002, natasha Grace Lotanna soon to be be MRS Alexandar Natasha
LOL

This you ?

Living a fake life is taking you nowhere.

RomanceRe: Really Heartbroken..,i Need Your Help by IamV: 12:43pm On May 16, 2022
Forgive her,please.

Call her & apologize to her for not being emotionally, financially & sexually supportive enough,and you take full responsibility for her seeking sexual satisfaction outside.
She might end up getting pregnant from that guy,please,man up & take responsibility for the baby too,you have hurt her enough.
Your reward is in heaven.
She might end up getting any of this venereal diseases,man up & fund her medicals,after all,you genuinely love her & she's the air you breathe.
Is she on a monthly allowance ?
If no, you see, you're the problem.
Go enroll her on a monthly allowance after you have apologized to her.
20% of your monthly earnings for a start,then you improve on it as your relationship progresses.

Ignore those asking you to move on ,they don't care about your feelings.
PoliticsRe: Lagos Parks Leadership Crisis: NURTW Orders MC Oluomo To Vacate Office Complex by IamV: 9:51am On May 16, 2022
bolliejay:
There is more to this story. l dont think that will happen and okadas will still be plying that road. Lagosians will have retaliated.
There's more to the story ?

I thought as much undecided

https://saharareporters.com/2022/05/15/commercial-motorcyclists-beat-burn-sound-engineer-death-lagos-due-disagreement-over-n100

https://saharareporters.com/2022/05/15/10-suspects-arrested-over-burning-sound-engineer-death-over-n100-lagos

https://theeagleonline.com.ng/engineer-beaten-burnt-to-death-by-northerners-in-lagos-same-day-as-deborah/

Go on Twitter, it's trending no 2.
I guess you should go find the "more to the story" there undecided

#justicefordave

PoliticsRe: Lagos Parks Leadership Crisis: NURTW Orders MC Oluomo To Vacate Office Complex by IamV: 9:41am On May 16, 2022
Komu1048:
Don’t spread fake news. Which location in Lekki or link to verify that
You myopically concluded it's a fake news already, then why are you requesting for a verifiable link or source ?

Fake news trending No two or thereabout on Twitter undecided.

https://saharareporters.com/2022/05/15/commercial-motorcyclists-beat-burn-sound-engineer-death-lagos-due-disagreement-over-n100

https://saharareporters.com/2022/05/15/10-suspects-arrested-over-burning-sound-engineer-death-over-n100-lagos

https://theeagleonline.com.ng/engineer-beaten-burnt-to-death-by-northerners-in-lagos-same-day-as-deborah/


#justicefordave

RomanceRe: Help! I'm Dying Of Being A Simp by IamV: 9:16am On May 16, 2022
FERNANDEZISBACK:
Pls keep mute..you ain't a simp..what happened to humanity?
What are you kids turning into these days..can't you offer help without attaching sexual benefit and all? undecided

Is this how you will rape a lady if she stay in your apartment for a night? undecided

You shouldn't have gave her if you was gonna feel bad..don't let wannabe redpillers kill your good spirit..keep being yourself and be real..
Sometimes,you guys are just quick to drag stuffs that's unnecessary into a conversation just to create needless dramas & attention.
HealthRe: My Rotten Teeth Is Driving Girls Away From Me, Please Help by IamV: 8:33am On May 16, 2022
Dnockeror333:
Please, what's an example of non floridated toothpaste.
Dabur herbal toothpaste is one of them.
PoliticsRe: Lagos Parks Leadership Crisis: NURTW Orders MC Oluomo To Vacate Office Complex by IamV:
A young man,Dave by name,a sound engineer and father of 2 was killed and set ablaze on Friday in Lekki, by Northern bike men, over disagreement of 100 naira,but this is the issue of more priority to lagosians ?

We have no value for human life in this country.


https://saharareporters.com/2022/05/15/commercial-motorcyclists-beat-burn-sound-engineer-death-lagos-due-disagreement-over-n100

https://saharareporters.com/2022/05/15/10-suspects-arrested-over-burning-sound-engineer-death-over-n100-lagos

https://theeagleonline.com.ng/engineer-beaten-burnt-to-death-by-northerners-in-lagos-same-day-as-deborah/
Christianity EtcRe: Where In The Quran Does It States That Killing Is The Punishment For Insulting P by IamV: 8:05am On May 16, 2022
Radamelt:
Lol --- Funny Christians don't know the bible. Even Jesus Himself says kill whoever doesn't bow to Him.
A Bible verse corroborating your claim will be appreciated.
FamilyRe: Hero Man Risks His Life To Save Baby Hanging From 8th Floor Window by IamV:
That innate instinct in every man to protect & save both women & children,even though it might require putting their life on the line.
HealthRe: My Rotten Teeth Is Driving Girls Away From Me, Please Help by IamV: 4:44pm On May 15, 2022
Ninisun:
I'm not arguing but telling you other helpful options. What if he doesn't see non flouridated toothpaste?
Have a lovely day, ma.
HealthRe: My Rotten Teeth Is Driving Girls Away From Me, Please Help by IamV: 4:14pm On May 15, 2022
Ninisun:
Yea but the halitosis won't go. Longrich dey try, sensodyne is ok but leaves it's flavour in the mouth.
You just want to argue all day.
Hydrogen peroxide will take care of that.
The non flouridated toothpaste was not recommend for halitosis.
HealthRe: My Rotten Teeth Is Driving Girls Away From Me, Please Help by IamV: 3:45pm On May 15, 2022
Ninisun:
Are there really non flouridated toothpastes in Naija markets or supermarkets?
Dabur herbal & even Colgate is non flouridated toothpaste.
HealthRe: My Rotten Teeth Is Driving Girls Away From Me, Please Help by IamV: 8:17pm On May 14, 2022
Do you use fluoride toothpaste?

