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Rexymania:
Tell the husband

Exactly.

He should tell the husband.

Most of this girls will be busy engaging in stupid acts when they were younger,forgetting that such acts could ruin their reputation & life in the future.
You're saving a brother from a shameless promiscuous woman, terrible venereal diseases & paternity fraud by actually telling him that he's housing a shameless woman as a wife.
Those barking "mind your business" are those that won't say the same if their brother or son is the husband of the woman in question.
Let all this stupid girls understand that their actions today,could ruin their future tomorrow.
Not every "fun" is worth it, especially when your life could be ruined by the same "fun".

[quote author=Uchedizzy post=112220141][/quote]Are you sure I don't know you ? Lol.
It's a very small world,uche.
Do have a great day.

Uchedizzy:
come dont quote me again, just respect yourself

You need that self respect more.
No self respecting person will be publicly talking about video recording themselves having sex.
Only the shameless & sluts does that.

Timoleon:
If person slap you now, e go be like say dem Dey oppress you.

LOL

Maguire today

Gee64:
I observed that the woman for whatever reasons always play the underdog in marriage. She is often regarded as a 'helper' playing almost a docile role in decision-making in the home.

Most people use religious precepts to relegate the rights of a woman to the background: as being the house-keeper and 'child-bearer'. But in modern times, many women play the role of 'provider' in the home, therefore forcing the man to also assist with household chores.

In modern times, Even in civilised climes, women now seek to either being independent parents or share same authority as the man in the home. But where the man does not feel comfortably with this, the result is divorce. I want to assume that this is the major cause of domestic violence in majority of homes.

Most women feel more comfortable being single parents than to submit to the egocentric excesses of the male folk.

What is your stand on this issue. I personally speak as a male.

The reality is that ,there's nothing like "gender equality".
It's not even achievable.
Those who believe in "gender equality" are simply idealists that don't want to come to term with the reality of our world.
The strongest,the smartest,the most adaptive & the most manipulative will always dominate others, irrespective of whatever ideology people out there are trying to create to limit that.
That's reality,make peace with it.

Uchedizzy:
Abeg what is the fun recording yourselves while making out the shit is becoming too common this days , maybe i will try it too :x:p

It is fun.

Look forward to seeing a video of your black ynash ,and your thin legs being spread wide like the devil's bedsheet,why you scream loud like an idiot in a poorly lighted room,with a dilapidated bed.

It is fun,nne.

Kobojunkie:
Again....
Her life was hers before her husband came into the picture.

What you're saying in essence is that people shouldn't be held accountable for their past actions.

Just like a po*nstar making thousands of porn videos in her early 20s.
Then in her early 30s,one of your sons [future sons ] decide to take her down the aisle,without knowing she's a p*rnstar.
Then you as a father,found out one of your sons is about to marry a p*rnstar, basically you're telling us that she [ the p*rnstar] should not be held accountable for her thousands of sex videos because your son was not in her life then,lol.

Aren't you suggesting people should not be held accountable for whatever past actions they might have performed ?

You're of the school of thought that people's actions shouldn't have consequences in the future.
If you can't see that's you point all along,it only shows how you live in denial .

Kobojunkie:
Una dey read to comprehend at all?

Basically, you're of the opinion that people should not be held accountable for their actions.
SMH.

When your kids ,for instance,f*ck around,make sex tapes , do drugs, don't hold them accountable for their actions & please, don't teach them that whatever action they're performing right now,could have strong consequences in the future,because to you people should not be held accountable for thier actions.
Tell me you're an irresponsible adult , without telling me you're an irresponsible adult.

Kobojunkie:
She probably knows who made the video and can have him reported to the police for violating her right in such a way. As for taking down the video, I am not sure how it can happen down there but she csn maybe contact the company for help on how to go about that.

But left to me, so long as the video was not made while she was with her husband, I see no reason why it should be held against her.

You're so loud, aggressive & irrational.

You're living in an idealistic world,instead of coming to term with life reality.
Until you realize that people will always be judged by their past,no matter the time such action was performed,with whom it was performed & where the action was performed.
Every grown adult knows about accountability,and people should understand that whatever action they perform have consequences.

If the husband find out about the sex tape,there will certainly be strong reaction from him, irrespective of when the sex tape was recorded.
This is life reality.
Make peace with it.

Kobojunkie:
Did she record the video herself or did it look like she was aware she was being recorded? If yes, then let her know of the existence of the video.

A woman has a right to date whomever she wants to, same as a man does. Unless you can prove that she consented to having the video made in order for it for it to be distributed the way it was, I suggest you understand instead that your so-called friend's right is what has been violated here.

Your ability to type gibberish with so much confidence need to be studied.

T3ndrils:
Cos na your rotten sense dey see am as blabbing that's why you had to write a long epistle of rubbish which you couldn't defend.

You dey use another account to come at me.

Weak.

Are you done ?
When you're done,do have a wonderful night .