If you do,please,stop using them,they are useless [ forget about what the media is telling you ].
Go get non fluoridated toothpaste,& start making use of them.
Secondly,get yourself a bottle of hydrogen peroxide.
After you have brushed you teeth with a non flouridated toothpaste,dilute little quantity of the hydrogen peroxide in a small quantity of water,take it & hold in your mouth for about 5 mins or thereabout.
Do it morning & evening,and you will notice a significant improvement within a week.
You can also brush you teeth with salt once in a while,it will help you tremendously.

Avoid other mouthwashes please,and use the hydrogen peroxide,give me a feedback in a week time.
RomanceRe: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by IamV: 7:48pm On May 14, 2022
Pootle:
gaddemit u jus made a fkd up day so smooth...if you do beer lemme know, one chilled one waiting for your brilliant respond
Unfortunately,I don't do beers,but then,you kind gesture is deeply appreciated.
RomanceRe: . by IamV:
Mr nice guy,you don't respect yourself & also lacks the balls to be assertive & set boundaries when necessary.

The writings are obviously on the walls,but you don't want to come to reality with it.
She don't find you attractive to have sexual dealings with you,but find you good enough to extract monetary benefits, emotional supports etc under the guise of friendship,since you don't respect yourself enough to walk away from a one sided affair.

You can't be "just friends" with a lady you got feelings for,unless you're ready to deal with the emotional & psychological torture that comes with it.
Severe whatever friendship you have with her,and move on with your life,unless you enjoy being used or taking for granted.
RomanceRe: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by IamV: 8:21am On May 14, 2022
Miss 33,first & foremost,I want to start by telling you that you're no shit,and I love the level of self worth that young man got for himself & how he's not willing to play your BS mind games.

Great guy,he did the right thing.

You read his messages,ignored it for two days because you want to play nonsense mind games,and you're trying to make it his fault for respecting himself to withdraw from a situation he's not considered important to get a response ?


I actually love how he decided to mind his business,because that's what all self respecting men will do in this kind of scenario.
You don't treat people like an option ,and you expect to be treated like a priority.
I hope he moves on,and never look back.

Confused , irrational & fickle ladies like you have no right to be in a relationship.
RomanceRe: My Ex Is Making Me Depressed by IamV: 12:13pm On May 12, 2022
6pack:
Where did I talk of suicide ? My life is too sweet to ever think of suicide. This type of Depression is temporal , na brokeness depression dey lead to suicide
Hit the gym bro.
Go burn those emotions in the gym.
Believe me,15 reps 5 sets of military press,10 reps 5 sets of bench press & 10 reps 5 sets of squat will burn those negative energy & emotions away.

Go burst those sweats in the gym bro,and watch everything fall into place; your mental fortitude,your confidence & your self worth.
RomanceRe: My Ex Is Making Me Depressed by IamV: 12:03pm On May 12, 2022
6pack:
Dude it's far from mindset. she is my first love and we are actually suppose to get married. I trusted her with everything. Though her reasons for leaving is quite legit but I was not expecting it
Excerpt ;
The rational male 1 - Rollo Tomassi

RomanceRe: Help,i Just Did Something Bad To A Lady And I Feel Guilty!UPDATED by IamV: 8:56pm On May 08, 2022
Candidlady:
Do worse how kriss? She'd promise and fail or what... cuz Idont understand what the SHE DOING WORSE PART


so to survive in your jungle is for you to become so petty by being a con artist ko?

I HATE LIES AND MANIPULATIVE PEOPLE

OP agreed to pay for her ride...
It's crazy & funny when ladies talks about hating manipulative peoples & liars.
Basically, you're all insinuating that you all hate yourselves right ?

An average woman is equipped with the weaponry of manipulation & ability to lie, especially to establish an edge or advantage .

An average man need to learn the art of dark psychology to beat a woman to her games,if they don't,they will always remain a defenceless prey to her predatory instincts.

The only reason you're angry ,& have being blabbing all day is because a guy gave your fellow gender a taste of their own medicine.

I don't expect you to have the mental awareness to admit how manipulative your gender is,and even if you do,I don't expect you to acknowledge it.

If manipulation is a person,look in the mirror,alone,whoever you see, that's it.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Real Madrid Vs Manchester City UCL (3 - 1) On 4th May 2022 by IamV: 6:10pm On May 04, 2022
Congratulations in advance to Manchester city for progressing to the Uefa champions league final.
FamilyRe: Why Do Couples Lose Interest In Each Other After Marriage? by IamV: 1:20pm On May 04, 2022
virginprincess:
When you meet your soulmate you don't lost interest after marriage instead you get more interested, but when you get married to someone you don't love(possibly got married to the person for your own selfish reason), you begin to lose interest after getting what you wanted.
Here they go again with the soulmate myth.
RomanceRe: Facts About Single Mothers... by IamV: 1:15pm On May 04, 2022
HouseRavenclaw:
You’re literally a black Nigerian man. If we’re going by societally created systems, your very existence is mediocre and appalling. Your value is less than a cat’s and it is laughable to suggest something subhuman like you brings value or honor to anyone.

A woman’s decision to keep a baby is her choice, because it is a right women get to exercise. Interesting you have the time to say this about single mothers, but not single fathers. They get to retain their individuality and self worth because they have... sperm?

You’re a black Nigerian man, boy. In the scale of evolution, you’re a valueless commodity and the irony of calling women that makes me snicker.
Hope all is well with you ?
Nairaland GeneralRe: Happy New Month Nairalanders (May) by IamV: 8:33am On May 01, 2022
GoldenqueenC & pacyrus,you both didn't only share the same birthday month,but also the same birthday date, May 27.
Do with it whatever you want to do with it,and if anything positive comes out of it,you both should remember I did the match making cheesy.
PoliticsRe: 2023: Based On Your Birth Month, Which Aspirant Are You Supporting by IamV: 4:50pm On Apr 25, 2022
MAY;

therefore professor Yemi Osibanjo
FamilyRe: Why Is Gender Equality Not Respected In Marriage? by IamV: 3:02pm On Apr 25, 2022
Kobojunkie:
Gender equality isn't western but commonsense. undecided
During humanitarian missions,women & kids are considered a major priority,but common sense demand everyone should be treated equally.

The current war going on in Ukraine,women & children are allowed to leave the country, irrespective of their ages,but men [ under certain age grades ] are asked to stay back to protect their country.
Common sense demand everyone should stay back & defend their country.

It's on record,that females are generally given a lighter sentence than males,even when they commit the same crime.
Common sense demands everyone should be treated equally, irrespective of gender.

It's also on record,that the girl child & women have many NGO & even government ministries catering specifically to their needs,but not the same can be said for the boy child & men,in general.
Common sense demands everyone should be treated equally.

Now,I ask,it's it really about treating both genders equally ?

In all honesty,the "system" was never about gender equality.
RomanceRe: I Pity Any Lady That Will Marry Me by IamV: 1:12pm On Apr 25, 2022
ChildOfDoom:
Aside my intellectual ability, nothing else to benefit from me in matrimony. I just hope no one is deceived by my innocent looks or gentlemanliness. Lot's of skeletons in my cupboard.

- no sexual satisfaction for her as I have a weak erection due to years of self-service

- no ability to hold a home together as I am wayward, a chronic punter and profligate spender. How possible will it be to save and take care of my family. I can barely feed myself well.

- I have got anger and communication issues. Hard relating well with the opposite sex

- I have got health issues based on an obnoxious lifestyle devoid of proper healthy living. I doubt if I will make a good husband or father having failed on my own.

Working on all these vices; but I guess there is little or no chance of a 30-year-old changing again
I admire you.
It takes lots of balls,self awareness, accountability to own up your bs as you just did.
That's a big step you have taken,but you have to take a bigger step of intentionally putting your bs together.
You have to start making an intentional choice to be a better man.
Only you can help yourself.
CelebritiesRe: Tega: 70% Of Men Abuse Their Women, Don't Be Fooled by IamV: 1:04pm On Apr 25, 2022
Islandlady:
Thank you tega for these truth
MY FATHER & BROTHERS are useless and evil, they are the problem of the world but if you tell them they will attack you brutally

Anyways I am outta here
CelebritiesRe: Tega: 70% Of Men Abuse Their Women, Don't Be Fooled by IamV: 10:52am On Apr 25, 2022
amzee:
Ex-BbNaija Star Tega Dominic just posted a cryptic post on her Instastory as she tells fans that they should not be fooled by men who praise their women and show off their public display of affection (PDA) on their social media pages as she claims that 70% of them abuse their women.
And she also apologized to the women that she doesn't know what they are going through but they deserve better.

She said, and I quote, “Don't be fooled by the captions when you see them serenade their women, 70% of them Literally abuses them, the PDA no dey reach house. Sorry o my gender, after all what do I know but just know you deserve better.”

Check out the screenshot of her full post below.
When we talk about abuse,we need to be specific what form of abuse we are talking about.
Are we talking about physical abuse or verbal abuse [ which are the most common abuse ] ?

It's widely assumed that men are more likely to initiate physical abuse on the other gender,while it's also an open secret that women are more likely to inflict verbal abuse on the other gender.

Most people are more focused on physical abuse,that they don't even realize that verbal abuse is as potent or even more dangerous than physical abuse.
As we are raising awareness on physical abuse,we should,as a society,expend the same energy in raising awareness to the populace about verbal abuse.

In as much as we teach men to not raise hands on women,we should also teach women not to use vile words on men.

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