T3ndrils:
You write people off as "waste of time" because you quickly judged him and failed to understand why he asked the question and you dey behind keypads dey quote me trash.

You get offended when wetin you support dey challenged—then you support the person be written off—instead of bringing more facts.

Your question dey very irrelevant just as the argument wey you wan start.

Can't deal with blabbing, tonight.
Good night.

Vinnie2000:
TRY COMPREHEND THINGS BETTER. What i was asking the OP is what should married Men now do. Having no answer, he quickly buried his head in the sands!

I suggest,you should learn to rephrase your question(s) better.

T3ndrils post=112184367:
Someone even asked this OP "so on essence what should be done" and the OP became immediately became defensive.

So much for giving advice when you couldn't even take criticism—the question wasn't even criticism but you dey pile up essay make we come learn.

Abeg gettat.

You guys are always quick to find faults where there is none.
You just twisted what that guy said to suit your narrative.
Below is actually what that guy said ;

"OP, So what re u saying in essence? "

Now,read that,does that sound like someone who is serious to discuss something reasonable about what the OP wrote ?
The response he got from the op is apt,because it's actually a waste of time engaging someone who don't want to be serious on a serious discuss.

If you consider that response a criticism [ either constructive or destructive],then you need to educate yourself on what criticism is.

okpurukata:
My son was in hydroxyurea for over 6yrs. All tge routine drugs. Both him and myself went through a lot of stress. His were physical pains, mine mental and emotional. I still lost him. Its so so painful. I am emotional right now. I dont wish sickle cell on any human being.

It is well.

XTHRONE:
Are they even married or just cohabiting, people of this days self

I think it's a case of cohabiting.

If it's a case of cohabiting,then she have no moral standing to call abortion "horrific thing" because she feels her faith is against it.
Is fornicating when you're not legally married a "horrific thing" against her faith ,too ?

Maybe, she's just being hypocritical.

Patiently waiting for her response.

DrFunmisticGlow:
if you did CVS and it is confirmed that the genotype of the unborn child is SS then my sister, ABORT!!

You will suffer alone o!! You will regret and gnash your teeth.
Don't use your two legs to enter wahala.

I am tired of writing about this issue.

Better abort and get a divorce, then look for an AA guy to marry. That your partner is not a good person. He is irresponsible!!The lord is showing you red flags and you are asking stupid question

A church [ she claimed to be catholic] joined two AS persons together in holy matrimony ?
Or is this a case of two adult fornicating recklessly despite knowing the risk involved [ their genotype ] ?

Wisfem:
Seek medical advice from a specialist not social advise from online forum okay

What medical advice is she going to seek exactly ? Bone marrow transplant ? Does she have the money to fund it ?

She claimed to be catholic,and I'm left wondering if the church knew about her genotype & that of her partner before joining them both in holy matrimony ?

Or is it a case of two adults fornicating ,and now she's playing the religion card of her faith being against abortion ?

I have a girl who is a SS in my compound,and I know the hell she goes through.
I won't wish anyone such experience,truth be told.

Djriri:
LORD HAVE MERCY,, am catholic I cannot proceed with such horrific thing

Catholic church joined you two in holy matrimony despite knowing you're both AS ?

I have a girl who is a SS in my compound,and I know the hell she goes through.
I won't wish anyone such experience,truth be told.

QuinModah:
Check my profile

"I don't respond to DM "

LOL

Is that suppose to be a joke or what ?

If that's you,then i'm disappointed you have to put that bs as your personal text.

joetem:
do you know the pain of keeping sperm? Sperm dey pepper man for waist

LOL

judatech:
What do you offer a man that does not want a child?

Vag*na .

Ikillbrokehoes:
Dude that's not and will never be her, that sioFRAUD is one hideous female hiding under this anonymous forum just to seek validation and attention.

She's well known for stealing pictures and claiming it's hers, I've exposed her countless times, even mrcork knows that she's fake, don't waste your precious time.

I thought as much.

siofra:
Come and force me na!

I always expect thirsty men to disappoint,and this situation is not an exception.

pyrex23:
Obvious joke na him u take serious.
Everyone know thats sia na..

When you're done blabbing,you have a lovely day.

Beebah2000:
wow thanks

Taking credit for who is not you ,smh.

siofra:
I deserve a one million over 10. Teinz.

LOL.

Quick one.
Hold a white piece of paper with "siofra" written on it,and take a full picture of yourself.
You know,you got nothing to hide ,since you claim that's you,and your picture [ acclaimed] is already public.

Don't disappoint,please.

Jeon:
me.

LOL.

Just a simple Google image reverse search will expose you for who you really is; an image theft.

Beebah2000:
The monikers way we never see, na them go post their real pictures.
Popular monikers go avoid the thread or post fake pictures.

Make I drop my own for here.

LOL.

Just a goggle image reverse search will expose you for what you really is; an image theft.